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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You probably have a greater chance of catching a STI

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Probably have more chance of having an accident on the way to the meet.

Even if that's falling down the stairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’m not too bothered but then again I wouldn’t fly to Italy to meet an Italian atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "
you'd better stay chaste then lovely, keep it on hold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. "

you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would say weigh up the risk to you personally. If it seems too high for you then put this side of your life on hold for a while.

Everyone's circumstances are different. You need to stay healthy to earn money, we need to stay healthy to care for my parents. In my opinion everyone has a responsibility to avoid spreading it to try and prevent vulnerable people from catching it.

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By *exy Pretty FeetCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"I would say weigh up the risk to you personally. If it seems too high for you then put this side of your life on hold for a while.

Everyone's circumstances are different. You need to stay healthy to earn money, we need to stay healthy to care for my parents. In my opinion everyone has a responsibility to avoid spreading it to try and prevent vulnerable people from catching it."

Totally agree!

Read this Twitter thread by an icu doctor in Italy...

https://twitter.com/jasonvanschoor/status/1237142891077697538?s=20

My youngest has reduced lung function so is at risk of needing respiratory support quicker than others...so its up to me to keep him safe from needing this as long as possible.

I don't agree with the school advice to only self isolate if you've got cough etc after travel to an affected area... it assumes there is no transfer going on within communities already which is plain dumb. And now we're being told cases will peak in the uk in two weeks time which to me means all the transfer is going to be happening now! So im already keeping my son off school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit "

Send me one of yours shirts then..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit

Send me one of yours shirts then.. "

i have one you'd look great out of.......... in i meant in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit

Send me one of yours shirts then.. i have one you'd look great out of.......... in i meant in "

Only if you wash your hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit

Send me one of yours shirts then.. i have one you'd look great out of.......... in i meant in

Only if you wash your hands "

hey i sanitise after every text

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By *ondongreg79Man
over a year ago

london

One on one meets I’d be happy with. May think twice about going to a club at the moment though..

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

We think that right now the risk of meeting someone on a normal club night who already has Covid_19 is quite low.

But after our next club visit next Tues we may give it a rest for a while to see how this projected "peak" pans out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about the top of a bar or a small table?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame the photographer

He’s far to eager with his exposure

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I find it hard to believe that many of the 400 or so people that have the virus will be attending any sex clubs?

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"But what about the top of a bar or a small table? "

They probably get cleaned better and more often than the trolley handles in supermarkets, keypads on cash machines and many other places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a social earlier & she coughed so i made my excuses then left

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

We just met an Italian man with a nasty cough who had just come back from china.

He also forget to put on a condom but on the plus side, he bought us some spare loo rol as a thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im to busy trying to buy toilet roll and hand wash to sort out a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just met an Italian man with a nasty cough who had just come back from china.

He also forget to put on a condom but on the plus side, he bought us some spare loo rol as a thanks!"

How can you forget to put on a condom, it's either you want to put it on or not. You can never just forget lol.

You need to seek immediate attention you have it after that interaction.

Safe Sex and Safe Contact is clearly not on your agenda. Please dont attend parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on a social earlier & she coughed so i made my excuses then left "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "

Im not attending until further notice. As for your self employed role, if you need good health to pay rent. I would stand by your reasoning. We all laugh and joke about it, but you just don't know who has it, I see everyone coughing and sneezing around not covering there mouth etc. I'm not surprise if more people don't have but just don't know if it's just a normal sneeze, or common flu. Protect yourself first hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "
don't think it is. I'm on shifts so it's always going to be difficult to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m no expert

But probably best to chat

For a while and go from there

No one knows what will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No at all, unless they have actually been diagnosed with it.

I mean your more likely to get a STD or be in an accident on the way to a meet then you are to actually get coronavirus...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're meeting socially on Friday, unless the chap cancels or whatever. Going to a café as we might on our own anyway, we can't see any especially increased risk by inviting one other person to sit in the vicinity......

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I am not changing the way I live my life.

I have excellent levels of personal hygiene and a meet on Saturday

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm off to chams on Friday and I'll keep going until advised otherwise.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"I'm off to chams on Friday and I'll keep going until advised otherwise. "

We won't stop going either. Went Monday

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down. "

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

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By *um4usbothCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I’m just worried we won’t be able to go to clubs when the government clamp down on crowds gathering and travel restrictions. I’m hoping this doesn’t happen

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I’m just worried we won’t be able to go to clubs when the government clamp down on crowds gathering and travel restrictions. I’m hoping this doesn’t happen "

Think that's the main objective.this virus is more about controlling people's behaviour rather than the virus itself

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't....."

It would be abit silly if someone with severe underlying issues went out shagging at a swingers club though.

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Let’s just clear some things up.

You are not more likely to catch an STD, the risk is lower but catching an STD as always depends on your level of behaviour, I.e using condoms etc.

Coronavirus is very contagious more so than seasonal flu - however it at present isn’t as dangerous. More people last year alone died after contracting seasonal flu than have so far of coronavirus.

Fundamentally the risk is that more people will have a “cold” due to the fact it spreads easier than the various strains of flu - which increases the risk of death only because of fact that anyone with underlying health issues contracting coronavirus or in fact the flu is more likely to suffer other complications.

If the whole world caught it - yes the death toll would increase, but if the whole world caught seasonal flu the death toll would be higher. It’s simply that it spreads more easier than seasonal flu.

So sensibly, but no different than any other time - people should be proactive about ensuring they wash hands etc to reduce the risk of spread of any virus - nobody wants a cold!

A fab meet doesn’t increase your risk anymore unless if you didn’t meet people off fab you wouldn’t go out and meet or mix with people anyway.

The check out girl in tescos handing you your change will give you the virus if she has it just as well as the person who puts there cock in your mouth. Fundamentally if they infected or you go to somewhere they have touched, sneezed on etc and they have the virus you are at risk.

If everyone in a football stadium don’t have it - you will be totally safe. If one person you sit next to on the bus does you’ll likely catch it.

My advice - is wash your hands regularly, carry on your life, follow advice if regions or places are highlighted at risk. If you get a cold get tested so you can ensure you don’t then spread it. But other wise carry on your normal life - swinging, working etc - until we know either the virus as mutated, or because you have underlying health issues - but as I say swinging isn’t the issue / general exposure full stop you need to then consider because should you catch it just the same as the flu the effects could be serious. I’d imagine anyone who already has health issues already takes extra precautions not to catch illness that could effect their health.

But let’s be very clear - coronavirus presently is not actually as dangerous as the normal flu or many other virus you could catch - it’s just more likely we all might get it!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Let’s just clear some things up.

You are not more likely to catch an STD, the risk is lower but catching an STD as always depends on your level of behaviour, I.e using condoms etc.

Coronavirus is very contagious more so than seasonal flu - however it at present isn’t as dangerous. More people last year alone died after contracting seasonal flu than have so far of coronavirus.

Fundamentally the risk is that more people will have a “cold” due to the fact it spreads easier than the various strains of flu - which increases the risk of death only because of fact that anyone with underlying health issues contracting coronavirus or in fact the flu is more likely to suffer other complications.

If the whole world caught it - yes the death toll would increase, but if the whole world caught seasonal flu the death toll would be higher. It’s simply that it spreads more easier than seasonal flu.

So sensibly, but no different than any other time - people should be proactive about ensuring they wash hands etc to reduce the risk of spread of any virus - nobody wants a cold!

A fab meet doesn’t increase your risk anymore unless if you didn’t meet people off fab you wouldn’t go out and meet or mix with people anyway.

The check out girl in tescos handing you your change will give you the virus if she has it just as well as the person who puts there cock in your mouth. Fundamentally if they infected or you go to somewhere they have touched, sneezed on etc and they have the virus you are at risk.

If everyone in a football stadium don’t have it - you will be totally safe. If one person you sit next to on the bus does you’ll likely catch it.

My advice - is wash your hands regularly, carry on your life, follow advice if regions or places are highlighted at risk. If you get a cold get tested so you can ensure you don’t then spread it. But other wise carry on your normal life - swinging, working etc - until we know either the virus as mutated, or because you have underlying health issues - but as I say swinging isn’t the issue / general exposure full stop you need to then consider because should you catch it just the same as the flu the effects could be serious. I’d imagine anyone who already has health issues already takes extra precautions not to catch illness that could effect their health.

But let’s be very clear - coronavirus presently is not actually as dangerous as the normal flu or many other virus you could catch - it’s just more likely we all might get it!!"

Hurrah, some sense at last! Some facts! Some Science!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Let’s just clear some things up.

You are not more likely to catch an STD, the risk is lower but catching an STD as always depends on your level of behaviour, I.e using condoms etc.

Coronavirus is very contagious more so than seasonal flu - however it at present isn’t as dangerous. More people last year alone died after contracting seasonal flu than have so far of coronavirus.

Fundamentally the risk is that more people will have a “cold” due to the fact it spreads easier than the various strains of flu - which increases the risk of death only because of fact that anyone with underlying health issues contracting coronavirus or in fact the flu is more likely to suffer other complications.

If the whole world caught it - yes the death toll would increase, but if the whole world caught seasonal flu the death toll would be higher. It’s simply that it spreads more easier than seasonal flu.

So sensibly, but no different than any other time - people should be proactive about ensuring they wash hands etc to reduce the risk of spread of any virus - nobody wants a cold!

A fab meet doesn’t increase your risk anymore unless if you didn’t meet people off fab you wouldn’t go out and meet or mix with people anyway.

The check out girl in tescos handing you your change will give you the virus if she has it just as well as the person who puts there cock in your mouth. Fundamentally if they infected or you go to somewhere they have touched, sneezed on etc and they have the virus you are at risk.

If everyone in a football stadium don’t have it - you will be totally safe. If one person you sit next to on the bus does you’ll likely catch it.

My advice - is wash your hands regularly, carry on your life, follow advice if regions or places are highlighted at risk. If you get a cold get tested so you can ensure you don’t then spread it. But other wise carry on your normal life - swinging, working etc - until we know either the virus as mutated, or because you have underlying health issues - but as I say swinging isn’t the issue / general exposure full stop you need to then consider because should you catch it just the same as the flu the effects could be serious. I’d imagine anyone who already has health issues already takes extra precautions not to catch illness that could effect their health.

But let’s be very clear - coronavirus presently is not actually as dangerous as the normal flu or many other virus you could catch - it’s just more likely we all might get it!!"

Well said!

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

PANIC MODE.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't....."

Well I have no symptoms at all so I'm guessing I haven't like 99.5% of the population.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

Well I have no symptoms at all so I'm guessing I haven't like 99.5% of the population. "

Or even 99.9% of the population

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

It would be abit silly if someone with severe underlying issues went out shagging at a swingers club though. "

Its unlikely they would, but you might a accidentally pass it on.

Coronavirus is much nastier than the flu, that's why the death rate is much higher.

And last time I was at a swingers club there was more than enough contact to pass on something!

But hey you do your own risk assessment!

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

It would be abit silly if someone with severe underlying issues went out shagging at a swingers club though.

Its unlikely they would, but you might a accidentally pass it on.

Coronavirus is much nastier than the flu, that's why the death rate is much higher.

And last time I was at a swingers club there was more than enough contact to pass on something!

But hey you do your own risk assessment!"

Exactly. If you are likely to be at risk from underlying health conditions or age then just don't go.

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

I think it's rational to trim down on social events (still going to them though) since the risk there is bigger. If once person at the social has some kind of illness the biggest factors of spreading it would be how many people they meet and how contagious the illness is. Corona is really contagious hence why public events and gatherings are being cancelled, the risks outweigh the benefits. But if you're doing one one one meets it's a lot less reasonable since you're running the same risk of meeting any other stranger one on one in your day to day life.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

It would be abit silly if someone with severe underlying issues went out shagging at a swingers club though.

Its unlikely they would, but you might a accidentally pass it on.

Coronavirus is much nastier than the flu, that's why the death rate is much higher.

And last time I was at a swingers club there was more than enough contact to pass on something!

But hey you do your own risk assessment!"

The reason it's spreading so fast is that it's a novel virus, we don't have natural immunity to it, we need to build immunity to it. You're just as likely to get it from your local supermarket as you are from a club.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

It would be abit silly if someone with severe underlying issues went out shagging at a swingers club though.

Its unlikely they would, but you might a accidentally pass it on.

Coronavirus is much nastier than the flu, that's why the death rate is much higher.

And last time I was at a swingers club there was more than enough contact to pass on something!

But hey you do your own risk assessment!

The reason it's spreading so fast is that it's a novel virus, we don't have natural immunity to it, we need to build immunity to it. You're just as likely to get it from your local supermarket as you are from a club. "

Well am not sure what you get up to in your local supermarket _eeley but I find that hard to believe!

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

It would be abit silly if someone with severe underlying issues went out shagging at a swingers club though.

Its unlikely they would, but you might a accidentally pass it on.

Coronavirus is much nastier than the flu, that's why the death rate is much higher.

And last time I was at a swingers club there was more than enough contact to pass on something!

But hey you do your own risk assessment!"

Wrong it is less nastier than the flu - just more contagious - and more people have died of flu this year and every year than coronavirus.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

It would be abit silly if someone with severe underlying issues went out shagging at a swingers club though.

Its unlikely they would, but you might a accidentally pass it on.

Coronavirus is much nastier than the flu, that's why the death rate is much higher.

And last time I was at a swingers club there was more than enough contact to pass on something!

But hey you do your own risk assessment!

The reason it's spreading so fast is that it's a novel virus, we don't have natural immunity to it, we need to build immunity to it. You're just as likely to get it from your local supermarket as you are from a club.

Well am not sure what you get up to in your local supermarket _eeley but I find that hard to believe!

"

Think about the volume of people going through a supermarket, touching handles, trolleys, items, produce etc, the amount of people that are coughing and sneezing in there. Then think about how many people will be in a club.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

It would be abit silly if someone with severe underlying issues went out shagging at a swingers club though.

Its unlikely they would, but you might a accidentally pass it on.

Coronavirus is much nastier than the flu, that's why the death rate is much higher.

And last time I was at a swingers club there was more than enough contact to pass on something!

But hey you do your own risk assessment!

The reason it's spreading so fast is that it's a novel virus, we don't have natural immunity to it, we need to build immunity to it. You're just as likely to get it from your local supermarket as you are from a club.

Well am not sure what you get up to in your local supermarket _eeley but I find that hard to believe!

Think about the volume of people going through a supermarket, touching handles, trolleys, items, produce etc, the amount of people that are coughing and sneezing in there. Then think about how many people will be in a club. "

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I woke up this morning to two messages cancelling their meets with me this week due to "corona virus". I did politely point out that I don't actually have the virus but they just said they were being careful right now.

I'm still going to keep on going to clubs anyway but I have heard that in some clubs numbers are right down.

How do you actually know you don't have the virus?

That's the whole point you are infectious with out knowing it and the number of known cases are doubling every day.

Yes most of us are youngish and healthy, but we could be passing it onto those who aren't.....

It would be abit silly if someone with severe underlying issues went out shagging at a swingers club though.

Its unlikely they would, but you might a accidentally pass it on.

Coronavirus is much nastier than the flu, that's why the death rate is much higher.

And last time I was at a swingers club there was more than enough contact to pass on something!

But hey you do your own risk assessment!

The reason it's spreading so fast is that it's a novel virus, we don't have natural immunity to it, we need to build immunity to it. You're just as likely to get it from your local supermarket as you are from a club.

Well am not sure what you get up to in your local supermarket _eeley but I find that hard to believe!

Think about the volume of people going through a supermarket, touching handles, trolleys, items, produce etc, the amount of people that are coughing and sneezing in there. Then think about how many people will be in a club.

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

"

where is your mask I'm wearing mine

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

"

You mean the masks that aren't very effective? I can wash my hands in a club. I don't go in the orgy room. Tell me again how I'm more at risk.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "

I have been ill over past 18months so no way will I meet whilst this covid-19 is rife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fair question and We should probably follow the advice step by step of the scientists and not worry too much.

If you do alter your swinging habits then that is to be respected and I for one would say fair enough if you cancelled a meeting that had been arranged because of it or dipped out for a while. It looks as if we are in for a bumpy ride.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

People that wouldn’t go are prob the same silly swines that have bought 100 toilet rolls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that wouldn’t go are prob the same silly swines that have bought 100 toilet rolls. "
i had to cancel six this week because of toilet rolls

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts


"

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

You mean the masks that aren't very effective? I can wash my hands in a club. I don't go in the orgy room. Tell me again how I'm more at risk. "

I agree a mask isnt 100% effective because many don't wear them properly, but it's a lot more effective than kissing someone.

Or giving them a blowjob or any form of oral sex!!

Am sorry this is bonkers, you are trying to tell me that you are more likely to catch a highly contagious disease fully clothed in a supermarket than you are naked in a swingers club when bodily fluids are flying around all over the place, and cleaning up after the last occupants of a private room is hardly going to be a deep clean!!

Just have a think for a second what you are saying!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

You mean the masks that aren't very effective? I can wash my hands in a club. I don't go in the orgy room. Tell me again how I'm more at risk.

I agree a mask isnt 100% effective because many don't wear them properly, but it's a lot more effective than kissing someone.

Or giving them a blowjob or any form of oral sex!!

Am sorry this is bonkers, you are trying to tell me that you are more likely to catch a highly contagious disease fully clothed in a supermarket than you are naked in a swingers club when bodily fluids are flying around all over the place, and cleaning up after the last occupants of a private room is hardly going to be a deep clean!!

Just have a think for a second what you are saying!

"

Body fluids flying around? Really? Clubs aren't a cesspit of filth. Being naked doesn't change how quickly I'd catch the virus and you will come into contact with far more people in a supermarket than I would in a club. You'd also touch more items that had been touched by someone else, you're more likely to come into contact with someone who isn't washing their hands or isn't using tissues when coughing or sneezing. The sheer number of people that use supermarkets make it a haven for the virus to spread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

You mean the masks that aren't very effective? I can wash my hands in a club. I don't go in the orgy room. Tell me again how I'm more at risk.

I agree a mask isnt 100% effective because many don't wear them properly, but it's a lot more effective than kissing someone.

Or giving them a blowjob or any form of oral sex!!

Am sorry this is bonkers, you are trying to tell me that you are more likely to catch a highly contagious disease fully clothed in a supermarket than you are naked in a swingers club when bodily fluids are flying around all over the place, and cleaning up after the last occupants of a private room is hardly going to be a deep clean!!

Just have a think for a second what you are saying!

Body fluids flying around? Really? Clubs aren't a cesspit of filth. Being naked doesn't change how quickly I'd catch the virus and you will come into contact with far more people in a supermarket than I would in a club. You'd also touch more items that had been touched by someone else, you're more likely to come into contact with someone who isn't washing their hands or isn't using tissues when coughing or sneezing. The sheer number of people that use supermarkets make it a haven for the virus to spread. "

so swingers clubs are the safest place for a lock down

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

You mean the masks that aren't very effective? I can wash my hands in a club. I don't go in the orgy room. Tell me again how I'm more at risk.

I agree a mask isnt 100% effective because many don't wear them properly, but it's a lot more effective than kissing someone.

Or giving them a blowjob or any form of oral sex!!

Am sorry this is bonkers, you are trying to tell me that you are more likely to catch a highly contagious disease fully clothed in a supermarket than you are naked in a swingers club when bodily fluids are flying around all over the place, and cleaning up after the last occupants of a private room is hardly going to be a deep clean!!

Just have a think for a second what you are saying!

Body fluids flying around? Really? Clubs aren't a cesspit of filth. Being naked doesn't change how quickly I'd catch the virus and you will come into contact with far more people in a supermarket than I would in a club. You'd also touch more items that had been touched by someone else, you're more likely to come into contact with someone who isn't washing their hands or isn't using tissues when coughing or sneezing. The sheer number of people that use supermarkets make it a haven for the virus to spread. so swingers clubs are the safest place for a lock down "

Safer than asda.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"We just met an Italian man with a nasty cough who had just come back from china.

He also forget to put on a condom but on the plus side, he bought us some spare loo rol as a thanks!"

Ah, there's one not to pass by. Restores my faith in fab!

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

We have cancelled our club visit this weekend. Mrs not sure and thinks it could be quiet and had a big op a year ago so have to be a bit careful. Shame as it was the clubs only planned naked night for the moment.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

So when you are at a club you are methodically showering and washing you face hands and body after every single interaction.

Clearly I'm fighting a losing battle here, thankfully the government advisors have a grounding in science and epidemiology..good luck!

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"So when you are at a club you are methodically showering and washing you face hands and body after every single interaction.

Clearly I'm fighting a losing battle here, thankfully the government advisors have a grounding in science and epidemiology..good luck!"

Are you still going to work? The supermarket? Using cash machines etc?

The government advice is to wash your hands regularly and have drinks, especially hot drinks every 15 minutes to flush and viruses down into your stomach.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts


"So when you are at a club you are methodically showering and washing you face hands and body after every single interaction.

Clearly I'm fighting a losing battle here, thankfully the government advisors have a grounding in science and epidemiology..good luck!

Are you still going to work? The supermarket? Using cash machines etc?

The government advice is to wash your hands regularly and have drinks, especially hot drinks every 15 minutes to flush and viruses down into your stomach."

I'm not naked at work licking my bosses, so unless you are working in porn......

Most offices in central london are now making staff work from home on alternate days. The plan is to delay people from catching the virus rather than everyone all getting it at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

You mean the masks that aren't very effective? I can wash my hands in a club. I don't go in the orgy room. Tell me again how I'm more at risk.

I agree a mask isnt 100% effective because many don't wear them properly, but it's a lot more effective than kissing someone.

Or giving them a blowjob or any form of oral sex!!

Am sorry this is bonkers, you are trying to tell me that you are more likely to catch a highly contagious disease fully clothed in a supermarket than you are naked in a swingers club when bodily fluids are flying around all over the place, and cleaning up after the last occupants of a private room is hardly going to be a deep clean!!

Just have a think for a second what you are saying!

Body fluids flying around? Really? Clubs aren't a cesspit of filth. Being naked doesn't change how quickly I'd catch the virus and you will come into contact with far more people in a supermarket than I would in a club. You'd also touch more items that had been touched by someone else, you're more likely to come into contact with someone who isn't washing their hands or isn't using tissues when coughing or sneezing. The sheer number of people that use supermarkets make it a haven for the virus to spread. so swingers clubs are the safest place for a lock down

Safer than asda. "

well at least you would starve and you could go wild in d aisles

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By *all_cheeky_guyMan
over a year ago

guildford

Let’s flip this on its head.

Look at Hong Kong. This has 7m inhabitants in the highest population density in the world, well, one of. It has a direct link to wuhan via train, and it has experience of infection thorough SARS.

Hong Kong from day 1 took this threat seriously, large companies forced remote working. Schools and uni closed, moving to online working. People stopped social events, and keep indoors save for shopping.

Hong Kong has circa 100 cases, and less than a handful of deaths.

Why’s this relevant? Because it demonstrates that our culture has not taken this seriously. The compare against flu is relevant in that sadly more people die from that, but flu is far less effective terms of mortality rates.

You probably do stand more chance of getting an Std, but that risk is acknowledged and this site wouldn’t exist if that risk wasn’t accepted.

The real risk, is that you unwittingly pass on the virus to that elderly person in your family. Your asthmatic child or someone else.

This virus has a higher propensity to cause pneumonia. That’s a truely horrible thing to catch even for a young person. Let alone someone who’s got health problems.

Hand washing is vital, keeping distance is vital.

Cold damp air hinders the transmission of airbourne viruses, it’s more dense and a cough will lead to it travelling a shorter distance.

Warm air is less dense, and the virus will travel further

Face masks are partially effective, more so to hinder you spreading

Mathematically cases will accelerate now. So that event next week that seems no risk may not be so.

Surely this boils down to measured risk, knowing who your meeting, and taking care. If you have loved ones that are more dependent do you really want to take that risk for sexual gratification.....

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

Agreed with the above.

My sister lives in hong Kong and thinks we are all bonkers carrying on as we are. Schools have been shut down for months there.

Its far more densely packed than the UK, far closer to the epicentre yet they've had far less cases.

Dunno if they have shut the strip clubs in Wan Chai though.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

You mean the masks that aren't very effective? I can wash my hands in a club. I don't go in the orgy room. Tell me again how I'm more at risk.

I agree a mask isnt 100% effective because many don't wear them properly, but it's a lot more effective than kissing someone.

Or giving them a blowjob or any form of oral sex!!

Am sorry this is bonkers, you are trying to tell me that you are more likely to catch a highly contagious disease fully clothed in a supermarket than you are naked in a swingers club when bodily fluids are flying around all over the place, and cleaning up after the last occupants of a private room is hardly going to be a deep clean!!

Just have a think for a second what you are saying!

Body fluids flying around? Really? Clubs aren't a cesspit of filth. Being naked doesn't change how quickly I'd catch the virus and you will come into contact with far more people in a supermarket than I would in a club. You'd also touch more items that had been touched by someone else, you're more likely to come into contact with someone who isn't washing their hands or isn't using tissues when coughing or sneezing. The sheer number of people that use supermarkets make it a haven for the virus to spread. so swingers clubs are the safest place for a lock down

Safer than asda. well at least you would starve and you could go wild in d aisles "

wouldn't i typed wouldn't

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Don't forget it's not just about work. The virus can stay active on surfaces for hours and apparently you can be infected for 5 days with no symptoms and still be spreading the disease. Add on two weeks quarantine.

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

The naivety in this thread is unbelievable. Take alook at Italy. Who has the 2nd best health care rank in the world. Their health system is broken because of this virus.

Why do people think its not going to happen here.

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By *exy Pretty FeetCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"The naivety in this thread is unbelievable. Take alook at Italy. Who has the 2nd best health care rank in the world. Their health system is broken because of this virus.

Why do people think its not going to happen here."

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Agreed with the above.

My sister lives in hong Kong and thinks we are all bonkers carrying on as we are. Schools have been shut down for months there.

Its far more densely packed than the UK, far closer to the epicentre yet they've had far less cases.

Dunno if they have shut the strip clubs in Wan Chai though....."

I am completely prepared to self isolate if and when that becomes necessary, I do my main shopping monthly so I have plenty of food and necessities in the house. As I've said repeatedly in other threads, I will follow all advice given by the nhs and our government.

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By *enBuxtonMan
over a year ago

Stockport

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

But its nothing to with self isolation, that's if you have it or are suspected of having it.

It's to reduce in general your contact with other people as a whole so if and when you do get it it's not at the same time as everyone else to reduce the pressure on essential services.

That's what they are on about when they talk about flattening the curve.

They arent talking about your impressive boobs Keeley... xx

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By *enBuxtonMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Corona Virus will be a serious issue in the UK unless drastic action is taken immediately.

I run a business and we as of today are going into lock-down mode, working from home or alternating shifts in warehouse. Current estimates are that the proportion of those affected is 2-3 magnitudes greater than actual reported cases, with a death rate between 1-5% depending on how well contained and prepared a country is.

Most of Western Europe is on the same trajectory as Italy, just a few (13 for UK) days behind.

Would urge others to read this if Fabs allows me to post a link:

https://medium.com/@tomaspueyo/coronavirus-act-today-or-people-will-die-f4d3d9cd99ca

Stay safe everyone, and please do not underestimate this.

xx

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"We just met an Italian man with a nasty cough who had just come back from china.

He also forget to put on a condom but on the plus side, he bought us some spare loo rol as a thanks!"

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"We just met an Italian man with a nasty cough who had just come back from china.

He also forget to put on a condom but on the plus side, he bought us some spare loo rol as a thanks!

How can you forget to put on a condom, it's either you want to put it on or not. You can never just forget lol.

You need to seek immediate attention you have it after that interaction.

Safe Sex and Safe Contact is clearly not on your agenda. Please dont attend parties "

It's a joke ffs.

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle


"Let’s flip this on its head.

Look at Hong Kong. This has 7m inhabitants in the highest population density in the world, well, one of. It has a direct link to wuhan via train, and it has experience of infection thorough SARS.

Hong Kong from day 1 took this threat seriously, large companies forced remote working. Schools and uni closed, moving to online working. People stopped social events, and keep indoors save for shopping.

Hong Kong has circa 100 cases, and less than a handful of deaths.

Why’s this relevant? Because it demonstrates that our culture has not taken this seriously. The compare against flu is relevant in that sadly more people die from that, but flu is far less effective terms of mortality rates.

You probably do stand more chance of getting an Std, but that risk is acknowledged and this site wouldn’t exist if that risk wasn’t accepted.

The real risk, is that you unwittingly pass on the virus to that elderly person in your family. Your asthmatic child or someone else.

This virus has a higher propensity to cause pneumonia. That’s a truely horrible thing to catch even for a young person. Let alone someone who’s got health problems.

Hand washing is vital, keeping distance is vital.

Cold damp air hinders the transmission of airbourne viruses, it’s more dense and a cough will lead to it travelling a shorter distance.

Warm air is less dense, and the virus will travel further

Face masks are partially effective, more so to hinder you spreading

Mathematically cases will accelerate now. So that event next week that seems no risk may not be so.

Surely this boils down to measured risk, knowing who your meeting, and taking care. If you have loved ones that are more dependent do you really want to take that risk for sexual gratification....."

The problem for HK is that they will have to keep up this regime until there are no more cases in the World or a vaccine is developed.

The vast majority of HK people will have no resistance to the virus as they have been isolated from it. But in Italy lots of people will have it / get it and many will die in the susceptible groups. But those that get it will, hopefully, have an immunity to getting it again (I know there are conflicting reports on this) and therefore at some point Italy will have had about 70 to 80% infections which will hopefully give herd immunity which means that it should not reappear again in Italy.

I'm guessing that our Gov and Scientists are expecting the above to happen in the UK and therefore using "Delay" to keep the peak infection times to a manageable level until the 70 to 80% rate of infections happens here.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

But more will die in Italy due to Corona, and other diseases who shouldn't because the emergency services are swamped.

By delaying the peak you have far better chance of getting emergency care....that's the theory at least...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just gad to turn down another meet, not because she had symptoms or anything but because she couldn’t stop going on about it ffs

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By *aveed74Man
over a year ago

a round and a bout Midlands


"Corona Virus will be a serious issue in the UK unless drastic action is taken immediately.

I run a business and we as of today are going into lock-down mode, working from home or alternating shifts in warehouse. Current estimates are that the proportion of those affected is 2-3 magnitudes greater than actual reported cases, with a death rate between 1-5% depending on how well contained and prepared a country is.

Most of Western Europe is on the same trajectory as Italy, just a few (13 for UK) days behind.

Would urge others to read this if Fabs allows me to post a link:

https://medium.com/@tomaspueyo/coronavirus-act-today-or-people-will-die-f4d3d9cd99ca

Stay safe everyone, and please do not underestimate this.

xx"

Yes, very wise.

We will be shut down very soon....for very good reasons. I don't want a lot of decent older folk dying.

I will not be meeting for a good while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess for most of us, it would make a difference, there seem to be one virus or another making the rounds.

Life is for living and doing what you enjoy, so live your life, be happy. Fear doesn't add to your life, it runs you of your enjoyment.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My Fab meet cancelled last week because i was not willing to skip the social so guessing he was not too bothered.

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By *all_cheeky_guyMan
over a year ago

guildford

Point well made on heard immunity.

It essentially permits people to get it, so those that don’t die from it won’t get it again.

The issue is that whilst it makes some rather brutal evolutionary sense, many people will sadly die as a result.

People know risks now reflect on those that are older, etc, so it’s just about taking measured risk.

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By *exy Pretty FeetCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"Corona Virus will be a serious issue in the UK unless drastic action is taken immediately.

I run a business and we as of today are going into lock-down mode, working from home or alternating shifts in warehouse. Current estimates are that the proportion of those affected is 2-3 magnitudes greater than actual reported cases, with a death rate between 1-5% depending on how well contained and prepared a country is.

Most of Western Europe is on the same trajectory as Italy, just a few (13 for UK) days behind.

Would urge others to read this if Fabs allows me to post a link:

https://medium.com/@tomaspueyo/coronavirus-act-today-or-people-will-die-f4d3d9cd99ca

Stay safe everyone, and please do not underestimate this.

xx"

Good on you for taking the decision to protect yourself and as many of your staff as possible.

If more sheeple thought for themselves rather than relying on the nanny state to do the thinking for them, then they'd see the sense in opting to implement social distancing for themselves as a way of protecting themselves and others. There's no doubt this will spread but wouldn't you rather catch it at a time when there are hospital beds and ventilators to treat you should you need it? By tempering the rate of spread now, we reduce the pressure on our healthcare services so they don't end up having to 'let people go'

There is really no way of knowing who has or hasn't been exposed. Im on a phased return at work and working in quite a bit of isolation but have been meeting my boss for regular reviews for the past 7 weeks or so. I only found out today he was at a ski resort in north Italy for a week at the end of Jan/ beginning of Feb. He didn't even self isolate.

So while we can't control the complacency of others, we can and should think for ourselves.

Don't be fooled into thinking reported numbers are an accurate reflection of actual infected individuals... many people who think they're infected can't even get through to nhs 111 to get sent for testing!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Corona Virus will be a serious issue in the UK unless drastic action is taken immediately.

I run a business and we as of today are going into lock-down mode, working from home or alternating shifts in warehouse. Current estimates are that the proportion of those affected is 2-3 magnitudes greater than actual reported cases, with a death rate between 1-5% depending on how well contained and prepared a country is.

Most of Western Europe is on the same trajectory as Italy, just a few (13 for UK) days behind.

Would urge others to read this if Fabs allows me to post a link:

https://medium.com/@tomaspueyo/coronavirus-act-today-or-people-will-die-f4d3d9cd99ca

Stay safe everyone, and please do not underestimate this.

xx

Good on you for taking the decision to protect yourself and as many of your staff as possible.

If more sheeple thought for themselves rather than relying on the nanny state to do the thinking for them, then they'd see the sense in opting to implement social distancing for themselves as a way of protecting themselves and others. There's no doubt this will spread but wouldn't you rather catch it at a time when there are hospital beds and ventilators to treat you should you need it? By tempering the rate of spread now, we reduce the pressure on our healthcare services so they don't end up having to 'let people go'

There is really no way of knowing who has or hasn't been exposed. Im on a phased return at work and working in quite a bit of isolation but have been meeting my boss for regular reviews for the past 7 weeks or so. I only found out today he was at a ski resort in north Italy for a week at the end of Jan/ beginning of Feb. He didn't even self isolate.

So while we can't control the complacency of others, we can and should think for ourselves.

Don't be fooled into thinking reported numbers are an accurate reflection of actual infected individuals... many people who think they're infected can't even get through to nhs 111 to get sent for testing! "

They are telling people not to ring 111 unless they are having more serious symptoms, not just of they suspect they have it.

The idiots that think they have it that are going to A&E and GP surgeries are causing more strain on the nhs.

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By *exy Pretty FeetCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England


"Corona Virus will be a serious issue in the UK unless drastic action is taken immediately.

I run a business and we as of today are going into lock-down mode, working from home or alternating shifts in warehouse. Current estimates are that the proportion of those affected is 2-3 magnitudes greater than actual reported cases, with a death rate between 1-5% depending on how well contained and prepared a country is.

Most of Western Europe is on the same trajectory as Italy, just a few (13 for UK) days behind.

Would urge others to read this if Fabs allows me to post a link:

https://medium.com/@tomaspueyo/coronavirus-act-today-or-people-will-die-f4d3d9cd99ca

Stay safe everyone, and please do not underestimate this.

xx

Good on you for taking the decision to protect yourself and as many of your staff as possible.

If more sheeple thought for themselves rather than relying on the nanny state to do the thinking for them, then they'd see the sense in opting to implement social distancing for themselves as a way of protecting themselves and others. There's no doubt this will spread but wouldn't you rather catch it at a time when there are hospital beds and ventilators to treat you should you need it? By tempering the rate of spread now, we reduce the pressure on our healthcare services so they don't end up having to 'let people go'

There is really no way of knowing who has or hasn't been exposed. Im on a phased return at work and working in quite a bit of isolation but have been meeting my boss for regular reviews for the past 7 weeks or so. I only found out today he was at a ski resort in north Italy for a week at the end of Jan/ beginning of Feb. He didn't even self isolate.

So while we can't control the complacency of others, we can and should think for ourselves.

Don't be fooled into thinking reported numbers are an accurate reflection of actual infected individuals... many people who think they're infected can't even get through to nhs 111 to get sent for testing!

They are telling people not to ring 111 unless they are having more serious symptoms, not just of they suspect they have it.

The idiots that think they have it that are going to A&E and GP surgeries are causing more strain on the nhs. "

Ah that's what i meant... people with the serious symptoms who had travelled to affected areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "

I'm not meeting anyone until it all dies down

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "

I to am self employed, a good question you ask.

It’s not so much the time off work be in isolation that worries me.

As a relatively healthy person a like to think I would cope and recover, however it’s the elderly family members that concern me.

So I have to be so cautious about daily activities especially as I work in close contact with the members of the public on a basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think at this stage the chance of catching it is low, but imagine if you caught it elsewhere and had to explain to anyone who needed to know about where you had been and who you had close contact with ??

Oh yeah I was at the swingers club on Friday ??

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater


"We just met an Italian man with a nasty cough who had just come back from china.

He also forget to put on a condom but on the plus side, he bought us some spare loo rol as a thanks!

How can you forget to put on a condom, it's either you want to put it on or not. You can never just forget lol.

You need to seek immediate attention you have it after that interaction.

Safe Sex and Safe Contact is clearly not on your agenda. Please dont attend parties "

I think we just found it!

Your sense of humour

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I think at this stage the chance of catching it is low, but imagine if you caught it elsewhere and had to explain to anyone who needed to know about where you had been and who you had close contact with ??

Oh yeah I was at the swingers club on Friday ??"

I'd tell them.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

It won’t make any difference to me. The likelihood of catching it is slimmer than winning the lotto

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London


"It won’t make any difference to me. The likelihood of catching it is slimmer than winning the lotto "

WRONG!

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"It won’t make any difference to me. The likelihood of catching it is slimmer than winning the lotto

WRONG!"

Me thinks he's referring to the chances of a meet compared to catching the virus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "

You are being sensible. I think swingers and prostitutes are going to accidently be super spreaders of the virus.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "

I would cancel a meet with somebody--depending on the circumstances--and I would wish them to be careful and stay healthy, until this whole thing is behind us. I wouldn't keep it against somebody if they were a bit scared...especially if the health of their loved ones is also at stake..humaneness comes before sex, right? x

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I’m no expert

But probably best to chat

For a while and go from there

No one knows what will happen "

I'd say chat for at least 2 weeks see if they go off line within that period (not a serious reply?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting full stop until this is over and happily so, don't give a fig what others are doing tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a kinky fucker who loves meeting folk new and old, but I'm not meeting for a while...

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By *icarage ManMan
over a year ago

South Shields

I had a sex date cancel on me for tonight because of it...

Plenty of Plan B's

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By *aintscoupleCouple
over a year ago

st helens

We had a bit of fun at the weekend but we wont be having any further club meets for a while as we have a disabled daughter and it aint worth risking her health just so that we can have some fun.

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By *astMidsCouple555Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

The advice is to stop non essential travel. In whose parallel universe is a sex meet essential?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The advice is to stop non essential travel. In whose parallel universe is a sex meet essential? "

I keep on asking myself this...

And I keep on hearing “individuals have to weigh up the risks”

But instead of using expert opinion to inform their decisions, they’re picking and choosing and falsely interpreting the facts so they can have the reality they want. The reality where they get to pretend like nothing is happening.

It’s grim, but when the bodies start to appear, maybe the reality will sink in.

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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne


"The advice is to stop non essential travel. In whose parallel universe is a sex meet essential? "

Welcome to fab, parallel universe number 2563-F6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "

It's indeed a serious problem currently . People should stop going to Socials or large gatherings as it's indeed a risk. Self employed people are not covered under SSP ,so they have to take care for themselves.

If you think it's risky then you should stop meeting strangers .

Ignore other people talking about STI or accidents etc as they are based on fate but chances of acquiring a lethal viral infection is a fact.

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit.

It's indeed a serious problem currently . People should stop going to Socials or large gatherings as it's indeed a risk. Self employed people are not covered under SSP ,so they have to take care for themselves.

If you think it's risky then you should stop meeting strangers .

Ignore other people talking about STI or accidents etc as they are based on fate but chances of acquiring a lethal viral infection is a fact."

Why is one fate and one fact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Why is one fate and one fact? "

Because you own won't kill yourself driving ,isn't ? It would be someone else's mistake . Now when everyone is telling you that Corona virus is spreading rapidly around and you have to take necessary care about it .

Now if you knowingly venture out in a crowded place then ,who is at fault ?

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


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Why is one fate and one fact?

Because you own won't kill yourself driving ,isn't ? It would be someone else's mistake . Now when everyone is telling you that Corona virus is spreading rapidly around and you have to take necessary care about it .

Now if you knowingly venture out in a crowded place then ,who is at fault ?"

Are you still going to work, supermarket, using cash machines, handling money? All things we take for granted but that can pass on the virus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to work, shopping for food and getting money out is a necessity but swinging isn't... Is it????

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "
same people who meet are probably those that go bearback too

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. same people who meet are probably those that go bearback too"

What

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"Going to work, shopping for food and getting money out is a necessity but swinging isn't... Is it????"

But still leaves you with a chance of catching the virus, more so because you tend to do those things more frequently than swinging and so do more people.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"

I am! And I can wash my hands, where a mask etc. In an orgy room you can easily come into physical contact with 20 people!

You mean the masks that aren't very effective? I can wash my hands in a club. I don't go in the orgy room. Tell me again how I'm more at risk.

I agree a mask isnt 100% effective because many don't wear them properly, but it's a lot more effective than kissing someone.

Or giving them a blowjob or any form of oral sex!!

Am sorry this is bonkers, you are trying to tell me that you are more likely to catch a highly contagious disease fully clothed in a supermarket than you are naked in a swingers club when bodily fluids are flying around all over the place, and cleaning up after the last occupants of a private room is hardly going to be a deep clean!!

Just have a think for a second what you are saying!

Body fluids flying around? Really? Clubs aren't a cesspit of filth. Being naked doesn't change how quickly I'd catch the virus and you will come into contact with far more people in a supermarket than I would in a club. You'd also touch more items that had been touched by someone else, you're more likely to come into contact with someone who isn't washing their hands or isn't using tissues when coughing or sneezing. The sheer number of people that use supermarkets make it a haven for the virus to spread. so swingers clubs are the safest place for a lock down "

Most fun place for a lock down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clubs or any club could be the most cleanest club in the world,but at end of the day its you the humble human being that as or could have the virus, 50/50 chance of catching it one cough or one sneeze in the air naked or not and yes you could get it in the supermarket 50/50 but its you who decides to go to a club or a meet and if people have decided not to meet then just wait until its all over they will be still there its sex im sure it can wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is rather a sad read to be honest ... take care of each other, social responsibility, & we wonder where humanity & decency are? Obviously not in many

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By *rego69Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I'm off to chams on Friday and I'll keep going until advised otherwise.

We won't stop going either. Went Monday "

Oh no your not !

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"The clubs or any club could be the most cleanest club in the world,but at end of the day its you the humble human being that as or could have the virus, 50/50 chance of catching it one cough or one sneeze in the air naked or not and yes you could get it in the supermarket 50/50 but its you who decides to go to a club or a meet and if people have decided not to meet then just wait until its all over they will be still there its sex im sure it can wait. "

It's also you that decides to go to a supermarket

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

I value my gorgeous friends more than a fuck and play ... given my age and potential for exposure due to working in the public domain and their wellbeing I'd rather play safe thank live with the knowledge that i might have

A ... caught it

B Carried it and transmitted it to a less resistant person

So its wank time and look forward to the fun when the summer comes

The virus hates over 26 degrees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll avoid meeting anyone elderly and/or with underlying health issues.....

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"I value my gorgeous friends more than a fuck and play ... given my age and potential for exposure due to working in the public domain and their wellbeing I'd rather play safe thank live with the knowledge that i might have

A ... caught it

B Carried it and transmitted it to a less resistant person

So its wank time and look forward to the fun when the summer comes

The virus hates over 26 degrees

"

Not sure that's true Tina. It's currently thriving in some very hot countries right now and the UK rarely gets to 26 degrees x

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By *ilthfun69Man
over a year ago

solihull

The virus IS spread through sexual contact..

you can carry the virus for 7 days without displaying symptoms..

I now know of four separate people who have it, I have not been in contact with any of them.. but it’s all coming on top very quickly..

It’s a real shame people are ignoring the advice.. it does go to prove what a selfish society it is we live in..

The virus has put a stop to our fun..I’m afraid we will all have to abstain till it’s over..

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"The virus IS spread through sexual contact..

you can carry the virus for 7 days without displaying symptoms..

I now know of four separate people who have it, I have not been in contact with any of them.. but it’s all coming on top very quickly..

It’s a real shame people are ignoring the advice.. it does go to prove what a selfish society it is we live in..

The virus has put a stop to our fun..I’m afraid we will all have to abstain till it’s over.."

It isn't spread by sexual contact. Wish people would get their facts straight. No wonder everyone is panicking.

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By *heSassyOneWoman
over a year ago

SE Michigan

In US many states are closing bars, restaurants, clubs, spas, school.... no gatherings over 50 people. I can’t imagine LS clubs being crowded

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"The virus IS spread through sexual contact..

you can carry the virus for 7 days without displaying symptoms..

I now know of four separate people who have it, I have not been in contact with any of them.. but it’s all coming on top very quickly..

It’s a real shame people are ignoring the advice.. it does go to prove what a selfish society it is we live in..

The virus has put a stop to our fun..I’m afraid we will all have to abstain till it’s over..

It isn't spread by sexual contact. Wish people would get their facts straight. No wonder everyone is panicking. "

If you don't kiss, use saliva to lubricate or suck fingers... You lowering the risk of contracting.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Virus on hard surfaces or on skin hates break down in temperatures over 30 degrees. This is why you wash your hands in hot soapy water. The soap dissolves the fatty membrane of the virus. Once the virus is in your body, hot baths and drinking vinegar won't cure you.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Can live on surfaces for up to 3 days, who uses cash instead of cards? Just putting that out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can live on surfaces for up to 3 days, who uses cash instead of cards? Just putting that out there. "
omg i use cash and card I'm dead.......... who fancies going panic shopping at 7

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By *riveroneMan
over a year ago

Hyde

Kissing increases risk of contracting corona but I need to know does fingering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is alarming. Seriously, any one of you posting half this shit have any scientific background? Can pretty much guarantee not one single person on this thread. People just repeating the same crap, even though the actual scientists say something totally different. Go read some reports from Italian doctors, muppets. Just because you are healthy and can brush something off, doesnt mean everybody is, think of others, selfish fucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is rather a sad read to be honest ... take care of each other, social responsibility, & we wonder where humanity & decency are? Obviously not in many "

Yep. The various threads on this subject are great for reducing our “would like to meet” list.

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

So much misinformation on this thread

If people are going to spout, then please use facts from either gov.uk or nhs.uk.

I run parties and at present we are still going ahead this weekend. Upon entry every guest will be made to use hand sanitiser. We will have anti bac hand wash in each loo and hand gel in each room. Crew will wear gloves when tidying up. Disposable Cups will not be re-used. All door handles, flush handles etc will be regularly cleaned with anti bac wipes or bleach. Crew will be reminding all guests to wash their hands regularly.

Alcohol based mouthwash (listerine/corsydol) will be provided as it can kill the virus whilst it’s still in your throat AND it gives you 50% protection against oral sti’s.

IF the government rules that NO gatherings should go ahead then we will cancel. However, at the moment they’re advising to avoid gatherings of more than 500 people.

If we are all careful and follow the hand washing guidelines why shouldn’t we still have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much misinformation on this thread

If people are going to spout, then please use facts from either gov.uk or nhs.uk.

I run parties and at present we are still going ahead this weekend. Upon entry every guest will be made to use hand sanitiser. We will have anti bac hand wash in each loo and hand gel in each room. Crew will wear gloves when tidying up. Disposable Cups will not be re-used. All door handles, flush handles etc will be regularly cleaned with anti bac wipes or bleach. Crew will be reminding all guests to wash their hands regularly.

Alcohol based mouthwash (listerine/corsydol) will be provided as it can kill the virus whilst it’s still in your throat AND it gives you 50% protection against oral sti’s.

IF the government rules that NO gatherings should go ahead then we will cancel. However, at the moment they’re advising to avoid gatherings of more than 500 people.

If we are all careful and follow the hand washing guidelines why shouldn’t we still have fun "

Bojo literally said yesterday to please avoid any pubs, clubs or large gatherings.

Italy is on an almost martial law. Austria has banned groups of 5 or more. This is the way things are going across Europe.

Also anti-bac, entirely pointless for a virus. Although saying that surfaces aren’t really the issue here. Moreso tons of people having tons of body contact.

I find it alarming that this info has been about a little bit now but people keep finding ‘workarounds’ to not follow it.

Like having a bit of sex on the weekend is fine because fuck everyone else’s frail relatives right?

Sorry, starting to get to me a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is rather a sad read to be honest ... take care of each other, social responsibility, & we wonder where humanity & decency are? Obviously not in many

Yep. The various threads on this subject are great for reducing our “would like to meet” list."

I think this too! Awesome filters ... and it is sad that there is no social responsibility! Sign of the changed times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The advice is to stop non essential travel. In whose parallel universe is a sex meet essential?

I keep on asking myself this...

And I keep on hearing “individuals have to weigh up the risks”

But instead of using expert opinion to inform their decisions, they’re picking and choosing and falsely interpreting the facts so they can have the reality they want. The reality where they get to pretend like nothing is happening.

It’s grim, but when the bodies start to appear, maybe the reality will sink in."

THIS, absolutely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn't spread by sexual contact. Wish people would get their facts straight. No wonder everyone is panicking. "

It's spread through any contact, the more intimate and prolonged the more likely it is to be spread.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"So much misinformation on this thread

If people are going to spout, then please use facts from either gov.uk or nhs.uk.

I run parties and at present we are still going ahead this weekend. Upon entry every guest will be made to use hand sanitiser. We will have anti bac hand wash in each loo and hand gel in each room. Crew will wear gloves when tidying up. Disposable Cups will not be re-used. All door handles, flush handles etc will be regularly cleaned with anti bac wipes or bleach. Crew will be reminding all guests to wash their hands regularly.

Alcohol based mouthwash (listerine/corsydol) will be provided as it can kill the virus whilst it’s still in your throat AND it gives you 50% protection against oral sti’s.

IF the government rules that NO gatherings should go ahead then we will cancel. However, at the moment they’re advising to avoid gatherings of more than 500 people.

If we are all careful and follow the hand washing guidelines why shouldn’t we still have fun "

The answer to your question is - because you’ve absolutely no idea whatsoever who is carrying 19. All of those precautions are for nothing if, you know, someone with it breathes on someone else. But obviously that won’t happen. So you’ll definitely all be fine. And everyone else around you afterwards. Mr.

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By *xywelshguyMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Watch the news people

Listen to what the experts are telling you

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"So much misinformation on this thread

If people are going to spout, then please use facts from either gov.uk or nhs.uk.

I run parties and at present we are still going ahead this weekend. Upon entry every guest will be made to use hand sanitiser. We will have anti bac hand wash in each loo and hand gel in each room. Crew will wear gloves when tidying up. Disposable Cups will not be re-used. All door handles, flush handles etc will be regularly cleaned with anti bac wipes or bleach. Crew will be reminding all guests to wash their hands regularly.

Alcohol based mouthwash (listerine/corsydol) will be provided as it can kill the virus whilst it’s still in your throat AND it gives you 50% protection against oral sti’s.

IF the government rules that NO gatherings should go ahead then we will cancel. However, at the moment they’re advising to avoid gatherings of more than 500 people.

If we are all careful and follow the hand washing guidelines why shouldn’t we still have fun

Bojo literally said yesterday to please avoid any pubs, clubs or large gatherings.

Italy is on an almost martial law. Austria has banned groups of 5 or more. This is the way things are going across Europe.

Also anti-bac, entirely pointless for a virus. Although saying that surfaces aren’t really the issue here. Moreso tons of people having tons of body contact.

I find it alarming that this info has been about a little bit now but people keep finding ‘workarounds’ to not follow it.

Like having a bit of sex on the weekend is fine because fuck everyone else’s frail relatives right?

Sorry, starting to get to me a bit. "

So can we take it you have stocked up and are self isolating?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Depends if you have a relative that is a high risk, why put their lives at risk just for a bit of fun.

Some people carry the virus, without showing any symptoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The levels of “I’m alright Jack and sod the rest!” on here are quite something.

I blame Thatcher.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I find it hard to believe that many of the 400 or so people that have the virus will be attending any sex clubs? "

The problem is you are infectious before you have symptoms or feel unwell.

I work front line nhs so will not be meeting more to protect others than myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to believe that many of the 400 or so people that have the virus will be attending any sex clubs?

The problem is you are infectious before you have symptoms or feel unwell.

I work front line nhs so will not be meeting more to protect others than myself. "

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much misinformation on this thread

If people are going to spout, then please use facts from either gov.uk or nhs.uk.

I run parties and at present we are still going ahead this weekend. Upon entry every guest will be made to use hand sanitiser. We will have anti bac hand wash in each loo and hand gel in each room. Crew will wear gloves when tidying up. Disposable Cups will not be re-used. All door handles, flush handles etc will be regularly cleaned with anti bac wipes or bleach. Crew will be reminding all guests to wash their hands regularly.

Alcohol based mouthwash (listerine/corsydol) will be provided as it can kill the virus whilst it’s still in your throat AND it gives you 50% protection against oral sti’s.

IF the government rules that NO gatherings should go ahead then we will cancel. However, at the moment they’re advising to avoid gatherings of more than 500 people.

If we are all careful and follow the hand washing guidelines why shouldn’t we still have fun

Bojo literally said yesterday to please avoid any pubs, clubs or large gatherings.

Italy is on an almost martial law. Austria has banned groups of 5 or more. This is the way things are going across Europe.

Also anti-bac, entirely pointless for a virus. Although saying that surfaces aren’t really the issue here. Moreso tons of people having tons of body contact.

I find it alarming that this info has been about a little bit now but people keep finding ‘workarounds’ to not follow it.

Like having a bit of sex on the weekend is fine because fuck everyone else’s frail relatives right?

Sorry, starting to get to me a bit.

So can we take it you have stocked up and are self isolating?"

Yep, for the next week and a bit until they try force me back into work at least!

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By *osexyCouple
over a year ago

ST AUSTELL

Lots of Russian roulette players in the swinging world.

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit "

Looks a perfect fit to me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not meeting, I meet all ages and can’t afford to take that risk, wank bank and video con it is stay safe all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother and his family have symptoms and they are now in self isolation for 14 days

They are in Southampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I’m not meeting either until things are relatively back to normal

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We both decided to bin meeting for the foreseeable future also.

Not only for us but Mrs job and mine.

It's important that we keep clean and Carry on.

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts


"The virus IS spread through sexual contact..

you can carry the virus for 7 days without displaying symptoms..

I now know of four separate people who have it, I have not been in contact with any of them.. but it’s all coming on top very quickly..

It’s a real shame people are ignoring the advice.. it does go to prove what a selfish society it is we live in..

The virus has put a stop to our fun..I’m afraid we will all have to abstain till it’s over..

It isn't spread by sexual contact. Wish people would get their facts straight. No wonder everyone is panicking. "

Is that a joke? Either you are scarily clueless or you are doing sex all wrong!!!

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm not meeting for the foreseeable because of it. Not worth the risk- however seeming negligible

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"I'm not meeting for the foreseeable because of it. Not worth the risk- however seeming negligible "

Seems sensible and I’m doing the same.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You probably have a greater chance of catching a STI"

Very true x

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Probably have more chance of having an accident on the way to the meet.

Even if that's falling down the stairs"

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

If I was younger yes I would meet but now well into my sixties will not meet at present

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"The virus IS spread through sexual contact..

you can carry the virus for 7 days without displaying symptoms..

I now know of four separate people who have it, I have not been in contact with any of them.. but it’s all coming on top very quickly..

It’s a real shame people are ignoring the advice.. it does go to prove what a selfish society it is we live in..

The virus has put a stop to our fun..I’m afraid we will all have to abstain till it’s over..

It isn't spread by sexual contact. Wish people would get their facts straight. No wonder everyone is panicking.

Is that a joke? Either you are scarily clueless or you are doing sex all wrong!!!"

It can be spread by close contact with an infected person.

You are infectious for about 5 days before you show symptoms or feel unwell.

If you can have sex while having no close contact with the other person you are the one doing it wrong!

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

You have just as much chance of catching it using public transport or in your workplace.

It's all about hygiene....wash hands/sanitize (common sense) when sneezing/coughing...used tissues put in the bin not in your pocket. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone must do what they think is best for them. Just use your common sense and judgement we are all adults!. I personally wont be meeting anyone till this is all over, I have elderly parents I care for and I have lung condition so I am staying in. Just be safe and take care

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts

I think this couple have got a right, think they are safe....

https://twitter.com/RickyRBR/status/1239682289212231680?s=09

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By *orthen soul manMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. "

you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit

I think your blouse is magniicent lol

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I am not meeting at the moment.

My main reason is I am working front line nhs in GP practice.

I would never forgive myself if I passed it on to someone after picking it up from work simply for the sake of sex.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Everyone must do what they think is best for them. Just use your common sense and judgement we are all adults!. I personally wont be meeting anyone till this is all over, I have elderly parents I care for and I have lung condition so I am staying in. Just be safe and take care "

Fair comment xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not meeting at the moment.

My main reason is I am working front line nhs in GP practice.

I would never forgive myself if I passed it on to someone after picking it up from work simply for the sake of sex."

Frontline staff here too! I’m on the fence for now!

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"I find it hard to believe that many of the 400 or so people that have the virus will be attending any sex clubs? "

I believe the current estimate is more like 50,000 in the U.K. and many don’t know and or are not showing any symptoms. I am quite relaxed about catching it personally BUT how many people could I infect Directly or indirectly before I realised and how many would die. I’d love to be meeting at the moment but IMHO I don’t think it’s the right thing to do for the wider population. Feel free to call me a wanker it’s becoming increasingly accurate. Stay safe folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much misinformation on this thread

If people are going to spout, then please use facts from either gov.uk or nhs.uk.

I run parties and at present we are still going ahead this weekend. Upon entry every guest will be made to use hand sanitiser. We will have anti bac hand wash in each loo and hand gel in each room. Crew will wear gloves when tidying up. Disposable Cups will not be re-used. All door handles, flush handles etc will be regularly cleaned with anti bac wipes or bleach. Crew will be reminding all guests to wash their hands regularly.

Alcohol based mouthwash (listerine/corsydol) will be provided as it can kill the virus whilst it’s still in your throat AND it gives you 50% protection against oral sti’s.

IF the government rules that NO gatherings should go ahead then we will cancel. However, at the moment they’re advising to avoid gatherings of more than 500 people.

If we are all careful and follow the hand washing guidelines why shouldn’t we still have fun "

Sorry won't work cos still in the air if someone cough in private room then next person will catch it from air .....tut tut

Avoid all the clubs

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Do you think sexual or social meets with other fab members are less now because of the fear of contracting the corona virus? Like to know (sensible) views on it and whether people stopped meeting people because of it. I'm self employed and rely on good health to pay the rent etc so this does worry me abit. "

Yup, no meets til it's over

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By *ensualpleasures69Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit "

Don’t tell her!!!! lol

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. "

you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit

I think your blouse is magniicent lol"

So because there's a risk from touching an ATM you'll ignore other, more prevalent risks?

Why is that, to spite the ATM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. "

you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit

I think your blouse is magniicent lol

So because there's a risk from touching an ATM you'll ignore other, more prevalent risks?

Why is that, to spite the ATM?"

cash is a problem where the virus is concerned it lingers on notes for days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only work with notes

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Advice no kissing and wash your hands... Lol

More germs on a tesco trolley..money..atm machines door handles etc..

Least of my worries at a meet. "

you really ought to get another blouse that one doesnt fit

I think your blouse is magniicent lol

So because there's a risk from touching an ATM you'll ignore other, more prevalent risks?

Why is that, to spite the ATM?cash is a problem where the virus is concerned it lingers on notes for days "

Indeed, but in my view that's no reason to ignore the risks associated with intimate sexual contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I’m not too bothered but then again I wouldn’t fly to Italy to meet an Italian atm "

I have one of my own!

(Him)

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