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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here a while and just been looking at friends list posts to check if it's ever been asked.

Can't see so apologies if it has.

Question is who if anyone displays their friends list, or may you don't now but there was a time you did?

I've spend a few mins looking at profiles locally and didn't find one.

Would there ever be a reason why you would and if so for what reason?

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I used to, but locked things down once I found out about the feature.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to, but locked things down once I found out about the feature."

Oh I can see that as it's open by default I assume. Like many other features. Guess better for traffic on fab if their all open.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I dont show.... I dont want folk thinking Im Billy No Mates...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I don’t show mine.... I don’t want everyone to know who I’m talking to

Friends list on show = profile stalkers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you'll find love op. Follow your heart

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By *ercedes60Man
over a year ago

waterford

I’d say you have plenty of mates lol ?? hot hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So far no good reason to display it that I can see.

Mine is kept small anyway for a few reasons, mainly only those I meet. So again a reason why I wouldn't display them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not showing them makes fab life easier.

Many users on the site have fab stalkers who look to see who's meeting who and who's friends with who to the point it's unhealthy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you'll find love op. Follow your heart "

???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not showing them makes fab life easier.

Many users on the site have fab stalkers who look to see who's meeting who and who's friends with who to the point it's unhealthy."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope you'll find love op. Follow your heart

???"

Don't overthink it and follow your heart x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you'll find love op. Follow your heart

???

Don't overthink it and follow your heart x"

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn’t even know you could show it x

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I didn’t know about this feature!!

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I've hidden mine.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"Not showing them makes fab life easier.

Many users on the site have fab stalkers who look to see who's meeting who and who's friends with who to the point it's unhealthy."

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I didn’t know about this feature!! "

Just found it and was hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a while and just been looking at friends list posts to check if it's ever been asked.

Can't see so apologies if it has.

Question is who if anyone displays their friends list, or may you don't now but there was a time you did?

I've spend a few mins looking at profiles locally and didn't find one.

Would there ever be a reason why you would and if so for what reason?"
telling others what you do is in the case of a man ungentlemanly and a woman bragging either way not good, keep what you do to yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So still don't have a good reason why. Wonder if a mod would join in to enlighten.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I often see profiles with their friends lists showing. What I wonder is when there is 20 plus - realistically how many of those do they actually chat too and meet ?

My friends list has never been in double figures let alone 20 plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good reason to show them is if you just wanted to let the ladies know what calibre of woman you're dealing with but that would prob go against in you some way when they start comparing themselves & doing the paranoid thing where they don’t feel there good enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A good reason to show them is if you just wanted to let the ladies know what calibre of woman you're dealing with but that would prob go against in you some way when they start comparing themselves & doing the paranoid thing where they don’t feel there good enough

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A good valid point and probably a right conclusion to. Not everyone one thinks the same about standards and calibre either. The paranoid this is very prevalent and not just with ladies.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

People on here read too much into things. I host events & have lots of fab friends as most of them are either club friends or event guests ... but as someone said above, that could be seen as bragging

I don’t see a reason for it, as discretion is a key thing on here; if someone wants to find my profile, it’s not difficult to search. I’m not sure why tracking it down through a third party is needed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it can also be seen as the stakes are too high. The connections that people have can be both a positive in that one looks to be seen to move in certain circles yet conversely one may want to avoid said circles.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

It appears I do display my "friends" list. Never thought about it. Did not realise there was an option...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for contributions. Sometimes the obvious is just that, but the reasons may be different and was wondering if I'd missed a good use in why it's set open and available for display.

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