FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so it's been a few months since I joined the site, and so far I've had no lick with even a conversation.

What am I doing wrong that I need to change?

Any help or advice would be appreciated.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Sorry to say this but you are just one of hundreds of thousands of men. You will have more luck on pof x

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Hi. Time your profile reads a little bit like you’re looking for someone to hold your hand and provide you with experiences. Doesn’t seem like you’re looking for mutual exchange of enjoyment.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

If you messaged me and I looked at your profile I'd be wondering what was in it for me - it's all about what you want and need, you offer nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the problem a lot of the time that guys aren’t very confident chatting up women in the real world. So they come to a swinging website thinking that it’s just sex with random strangers and no holds barred fun. And the truth is it’s not like that at all. You still have to be able to conduct yourself correctely and if anything it’s harder to pull because the social side of it is so important and a lot of people lack those skills.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Stuff a dress on and watch the flood gates open !! It worked for me, men, women, couple, threesoms full on Orgys.

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

Get rid of the socks. That will definately help.

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

*definitely. Ffs

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

OK, it's not a bad profile but it just feels a bit dull. There's very little personality in it & there are lots of 'buts', where it feels like you're trying hedge your bets and cover all bases, which feels a little desperate & as if you don't actually know what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK, it's not a bad profile but it just feels a bit dull. There's very little personality in it & there are lots of 'buts', where it feels like you're trying hedge your bets and cover all bases, which feels a little desperate & as if you don't actually know what you want. "

I got that sense too.

There's a fair amount of text there without actually saying much.

After reading through it a couple of times, I'm still none the wiser, either about what you;re actually looking for, or what you have to offer.

Very bland I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so it's been a few months since I joined the site, and so far I've had no lick with even a conversation.

What am I doing wrong that I need to change?

Any help or advice would be appreciated."
got to be honest i haven't had a lick today yet either but I'm working on it

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Ok so it's been a few months since I joined the site, and so far I've had no lick with even a conversation.

What am I doing wrong that I need to change?

Any help or advice would be appreciated."
. Fabs can be hard for a single guy regardless of how good your profile is.You are a single guy that can accommodate which is good.My advice for what it’s worth is look to attend organised socials and clubs in or near your area give out verifications and in return you will get some back this should help you as people will see you are a good person with social skills.Best of luck with your time on Fabs.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Sounds like you dont need to get tested regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi so I’d just like too chirp in. My experience of swinging and this site so far has been this. As far as the website I goes then it’s a bit like pot luck. You need join in with what happens on the site because above all else this is still social media. I liked your profile as it seemed honest and I’m guessing like our profile you weren’t sure what to write? So maybe edit it too include what you feel you would enjoy bringing to the table. As for the swinging scene I whole heartedly recommend going to actual parties and clubs as there are actual people and you don’t have too surf through if your actually at a party there is either a vibe and attraction or there’s not. For what it’s worth swinging is a scene so finding your place is hard and there’s definitely etiquette and couples and singles are there for different reasons. We’ve been too three clubs now and nothing happened at any of them for many different reasons. But because we had boundaries and had discussed as a couple what we hoped too share with others we didn’t find anyone too play with. Above all this is supposed to be mutual and fun ! Happy swinging and hope it all works out!

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