FabSwingers.com forum: BI MF couples

By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Lately, I have been clicking on and reading profile texts of couples who both like men...but then as one scrolls further down, there seems to be a certain 'soft barrier' with some couples. If they want men, they'll find them. Or they will only meet them at clubs. Or just they won't meet them at all (that's the hard barrier actually).

So, again, it made me ponder....for those of you bi couples who don't exclude bi men but you put a 'soft barrier'...is it because we single men are generally second best to another fully bisexual couple? Or is it because you have been treated like shit or you had your time wasted by way too many of us? I would like to know your thoughts.

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Lately, I have been clicking on and reading profile texts of couples who both like men...but then as one scrolls further down, there seems to be a certain 'soft barrier' with some couples. If they want men, they'll find them. Or they will only meet them at clubs. Or just they won't meet them at all (that's the hard barrier actually).

Wish I knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, single guy is always going to be second fiddle to another bi couple. Purely because she loves playing with women much more than another guy.

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By *ark_sentinelCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"For us, single guy is always going to be second fiddle to another bi couple. Purely because she loves playing with women much more than another guy."

We are the same, looking for mm and ff. we can get the mf thing ourselves

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

For us we meet single guys mostly at clubs having had no shows and pretend bi too many times... our free time is very limited and we want to make the most of it. We actually prefer to meet a single guy over other options - we both crave cock the most! We do find guys reluctant to meet us in clubs though so find ourselves with a bit of a catch 22 situation. Our compromise has been to opt for bi nights at clubs but persevere on fab with those who will join us at an event.

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

We don't have a "barrier". We simply don't have the time to meet other than at a club at present. Even that is a struggle given bi nights fall on one Friday so we have to hope various things work to be able to attend. This applies to single men, women or couples.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

"We don't have a "barrier". We simply don't have the time to meet other than at a club at present. Even that is a struggle given bi nights fall on one Friday so we have to hope various things work to be able to attend. This applies to single men, women or couples. "

We can pretty much agree with this too.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

We can pretty much agree with this too."

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr

"For us we meet single guys mostly at clubs having had no shows and pretend bi too many times... our free time is very limited and we want to make the most of it. We actually prefer to meet a single guy over other options - we both crave cock the most! We do find guys reluctant to meet us in clubs though so find ourselves with a bit of a catch 22 situation. Our compromise has been to opt for bi nights at clubs but persevere on fab with those who will join us at an event. "

We fully agree with this too many pretend to be bi or only oral bi ie hubby can suck me .

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

I’m always on the lookout for a nice couple

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By *laireAlanMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

We don't have a 'soft barrier' but maybe we should! The amount of guys who disappear on the verge of meeting or come up with amazing excuses (we've had breakdowns, car crashes, ill children, ill parents) - amazing how it all happens within 15 minutes of a meet!!

On the other hand we've also met some great guys! But now resigned to the fact that the majority of guys who message have no intention of meeting (we've find that if they ask "exactly what would we do?" then they're invariably just after wank fodder!!)

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Simply because of the abusive, insulting and time wasting messages from single men we blocked them. We aren't against meeting single men at all. However too many on here have ruined it for others.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Depressing reads from those of you who still like single men but....that’s the sad name of the game

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

"We don't have a 'soft barrier' but maybe we should! The amount of guys who disappear on the verge of meeting or come up with amazing excuses (we've had breakdowns, car crashes, ill children, ill parents) - amazing how it all happens within 15 minutes of a meet!!

Yep, this happened to us a lot in our early days on here. Even had a guy who'd we'd been chatting to for a couple of months who we invited round to meet at nearby pub, text to say "on my way". Never to be heard from again. Until he signed up, contacted us, vanished multiple times. So now, going to a club is our best bet and even then we won't necessarily arrange to meet anyone there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block single guys quite simply because of the time wasters and straight guys only interested in Vic who claim to be "curious". We love a mmf, but we will find the guys ourselves. Saves so much time deleting messages!

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By *orovoyeurMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

Just thought I would say, I had a look at your profile and that set of pics is absolutely superb - hot as hell !

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I dedicate the following video to those of you couples who like a c t u a l bisexual blokes.

I am the top one...later on, I become the bottom as well. Enjoy xx

https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/__marius/video/c73955da-aaf0-4c99-911f-b370ed53e236

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

Just thought I would say, I had a look at your profile and that set of pics is absolutely superb - hot as hell !

....Thank you Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simply because of the abusive, insulting and time wasting messages from single men we blocked them. We aren't against meeting single men at all. However too many on here have ruined it for others. "

This is very true for us also

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/__marius/video/c73955da-aaf0-4c99-911f-b370ed53e236

I am the bottom and later on I become the top. We are being filmed by his wife. Hopefully, more videos like this will be created in the future. xx

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

We used to accept messages from guys but on 4 occasions we had made arrangements to meet them in a bar but they all let us down 2 guys we did meet said they were bi but were only saying that so they could meet Jess

Now we message the guys who we want to meet and have had some great nights

It’s a pity the few f—k it up for the genuine guys

Also we have met some great guys at clubs on bi nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We used to accept messages from guys but on 4 occasions we had made arrangements to meet them in a bar but they all let us down 2 guys we did meet said they were bi but were only saying that so they could meet Jess

Now we message the guys who we want to meet and have had some great nights

It’s a pity the few f—k it up for the genuine guys

Also we have met some great guys at clubs on bi nights

I agree, it’s a shame as there are some genuine bi guys out there

I’m one and definitely enjoy the cock action in equal measures

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/__marius/video/c73955da-aaf0-4c99-911f-b370ed53e236

I am the bottom and later on I become the top. We are being filmed by his wife. Hopefully, more videos like this will be created in the future. xx"

Truely fantastic videos

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/__marius/video/c73955da-aaf0-4c99-911f-b370ed53e236

I am the bottom and later on I become the top. We are being filmed by his wife. Hopefully, more videos like this will be created in the future. xx

Truely fantastic videos"

Just a couple of humble videos made by the help of a lovely couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mostly go to Bi Nights regularly to get the 'Bi Male Fix'. Very rarely we will open our profile to single guys, but they MUST be Bi.

With a MF couple we are happy to play any which way everyone is comfortable with. BDCAW Xx

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/__marius/video/c73955da-aaf0-4c99-911f-b370ed53e236

I am the bottom and later on I become the top. We are being filmed by his wife. Hopefully, more videos like this will be created in the future. xx

Truely fantastic videos

Just a couple of humble videos made by the help of a lovely couple x

I would love to have been fucked like that. Did hubby cum in your mouth? I love swallowing hubbys cum in front of his wife.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/__marius/video/c73955da-aaf0-4c99-911f-b370ed53e236

I am the bottom and later on I become the top. We are being filmed by his wife. Hopefully, more videos like this will be created in the future. xx

Truely fantastic videos

Just a couple of humble videos made by the help of a lovely couple x

I would love to have been fucked like that. Did hubby cum in your mouth? I love swallowing hubbys cum in front of his wife."

There was no cum but it felt fucking amazing when he was fucking me on my back and we were both playing with the Mrs.

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/__marius/video/c73955da-aaf0-4c99-911f-b370ed53e236

I am the bottom and later on I become the top. We are being filmed by his wife. Hopefully, more videos like this will be created in the future. xx

Truely fantastic videos

Just a couple of humble videos made by the help of a lovely couple x

I would love to have been fucked like that. Did hubby cum in your mouth? I love swallowing hubbys cum in front of his wife.

There was no cum but it felt fucking amazing when he was fucking me on my back and we were both playing with the Mrs.

That would be so hot especially with a second cock in my mouth.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Gosh...in the spirit of the Coronavirus boredom, I managed to unearth this thread.....

If any couples are interested, would you like to share here in the thread, or privately by email, what were the circumstances under which you discovered that a guy you both fancied was not that ‘bi’ after all? Don’t name names obviously, just describe the situation?

I am interested in your experiences. X

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber

"Simply because of the abusive, insulting and time wasting messages from single men we blocked them. We aren't against meeting single men at all. However too many on here have ruined it for others. "

This is the same for us also, single bi male is our favourite combination, but after being let down a few times on the trot, and the vast amount of stupid one line messages, we now tend to stick to bi couples; but still looking.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Simply because of the abusive, insulting and time wasting messages from single men we blocked them. We aren't against meeting single men at all. However too many on here have ruined it for others.

What about what I said right above? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us there are a couple of things. Too many time wasters where we have made arrangements to meet and then ghosted!

Also Az has a fantasy of seing Jasmine with another man and Jasmine has a fantasy of seeing Az with another woman. As we're also bi-curious other bi-couples are always at the top of the list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a gen single nice bi guy this is a depressing read but fully understand where couples are coming from

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Depressing reading indeed, and I must admit I have been an eye witness to how some of us ‘bi’ blokes were actually not that ‘bi’, but that was only my circumstances and I’m interested in other people’s experiences as well, so please guys. Anybody who reads this, feel free to send a private email or reply here on the thread. I’m just curious to know how unpleasant or how awkward the circumstances were when you discovered that a guy was actually straight or not very bi x

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By *ony 529Man
over a year ago

coventry

Perhaps this isn’t the same thing but I have so many straight guys messaging me wanting to meet up yet their profile says straight ... go figure !!!! Even though my profile says I only meet couples so I do understand why so many couples blank single males

. So what I say is if you’re not bi then why waste peoples time

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Genuine bi male here, looking for a couple or couples when all this awful times blow over, happy to chat so come say hi if interested, have experience with other couples, non pushy clean man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shame no one from Scotland

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"shame no one from Scotland"

You’re straight.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shame no one from Scotland

You’re straight.....x"

We are all straight at one point in time

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Having read the posts on here it’s made me a little sad and hopeless that I will achieve a mmf without going to a club. I’m reluctant to go to clubs due to my own anxieties and not having someone to go with so I joined fab. Then it turns out that fab is full of guys who abuse n time waste ruining things for the genuine ones. And it’s not just those looking for bi guys. I read it on another thread yesterday about guys being abusive on here. Sad really and clearly pathetic losers with more issues than hello magazine. If any of the couples on here would like to chat then feel free to message me. I am a nice guy and genuine. I won’t give you crap and I won’t waste your time n I won’t be ghosting anyone.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"shame no one from Scotland

You’re straight.....x

We are all straight at one point in time

The whole point of quite a few fully bisexual MF couples in this website is men who say ‘straight’ on the profile but try to approach a fully bi couple for a threesome....

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"shame no one from Scotland

You’re straight.....x

We are all straight at one point in time

The whole point of quite a few fully bisexual MF couples in this website is men who say ‘straight’ on the profile but try to approach a fully bi couple for a threesome...."

A fitting example of what everyone has been saying. It’s nice to have a case study to show what people mean during a chat thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find people sending abuse on here very strange. I hear it a lot from people I chat to .

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By *artinbobMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I find people sending abuse on here very strange. I hear it a lot from people I chat to ."

I’ve heard a lot recently too and theirs clearly been an increase in the last few days is what I’m picking up. Very sad

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"I find people sending abuse on here very strange. I hear it a lot from people I chat to .

I’ve heard a lot recently too and theirs clearly been an increase in the last few days is what I’m picking up. Very sad "

It is; I was an arsehole to a couple whom I really like actually...I swiftly regretted it though and I apologised with all my honesty.

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By *ay.81Man
over a year ago

I love bi mmf fun if anyone’s keen then give me a shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately too many single men are either too pushy by far the second they get a response or simply just rude or don't read the profile.

We opened our filters last month and it was a nightmare even for just a week.

The best one we had was a straight guy telling us he wanted to come round and show Jane what a real man was like because apparently I wasnt.

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By *entleman4MMFMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Unfortunately too many single men are either too pushy by far the second they get a response or simply just rude or don't read the profile.

We opened our filters last month and it was a nightmare even for just a week.

The best one we had was a straight guy telling us he wanted to come round and show Jane what a real man was like because apparently I wasnt."

Ha ha he sounds like a sexual genius

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Unfortunately too many single men are either too pushy by far the second they get a response or simply just rude or don't read the profile.

We opened our filters last month and it was a nightmare even for just a week.

The best one we had was a straight guy telling us he wanted to come round and show Jane what a real man was like because apparently I wasnt."

I really don’t understand what people get from saying things like that...I remember chatting to a bloke of an MF couple who wanted a “bull” for the “cuckold” hubby. Even when a husband is a “cuckold sub” he is still the r e a l man of a MF couple and it is an honour to be allowed inside the intimacy of a couple.

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber

"Gosh...in the spirit of the Coronavirus boredom, I managed to unearth this thread.....

I am interested in your experiences. X"

Fortunately we have never encountered this, which is probably due to prior communication and establishing boundaries.

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By *ock and tailCouple
over a year ago

Wexford

We both love bi guys and we've been very lucky to have met some wonderful guys on here. As long as it says bi on their profile. Of course we've been let down occasionally but who hasn't ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for us - bi nights work best for us as we like MMF play

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Gosh...in the spirit of the Coronavirus boredom, I managed to unearth this thread.....

I am interested in your experiences. X

Fortunately we have never encountered this, which is probably due to prior communication and establishing boundaries."

I tried to reply privately to you because I didn't want to "air dirty laundry" in the forum but I couldn't, due to your filters x

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I don’t know about anybody else but I find myself being quite humbled when I get approached by couples who have liked something in my profile and then they contact me about a future meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love Bi couples and I have been lucky on the odd occasion in the past to have fun with a few couples. Once the virus crazy times have past I hope to meet more.No two couple have been the same. The power dynamics are different every time. Sometimes the lady is fully in charge and it's a more cuckold, humiliation scene, sometimes it's the other way round. Sometimes it's just do whatever to whom ever. I enjoy them all

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We'd love an evening of another bi couple and 1 or 2 extra bi guys for fun and frolic.

Can't wait for this isolation to be over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't wait for this isolation to be over"

How many months has it been going on for now? It seems like 6 ha ha.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

For us, it was being bombarded by messages from guys that had clearly not read our profile. As in, they weren’t willing to travel or have the first meet as a ‘social only’ experience. That coupled with the fact that even those that were cool with a social, then went on to mess us about when trying to pin them down for a date, then constantly postponing and cancelling.

All of this left us pretty jaded when it came to single guys, that’s why we prefer to do the searching on our terms.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I posted my last post on this thread as a genuine reaction to the fact that I get approached by MF couples who are expressing positive comments on my videos (on other sites) and even expressing the wish to have been able to meet me hypothetically.

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

I love joining couples for fun

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"I posted my last post on this thread as a genuine reaction to the fact that I get approached by MF couples who are expressing positive comments on my videos (on other sites) and even expressing the wish to have been able to meet me hypothetically.

Back to the original topic of my thread though, some of my thoughts are that for SOME of us bi guys (myself included), bi couples are our unicorns. And maybe some of us bi guys are unicorns for some bi couples. It's a shame to see that connection wasted xx "
GENUINE Bi guys are hard to find ,Bi curious doesnt cut it with us ,our location doesnt help ,but when we find them its worth the effort ..

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

fully bi cpls there hard 2 find on here but single guys i think there is to many that why thay only meet cpls

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"shame no one from Scotland

You’re straight.....x

We are all straight at one point in time

Ha! Speak for yourself lol, some of us have never been straight a day in our lives!

On the topic of the thread, I find it very interesting that people are describing meeting “bi” men who turn out not to be when the chips are down. I had no idea that was a problem on here, though I’m obviously all too aware of the problem of “curious” women who aren’t actually bi and are only doing it for their partner’s benefit. My guess would be that it’s either “curious” men who bottle it when confronted with a cock or, possibly more often, guys who pretend to be bi so they can get a meet with a couple, who think it’ll mean they can shag the woman and maybe get oral from the man, but not have to do more than that. Those couples who’ve been in this position, is that roughly it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actively seek bi guys over bi females in couples and singles as hotwife is 100% straight but as mirrored above find it difficult to find bi guys who meet . Most guys who message have straight on their profile but we read their verifications to see if they have met with couples who have a bi guy or even single bi guys ... unfortunately most havnt .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shame no one from Scotland

You’re straight.....x

We are all straight at one point in time

Ha! Speak for yourself lol, some of us have never been straight a day in our lives!

You’ve hit the nail on the head there xx

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

The situation from MY humble subjective perspective is this. As opposed to other bisexual men who prefer women, I am a fully bisexual man who prefers men. I love sex with a woman but men are my element.

During a sexual encounter with a woman, my cock get easily get rock-hard and there will be vaginal intercourse; I don't "need" the visual presence of a man in order to get my dick hard with a woman, to explain it in crass, layman's terms. I LOVE the presence of a man and his wife/girlfriend because having the two of them to myself, is what makes swinging what it is, if people are getting my draft Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think finding bi couples is slim and bi guys who we are both attracted too are slim aswell. We have put many meets up on fab for a Sunday to meet a single guy and it’s amazing how quiet it goes on a Sunday.

We prefer bi club events it’s not always viable for us but meeting bi guys who are genuine and nice is even harder on here. Plus it’s amazing how many fit discrete bi guys go to clubs x

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"We think finding bi couples is slim and bi guys who we are both attracted too are slim aswell. We have put many meets up on fab for a Sunday to meet a single guy and it’s amazing how quiet it goes on a Sunday.

We prefer bi club events it’s not always viable for us but meeting bi guys who are genuine and nice is even harder on here. Plus it’s amazing how many fit discrete bi guys go to clubs x"

How about those of us who are nice and average-looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys are the biggest flakes on here by far when it comes to meeting couples. The thought always seems more appealing in their head and then when it comes to reconcile having to actually do it they realise it's very different in reality. Plus we rarely find any we are both attracted to because most guys who are bi on here are a bit too 'straight acting'

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Guys are the biggest flakes on here by far when it comes to meeting couples. The thought always seems more appealing in their head and then when it comes to reconcile having to actually do it they realise it's very different in reality. Plus we rarely find any we are both attracted to because most guys who are bi on here are a bit too 'straight acting' "

I cannot speak for anybody here except for myself; my legs always turn to jelly before I meet a MF couple and I always get my intestines on a knot, but I have never allowed myself to back out from an arranged meet. I wouldn't dream of it. As for how attractive I am, no comment lol x

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By *j321Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

On the other hand we've also met some great guys! But now resigned to the fact that the im over your age range message have no intention of meeting (we've find that if they ask "exactly what would we do?" then they're invariably just after wank fodder!!) "
I' over your age range shame

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

If any fully bisexual MF couples are interested in chatting and getting to know other fully bisexual MF couples and maybe a few select singles, please see my status and--if you want--contact me privately.

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

Ever since this pandemic hit, I've noticed that I've gotten a bit more interest from bi couples. My inbox isn't overflowing but just a uptick. Looking forward to meeting them once this is all over

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By *eachyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Events as advertised …

Clubs are just easier.

Chameleons Bi Night was amazing.

Bi couples and singles everywhere. Open play. No hang ups.

We will go again.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Clubs are just easier.

Chameleons Bi Night was amazing.

Bi couples and singles everywhere. Open play. No hang ups.

We will go again.

So you two travel significantly long distances for a good night out then?

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By *eachyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Events as advertised …

Yes. We travel all over the UK. We pick specific nights and then stay locally. It’s hard to arrange. But fun when we do it. 4 times a year. And so .... Clubs are the answer. When someone doesn’t turn up there are other options.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Yes. We travel all over the UK. We pick specific nights and then stay locally. It’s hard to arrange. But fun when we do it. 4 times a year. And so .... Clubs are the answer. When someone doesn’t turn up there are other options. "

Would you ever be interested in private house parties at all?

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

I love joining couples for MMF fun. Always better to all share each other xx

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

No barriers here. Single men are our bread and butter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo the right idea

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I've replied to a couple of you privately. Watch this space x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're obviously one of the good ones then

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

The thing to remember, that most people forget is there are a lot of guys on here who have partners.

They come here to chat and have no interest in meeting anyone.

So if they do get a response for someone, they are simply playing games.

2nd a lot of guys are just trying their luck. So if a couple showes interest in them they will play along thinging its "worth a try" in the hopes that the female will be impressed and will say yet to meeting along.

But true a few men reuine it for the rest of the genuine people in here.

Being a Dom I get far too many. Messages from single guys "just trying their luck" "though I owuld just ask in case you change your mind" no one reads profiles they just go head in first.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Love a good bi mfm

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

2 reasons for us:

1) We would prefer a couple

2) We are suspicious of single guys who say they're bi.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"2 reasons for us:

1) We would prefer a couple

2) We are suspicious of single guys who say they're bi. "
you know im bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single bi men are our primary focus. Couples are great and we’ve has some real fun with them but the bi mmf dynamic is horniest for us really.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

You're obviously one of the good ones then

For me, fully bi MF couples are my unicorns. Simple as. I don't shun single women or single men, if you carefully see the minutiae of my profile. It's just that fun with both sexes at the same time is the kinkiness I love, and also I seek to be friends with them.

So, while I will always be a nervous "wreck" before meeting a MF couple privately or at a club, I would never back down from meeting them.

Whether or not I am one of the good ones, I couldn't judge. It's down to the people who will take the plunge to meet me at a club or a house to make that judgement

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Single bi men are our primary focus. Couples are great and we’ve has some real fun with them but the bi mmf dynamic is horniest for us really. "

Alas, my age is outside of your filters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single bi men are our primary focus. Couples are great and we’ve has some real fun with them but the bi mmf dynamic is horniest for us really.

Alas, my age is outside of your filters xx"

Yes, I’m afraid so. Thanks for the thought though.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Single bi men are our primary focus. Couples are great and we’ve has some real fun with them but the bi mmf dynamic is horniest for us really.

Alas, my age is outside of your filters xx

Yes, I’m afraid so. Thanks for the thought though."

Well, age is literally just a number for me so, I'm available if you choose to xx

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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Simply because of the abusive, insulting and time wasting messages from single men we blocked them. We aren't against meeting single men at all. However too many on here have ruined it for others.

Pity others have spoilt it for the genuine bi guys who enjoy meeting couples. Been very fortunate to have previously had a regular meet with a bi MF it was the best of both worlds.

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

Genuine single bi nudist here, like a lot have previously said the majority spoilt it for the minority. I have most of my meets at clubs on bi nights, usually have fun but go with no expectations so anything is a bonus. If anyone wants to chat maybe meet after Covid then get in touch. Jim

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Be nice to meet some kinky bi couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to meet a couple I can tick a few boxes with. I’ll be honest. Never been with a couple before and want to explore my bi side. Again completely new to me. I’d love for a couple to take me under there wing and show me a good time. It’s strange 6 months ago I would never had thought about Men, but the thought of been with both at the same time is too much a turn on.

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

fun cpl wood love 2 meet you 2

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

any one on here in mmf ever fuck the girl and the guy fuck you same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you get gr8 messages from single guys like you are time wasters but then can describe exactly the jacket me (Mouse) was wearing while we waited for the single guy, or that they don't understand that we don't play with "single" married people.. therefore fall back clubs, but that may be ending as many clubs wont reopen because lack of money ??????

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We enjoy meeting single bi men but generally swap messages a bit longer than we would a couple we often find after chatting a while all the weird ones get ed out

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Thank you to the MF couples for your continuous replies. I do appreciate people's insights.

Like I've said probably somewhere above on the thread, I sympathise that you couples feel that a club is basically the only place where you feel you can meet up with people and really test if somebody is all they have made out to be via the cyberspace. If you meet a guy at a club and he turns out to be an idiot, at least you can put your towels/clothes back on and get back to the bar area to look for somebody else to chat and flirt with.

Whereas if you have arranged to meet somebody specifically at a hotel room/your own place/ or even a non-swinger pub and they don't show up or they turn out to be a dickhead in a private setting, it can be quite unpleasant.

(Am I thinking along the right lines? You tell me.)

As far as I am concerned, I AM willing to meet some of my favourite couples (some of whom are in this thread) in a club.

I will not speak for any other man in here but from my subjective point of view, my reluctance to go to a club sometimes stems from this:

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"Thank you to the MF couples for your continuous replies. I do appreciate people's insights.

(Am I thinking along the right lines? You tell me.)

As far as I am concerned, I AM willing to meet some of my favourite couples (some of whom are in this thread) in a club.

I will not speak for any other man in here but from my subjective point of view, my reluctance to go to a club sometimes stems from this:

I want to sit down with a couple I like and chat to them for a good while and get to know them and let them know me and I'm not sure that I could do that in a swingers' club with 50+ other people...maybe I am thinking along some wrong lines but if I do, I am not doing it out of any nasty conviction. x"
We dont do clubs for various reasons ,so chats then a chat social meet to see we all click and get on are the way for us and apart from the odd no show its worked really well for us ,a turn up and get to it meet are NOT for us a connection even a small one is the only way or no meet ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you to the MF couples for your continuous replies. I do appreciate people's insights.

(Am I thinking along the right lines? You tell me.)

As far as I am concerned, I AM willing to meet some of my favourite couples (some of whom are in this thread) in a club.

I will not speak for any other man in here but from my subjective point of view, my reluctance to go to a club sometimes stems from this:

Swinger clubs are social places...you can chat and laugh in a club (most); just like a bar or a pub.. But as you yourself just said if the guy/girl/cpl are not to the others taste all can walk away and still enjoy an evening... In a hotel or at home on a 1st meet that can turn messy and many areput off on that...

That isnt only for single guys but also some cpls who turn up staggering over doorstep too d*unk or out of their heads on something...Then try and get them out of your home...

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By *usty KnightMan
over a year ago

Istanbul

I agree Clubs are recommended as you get the social in a relaxed atmosphere and anything else is a bonus. I have entertained couples on non bi nights too.

Look forward to supporting the best clubs with a tour when it’s safe to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bi m couples, always the best fun to be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block single guys quite simply because of the time wasters and straight guys only interested in Vic who claim to be "curious"."

Wouldn't even dream of doing that

Does make it difficult if you really are curious and not yet certain where your boundaries are - is there anything curious single guys can do other than be honest about it and let couples decide for themselves?

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

"We block single guys quite simply because of the time wasters and straight guys only interested in Vic who claim to be "curious".

Wouldn't even dream of doing that

How not experiment with a guy and find your boundaries first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya, we're a fully bi married couple, our problem is finding a guy/girl who we both have a connection with, we do chat to single guys but never amounts to much tbh. Lots of cam wankers, and want to chat dirty idiots, in both couples and singles. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking to meet a couple I can tick a few boxes with. I’ll be honest. Never been with a couple before and want to explore my bi side. Again completely new to me. I’d love for a couple to take me under there wing and show me a good time. It’s strange 6 months ago I would never had thought about Men, but the thought of been with both at the same time is too much a turn on. "

You see for us that's where a problem arises, I don't think most couples want to play with guys wanting to try so to speak, as we have had guys in past say this, when all they are doing is trying to shag the fem part of the couple. Men tend to be a lot more devious in their descriptions of themselves. We have a rule, if profile says straight, we don't read message, just block and delete. Saves u lots of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simply because of the abusive, insulting and time wasting messages from single men we blocked them. We aren't against meeting single men at all. However too many on here have ruined it for others. "

Fully agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day, can a single really be a swinger? In our opinion no.

Majority of singles in here, just want a hook up, there's tinder for that lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gosh...in the spirit of the Coronavirus boredom, I managed to unearth this thread.....

I am interested in your experiences. X"

Had the opposite, guys turned out to be gay lol

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"At the end of the day, can a single really be a swinger? In our opinion no.

Majority of singles in here, just want a hook up, there's tinder for that lol. X"

Welcome to the thread and thank you for your contribution. I am genuinely sorry if you two--like some of your fellow MF couples in the thread--have been subjected to multiple disappointments by single men.

However, I will both agree and disagree with you on a couple of points you have made.

First of all, I agree honestly with the attitude: "Why do you need to meet an MF couple to explore your bisexuality? If you want to explore it, meet another man on a 1-to-1 basis."

It's like my profile; if you read the minutiae of my profile carefully, you'll see that even though I do not often seek singles of either sex, I do not exclude them. I will gladly meet them under the right circumstances.

So, to repeat an earlier point I had made, I will gladly exercise my reverse bisexuality with a woman on a 1-to-1 basis (since I prefer men) and I don't need the "visual aid" of a man in order to get a hardon with a woman.

But, if I can enjoy a woman and her man together simultaneously, even better for me!

I do disagree that us singles cannot be genuine swingers....(well, to be prefectly honest I am happily partnered and there is no 'cheating' but I do play as solo with MF couples. ) Again, I cannot speak for other men, I can only speak for myself: for me, it is a humbling honour and I feel grateful every time I am invited to join the intimacy of a couple. And I am also humbled when a couple wants to join my intimacy and have a full-on, no-holds-barred BISEXUAL erotic threeway. For me sex with a husband and his wife are good, but after the sex is gone, I will be seeking their friendship out of the bedroom as well. I don't want you, BI MF couples for a mindless shag and blowing steam. So, those of you watching this thread, you've been warned x

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Would you ever be interested in private house parties at all?"

Nothing like chancing your arm. Desperate.Com

Lol

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Would you ever be interested in private house parties at all?

Nothing like chancing your arm. Desperate.Com

Lol"

Thank you for your contribution; if that was intended AGAINST me, let me tell you that I HAVE hosted a swingers' house party and I will continue to host more in the future, health and money permitting and let me tell you, I had a fantastic time with bisexuals whom I didn't even get the chance to touch sexually. Best wishes to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How not experiment with a guy and find your boundaries first?"

Yes I agree that you should make clear what your boundaries are first, what you are willing to try, even if you're unsure yet whether it's something you'd like.

If you meant I should experiment with a single guy and not a couple first then I think this is confusing someone who is a) unsure if their sexuality is bisexual with b) someone who thinks that they might enjoy bi-play as a kink with a woman they're attracted to.

My suggestion is that by not being clear about whether bi-curious means bi-sexual or bi-kinky, couples are being disappointed. If, like me, it's a kink, then there's no interest just meeting other guys. Some might say that's just not owning up to being bisexual, but I think that misunderstands what kinks are about.

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

any nice bi cpls in here up 4 a chat

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Maybe though....just maybe...it might actually be down to some guys' not being able to face up to their bisexuality. WHY does one need the "visual aid" of a woman in order to get sexual with a guy??? If you can't get sexual with another guy who likes cock, if another woman is not present then how about staying away from bi guys altogether?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever since this pandemic hit, I've noticed that I've gotten a bit more interest from bi couples. My inbox isn't overflowing but just a uptick. Looking forward to meeting them once this is all over

We’re looking forward to meeting you too xxx

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Ever since this pandemic hit, I've noticed that I've gotten a bit more interest from bi couples. My inbox isn't overflowing but just a uptick. Looking forward to meeting them once this is all over

We’re looking forward to meeting you too xxx"

I know I’m far but what about me?? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet a bi mf couple and I can understand the frustration that couples get from an apparently bi guy but in fact he is only trying to get his hands on the woman. I personally have had experience of both sexes separately would love to have both at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is slightly off topic but get a lot of messages from guys who say straight on their profile but actually are bi.

Does the bi thing put some women off

Asking for a friend lol

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"This is slightly off topic but get a lot of messages from guys who say straight on their profile but actually are bi.

Does the bi thing put some women off

Asking for a friend lol "
We get this 98% of the time ,they say it puts people of ,but if they are really bi ,genuine bi couples WILL be interested ,some want best of both worlds or just want to get to female

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"This is slightly off topic but get a lot of messages from guys who say straight on their profile but actually are bi.

Does the bi thing put some women off

Asking for a friend lol "

I don’t know obviously...but then, if it DOES put some women off that some of us are bi, then maybe they are not the kind of women we should be going for. Just like the couples who don’t like bi men are not the couples we should be going for.

Then again, I love how some men put ‘straight’ on their profile in order not to put women and couples off but then publicise on a whole forum thread that they are ‘actually bi’......

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over a year ago

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By *sa JaneWoman
over a year ago

Cumbria

I have a male bi friend and we were looking for a bi guy to join us for some fun. I put an ad up and within minutes was inundated with responses.. interestingly so many 'straight' guys applied.

I know at least 4 bi guys who state they are straight on their profiles - I think they think they will put off some females - not me

Lol ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what we like to hear

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By *isa21TV/TS
over a year ago

Ash Vale

I personally am bi and more Interested in play with the male and turning on the female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally am bi and more Interested in play with the male and turning on the female "

pity we weren't closer

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"I personally am bi and more Interested in play with the male and turning on the female

pity we weren't closer "

Tell me about it!!!

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By *isa21TV/TS
over a year ago

Ash Vale

Everyone is always to far ??

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"Everyone is always to far ??"

Always the bloody case. But, I have been known to get a train all the way to London to meet couples.....even if there’s no sex involved

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By *andl101Couple
over a year ago

Reigate

I don't think single bi men are necessarily second best to a couple in our opinion, it's not something we have explored yet but another bi couple just seems to be the ideal match for everybody involved. We are mainly interested in the FF MM experience as it's what turns us on the most, but we wouldn't rule out having a MMF threesome because of that.

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

"I don't think single bi men are necessarily second best to a couple in our opinion, it's not something we have explored yet but another bi couple just seems to be the ideal match for everybody involved. We are mainly interested in the FF MM experience as it's what turns us on the most, but we wouldn't rule out having a MMF threesome because of that."

Also, to expand on my private reply, let's put another scenario. Would I enjoy a MMMM with my man and another gay couple? Absolutely I would. That however under no circumstances means that a nice MF couple would be second best, for me, to a MM couple. It all depends on how much I like the people I come into contact with. x

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I would like to ask a question and I am addressing it to those of you MF couples who love a bi MMF as much as you love a bi MMFF, NOT to the couples who prefer bi MF couples over bi men...(I am not being obnoxious, it's just that I am interested to know the insights of a specific sub-group...)

So, you are obviously disappointed when the male who has courted you online shows up and turns out to not be not quite as bisexual as you expected.

But, what happens when you meet another bi MF couple and, say, the male of the other couple or even the female of the other couple turns out to be not quite as bi as they were telling you online (or at least before the 'chips are down' in the room)?

Are you equally disappointed as you would be with a not-so-bi male? Or is there no disappointment at all?

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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

options - we both crave cock the most! We do find guys reluctant to meet us in clubs though so find ourselves with a bit of a catch 22 situation. Our compromise has been to opt for bi nights at clubs but persevere on fab with those who will join us at an event. "

Wish I was younger. Both look good

Kindest regards

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

We meet bi guys bi fems and bi couples

We find a lot of time wasting guys to who don’t show or pull out of the meet 15 mins before the arranged time one even saying there mother had died

Then try to arrange a meet again the next day ffs and guys wonder why they get the rough end of the pineapple from couples sometimes

We never in 30 years of swinging had a bi couple or female cancel a meet 15 mins before you work it out guys

Just look at the numbers we don’t even answer straight guys anymore to many dickheads I believe fab should charge all guys to join the site and if they don’t

Meet and get verified in 6 months they delete them

Harsh some would say but it would cut out the idiots looking for wank fodder

??????

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