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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for advice, best lube and position etc

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Munch the rug, A bit of spit and ram it home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clear the poo pipes or you risk a Spud from trainspotting scenario

P

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Maybe the swingers support and advice forum would be a good place for this

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Clear the poo pipes or you risk a Spud from trainspotting scenario

P"

Hahaha won't be able to get that image out my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clear the poo pipes or you risk a Spud from trainspotting scenario

P

Hahaha won't be able to get that image out my head now "

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Munch the rug, A bit of spit and ram it home"

Think that's what happened to me, I just had a flash back after receiving a text saying " can't believe you let me cum in your ass" Many years ago...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for advice, best lube and position etc "

Personally I like to use liquid silk an laid on my back (missionary) however for the first time either doggy or on top because you will have more control.

Also remember lots of foreplay take it slowly and dont forget to relax because if you're tense it'll hurt no matter how much wd40 you use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WD40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean it, lube it, shove a butt plug in. Worked for me.

I've only tried it once. He tried to get me to back up onto him to make me more gentle for me, I told him to just stick it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clean it, lube it, shove a butt plug in. Worked for me.

I've only tried it once. He tried to get me to back up onto him to make me more gentle for me, I told him to just stick it in. "

we've got a live one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so a previous Fwb helped me learn to enjoy anal. Firstly you need to both feel comfortable and confident. I find on my left side in a spoons position is always most comfortable to start with. Maybe wear a butt plug for a while first but not necessary if don't want to.

Loads of lube, silicone based is best.

Then start really slow. Push your cock up to the entrance and push in a tiny bit. Stay completely still. Then ease in a little more, small amount each time. Or just let her/him push back when ready. When all the way in don't move for a whole let your partner get used to the feeling before starting to slowly move, let your partner control it.

After the start you will probably find your able to change position, apply more lube and be more forceful

A wand on the clit helps too

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Clean it, lube it, shove a butt plug in. Worked for me.

I've only tried it once. He tried to get me to back up onto him to make me more gentle for me, I told him to just stick it in. "

Blunt and to the point...knew there was a reason I liked you

The key OP as I said on your other similar thread is to be relaxed and take your time - use lube, lots of lube, and when you think you have enough lube use some more...build up to it with fingers and toys and then get him to go slowly

The feeling of being stretched is incredible - I've found there's a point when I've just been entered where it can feel a little painful but if he holds back at that point and you concentrate on breathing and relaxing it soon passes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clean it, lube it, shove a butt plug in. Worked for me.

I've only tried it once. He tried to get me to back up onto him to make me more gentle for me, I told him to just stick it in.

Blunt and to the point...knew there was a reason I liked you

The key OP as I said on your other similar thread is to be relaxed and take your time - use lube, lots of lube, and when you think you have enough lube use some more...build up to it with fingers and toys and then get him to go slowly

The feeling of being stretched is incredible - I've found there's a point when I've just been entered where it can feel a little painful but if he holds back at that point and you concentrate on breathing and relaxing it soon passes "

thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For extra sensation, use chilli oil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For extra sensation, use chilli oil. "

amature, seasoned pro's know it's real chillies or go home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For extra sensation, use chilli oil.

amature, seasoned pro's know it's real chillies or go home "

I might just try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For extra sensation, use chilli oil.

amature, seasoned pro's know it's real chillies or go home "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For extra sensation, use chilli oil.

amature, seasoned pro's know it's real chillies or go home

I might just try that "

Start off with ghost chillies they're milder

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By *ral addict 13Man
over a year ago

lincolnshire

Plenty of liquid silk, let the head of his cock enter you slowly, trust is a big thing with anal, if it hurts it puts you off from ever doing it again.

Slow and easy, loads of lube, spoons is a good position for starters, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely a plan, will let you know how we get on

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Ok so a previous Fwb helped me learn to enjoy anal. Firstly you need to both feel comfortable and confident. I find on my left side in a spoons position is always most comfortable to start with. Maybe wear a butt plug for a while first but not necessary if don't want to.

Loads of lube, silicone based is best.

Then start really slow. Push your cock up to the entrance and push in a tiny bit. Stay completely still. Then ease in a little more, small amount each time. Or just let her/him push back when ready. When all the way in don't move for a whole let your partner get used to the feeling before starting to slowly move, let your partner control it.

After the start you will probably find your able to change position, apply more lube and be more forceful

A wand on the clit helps too "

100%

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice, it worked a treat last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice, it worked a treat last night "

We need more information than that we want all the details

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Few glasses of wine, relaxing massage with plenty of oil dribbled over her ring. A cheeky finger during her massage. Lifted her hips and slid my cock over her ring. Inserted the tip, paused and gradually push in deeper. After about 20 minutes I was able to pound her and fill her with cum

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Watch out for the coco milk afterwards and no white sheets !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was ok, shower shortly after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs loves anal but we always start very slowly. Lots of lube and start with a finger. Then doggy position - quite often mrs will push back herself onto my cock till its all the way in. Then after a few slow movements she asks me to fuck her harder. One of our fave things to do together!

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Hope you all wear a condom also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man up! And bite the pillow, your cherry will be popped before you know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so a previous Fwb helped me learn to enjoy anal. Firstly you need to both feel comfortable and confident. I find on my left side in a spoons position is always most comfortable to start with. Maybe wear a butt plug for a while first but not necessary if don't want to.

Loads of lube, silicone based is best.

Then start really slow. Push your cock up to the entrance and push in a tiny bit. Stay completely still. Then ease in a little more, small amount each time. Or just let her/him push back when ready. When all the way in don't move for a whole let your partner get used to the feeling before starting to slowly move, let your partner control it.

After the start you will probably find your able to change position, apply more lube and be more forceful

A wand on the clit helps too "

Exactly this. Dont rush it, relax your muscles and take your time.

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By *efinitely worth it...Woman
over a year ago

East Riding of Yorkshire


"Looking for advice, best lube and position etc "

Gin and tonic lube from lovehoney works well

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"Looking for advice, best lube and position etc

Gin and tonic lube from lovehoney works well "

Totally xx

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Just don’t relax

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater


"Few glasses of wine, relaxing massage with plenty of oil dribbled over her ring. A cheeky finger during her massage. Lifted her hips and slid my cock over her ring. Inserted the tip, paused and gradually push in deeper. After about 20 minutes I was able to pound her and fill her with cum "
you should write for Mills and Boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bend over and Brace, Brace!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find using my tounge in deep helps.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

I always wanted to try anal but was too scared.

When my fiance and I got together he really eased me into it.

Make sure everything is clean and the lady is relaxed. Have a long foreplay session and end it with some rimming or just stroking the hole. You're probably going to tense as soon as a finger is there so keep that finger lightly playing until you can relax again.

Plenty of lube! If you think it's enough add some more

We started in the missionary position and honestly, it's probably the most intimate experience I've had.

Now this is just a personal thing that might help. when my guy gos in the first time it seems to hurt and tighten up around an inch in. We've found that if he stays there for a minute then slides fully out, he can slide back in without any issues or pain.

I also find it more pleasurable and less painful if he is slow and gentle going in but then more rough as the session gos on.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Looking for advice, best lube and position etc "

Definitely shave your eyebrows off and draw them on higher than usual, that way you'll look extra surprised when it first slides in and the guy will take it slower for you

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By *oubleA123Couple
over a year ago

berwick


"Looking for advice, best lube and position etc

Definitely shave your eyebrows off and draw them on higher than usual, that way you'll look extra surprised when it first slides in and the guy will take it slower for you"

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great advice, thanks guys

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Ok so a previous Fwb helped me learn to enjoy anal. Firstly you need to both feel comfortable and confident. I find on my left side in a spoons position is always most comfortable to start with. Maybe wear a butt plug for a while first but not necessary if don't want to.

Loads of lube, silicone based is best.

Then start really slow. Push your cock up to the entrance and push in a tiny bit. Stay completely still. Then ease in a little more, small amount each time. Or just let her/him push back when ready. When all the way in don't move for a whole let your partner get used to the feeling before starting to slowly move, let your partner control it.

After the start you will probably find your able to change position, apply more lube and be more forceful

A wand on the clit helps too "

This exactly is best way - playing with clit will help massively.

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