FabSwingers.com forum: Fake profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

Do you have any good tips on sporting a fake profile please?

We are having a bit us a issue with couples asking for lots of pictures and asking personal details

Thanks x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Good chance they aren't actually couples.

Don't feel pressured into sending pics or answering any questions you aren't comfortable with. Just politely say no & if they can't respect that then block them & move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience,

only answer questions you are comfortable in answering. if you don't want to send a lot of pictures then don't. if they cannot accept that block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve had this a few times. If no veris then don't waste your time

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

If it feels off then just tell them you’re not interested and block or move on.

A flag for us is when the other couple keep asking what we do at meets and what we’d do to the other fem.

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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago

DERBY/Notts border

"Hi all,

Do you have any good tips on sporting a fake profile please?

We are having a bit us a issue with couples asking for lots of pictures and asking personal details

70 % are fake trust know one

Thanks x"

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

From my experience the real meets are the easiest to arrange. When you start having to jump through hoops it isn’t going to happen. I just leave it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Don't give them info and pics unless you want to meet, then I would limit that too. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn how to use Reverse image Search as that will usually give you some answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have no green flag for photo verification or any meet verifications, would be the most obvious sign I would say, that's what I look out for X

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Hi all,

Do you have any good tips on sporting a fake profile please?

We are having a bit us a issue with couples asking for lots of pictures and asking personal details

Thanks x"

Asking for pictures and personal questions are two big red flags

Look for too good to be true and alwsys ask to speak to the fem on the phone before you arrange a meet

Ms Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for your advice, now hopefully we can keep the fakes at bay x

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

The problem with the fake profiles is even if you report them and they get banned they just come back 10 minutes later with a slightly different username - it’s very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Weve had this a few times. If no veris then don't waste your time"

Veris aren’t a guarantee for anything really. Some people have many and choose not to show them, others are successfully meeting and choose not to give or receive them.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I'd put everything on your profile that you're willing to divulge then refer peopleto your profile when they start asking for things. When they want pics or meet details they are wanking usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask 4a live pic 2b sent on sc.... Then if they don't, u no they're fake

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Learn how to use Reverse image Search as that will usually give you some answers

This. So much this!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Don't engage in dirty chat,

Many are only after getting themselves off ,so don't send loads of naughty pics either.

Chat a while and then arrange a social ,those who are genuine will be happy to do this.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I always ask 4a live pic 2b sent on sc.... Then if they don't, u no they're fake"

I'd disagree with that. We don't send live pics for our own reasons and we're not fake. Not sure what sc is though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One veri not showing is normally a red flag for us, too much chat and no firm meet set up is another, the chance of meeting actually diminishes the longer you chat with people as they are either dreamers, timewasters or fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always ask 4a live pic 2b sent on sc.... Then if they don't, u no they're fake"

Always think text speak is some teenage/early twenties boy trying to get his kicks, rather then a real couple or single fem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always ask 4a live pic 2b sent on sc.... Then if they don't, u no they're fake"

We would never agree to a snapchat pic. If that's a deal breaker so be it. It doesn't mean we're fake. I think our profile has enough to show that we're real without giving a total stranger access to us on an app that can then link to our friends, family and other apps we use for non-Fab activities

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I always ask 4a live pic 2b sent on sc.... Then if they don't, u no they're fake"

What's sc? Is that an app off site? I have no desire to take things off site to prove I'm not fake, my veris speak for themselves, if people don't believe them then I'd rather not meet them anyway. Does that mean I'm fake?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I always ask 4a live pic 2b sent on sc.... Then if they don't, u no they're fake

It's snapchat. And I agree, when people start asking me to jump through hoops I lose interest fast.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the longer you chat with people as they are either dreamers, timewasters or fake"

We thought that chatting for a couple of days was a good way to get to know someone, so what would you say is too long when it comes up chatting?

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I always ask 4a live pic 2b sent on sc.... Then if they don't, u no they're fake

Always think text speak is some teenage/early twenties boy trying to get his kicks, rather then a real couple or single fem x"

I tend to fall into txt speak later in the day when I’m tired wish I was a teenager though lol

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"One veri not showing is normally a red flag for us, too much chat and no firm meet set up is another, the chance of meeting actually diminishes the longer you chat with people as they are either dreamers, timewasters or fake"

Some veris don't show if the person leaving it has since deleted their account. It's a bad system though, as it could be because the person is hiding a bad review, which I presume is what you're alluding to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always ask 4a live pic 2b sent on sc.... Then if they don't, u no they're fake

I'd disagree with that. We don't send live pics for our own reasons and we're not fake. Not sure what sc is though."

We are the same, no live pictures from us, all our pics are up-to-date so don't see why we should send them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get so many..I've stopped sending pics

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I never see a problem with asking a few questions, though it depends how personal you mean.

As for photos. I dont share until I am comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are struggling so much too! Seem to find a decent lead to a meet, nice chat full of compliments and then they disappear! So bizarre. Is it something we said?! xx

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By *ockleshellWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If they are supposed to be a couple just watch what they write example " I want to do this or that" also if they ask for photos that's a give away plus i always say no i don't give out photos unless i have met someone not until then.

Or another tip is i wont meet just one it has to be both,

Or if they done have pictures of both female or male body parts but then they can nick of other peoples.

Also must have green flag.

If they are requesting to see your friends only pictures then that's a give away.

Hope you get sorted out.

Kind regards SLUT Michelle xx

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I've had a few lately where only the man is available. When I ask to see the woman or wait for a meet with both, the suddenly disappear... strange that...

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

"I always ask 4a live pic 2b sent on sc.... Then if they don't, u no they're fake

Always think text speak is some teenage/early twenties boy trying to get his kicks, rather then a real couple or single fem x"

I use abbreviated txt 2 but im defo a 35yr old woman lol

Maybe couples think that of me or would my veris dissolve that opinion?

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By *ueen CatWoman
over a year ago

fife

"If they are supposed to be a couple just watch what they write example " I want to do this or that" also if they ask for photos that's a give away plus i always say no i don't give out photos unless i have met someone not until then.

Or another tip is i wont meet just one it has to be both,

Or if they done have pictures of both female or male body parts but then they can nick of other peoples.

Also must have green flag.

If they are requesting to see your friends only pictures then that's a give away.

Hope you get sorted out.

Kind regards SLUT Michelle xx"

This is a difficult 1 as i hav tried the whole not giving pics or 2 much info and alot couples think im a time waster...

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

"Hi all,

Do you have any good tips on sporting a fake profile please?

We are having a bit us a issue with couples asking for lots of pictures and asking personal details

Thanks x"

Trust your instincts and you won't go far wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it’s a red flag when the male half tries to divide ie; tries to just talk to me (V) and engage me in sexual innuendo. I do most of the messaging on our account and it becomes fairly obvious quite quickly when a couples account is in fact just a male.

We never take messaging off Fab and don’t give out a number until we have met a couple. Even then it’s a SIM card that we use solely for here and not our personal numbers.

Fab is a real learning curve.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmmmm No verifications or all hidden (not always fake) been on the site over 12 months with no verifications or with one which is hidden, erm the ones who dive in with a friends request for a wank, the ones who talk filth from the start and the screenshots profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way to be sure is to arrange a meet

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Couple of brief chats in messages then arrange a social in a safe public place. They will either shut up or show up.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Hi all,

Do you have any good tips on sporting a fake profile please?

We are having a bit us a issue with couples asking for lots of pictures and asking personal details

Thanks x"

We "mostly" just stick to verified accounts that have at least a couple of meet verifications that are relatively recent.

Not saying there are not legitimate newbie accounts on here (there are) but those are always a judgement call. Thankfully we have been lucky in that regard.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I've just seen one with Kim K as the profile picture. With 70+ likes

Some things are obviously not real people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How about people with no verifications (no green flags) but have been on the site for over a year?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just seen one with Kim K as the profile picture. With 70+ likes

Some things are obviously not real people "

There was one pic that was high up in the likes that was a guy with a fat cock fucking another guy... quick image Search and it was from a professional gay porn site lol. I really don't know why people lie, because if you do meet them, you are likely going to be disappointed.....

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By *pecialK88Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"How about people with no verifications (no green flags) but have been on the site for over a year? "

I would just avoid these people as even if they are real they have no intention of meeting.

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Reverse image search is a great thing! Helps you out the fakes!!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Cam chat and phone calls is how i check men are real as they say they are in their profiles. Tbh is it true anyone, there's less fake male profiles than couple or female profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people just need the attention

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By *uckmefackwardsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

It is becoming an increasing, almost daily problem it would seem. This site not only attracts fakes and spammers but is now riddled with them also.

The bit I will just never understand is why they do it. I can see some think it's a way of getting money out of people sometimes but the time wasting one's - just why???

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