FabSwingers.com forum: Do you say it?

By *ustfun001 OP Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

So I have been to BGHS a few times now... and still don’t know the etiquette, it’s a naturist club and everyone is chilling naked. Again today I sparked up conversation with a beautiful woman, now my dilemma is... I don’t want to be creepy or inappropriate so I don’t say anything and just let the conversation flow.

I thought she was absolutely gorgeous! So my question fellow fabbers would you say wow you look amazing or beautiful or sexy? I kind of feel like there are in said rules that I don’t know LOL.... am I just a big pussy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in a compliment

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By *ustfun001 OP Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

"No harm in a compliment "

Exactly what I thought... thank you

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yes and yes

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By *ustfun001 OP Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes and yes"

Thank you

Ps. Your pictures are amazing

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

A compliment is a compliment, say it.....!! Not many folk will be offended by a compliment...!!

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

A compliment is a compliment, say it.....!! Not many folk will be offended by a compliment...!!

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan
over a year ago

nr Chester NW

Just be honest with them if there hot then say so. But dont go on about it or it becomes creepy

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

A compliment is always welcomed... propositions are another matter

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

If we're complementing someone on their looks, we find it's best to follow it up quickly with a separate point that they can respond to without feeling trapped or awkward.

If you just stand there and say "wow you're sexy!" it can force them into a potentially uncomfortable situation where they need to respond or deflect in some way. If you follow it up with a neutral question or statement such as "wow you look sexy! Isn't this place great? Have you been here before?" then it leaves them with the option to return the compliment or just answer your follow ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A compliment is always welcomed... propositions are another matter

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so you look gorgeous naked fancy riding me is out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A compliment is always welcomed... propositions are another matter

so you look gorgeous naked fancy riding me is out

Jeeze why is it always the women that have to do all the work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A compliment is always welcomed... propositions are another matter

so you look gorgeous naked fancy riding me is out

Jeeze why is it always the women that have to do all the work

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you are known as phenomenal multi taskers why i don't know but ce la vie

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"If we're complementing someone on their looks, we find it's best to follow it up quickly with a separate point that they can respond to without feeling trapped or awkward.

Good psychology there....like it !!!

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