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By *littlemorethanaverage OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I've been a member on the site for a while now yet I've not had much luck. Men seem to love me but that's not exactly what I'm here for. I've had a few chats from women and couples but only 1 has turned into anything. I'm not sure where I'm going wrong or if my profile isn't quite right but I think I need some help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock pics

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By *littlemorethanaverage OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I don't really have much else to show though, what would you suggest?

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish


"I've been a member on the site for a while now yet I've not had much luck. Men seem to love me but that's not exactly what I'm here for. I've had a few chats from women and couples but only 1 has turned into anything. I'm not sure where I'm going wrong or if my profile isn't quite right but I think I need some help. "

This is just my perspective, but--

Saying you're honest and genuine is not exactly the same as showing it. I like a bit of who a guy is, in his profile. What's to like about you? How are you different from others?

Posting several meets in a row looking for "anything, anywhere" is a big turn off.

Pictures are all basically the same, not what I'd be looking for (penises do not convey personality or what a man is like).

That said, you'll never appeal to everyone. Decide on your "type" and focus on a profile that would appeal to her/them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really have much else to show though, what would you suggest? "

Just less pics then. It is an immediate turn off. Not yours personally but in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really have much else to show though, what would you suggest? "

One cock is more than enough.

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish


"I don't really have much else to show though, what would you suggest? "

How about partially clothed torso shots that show off your muscles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also are you really going to meet a 99 year old.

It says you're desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 27/09/19 pic is a good one. So is the one with the hat over your dick.

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By *littlemorethanaverage OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I'll have to have a rethink on the profile and what it says.

The meets thing I only done today as its something I haven't tried yet but maybe I went a bit over board haha.

I've changed my pictures around a bit to make them look slightly different to as well as took some out.

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By *littlemorethanaverage OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Oh jesus I hadn't even clocked that, I'd be surprised if a 99 year old was on here

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It is tough here for you single men, due to the huge levels of competition. Managing your expectations is your first job.

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Due to the competition, you'll need to sell yourself well, preferably better than someone else who is equal. People need to know what you will give them that's better than the others and you need to make this attractive.

I'd encourage you to look at the many forum posts here from men asking for help and especially for their profiles. The profile is the shop window and salesman combined. See the key advice in those threads and use what seems right to you.

Keep refining it as well as experiment, to see if some things 2ork better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could still lose 5 dick pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh jesus I hadn't even clocked that, I'd be surprised if a 99 year old was on here "

Ha ha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a member on the site for a while now yet I've not had much luck. Men seem to love me but that's not exactly what I'm here for. I've had a few chats from women and couples but only 1 has turned into anything. I'm not sure where I'm going wrong or if my profile isn't quite right but I think I need some help. "
you are young thats playing a part 11 out of 13 pics are your cock most women will be put off by that, you dont have much info on your profile and your profile is your advert it needs to be more informative, you need to send polite well thought out messages based on target profiles and eventually you will get success

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By *littlemorethanaverage OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Thanks for all the help, really appreciating this. I think I've sorted the photo issue, put alot into the friends only for now but will delete some to.

The bio I struggle most with only because I'm not great at selling myself at all haha.

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