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"So this afternoon while my dad was at my house, i nodded off on the sofa. When i woke up he said i need to book into the doctors as he noticed i stopped breathing occasionally while i was asleep. I obviously didnt know. His ex girlfriend used to do this and she had sleep apnea, had to sleep with a mask on i think? I have a 3 year old, a single mum and dont tend to fall asleep at night easy then my son enjoys waking up early in the morning. So i just took me being tired in the day time due to them factors. Has anyone else got this? Im going to book into the doctors tomorrow and get an app, not sure what they will do tho? " They will refer you to a specialist, I had to do a sleep study at home, I'm borderline needing treatment but I refused the mask. I don't need any follow up appointments. | |||
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"I've never got beyond 3 to four hours with my bloody mask.... it always moves and leaks a 50mph wind in my eyes " the pressure can be adjusted for you by the consultant at the apnea clinic for you | |||
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"People i sleep with tell me the same. the first time i told my doctor ( its rarely the same doctor) they said it cant be sleep apnea cos im not over weight second time sent me for asthma test third time said get someone to take notes of times etc. Recently the latest doc said he will apply for funding to get me checked and that i will hear from the department sometime. I would say im not holding my breath but that would somehow seem wrong ha ha. I hope you get better help." My neighbour has this, shes super fit so being overweight cant always be a factor (as much as the quacks would have us believe that overweight = cause for every illness known to man). | |||
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"What does the machine do ?" It forces oxygen into your airways so they don't collapse while you're asleep | |||
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"My ex had this. He had to wear a monitor over a weekend prior to diagnosis and it registered he was actually stopping breathing hundreds of times through the night. It was so severe that they said if he didnt agree to trying the sleep mask they could apply to the DVLA to have his licence taken off him as there was a real risk of him falling asleep at the wheel. It took a while for him to get used to the sleep mask, there are different kinds so persever. The machine was very noisey though, it isn't very sexy. But better than a possible heart attack or car crash I guess. This is going back 6 or 7 years though so masks/treatment may have improved. " Isn't that usually for HGV drivers? | |||
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"I had it quite badly for years. Eventually got it checked out to find my difficulty breathing through my nose was the problem. I had a septoplasty and a turbinate reduction and can now breath properly. Sleep apnea now cured. There could be several things that cause it and so several solutions. Hope you sort it soon. " That's interesting, I have a deviated septum and sinus issues, maybe mine is caused by that. | |||
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"My ex had this. He had to wear a monitor over a weekend prior to diagnosis and it registered he was actually stopping breathing hundreds of times through the night. It was so severe that they said if he didnt agree to trying the sleep mask they could apply to the DVLA to have his licence taken off him as there was a real risk of him falling asleep at the wheel. It took a while for him to get used to the sleep mask, there are different kinds so persever. The machine was very noisey though, it isn't very sexy. But better than a possible heart attack or car crash I guess. This is going back 6 or 7 years though so masks/treatment may have improved. Isn't that usually for HGV drivers?" No. | |||
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"My ex had this. He had to wear a monitor over a weekend prior to diagnosis and it registered he was actually stopping breathing hundreds of times through the night. It was so severe that they said if he didnt agree to trying the sleep mask they could apply to the DVLA to have his licence taken off him as there was a real risk of him falling asleep at the wheel. It took a while for him to get used to the sleep mask, there are different kinds so persever. The machine was very noisey though, it isn't very sexy. But better than a possible heart attack or car crash I guess. This is going back 6 or 7 years though so masks/treatment may have improved. Isn't that usually for HGV drivers?" You'd be suprised what the dvla can suspend your licence for, and not just professional drivers. | |||
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"My ex had this. He had to wear a monitor over a weekend prior to diagnosis and it registered he was actually stopping breathing hundreds of times through the night. It was so severe that they said if he didnt agree to trying the sleep mask they could apply to the DVLA to have his licence taken off him as there was a real risk of him falling asleep at the wheel. It took a while for him to get used to the sleep mask, there are different kinds so persever. The machine was very noisey though, it isn't very sexy. But better than a possible heart attack or car crash I guess. This is going back 6 or 7 years though so masks/treatment may have improved. Isn't that usually for HGV drivers? You'd be suprised what the dvla can suspend your licence for, and not just professional drivers. " Yep ex was just a standard driver,it wasn't his job or anything. | |||
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"My ex had this. He had to wear a monitor over a weekend prior to diagnosis and it registered he was actually stopping breathing hundreds of times through the night. It was so severe that they said if he didnt agree to trying the sleep mask they could apply to the DVLA to have his licence taken off him as there was a real risk of him falling asleep at the wheel. It took a while for him to get used to the sleep mask, there are different kinds so persever. The machine was very noisey though, it isn't very sexy. But better than a possible heart attack or car crash I guess. This is going back 6 or 7 years though so masks/treatment may have improved. Isn't that usually for HGV drivers? You'd be suprised what the dvla can suspend your licence for, and not just professional drivers. Yep ex was just a standard driver,it wasn't his job or anything. " People forget that just because they've paid for it and passed tests to get it, a driving licence is a privilege and never actually belongs to the driver. | |||
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"I had it quite badly for years. Eventually got it checked out to find my difficulty breathing through my nose was the problem. I had a septoplasty and a turbinate reduction and can now breath properly. Sleep apnea now cured. There could be several things that cause it and so several solutions. Hope you sort it soon. That's interesting, I have a deviated septum and sinus issues, maybe mine is caused by that. " In which case, it could be fixable under the nhs. Mine was. Xx | |||
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"I had it quite badly for years. Eventually got it checked out to find my difficulty breathing through my nose was the problem. I had a septoplasty and a turbinate reduction and can now breath properly. Sleep apnea now cured. There could be several things that cause it and so several solutions. Hope you sort it soon. That's interesting, I have a deviated septum and sinus issues, maybe mine is caused by that. In which case, it could be fixable under the nhs. Mine was. Xx" They have offered me surgery but I'm being a chicken | |||
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"My ex had this. He had to wear a monitor over a weekend prior to diagnosis and it registered he was actually stopping breathing hundreds of times through the night. It was so severe that they said if he didnt agree to trying the sleep mask they could apply to the DVLA to have his licence taken off him as there was a real risk of him falling asleep at the wheel. It took a while for him to get used to the sleep mask, there are different kinds so persever. The machine was very noisey though, it isn't very sexy. But better than a possible heart attack or car crash I guess. This is going back 6 or 7 years though so masks/treatment may have improved. Isn't that usually for HGV drivers? You'd be suprised what the dvla can suspend your licence for, and not just professional drivers. " It isn't just professional drivers who kill others by falling asleep at the wheel! | |||
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" Yeah I skip breaths in my sleep, wake up feeling more tired than i did when i went to bed and i also sleep with my eyes open sometimes, imagine waking up to me asleep not breathing with my eyes open sometimes I'm fun to be around " I think you've just ruled yourself out from ever being offered the chance of staying over after a meet! | |||
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"I've never got beyond 3 to four hours with my bloody mask.... it always moves and leaks a 50mph wind in my eyes the pressure can be adjusted for you by the consultant at the apnea clinic for you " I know I've had it adjusted x | |||
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"People i sleep with tell me the same. the first time i told my doctor ( its rarely the same doctor) they said it cant be sleep apnea cos im not over weight second time sent me for asthma test third time said get someone to take notes of times etc. Recently the latest doc said he will apply for funding to get me checked and that i will hear from the department sometime. I would say im not holding my breath but that would somehow seem wrong ha ha. I hope you get better help." Aww bless. Such a shame referral to the sleep clinic isn't a given | |||
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"So this afternoon while my dad was at my house, i nodded off on the sofa. When i woke up he said i need to book into the doctors as he noticed i stopped breathing occasionally while i was asleep. I obviously didnt know. His ex girlfriend used to do this and she had sleep apnea, had to sleep with a mask on i think? I have a 3 year old, a single mum and dont tend to fall asleep at night easy then my son enjoys waking up early in the morning. So i just took me being tired in the day time due to them factors. Has anyone else got this? Im going to book into the doctors tomorrow and get an app, not sure what they will do tho? " By all means get checked out. Yes you lack of sleep is the reason. Your body is going into such a deep sleep that’s why your doing it. Everyone does do it at some point in their life. You need to try and get better sleep and sort why your child is waking too. | |||
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"So this afternoon while my dad was at my house, i nodded off on the sofa. When i woke up he said i need to book into the doctors as he noticed i stopped breathing occasionally while i was asleep. I obviously didnt know. His ex girlfriend used to do this and she had sleep apnea, had to sleep with a mask on i think? I have a 3 year old, a single mum and dont tend to fall asleep at night easy then my son enjoys waking up early in the morning. So i just took me being tired in the day time due to them factors. Has anyone else got this? Im going to book into the doctors tomorrow and get an app, not sure what they will do tho? By all means get checked out. Yes you lack of sleep is the reason. Your body is going into such a deep sleep that’s why your doing it. Everyone does do it at some point in their life. You need to try and get better sleep and sort why your child is waking too. " Untrue. Not everyone stops breathing while they are sleeping. | |||
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"So this afternoon while my dad was at my house, i nodded off on the sofa. When i woke up he said i need to book into the doctors as he noticed i stopped breathing occasionally while i was asleep. I obviously didnt know. His ex girlfriend used to do this and she had sleep apnea, had to sleep with a mask on i think? I have a 3 year old, a single mum and dont tend to fall asleep at night easy then my son enjoys waking up early in the morning. So i just took me being tired in the day time due to them factors. Has anyone else got this? Im going to book into the doctors tomorrow and get an app, not sure what they will do tho? " I have done the test and yes need the Mask. It really is awful for starling when i don't where it. Also is potentially quite dangerous if you dont get it checked Darth vader got his patter from listening to me scratching my nose with the mask on at night. #nomidnightquickies lol | |||
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"People i sleep with tell me the same. the first time i told my doctor ( its rarely the same doctor) they said it cant be sleep apnea cos im not over weight second time sent me for asthma test third time said get someone to take notes of times etc. Recently the latest doc said he will apply for funding to get me checked and that i will hear from the department sometime. I would say im not holding my breath but that would somehow seem wrong ha ha. I hope you get better help." Get checked out for dysfunctional breathing, as this never gets any TV or radio publicity. I have it, it can also come with a deviated septum and long term heart burn. Does this sound familiar to you? | |||
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"So this afternoon while my dad was at my house, i nodded off on the sofa. When i woke up he said i need to book into the doctors as he noticed i stopped breathing occasionally while i was asleep. I obviously didnt know. His ex girlfriend used to do this and she had sleep apnea, had to sleep with a mask on i think? I have a 3 year old, a single mum and dont tend to fall asleep at night easy then my son enjoys waking up early in the morning. So i just took me being tired in the day time due to them factors. Has anyone else got this? Im going to book into the doctors tomorrow and get an app, not sure what they will do tho? " A mate said the same to meet last night | |||
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"Yes I have this, my solution (recommended by my specialist) is to retrain myself to sleep on my side that way the airways stay open and the apnoea doesn't happen. Unfortunate side effect is arm going dead and dribbling " I have slept on my side for 20 years or more and I still have sleep apnea. I would change your specialist | |||
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"Very common with overweight people" That's a misconception. Many people have SA and aren't overweight. | |||
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"We treat this in the clinic I work from with frequency medicine on the skull, face and chest. 100% success rate. " 100% is a bold claim, what does it involve? | |||
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"So this afternoon while my dad was at my house, i nodded off on the sofa. When i woke up he said i need to book into the doctors as he noticed i stopped breathing occasionally while i was asleep. I obviously didnt know. His ex girlfriend used to do this and she had sleep apnea, had to sleep with a mask on i think? I have a 3 year old, a single mum and dont tend to fall asleep at night easy then my son enjoys waking up early in the morning. So i just took me being tired in the day time due to them factors. Has anyone else got this? Im going to book into the doctors tomorrow and get an app, not sure what they will do tho? " I had the same thing went to the Dr and they took various blood tests, it turns out I have an under active thyroid. Now I’m on the medication for that I am sleeping much better. | |||
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"Mrs KC has sleep apnoea & has been using a mask for 20+ years. This is a very serious disorder & I'd urge anyone with symptoms to seek the help of a specialist. Sadly there are several cases a year where adults die because of untreated apnoea & more from other conditions exacerbated by this. Sleeping with a mask doesn't look sexy but neither does a corpse. " This | |||
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"I have just had a referral to the sleep clinic with suspected sleep apnea. Hopefully will get the appointment soon and start getting some answers. " Good luck. | |||
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"I have just had a referral to the sleep clinic with suspected sleep apnea. Hopefully will get the appointment soon and start getting some answers. " I was diagnosed 7 years ago and my cpap machine whilst certainly not sexy has been a lifesaver. I've lost 6 stone since diagnosis and the clinic keeps asking to retest me as there's a good chance my sleep apnoea has gone now but I'm so attached to my machine I keep swerving it! I don't want to give it up! Good luck to all those going for tests soon, there is a great group on FB called Hope2Sleep Support group which is great for asking questions and finding out stuff. Loads of people have sleep apnoea and are risking their lives not being tested or treated. 4 friends of mine have gone on to be diagnosed after sleeping over at mine and I picked up the snoring and gasping! | |||
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"I had it quite badly for years. Eventually got it checked out to find my difficulty breathing through my nose was the problem. I had a septoplasty and a turbinate reduction and can now breath properly. Sleep apnea now cured. There could be several things that cause it and so several solutions. Hope you sort it soon. That's interesting, I have a deviated septum and sinus issues, maybe mine is caused by that. " MRI tests and an external exam will be useful. I had a operation to fix it: it will take away the ability to smell for a long time. | |||
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"Yes I have this, my solution (recommended by my specialist) is to retrain myself to sleep on my side that way the airways stay open and the apnoea doesn't happen. Unfortunate side effect is arm going dead and dribbling I have slept on my side for 20 years or more and I still have sleep apnea. I would change your specialist " Folks are different, what causes mine may not be the same for you. It was a solution suggested by my specialist along with a gum shield thing, both of these individually alter how my jaw relaxes when asleep and so prevent my tongue from blocking my airway. It's a solution that worked for me and has avoided me going down the CPAP route. | |||
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"What does the machine do ? It forces oxygen into your airways so they don't collapse while you're asleep " To be precise it is a CPAP machine. Continuous Positive Airway Pressure machine. It blows air into your nose and or mouth as you sleep. This overcomes the risk of the throat closing up in deep sleep which occurs particularly on folks that are overweight. My wife used to have it and the lack of sleep was very debilitating. | |||
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"What does the machine do ?" Forces air into you to keep you breathing. Also helps snoring, which can wake yourself up quite a lot, giving you a crap, interrupted sleep. | |||
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"I nod off constantly and and when I wake I feel wide awake but within in 1 minute I drop asleep again then wake and the same cycle feel wide awake but within 1-minute drop asleep. No problem with breathing. Once my son counted 46 times I nodded in 1 hour Sounds unbelievable" Do you snore? Whilst asleep Stop snoring then gasp for breath? Sleep apnea make sufferes very weary indeed. You never really acheive rem sleep. | |||
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