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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. " I'm sure there is babes job at not found them | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them" You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun " Totally this ^^^^ | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun Totally this ^^^^" But SheDevil is ok | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men ok pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun " ok thanks for info x | |||
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"Seems like Lorna’s got a bot of a thing for you mate, i’ll leave you two lovebirds to it " No I just don't like people taking the piss! | |||
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"Seems like Lorna’s got a bot of a thing for you mate, i’ll leave you two lovebirds to it No I just don't like people taking the piss! " Lighten up Lorna, no need to get your knickers in a twist | |||
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"Seems like Lorna’s got a bot of a thing for you mate, i’ll leave you two lovebirds to it No I just don't like people taking the piss! " this guy a joker LMAo | |||
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"Seems like Lorna’s got a bot of a thing for you mate, i’ll leave you two lovebirds to it No I just don't like people taking the piss! Lighten up Lorna, no need to get your knickers in a twist " Stop being so rude. You are ridiculeing the OP and it's not necessary. | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun Totally this ^^^^ But SheDevil is ok " Yes ofcourse | |||
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"Seems like Lorna’s got a bot of a thing for you mate, i’ll leave you two lovebirds to it No I just don't like people taking the piss! this guy a joker LMAo" You will find most people on the forums are lovely but there is always a few that like to take a thread over. You keep posting. | |||
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"Seems like Lorna’s got a bot of a thing for you mate, i’ll leave you two lovebirds to it No I just don't like people taking the piss! Lighten up Lorna, no need to get your knickers in a twist Stop being so rude. You are ridiculeing the OP and it's not necessary. " Oh wow! Unfounded accusations as well, you can at least turn your siren on next time you sneak up on me officer! | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun Totally this ^^^^" Out of interest.... To both you and lorna, what should men use as term? Not that hat I've used babe, and hate hun. | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun Totally this ^^^^ Out of interest.... To both you and lorna, what should men use as term? Not that hat I've used babe, and hate hun. " What do you normally use when talking women? I hardly ever have men call me babe or hun in my day to day life. | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun Totally this ^^^^ Out of interest.... To both you and lorna, what should men use as term? Not that hat I've used babe, and hate hun. What do you normally use when talking women? I hardly ever have men call me babe or hun in my day to day life. " always do use babe suppose it's just me x | |||
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"Seems like Lorna’s got a bot of a thing for you mate, i’ll leave you two lovebirds to it No I just don't like people taking the piss! Lighten up Lorna, no need to get your knickers in a twist Stop being so rude. You are ridiculeing the OP and it's not necessary. Oh wow! Unfounded accusations as well, you can at least turn your siren on next time you sneak up on me officer! " Now that's funny, I'm stealing it.. | |||
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"Have posts been removed from this thread whose ridiculing who" The OP has two threads and the same person has been unhelpful on both. And taking the piss because Iv tried to help the OP. | |||
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"Block men from messaging. Look at a few male profiles from the forums to get an idea of really good profiles, spell check, grammar check and take some good photos. Put effort in." yeah I need to take some better piks and that and just be patient you never know | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun Totally this ^^^^ Out of interest.... To both you and lorna, what should men use as term? Not that hat I've used babe, and hate hun. " Oi sexy x | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun Totally this ^^^^ Out of interest.... To both you and lorna, what should men use as term? Not that hat I've used babe, and hate hun. What do you normally use when talking women? I hardly ever have men call me babe or hun in my day to day life. " generally use there name I guess. Last gf called everyone darling. So I never used that. Maybe gorgeous... | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun Totally this ^^^^ Out of interest.... To both you and lorna, what should men use as term? Not that hat I've used babe, and hate hun. " Don't use anything. You don't need to say someone's 'name' when you speak to them. | |||
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"Block men from messaging. Look at a few male profiles from the forums to get an idea of really good profiles, spell check, grammar check and take some good photos. Put effort in.yeah I need to take some better piks and that and just be patient you never know" Your pictures aren't bad but maybe more of a veriaty. | |||
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"Jesus people are just weird out for jokes when people are actually trying meet someone not just fuk ote" Your pics are fine you seem like a good looking dude, just don't have your tongue out all the time and maybe spend a bit more time spell checking your profile and correcting your grammar. Last time I checked "easygoing" is 2 words and there's no such word as "ar". My grammar and spelling sucks too but what the fuck you asked for advice. Don't take anyone else advice because Fab is a numbers game and eventually you'll get a meet just write more about yourself. It just takes time and effort. | |||
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"Have posts been removed from this thread whose ridiculing who The OP has two threads and the same person has been unhelpful on both. And taking the piss because Iv tried to help the OP. " Hahahaha unhelpful...like I’m paid to be here or something. Come on now Lorna, stop with this nonsense | |||
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"Block men from messaging. Look at a few male profiles from the forums to get an idea of really good profiles, spell check, grammar check and take some good photos. Put effort in.yeah I need to take some better piks and that and just be patient you never know" you need to write a profile and take better pictures tongue out photos are not very appealing | |||
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"Like more body piks or something" Yeah maybe. Have a bit of fun and a bit of a photoshoot and see which ones you like. | |||
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"Cheers verry helpful im quite shy at first so couldnt go to a club alone " Put your tongue away. | |||
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"There’s not enough woman for all the guys on here, so they end up just wanting to fuck other guys lol. That’s why you’ll get loads of messages from guys, but as someone said just block them... " I have didn't realise I could | |||
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"Cheers verry helpful im quite shy at first so couldnt go to a club alone Put your tongue away." Oi sexy. I agree. | |||
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"Cheers verry helpful im quite shy at first so couldnt go to a club alone Put your tongue away. Oi sexy. I agree. " Hello handsome | |||
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"And there was me thinking “sugar tits” was perfectly acceptable OP - treat this place like a bar, there’s no way I would use babe or hun on a first interaction, tbh I’m not sure I’ve called anyone that in my life. Profile/photos wise you have around 3 or 4 seconds to catch someone’s eye with your pics to entice them into reading your bio, would you want to meet you with your current offering? Time is key, politeness and non sexual messages (to begin with) go along way into getting a response." Yeah like a bar is a good one, you wouldn't stroll into a bar and expect sex or even a free drink - get to know people, post, reply, listen and learn, flirt, buy people from north london drinks, stuff like that x | |||
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"I'm from Burton on Trent so will struggle to buy a drink in london" Oi! No jokes allowed rem_mber! | |||
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"I'm from Burton on Trent so will struggle to buy a drink in london" I'm from London and struggle to buy a drink in London. | |||
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"I'm from Burton on Trent so will struggle to buy a drink in london I'm from London and struggle to buy a drink in London. " if I was in London I'd love buy you a drink | |||
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"And there was me thinking “sugar tits” was perfectly acceptable OP - treat this place like a bar, there’s no way I would use babe or hun on a first interaction, tbh I’m not sure I’ve called anyone that in my life. Profile/photos wise you have around 3 or 4 seconds to catch someone’s eye with your pics to entice them into reading your bio, would you want to meet you with your current offering? Time is key, politeness and non sexual messages (to begin with) go along way into getting a response. Yeah like a bar is a good one, you wouldn't stroll into a bar and expect sex or even a free drink - get to know people, post, reply, listen and learn, flirt, buy people from north london drinks, stuff like that x" You see this is. Fab all over. The guy who says treat it like a bar has 16 verifacations. You have 2. Who do listen too? I'm in Carlisle, I'm lucky if I've chatted to 16 people in over a year. | |||
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"I'm from Burton on Trent so will struggle to buy a drink in london I'm from London and struggle to buy a drink in London. " We could be neighbours Lorna, how about i buy you a drink & we have some make up sex? | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping " Apologies Dave...I’m not here to help, well...not you anyway | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping Apologies Dave...I’m not here to help, well...not you anyway " Be nice. | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping " youve been given lots of advice | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping Apologies Dave...I’m not here to help, well...not you anyway " so get if my feed then | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping youve been given lots of advice" thanks for all advice been helpful x | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping Apologies Dave...I’m not here to help, well...not you anyway " Your not helping yourself. | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping Apologies Dave...I’m not here to help, well...not you anyway so get if my feed then" people can post where they like as long as they dont break the rules you have no control over that | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping Apologies Dave...I’m not here to help, well...not you anyway Your not helping yourself. " He doesn’t seem to be listening to what we put or getting forum set up always gunna be banter in with advice | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping Apologies Dave...I’m not here to help, well...not you anyway Your not helping yourself. " Oh believe me i am! | |||
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"OP - you have been given plenty of advice, it’s up to now to take it or not. " ok I have taken it gonna change piks tomorrow morning and have a good tidy up | |||
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"And there was me thinking “sugar tits” was perfectly acceptable OP - treat this place like a bar, there’s no way I would use babe or hun on a first interaction, tbh I’m not sure I’ve called anyone that in my life. Profile/photos wise you have around 3 or 4 seconds to catch someone’s eye with your pics to entice them into reading your bio, would you want to meet you with your current offering? Time is key, politeness and non sexual messages (to begin with) go along way into getting a response. Yeah like a bar is a good one, you wouldn't stroll into a bar and expect sex or even a free drink - get to know people, post, reply, listen and learn, flirt, buy people from north london drinks, stuff like that x You see this is. Fab all over. The guy who says treat it like a bar has 16 verifacations. You have 2. Who do listen too? I'm in Carlisle, I'm lucky if I've chatted to 16 people in over a year. " As they're both saying the same thing, listen to them both And yeah geography can play a part, but being willing to travel can address that to an extent and widens the net a little - but it *does* also come back to what I said further up about approach, attitude and expectations being right too. | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping Apologies Dave...I’m not here to help, well...not you anyway Your not helping yourself. He doesn’t seem to be listening to what we put or getting forum set up always gunna be banter in with advice" I wouldn't call it banter. But each to their own. | |||
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"Listen pal I'm just trying to get some help and u are not helping Apologies Dave...I’m not here to help, well...not you anyway Your not helping yourself. He doesn’t seem to be listening to what we put or getting forum set up always gunna be banter in with advice I wouldn't call it banter. But each to their own." Read back and saw what u meant on certain comments now missed them | |||
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"Yeah gonna do that now I swear half the women on here must me men pretending to be a woman lol OP if you use quote and reply we know who you are replying to. There definitely is men pretending to be women but there are lots of brilliant and genuine people here. I'm sure there is babes job at not found them You need a lot of patience and a really good profile. Just a little tip lots of the women here don't like being called babes, babe or hun Totally this ^^^^ Out of interest.... To both you and lorna, what should men use as term? Not that hat I've used babe, and hate hun. " Our names, maybe? | |||
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"Why do you need three threads about this? How much advice have you followed so far?" Precisely none! | |||
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"Changed piks n updated discription can't do alot more hopefully it's abit better" Be realistic in your expectations don’t expect results overnight.... Time male to female ratio here is a minimum of 1001:1 | |||
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"Changed piks n updated discription can't do alot more hopefully it's abit better" Your profile text looks exactly the same as it did a few hours ago. | |||
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