FabSwingers.com forum: Socials

By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I always try to show up smart, but not too dressy to a social but I'm curious what others wear. Generally I'm "prepared for action" if it goes amazingly well and we decide to move to another venue.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Usual jeans t shirt. I don’t make an effort with clothes.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Always smart casual and always smelling good and looking clean

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I do that. Dress smart casual. Shave and prepare in case it leads to more but never go with expectations x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I suppose it partly depends on the venue of the social. Daytime I'd be more casual, if it's an evening drink I'd go little black dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never play on a social but I wear what I wear day to day - dresses. Usually something vintage style or polka dots.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

Smell good, freshly showered/bathed and usually I'm in jeans and a top that does my double d's proud but without having them having out on show. If I'm comfortable then I'm confident

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Jeans, top/jumper and a cagoule. Usually trainers.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I wear something I'm comfortable in (clean) and appropriate for the venue we're meeting in - mainly dresses, skirts and t-shirts. I don't really prep like I would if I definitely knew I was in for a cocking but I do a few bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual but reasonably smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear a nice dress. I love dressing up. X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Casual but reasonably smart"
ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean, showered, shaved. I'd hope that would go without saying!

And dressed according to the venue, but definitely make a bit of an effort. First impressions and all that

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I always struggle with this... I feel very conscientious about turning up in stockings and suspenders just for a coffee in a well known coffee shop!

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By *enn68Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Smart casual fresh shower n shaved Gucci after shave to smell good ,

But willing to wear suit if requested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always struggle with this... I feel very conscientious about turning up in stockings and suspenders just for a coffee in a well known coffee shop!

Perhaps try wearing something over the top of them?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s always just a social so I don’t plan for more but I like to be casual and comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always struggle with this... I feel very conscientious about turning up in stockings and suspenders just for a coffee in a well known coffee shop!

For a social? Surely people don’t expect that?

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

C- freshly shaved lingerie set under a skirt and top. Enough that if it goes eight we can play and if not I know it will still draw some attention and M won’t be able to resist me.

M- clean shaved, usually a decent pair of jeans with a T-shirt and shirt over the top. Casual but not scruffy.

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Ok so we have a variety of answers here most saying smart casual. How about spicing it up, what not to wear?

I'd say football tops, tracksuit of any kind, baseball cap, and a wedding ring.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Depends on the venue. Usually something pretty, smart casual. Not at all prepared for play because there will be no play.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Last nights top

With pizza stains down it

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Last nights top

With pizza stains down it

Tell me this didnt actually happen

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"Last nights top

With pizza stains down it

Tell me this didnt actually happen"

Not for me !!!!! But a mate did !!! Idiot !!! Can’t believe we was such a muppet !!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

All of my normal first socials are casual in the day, 100% no chance of play, on a big fab social with lots of people going I've normally arranged to go with or meet someone there to to coincide with the travelling, so dress and holdups with skimpy underwear with wind up pics just for him to elevate the arousal for when we get back to the hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual. It happened once that I didn't meet someone again purely because of his dress code when we've met for social. Put me right off although everything was good up to that point.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something smart ...

I like to look nice ... I hope I look ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky pants....

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I wore a vintage style dress on Friday & everyone else was in jeans

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always try to show up smart, but not too dressy to a social but I'm curious what others wear. Generally I'm "prepared for action" if it goes amazingly well and we decide to move to another venue."
smart casual and smelling divine

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I wore a vintage style dress on Friday & everyone else was in jeans

J x"

And I bet you rocked it.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I wore a vintage style dress on Friday & everyone else was in jeans

J x

And I bet you rocked it."

It made a nice change from jeans & work clothes!!!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It depends. If I'm going straight from work then you get me as I am, if it's at a weekend I can dress a little more smartly.

Either way I'm open when we're arranging it how I'll be dressed depending on the day and time we settle on.

I did have a social with a guy who had been wearing the same t-shirt for a while without washing it - there was quite an underarm aroma going on. That was never going to go any further - even if I'm going from work in jeans and a jumper I make sure I smell fresh and I'm clean. That's just basic politeness!

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I did have a social with a guy who had been wearing the same t-shirt for a while without washing it - there was quite an underarm aroma going on."

Ewww. I can get sweaty in my work so I always make sure I have time to go home and shower. I'd never meet from work because of this.

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