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By *ntraditionalwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

never had so many poeple insist when messaging me that they have either meet me or spoken to me before. is anyone experiencing this.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

nowhere near you

I've had a few chances try to claim the have met me over the years, I'm sure I've met you tho.. your name seems familiar

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By *ntraditionalwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've had a few chances try to claim the have met me over the years, I'm sure I've met you tho.. your name seems familiar "

its driving me crazy lol i know for a fact ive not meet them and i can tell by the message formats that we havent even spoke before. ive had loads resently

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"never had so many poeple insist when messaging me that they have either meet me or spoken to me before. is anyone experiencing this. "

Yes occasionally.

The last one I received was from a guy who claimed we'd been messaging 6 months previously and I'd promised to meet when I was next local to him, despite the fact he was well outside my preferences!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

It's occasionally something I've had. With the site supporter messaging, I typically notice their prior contact, or see a summary on their profile.

Some may think it helps them to bypass rigorous checks, if they lie.

I always re-evaluate their suitability as I can be fickle, changing my needs.

If they insist on creating new accounts, I'm not particularly forgiving.

Always take the time that you need and be wary of people who claim something that you don't remember. Perhaps they just weren't a brilliant partner too.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

nowhere near you


"I've had a few chances try to claim the have met me over the years, I'm sure I've met you tho.. your name seems familiar

its driving me crazy lol i know for a fact ive not meet them and i can tell by the message formats that we havent even spoke before. ive had loads resently"

They're just trying their luck I'd say

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By *ntraditionalwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

im a wary person at the best of times. on here im extra wary lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many triers on here and off here..

Guards up 24-7

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

Use the private notes function, only fails if they delete their profile and create another! Notes stay even if they change user names

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By *ntraditionalwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"So many triers on here and off here..

Guards up 24-7"

likewise ive always been like that and getting more so the older i get

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By *ntraditionalwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Use the private notes function, only fails if they delete their profile and create another! Notes stay even if they change user names "

used that a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never had so many poeple insist when messaging me that they have either meet me or spoken to me before. is anyone experiencing this. "

We have had a few recently,so I spin them some yarn about where n when we supposedly met.

Probably go too far to be honest,because every single one has blocked us

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By *oundmywaybackWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I actually had this in a club. A man was adamant he ‘had me up the arse’ the previous weekend - he was so sure. In fact he told anyone that walked past, despite me being 100% sure I had never seen him before. It took me saying ‘look I know it could never have happened as I have never had anal in my life’ for him to say maybe he was mistaken

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Perthshire

I've had a couple of messages like this. Claiming we have chatted before a few weeks/months ago, I think they think it will bypass the chit chat stage and accelerate things. It's one of the reasons I use the private notes thing, anyone I chat to to any extent I always make a note, if there's no note we haven't chatted beyond a couple of messages.

Have had another few where they claim we've chatted on their previous profile, usually with a feeble excuse about why they've had to create a new one.

Generally it's all just bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's a new tactic to get mesages back, we've had a few recently and non of the fucker have met us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had it myself and been called Helen by a few guys.

They say we have chatted before and were planning a meet but they are not my type at all.

Seems odd that I’ve been called Helen by 3 guys though (that’s not my name).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get people messaging to say thanks for winking at them when we’ve never even looked at their profile, let alone winked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've have a few, on this profile, as if we know each other. I think it's a new way to prove you into replying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never had so many poeple insist when messaging me that they have either meet me or spoken to me before. is anyone experiencing this. "
yes everyone thinks they know me or have worn me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a couple of times but one was very insistent but would never give his name or face pic lol so added to the blocked list xx

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

I've had quite a few guys say they met me too in clubs I assure them they haven't since the club's they mention I've never been and top it off I've only ever had sex in 1 club and they've been my playmates already with the very small few literally a few who I hadn't met prior to meeting them in the club.

They swear they met me I look just like her. So I think I have a doppelganger or they just pushing their luck assuming that I go to clubs I wouldn't remember who I've fucked and they could just slide in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few... I assume its a way of chatting and to get you to look at their profile...

One guy was adamant he knew me from a bar, in the end i just agreed and said, come over and say hi next time you see me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'll try anything. Desperation.

Mrs

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By *ntraditionalwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Think it's a new tactic to get mesages back, we've had a few recently and non of the fucker have met us "

wont work with me either. i was beginning to think i was going crazy lol

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

What about the possibility your photos have been stolen, and they thought they were chatting to you ?

Having said that therea a lot of chances out there

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"never had so many poeple insist when messaging me that they have either meet me or spoken to me before. is anyone experiencing this. "

Yes they think my name is xyz or they seen me on dating apps etc

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"What about the possibility your photos have been stolen, and they thought they were chatting to you ?

Having said that therea a lot of chances out there "

Definitely not stolen and put on dating apps as nudity isn't allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few... I assume its a way of chatting and to get you to look at their profile...

One guy was adamant he knew me from a bar, in the end i just agreed and said, come over and say hi next time you see me "
i will thankyou

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I dont mean on dating sites I mean here. Weve seen profiles with clearly stolen photos on here.

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By *ntraditionalwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I dont mean on dating sites I mean here. Weve seen profiles with clearly stolen photos on here."

ive seen a photo of me on someone's profile that i wasnt aware of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference "
islington really meet you at the white fox

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Had one a few month ago kept saying he knew me and my husband and he was going to tell him I was on here behind his back. Kept blocking him he kept opening new profiles went on and on for age. Was putting me right off luckily he stopped

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We seem to be getting a lot of people saying, "noticed you took a look at my profile" when we know we didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference "

We change ours all the time, never lived in so many different places

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I get a lot of these messages as well, just people trying their luck most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes. one claimed I was his father's girlfriend

another said they drove past me daily on their way to work (we live opposite ends of a county)

another said i was a carer for their relative

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Lots of people seem to see me driving past them.

I can't drive.

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

New one on me.

I have had the wink, which I politely respond to with a Thank You message and get blocked by the Lady. Confusing.

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By *eanGreyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yep. One guy was insistent that I'd worked with him in Cheltenham. But it's ok, he'll 'keep my secret.'

Never been to Cheltenham, let alone worked there.

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

fairy land

This happens all the time to me and I believe it to be away of some men opening up the conversation , it’s a pity they just can’t be honest and original x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference

We change ours all the time, never lived in so many different places "

Do you notice a difference in messages?? Mine is currently set to Manchester and there is a directness and intensity to them that makes my eyes pop lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference

islington really meet you at the white fox "

Just around the corner.. What time??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference

islington really meet you at the white fox

Just around the corner.. What time?? "
now get a move on my parking ticket runs out in 12 minutes

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Had a couple of messages insisting we had met.

Best one was from an Asian granddad shopkeeper from the midlands who couldn’t remember where we had met.

Was fun for awhile.

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By *ntraditionalwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Im weirdly getting lots of messages from people in a specific region over the last week?? I just changed my location , to see if that makes a difference

We change ours all the time, never lived in so many different places

Do you notice a difference in messages?? Mine is currently set to Manchester and there is a directness and intensity to them that makes my eyes pop lol "

must be a Manchester thing then

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