FabSwingers.com forum: Why do straight men look at me?

By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for?

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Cus you have a cute pineapple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at you in stealth mode all the time

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

Maybe they're in the mood for bromancing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you’re pretty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re handsome

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Because they are fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do. I look at women and TVs all the time. Some of their pics are beautiful and creative. I appreciate nice pics. Doesn’t mean I wanna get down and dirty with them

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

It could be that they are finding you via verification trails or because of something you've said in the forums. Or it could be that they just aren't straight

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

That want want a piece of your pineapple

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Maybe nothing better to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People do. I look at women and TVs all the time. Some of their pics are beautiful and creative. I appreciate nice pics. Doesn’t mean I wanna get down and dirty with them

Exactly. Can be for a whole number of reasons. Checking out the competition, looking for ideas to improve a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a stealth mode??

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

They want to lick your fab lolly?

People just like to look don’t they? I look at all sorts of everyone when I’m in the mood for a nosey... it’s not about sex though.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I don’t look at you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

They're assessing the competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason they look at me and message me. They aren’t straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are fab straight

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By *rimKardashianMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Looked to see who had looked at me just now, mostly men 90%, and of those 70% straight. Assuming they really are straight, why on earth would they look at me? Why do you look at profiles that are not what you’re looking for? "

For myself it's usually to peek at the veri's from ladies that I fancy and the guys they've then met with to get an idea of who they tend to go for.

Sometimes to look at the composition of other people's profiles, things like that.

Certainly wouldn't linger Haha!

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

They are looking for the key to your success

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"They are looking for the key to your success "

But that’s me, not them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter?

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

They’re fab straight

Not straight

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Interesting answers. Thanks. There’s no point in men looking at me for ‘secrets to success’ because I’m unique. In looks, personality and vibe. So don’t waste your energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try hiding your profile and block all straight lesbians....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have a big knob ?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We sometimes look at single men profiles for comedy

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Checking to see if you’re really from Brighton and called Steve.

Untrusting lot on here

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

This is why I look at people in stealth mode.

Too many people assume if you look at their profile you want them. I look at lots of people just out of curiosity and to find out more about them. It doesn't mean I am looking for a meet with them.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"This is why I look at people in stealth mode.

Too many people assume if you look at their profile you want them. I look at lots of people just out of curiosity and to find out more about them. It doesn't mean I am looking for a meet with them. "
my point is, why would straight men want to find out more about me? I’m not their target audience, I’m not their competition nor can they learn anything from me. It doesn’t make logical sense.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Males look at my profile all the time, does not necessarily mean that they are interested in you, maybe more just curious to see who else is on the site and how they present themselves to others in their profiles.

Some may like your profile and experiences and just seeking a bit of advice to help achieve a better time on this site.

I always say better someone looks than no one.

Friends can be made that lead to socials and that which you are Looking for.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

You have 44 veris. My guess is blokes end up visiting you based on your meets and veris you have given others. Blokes wanna know if the woman they like will meet someone like them and check who they have been with to see who measures up

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Perhaps they're looking at your profile for ideas or inspiration? Most of my profile views are from men. I'll assume i'm stealth perved by hundreds of ladies a day ...(right!

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Could be a multitude of reasons OP.

To be fair I just looked to see if you were premium or not. Either way of you set your mail filters to not include men it should remove them from your "who has looked at me" list.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ok fair enough. Thanks.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Recently,on another thread you mentioned that you used to be straight and became bi, is it not possible that the straight guys looking at you are curious like you once were?

Why does it bother you?

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I haven’t looked op, so no problem...

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Recently,on another thread you mentioned that you used to be straight and became bi, is it not possible that the straight guys looking at you are curious like you once were?

Why does it bother you? "
Maybe. I was curious to know. It doesn’t bother me. I was interested in finding out some reasons.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Recently,on another thread you mentioned that you used to be straight and became bi, is it not possible that the straight guys looking at you are curious like you once were?

Why does it bother you? Maybe. I was curious to know. It doesn’t bother me. I was interested in finding out some reasons. "

Can I suggest you mail all the straight guys who look at your profile and ask them...horses mouth so to speak.

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By *ireblade320iiMan
over a year ago

Gatwick

You've a lot of verifications. Guys want to see what your profiles all about.

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You've a lot of verifications. Guys want to see what your profiles all about. "
shit shag, mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I look at people in stealth mode.

Too many people assume if you look at their profile you want them. I look at lots of people just out of curiosity and to find out more about them. It doesn't mean I am looking for a meet with them. my point is, why would straight men want to find out more about me? I’m not their target audience, I’m not their competition nor can they learn anything from me. It doesn’t make logical sense. "

There's nothing illogical about it

I look at loads of folks profiles when I'm dotting about the forum

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I`ve recently had a single man looking at me when his profile clearly stated that he "wasn`t looking for single men"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There you go OP. I just clicked on your profile so now I'll show up as having looked at you, just to freak you out.

You do realise that you can't catch the ghey from men lookimg at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To see what the competition is maybe or to see who you’ve met or what’s been said maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I want to know is, can you do the pineapple with no hands?

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3

I get messages from ‘straight’ guys too.

I think a lot of people who should identify as curious wont because loads of female profiles say no bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could be that they are finding you via verification trails or because of something you've said in the forums. Or it could be that they just aren't straight

Verification trails are the main one. I sometimes get tons of guys looking at me because they are interested in someone I've met. It's territorial I'd guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For myself it's usually to peek at the veri's from ladies that I fancy and the guys they've then met with to get an idea of who they tend to go for.

Sometimes to look at the composition of other people's profiles, things like that.

Certainly wouldn't linger Haha!

Exactly this. Can save a lot of time wasting if I see a female profile that I like, if she's been meeting 6ft+ man mountains with washboard abs that ain't me so I'll not bother adding to her mail box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look because I'm nosy

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By *rightonsteve OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I look because I'm nosy "
blocked

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

They want to steal your picture ideas

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over a year ago

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

To check veri chains

Because they want to see what you're like after you post on the forum

To get ideas for profiles

To get ideas for photos

Because they're part of a couple and looking for a bloke

Because they're bored

Because they're gay

Because they're bi

Because their mate has said "check this guy out for me and let me know if you think he's OK"

Because a million other things.

I don't understand why men get bothered about this. I don't care if every woman on Fab looks at my profile. What does it matter?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

You've set their gaydar off

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

"To check veri chains

Because they want to see what you're like after you post on the forum

To get ideas for profiles

To get ideas for photos

Because they're part of a couple and looking for a bloke

Because they're bored

Because they're gay

Because they're bi

Because their mate has said "check this guy out for me and let me know if you think he's OK"

Because a million other things.

I don't understand why men get bothered about this. I don't care if every woman on Fab looks at my profile. What does it matter?"

I actually quite like the attention

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Does it really matter?

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"To check veri chains

Because they want to see what you're like after you post on the forum

To get ideas for profiles

To get ideas for photos

Because they're part of a couple and looking for a bloke

Because they're bored

Because they're gay

Because they're bi

Because their mate has said "check this guy out for me and let me know if you think he's OK"

Because a million other things.

I don't understand why men get bothered about this. I don't care if every woman on Fab looks at my profile. What does it matter?

I actually quite like the attention

That's no bad thing. I feel that if a straight woman tells me I'm attractive then she has no ulteria motive. Same with a straight man looking at a man.

Bask in the attention whilst you can.

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford

I looked due to forums only do your safe lol

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

tbh I've not looked at your profile in ages, but I've always thought you were bi/gay, by the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps because you've left a lady on their Friends List or Hotlist a veri. Or you show up on their "who's near"

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I don't see the problem tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, most guys I know had no idea you could hide on "who's looked at me". Most couple's and single fems I know hide themselves from showing. Maybe that's why so many men show up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they have eyes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's to look at who is behind the verifications left against people I am looking to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we're nosey!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

What's your problem ? Hide your profile if you don't want men looking at it

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

We look at people just to see their profile.

Doesn't mean we are interested in them in any way.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

"We look at people just to see their profile.

Doesn't mean we are interested in them in any way."

Well said.

Simples “ it’s the wonderful world of fabs “

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"This is why I look at people in stealth mode.

Too many people assume if you look at their profile you want them. I look at lots of people just out of curiosity and to find out more about them. It doesn't mean I am looking for a meet with them. my point is, why would straight men want to find out more about me? I’m not their target audience, I’m not their competition nor can they learn anything from me. It doesn’t make logical sense. "

Come on since when has logic got anything to do with Fab.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Checking out the competition.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Soon as I opened the thread I wanted to view it because your current profile photo is super colourful and looks like an interesting photo.

I’m not ‘fab straight’ (what does that even mean?) Literally no sexual interest other men.

Not sure if that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just looked at your profile could be your profile picture looking relaxed and chill on the beach but dunno lol

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

When I first joined Fabs I wanted to improve the text in my profile.I felt the best way was to check out successful guys profiles.I will also read their verifications to see how they conduct themselves. I also get guys that message me some have become friends , others wanting advice and sorry to say some wanting something of a sexual nature once I tell them sorry I am straight best of luck with your search the messages tend to stop.

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

Veri trails

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