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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had ONE message like that huh. Now imagine a life of grabbing, overt suggestions, lewd comments, wolf whistles, men calling out about your boobs IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN.

I dont even identify as a feminist

But yes OP- just a bit surprised you didn't know it's like this

A lot of men are very respectful though

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By *rindAndSlamWoman
over a year ago

Bury


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

You're exactly right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

Sorry to contradict the norm but I've been on here for years (so not because I'm older etc) and I have never received rude messages, perhaps one a year, I reply to all my messages and don't ever get rude replies back, I've had a photo at no 4 on page one so that time had literally thousands of views and definitely had to ignore friend request list! I use the chatrooms and forums frequently. I also work and travel all over the place so can't say it's because of location as I always change mine when I'm away, though down here I think it might be location because the ladies have never reported it being bad. Plus my age range has varied over the years ... But I do have a very well managed account I suppose and never have revealing type pictures

So I've never thought it's as wide spread as people think ... just saying in defence of men on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average, men don't bother to read profiles, especially those who have wide net approach (message every woman within X number of miles). Some read it (or pretend they have read it) yet still message despite they don't fit the requirements. Like, for example, I state 'no more than an hour drive', yet get messages from men over 100 miles away, because they 'don't mind travelling'. The requirements are there for a reason.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

Block men

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Couples do as well.

Nothing personal.

You don't have to apologize for anyone apart from yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me, I'm a genuine and nice person but because of a lot of other single guys speaking to people in the way you have described has given all single guys a bad rep even the ones like us who are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "
all he wanted to do was fcuk your throat omg

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"It annoys me, I'm a genuine and nice person but because of a lot of other single guys speaking to people in the way you have described has given all single guys a bad rep even the ones like us who are genuine. "

I can assure you it's not the fault of others you're not getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day

You're exactly right. "

Manners cost nothing. It infuriates me how guys speak to the ladies on here . I've had a rant on a previous post about this.

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I u derstand why women have their filters so highly tuned. Blokes in general are pigs, as a guy I've had my fair share of arse holes (lol) so god only knows what women put up with just to enjoy sites like this.

Even then loaf's of them are time wasters and keyboard wankers, waiting for their wife or mother to come home. Or even worse - the dreaded white knight / nice guy - who always turn out to be creepy as hell.

Be safe ladies x

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day

You're exactly right.

Manners cost nothing. It infuriates me how guys speak to the ladies on here . I've had a rant on a previous post about this. "
why are you lumping all the guys together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bear in mind we are individuals. There are individual knobheads and there are individual goodies...apart from Johnny Kinky, he's a total gobshite!

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It annoys me, I'm a genuine and nice person but because of a lot of other single guys speaking to people in the way you have described has given all single guys a bad rep even the ones like us who are genuine.

I can assure you it's not the fault of others you're not getting meets"

Ouch! His dog is lush though

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

If any of you guys really want to know the kind of shit women receive on here and other platforms, try putting a dress on.

You really wouldnt believe some of the things I've seen and I know its not even half of what many women get.

I'm extremely hard to shock and some of it is fuxking disgusting and that's just the language used let alone some of the pics I've seen.

Now before you all jump down my throat, I'm glad to say there are some really decent guys who I'd happily share a pint with in the pub but the rest, not a damn chance.

Think for a moment before you send your next opening message about how youd like a family member spoken to and go from there, I assure you it would be a lot different and the results would be far better all round too.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I've had awful messages from men, women and couples on here, it's just that the overall number of messages from men outweigh the others by miles. Some people are cunts.

At least the messages on here can't hurt me, it's in real life that getting followed and having lewd comments made and similar experiences that's truly disturbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any of you guys really want to know the kind of shit women receive on here and other platforms, try putting a dress on.

You really wouldnt believe some of the things I've seen and I know its not even half of what many women get.

I'm extremely hard to shock and some of it is fuxking disgusting and that's just the language used let alone some of the pics I've seen.

Now before you all jump down my throat, I'm glad to say there are some really decent guys who I'd happily share a pint with in the pub but the rest, not a damn chance.

Think for a moment before you send your next opening message about how youd like a family member spoken to and go from there, I assure you it would be a lot different and the results would be far better all round too.

"
u can totally understand but can't begin to imagine how bad it gets but I did get a load of abuse from one guy the other day because I wouldn't meet him so he said he knows where I live come round and f**k me up and expose me as bi he got the shock of his life when my mrs phoned him told him yes I know he's bi I actually quite like it but if you do turn up it will be the last thing u ever do lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"If any of you guys really want to know the kind of shit women receive on here and other platforms, try putting a dress on.

You really wouldnt believe some of the things I've seen and I know its not even half of what many women get.

I'm extremely hard to shock and some of it is fuxking disgusting and that's just the language used let alone some of the pics I've seen.

Now before you all jump down my throat, I'm glad to say there are some really decent guys who I'd happily share a pint with in the pub but the rest, not a damn chance.

Think for a moment before you send your next opening message about how youd like a family member spoken to and go from there, I assure you it would be a lot different and the results would be far better all round too.

u can totally understand but can't begin to imagine how bad it gets but I did get a load of abuse from one guy the other day because I wouldn't meet him so he said he knows where I live come round and f**k me up and expose me as bi he got the shock of his life when my mrs phoned him told him yes I know he's bi I actually quite like it but if you do turn up it will be the last thing u ever do lol"

I've had it face to face in bars, pubs and clubs...not a single one of them expected the response they got and they didnt get to hang around long.

That's the one advantage a dresser does have is that we are still male underneath whereas a woman wont usually be the same size or strength.

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I've had my fair share. I actually made a thread about them top 3 and I got banned so I wont mention what they said.

I get them regularly and tend to just ignore. Occasion they will gets a sarcastic reply or a very rarely a rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had some time off, our first message back was

Hey, wanna piss on me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It annoys me, I'm a genuine and nice person but because of a lot of other single guys speaking to people in the way you have described has given all single guys a bad rep even the ones like us who are genuine. "

Exactly this!

However, on the flipside i take time to write polite messages, standout title, always a face pic. Reply rate - poor. Nice guys come last!?

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

Yeah a guy who obviously hasn’t our profile thought the best way to introduce himself to me was to slag off my fella in his first message

Hmm yeah I can’t wait to put out for you!!

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I prefer a man who comes lots rather than last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't put up with anything. I don't feel sorry for those that feel they have it tough either. Smart cookies make the site work for them and completely ignore the shit. It's really easy if you want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

You didn’t stay away long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men are that bad. Theres some respectful ones hanging about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It annoys me, I'm a genuine and nice person but because of a lot of other single guys speaking to people in the way you have described has given all single guys a bad rep even the ones like us who are genuine. "

The old classic. I am not getting meets because of other idiot single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day

You're exactly right.

Manners cost nothing. It infuriates me how guys speak to the ladies on here . I've had a rant on a previous post about this. why are you lumping all the guys together?"

He thinks by playing the white knight in shining armour it will help get him meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as bad as men that get upset when they get the advice they asked for but it’s not what they wanted to hear. Then throw tantrums in the forums, then leave and come back within days pretending it never happened.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"I u derstand why women have their filters so highly tuned. Blokes in general are pigs, as a guy I've had my fair share of arse holes (lol) so god only knows what women put up with just to enjoy sites like this.

Even then loaf's of them are time wasters and keyboard wankers, waiting for their wife or mother to come home. Or even worse - the dreaded white knight / nice guy - who always turn out to be creepy as hell.

Be safe ladies x"

Every word of this comes across as you being said white knight/nice guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not as bad as men that get upset when they get the advice they asked for but it’s not what they wanted to hear. Then throw tantrums in the forums, then leave and come back within days pretending it never happened. "

I'm guessing that this comment is aimed at me? Why exactly? Yes, I admit that I was massively in the wrong last time. But I'm here, trying again. What's so wrong with that? Everyone deserves a second chance, don't they?

Look at your comment! Can't you see why I get upset? I've come in this form and made an innocent post, and here you are, attacking me again? Personally, you come across as childish, for bringing up something that actually took place last year! You clearly enjoy ripping people to bits! How pathetic!

Please, leave me alone now. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

Not all men are disrespectful on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I’ve got an idea...let me bash the men on here to score some points

You could easily block men, the site has filters you can use so why your getting ‘infuriated’ over some dude asking you if you want head shows how sensitive you are.

This post lacks class OP, who are you to comment on others behaviour? Or are you just frustrated you ain’t getting no pussy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any of you guys really want to know the kind of shit women receive on here and other platforms, try putting a dress on.

You really wouldnt believe some of the things I've seen and I know its not even half of what many women get.

I'm extremely hard to shock and some of it is fuxking disgusting and that's just the language used let alone some of the pics I've seen.

Now before you all jump down my throat, I'm glad to say there are some really decent guys who I'd happily share a pint with in the pub but the rest, not a damn chance.

Think for a moment before you send your next opening message about how youd like a family member spoken to and go from there, I assure you it would be a lot different and the results would be far better all round too.

u can totally understand but can't begin to imagine how bad it gets but I did get a load of abuse from one guy the other day because I wouldn't meet him so he said he knows where I live come round and f**k me up and expose me as bi he got the shock of his life when my mrs phoned him told him yes I know he's bi I actually quite like it but if you do turn up it will be the last thing u ever do lol"

How did you get his number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as bad as men that get upset when they get the advice they asked for but it’s not what they wanted to hear. Then throw tantrums in the forums, then leave and come back within days pretending it never happened.

I'm guessing that this comment is aimed at me? Why exactly? Yes, I admit that I was massively in the wrong last time. But I'm here, trying again. What's so wrong with that? Everyone deserves a second chance, don't they?

Look at your comment! Can't you see why I get upset? I've come in this form and made an innocent post, and here you are, attacking me again? Personally, you come across as childish, for bringing up something that actually took place last year! You clearly enjoy ripping people to bits! How pathetic!

Please, leave me alone now. Thank you"

Dayum...the irony you called yourself the right tool for the job when you’ve clearly cracked under the pressure, just dawned on me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh I’ve got an idea...let me bash the men on here to score some points

You could easily block men, the site has filters you can use so why your getting ‘infuriated’ over some dude asking you if you want head shows how sensitive you are.

This post lacks class OP, who are you to comment on others behaviour? Or are you just frustrated you ain’t getting no pussy?"

Correct me if I'm wrong but aren't you commenting on my behaviour??

Pot, kettle, black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was the ladies thinking too much of themselves that was the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I’ve got an idea...let me bash the men on here to score some points

You could easily block men, the site has filters you can use so why your getting ‘infuriated’ over some dude asking you if you want head shows how sensitive you are.

This post lacks class OP, who are you to comment on others behaviour? Or are you just frustrated you ain’t getting no pussy?

Correct me if I'm wrong but aren't you commenting on my behaviour??

Pot, kettle, black "

No correction required, i am indeed commenting on your behaviour. Its a pretty pathetic method we’ve seen used plenty of times before...apologising on behalf of men Pahaha, i never elected you to speak for me!

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over a year ago

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It annoys me, I'm a genuine and nice person but because of a lot of other single guys speaking to people in the way you have described has given all single guys a bad rep even the ones like us who are genuine. "

Lots of ‘genuine’ guys here apparently.

Where are they in Wakefield then?

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Wait. You started a thread because someone offered you a blow job?

First world problems OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone please explain why I'm getting abuse here again? What have I done exactly? I have been rude or nasty. So what's the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone please explain why I'm getting abuse here again? What have I done exactly? I have been rude or nasty. So what's the issue? "

No ones abused you, stop being so dramatic

Your targeted a group of people, what did you expect?

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"Someone please explain why I'm getting abuse here again? What have I done exactly? I have been rude or nasty. So what's the issue? "

I just think the general consensus is to not worry about the little things and move on. Life is way too short. Good luck to you OP

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "
. Sorry to hear you got a message that you feel is inappropriate.I also have received messages like yours as well as better worded messages I tend to just delete or if it’s a better worded message I tell them I am straight mention that they consider Fabguys and wish them the best of luck with their search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone please explain why I'm getting abuse here again? What have I done exactly? I have been rude or nasty. So what's the issue?

No ones abused you, stop being so dramatic

Your targeted a group of people, what did you expect? "

Reafing this thread. I suppose he didn't expect your arrogance? Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone please explain why I'm getting abuse here again? What have I done exactly? I have been rude or nasty. So what's the issue?

No ones abused you, stop being so dramatic

Your targeted a group of people, what did you expect?

Reafing this thread. I suppose he didn't expect your arrogance? Just saying."

Definitely didn't expect it, neither is it needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone please explain why I'm getting abuse here again? What have I done exactly? I have been rude or nasty. So what's the issue?

No ones abused you, stop being so dramatic

Your targeted a group of people, what did you expect?

Reafing this thread. I suppose he didn't expect your arrogance? Just saying.

Definitely didn't expect it, neither is it needed "

Definitely not, just block and move on hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone please explain why I'm getting abuse here again? What have I done exactly? I have been rude or nasty. So what's the issue?

No ones abused you, stop being so dramatic

Your targeted a group of people, what did you expect?

Reafing this thread. I suppose he didn't expect your arrogance? Just saying."
i agree he's obviously seeking attention as all who contribute are but no need to be rude, its pretty common for the accepted people of forums to post attention seeking threads targeting women and only answering their points how should the Op get treated differently?

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"It annoys me, I'm a genuine and nice person but because of a lot of other single guys speaking to people in the way you have described has given all single guys a bad rep even the ones like us who are genuine.

Exactly this!

However, on the flipside i take time to write polite messages, standout title, always a face pic. Reply rate - poor. Nice guys come last!?"

Don't confuse the things which might discourage replies to those that encourage them. Rude messages, profiles not being read and a lack of face pictures might serve to rule some guys out, but it's still primarily the age-old factor of attraction which rule them in.

Obviously attraction means different things to different people - and common interests, humour and personality may play a part as well as the physical. Women also have "types", just as guys do. Nevertheless, just like in real life, a well-endowed, handsome guy with a good body is likely to do far better than one who doesn't fit those criteria. In fact, the effect is magnified on Fab, where the competition is so much greater than in day-to-day life.

Merely following the rules which women set is a good start but unlikely to be sufficient on its own.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Serious question guys, has White Knighting ever got you a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Serious question guys, has White Knighting ever got you a meet?

"

What's with all this 'white Knighting"?

This was not my intention. I was simply standing up for what's right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get messages from curious/bi/gay guys whenever I pass through their area.

This despite the being very obvious on my profile i’m not interested in men at all.

Some men, quite a lot on here it seem, just like to chance their arm to see if they get a meet.I doubt it’s very successful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it with a pinch of salt! Just be direct but not rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from curious/bi/gay guys whenever I pass through their area.

This despite the being very obvious on my profile i’m not interested in men at all.

Some men, quite a lot on here it seem, just like to chance their arm to see if they get a meet.I doubt it’s very successful! "
exactly the same with us. Not meeting single guys but they still try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from curious/bi/gay guys whenever I pass through their area.

This despite the being very obvious on my profile i’m not interested in men at all.

Some men, quite a lot on here it seem, just like to chance their arm to see if they get a meet.I doubt it’s very successful! exactly the same with us. Not meeting single guys but they still try. "
well they love your wife or the lady in avatars eyes obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from curious/bi/gay guys whenever I pass through their area.

This despite the being very obvious on my profile i’m not interested in men at all.

Some men, quite a lot on here it seem, just like to chance their arm to see if they get a meet.I doubt it’s very successful! exactly the same with us. Not meeting single guys but they still try. well they love your wife or the lady in avatars eyes obviously "

Come again??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just got one from a bi guy now as i’m not in my local area...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from curious/bi/gay guys whenever I pass through their area.

This despite the being very obvious on my profile i’m not interested in men at all.

Some men, quite a lot on here it seem, just like to chance their arm to see if they get a meet.I doubt it’s very successful! exactly the same with us. Not meeting single guys but they still try. well they love your wife or the lady in avatars eyes obviously

Come again??"
i can't I'm not a repeater

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

Yup this is what we have to put up with and more. I solo travel abroad and worry about being abused and scammed by forgien men who think forgien women are "easy" target

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Serious question guys, has White Knighting ever got you a meet?

What's with all this 'white Knighting"?

This was not my intention. I was simply standing up for what's right. "
. Perhaps the couple that asked the question should have typed White Lighting the cider drink.As sometimes when you get inappropriate messages during the middle of the night it sometimes a case of someone having to much to drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages from curious/bi/gay guys whenever I pass through their area.

This despite the being very obvious on my profile i’m not interested in men at all.

Some men, quite a lot on here it seem, just like to chance their arm to see if they get a meet.I doubt it’s very successful! exactly the same with us. Not meeting single guys but they still try. well they love your wife or the lady in avatars eyes obviously "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day

Yup this is what we have to put up with and more. I solo travel abroad and worry about being abused and scammed by forgien men who think forgien women are "easy" target "
no man ever thinks women are an easy target, a womans mind is a thing of wonder and should be cherished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men on here actually know there is a function they can block all men

Use it and stop frigging moaning

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Do men on here actually know there is a function they can block all men

Use it and stop frigging moaning "

It's the best thing about the site...no dick pics and an in box you can manage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do men on here actually know there is a function they can block all men

Use it and stop frigging moaning "

It's not just the males that moan, I've seen many women/couples complaining about the same subject. I think we are all guilty of having a rant at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

Just correct you on one thing, as in the main you are right. Most couples and women are bombarded with this crap.

However the dickheads being on site will be both a blessing and a curse on your chances really, a curse as many women will join, get bombarded with utter shit and just leave, a blessing because next to the fuckwit squad you look like a silver-tongued sexual cavalier...

So with these two cancelling each other out, their presence whilst stinking the site out doesn't affect your chances that much.

B

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Do men on here actually know there is a function they can block all men

Use it and stop frigging moaning

It's not just the males that moan, I've seen many women/couples complaining about the same subject. I think we are all guilty of having a rant at some point "

Here’s the difference: many women here do want to meet men, so for us blocking all men would defeat the object. You don’t want to meet men so wouldn’t miss out on anything by blocking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The new change in attitude is refreshing. You’ve gone from blaming women for thinking too much of themselves, to receiving a message from a guy. You can see why women hate messages like that and can tailor your first messages now. Those that adapt will survive. Those that stay the same perish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no man can possibly understand a woman's thought patterns just not possible

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"no man can possibly understand a woman's thought patterns just not possible "

Dont be so sure, most people will react to thing in the same way regardless of gender or maybe I'm just lucky in that I can usually see what a woman is likely to do depending on how I interact with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no man can possibly understand a woman's thought patterns just not possible

Dont be so sure, most people will react to thing in the same way regardless of gender or maybe I'm just lucky in that I can usually see what a woman is likely to do depending on how I interact with them

"
but can when standing up straight backed look in a womans eyes and see their soul

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"no man can possibly understand a woman's thought patterns just not possible

Dont be so sure, most people will react to thing in the same way regardless of gender or maybe I'm just lucky in that I can usually see what a woman is likely to do depending on how I interact with them

but can when standing up straight backed look in a womans eyes and see their soul "

Well that all depends on how tall they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put on a positive post near the top ^^^ but that was chosen to be totally ignored! It's difficult to tar all with the same brush without eliciting differences of opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no man can possibly understand a woman's thought patterns just not possible

Dont be so sure, most people will react to thing in the same way regardless of gender or maybe I'm just lucky in that I can usually see what a woman is likely to do depending on how I interact with them

but can when standing up straight backed look in a womans eyes and see their soul

Well that all depends on how tall they are "
true 6'4

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I put on a positive post near the top ^^^ but that was chosen to be totally ignored! It's difficult to tar all with the same brush without eliciting differences of opinion "

I think it may be to do with how you come across as friendly, witty but also no nonsense on the forum but also your well written profile may attract a better response from men.

It is good to see what your experience has been and I do agree there are many good men on here.

As I've said, I'm lucky that I can have my male filters on so I believe that stops the idiots from contacting me and I generally only get a decent sort interact with me on the forum and I like that. My experience elsewhere without those filters hasn't been so good though but that could also be that I'm seen as some kind of fetish or some think I'm only after shit sex with every man which is the total opposite of what I'm about.

It isn't just men that can be dicks but through sheer numbers it often seems that way.

I'm glad your experiences are good ones

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"no man can possibly understand a woman's thought patterns just not possible

Dont be so sure, most people will react to thing in the same way regardless of gender or maybe I'm just lucky in that I can usually see what a woman is likely to do depending on how I interact with them

but can when standing up straight backed look in a womans eyes and see their soul

Well that all depends on how tall they are true 6'4 "

I have met a few who were taller than me and all very memorable too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no man can possibly understand a woman's thought patterns just not possible

Dont be so sure, most people will react to thing in the same way regardless of gender or maybe I'm just lucky in that I can usually see what a woman is likely to do depending on how I interact with them

but can when standing up straight backed look in a womans eyes and see their soul

Well that all depends on how tall they are true 6'4

I have met a few who were taller than me and all very memorable too "
mammaries are so beautiful and yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any of you guys really want to know the kind of shit women receive on here and other platforms, try putting a dress on.

You really wouldnt believe some of the things I've seen and I know its not even half of what many women get.

I'm extremely hard to shock and some of it is fuxking disgusting and that's just the language used let alone some of the pics I've seen.

Now before you all jump down my throat, I'm glad to say there are some really decent guys who I'd happily share a pint with in the pub but the rest, not a damn chance.

Think for a moment before you send your next opening message about how youd like a family member spoken to and go from there, I assure you it would be a lot different and the results would be far better all round too.

u can totally understand but can't begin to imagine how bad it gets but I did get a load of abuse from one guy the other day because I wouldn't meet him so he said he knows where I live come round and f**k me up and expose me as bi he got the shock of his life when my mrs phoned him told him yes I know he's bi I actually quite like it but if you do turn up it will be the last thing u ever do lol

I've had it face to face in bars, pubs and clubs...not a single one of them expected the response they got and they didnt get to hang around long.

That's the one advantage a dresser does have is that we are still male underneath whereas a woman wont usually be the same size or strength. "

“You really don’t want to see an angry TV”

Abby’s words not mine but very true!

V x

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"If any of you guys really want to know the kind of shit women receive on here and other platforms, try putting a dress on.

You really wouldnt believe some of the things I've seen and I know its not even half of what many women get.

I'm extremely hard to shock and some of it is fuxking disgusting and that's just the language used let alone some of the pics I've seen.

Now before you all jump down my throat, I'm glad to say there are some really decent guys who I'd happily share a pint with in the pub but the rest, not a damn chance.

Think for a moment before you send your next opening message about how youd like a family member spoken to and go from there, I assure you it would be a lot different and the results would be far better all round too.

u can totally understand but can't begin to imagine how bad it gets but I did get a load of abuse from one guy the other day because I wouldn't meet him so he said he knows where I live come round and f**k me up and expose me as bi he got the shock of his life when my mrs phoned him told him yes I know he's bi I actually quite like it but if you do turn up it will be the last thing u ever do lol

I've had it face to face in bars, pubs and clubs...not a single one of them expected the response they got and they didnt get to hang around long.

That's the one advantage a dresser does have is that we are still male underneath whereas a woman wont usually be the same size or strength.

“You really don’t want to see an angry TV”

Abby’s words not mine but very true!

V x"

Ohhh I dont get angry, I just know how to look down on a little guy when he is being a dick and a few choice words is all it takes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If any of you guys really want to know the kind of shit women receive on here and other platforms, try putting a dress on.

You really wouldnt believe some of the things I've seen and I know its not even half of what many women get.

I'm extremely hard to shock and some of it is fuxking disgusting and that's just the language used let alone some of the pics I've seen.

Now before you all jump down my throat, I'm glad to say there are some really decent guys who I'd happily share a pint with in the pub but the rest, not a damn chance.

Think for a moment before you send your next opening message about how youd like a family member spoken to and go from there, I assure you it would be a lot different and the results would be far better all round too.

u can totally understand but can't begin to imagine how bad it gets but I did get a load of abuse from one guy the other day because I wouldn't meet him so he said he knows where I live come round and f**k me up and expose me as bi he got the shock of his life when my mrs phoned him told him yes I know he's bi I actually quite like it but if you do turn up it will be the last thing u ever do lol

I've had it face to face in bars, pubs and clubs...not a single one of them expected the response they got and they didnt get to hang around long.

That's the one advantage a dresser does have is that we are still male underneath whereas a woman wont usually be the same size or strength.

“You really don’t want to see an angry TV”

Abby’s words not mine but very true!

V x

Ohhh I dont get angry, I just know how to look down on a little guy when he is being a dick and a few choice words is all it takes "

That was me trying to write it politely but yes, it’s amazing how they back off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a lot of messages like this, sometimes I find them funny and other times it can get annoying, depends on the quantity of them and my mood on the day, but it's all about taking it with a pinch of salt and praying the next person is someone on your wavelength X


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For all the absolute idiot on here men and women ! There are some really decent fun respectful people...but you don't get to hear about them as much .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do men on here actually know there is a function they can block all men

Use it and stop frigging moaning

It's not just the males that moan, I've seen many women/couples complaining about the same subject. I think we are all guilty of having a rant at some point

Here’s the difference: many women here do want to meet men, so for us blocking all men would defeat the object. You don’t want to meet men so wouldn’t miss out on anything by blocking them."

On the contrary, if I were a single woman on here the first thing I would do would be to block all single guys.

Then I'd turn huntress, merely messaging the ones I liked the look of both physically and from how they put themselves across and thereby lifting the ban for those guys.

The result would be that ergo I'd only get messages from the guys I was interested in and not the avalanche of shit that every other woman has to wade through?

The worst that would happen is that I'd get ignored or politely declined by some guys for whom I wasn't their type, but that's no big deal as therefore we weren't compatible anyway? Contact solely with those I preferred equals shedloads of time saved, fun still had and my biggest gripe with the site as a woman practically knocked on the head!

B

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

Well said. Some men do not know how to behave to women.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"It annoys me, I'm a genuine and nice person but because of a lot of other single guys speaking to people in the way you have described has given all single guys a bad rep even the ones like us who are genuine. "

Not true at all, be grateful that there are idiots on here.

I think you're doing women a disservice by thinking that they judge every guy the same because of a few tw.ts

Imagine the odds if every guy was the perfect gentleman

Always Glasshalffull

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"I u derstand why women have their filters so highly tuned. Blokes in general are pigs, as a guy I've had my fair share of arse holes (lol) so god only knows what women put up with just to enjoy sites like this.

Even then loaf's of them are time wasters and keyboard wankers, waiting for their wife or mother to come home. Or even worse - the dreaded white knight / nice guy - who always turn out to be creepy as hell.

Be safe ladies x"

Speak for yourself

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Just wanted to say, ladies, I can only imagine what you have to put up with on here!

As I've just this minute recieved a message from a single male and no lie, the message read "wanna fuck my throat"

Firstly, I am not interested in men. Not once on my profile have I suggested that I'm looking to meet men!

Secondly, is that an acceptable way to start talking to someone? I think not!

Sorry for the rant but this kind of thing absolutely infuriates me! As a single guy myself, I'm struggling to get meets and I fear that this is partly the reason! Beacuse most single men behave this way and it's not at all acceptable! As always, the few ruin it for the many.

So ladies, I now understand what it must be like for you here. And on the behalf of the male species, I apologise.

Have a FAB day "

Go to your settings and stop men from messaging you.

I used to receive lots of messages from gay men and that solved the problem.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

The amount of disrespectful and plain nasty messages I've had from people with genuine on their profiles, the word genuine means nothing if your actions prove differently

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

OP, you have had a tiny insight into what it's like. Imagine dozens of messages like that, every single day, plus often far worse, & then you will have a better idea.

There are thankfully a few good guys in amongst the scum though. They're hard to find, but they really stand out in the crowd.

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

Why we got a single mail account now! Yes Hollie is a trophy hot wife and yes a sub but guys. This way we choose and are not inundated like before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting just ‘hey’ is just as bad. What are you meant to do with that?

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Im ashamed by those guys on here no wonder us genuinely single guys dont get a look in

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The amount of disrespectful and plain nasty messages I've had from people with genuine on their profiles, the word genuine means nothing if your actions prove differently "

What does “genuine” even mean on here? To me it seems like one of those empty, meaningless keywords that people think they have to use. Like “if I say I’ll meet I will” and “been here before, I know how it works”. It could just mean “genuinely awful”!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Do men on here actually know there is a function they can block all men

Use it and stop frigging moaning

It's not just the males that moan, I've seen many women/couples complaining about the same subject. I think we are all guilty of having a rant at some point

Here’s the difference: many women here do want to meet men, so for us blocking all men would defeat the object. You don’t want to meet men so wouldn’t miss out on anything by blocking them.

On the contrary, if I were a single woman on here the first thing I would do would be to block all single guys.

Then I'd turn huntress, merely messaging the ones I liked the look of both physically and from how they put themselves across and thereby lifting the ban for those guys.

The result would be that ergo I'd only get messages from the guys I was interested in and not the avalanche of shit that every other woman has to wade through?

The worst that would happen is that I'd get ignored or politely declined by some guys for whom I wasn't their type, but that's no big deal as therefore we weren't compatible anyway? Contact solely with those I preferred equals shedloads of time saved, fun still had and my biggest gripe with the site as a woman practically knocked on the head!

B"

I’ve seen quite a lot of women say that, and I can see that it has its advantages, but some of my best experiences have come from the right message at the right time from a profile I wouldn’t necessarily notice if I was doing the looking. So for me it’s been worth putting up with the rest of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so do i does that count for anything...... hope youre sanitising after every text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve said it before and will say it again.

Is the problem a lot of the time that guys aren’t very confident chatting up women in the real world. So they come to a swinging website thinking that it’s just sex with random strangers and no holds barred fun. And the truth is it’s not like that at all. You still have to be able to conduct yourself correctely and if anything it’s harder to pull because the social side of it is so important and a lot of people lack those skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its true some couples do lack social skills, especially some of the guys that lead those profiles, some actually think their opinion is the only correct opinion but forums are successful because they voice all our opinions unless we get carried away and get insulting

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I’ve said it before and will say it again.

Is the problem a lot of the time that guys aren’t very confident chatting up women in the real world. So they come to a swinging website thinking that it’s just sex with random strangers and no holds barred fun. And the truth is it’s not like that at all. You still have to be able to conduct yourself correctely and if anything it’s harder to pull because the social side of it is so important and a lot of people lack those skills."

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