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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " I do that. I don't think it's judgmental. It's about knowing what you want and that's OK | |||
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"It used to and sometimes still does but then I rem_mber that these people aren't hiding anything. People only show you what they want you to see and what's on fab isn't the only sexual connections people have. Plus I've looked back over the years at people I've chosen to sleep with and thought. What the hell was I thinking? So pot and kettle comes to mind. A lot of these profiles with lots of verification s have been using fab for years. I'm sure if I had been on fab for years I'd have a track record as long as my arm too. " I guess I'd rather be ignorant to the fact. This is my second profile on here and yes I probably have had some regrettable meets but if my face screws up thinking about that person and it turns me off there is nothing I can do to overcome it, it's very much about mental stimulation. | |||
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"It used to and sometimes still does but then I rem_mber that these people aren't hiding anything. People only show you what they want you to see and what's on fab isn't the only sexual connections people have. Plus I've looked back over the years at people I've chosen to sleep with and thought. What the hell was I thinking? So pot and kettle comes to mind. A lot of these profiles with lots of verification s have been using fab for years. I'm sure if I had been on fab for years I'd have a track record as long as my arm too. I guess I'd rather be ignorant to the fact. This is my second profile on here and yes I probably have had some regrettable meets but if my face screws up thinking about that person and it turns me off there is nothing I can do to overcome it, it's very much about mental stimulation." It definitely helps to be ignorant to it. | |||
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"I tend to try and read the veris the guys have left for the women. And if they are totally disrespectful(sucks like a Dyson, lots of detail type veris), I'm totally turned off" I cancelled a meet in the summer because in the few days between arranging to meet and meeting they met and were verid by someone else and i just felt a bit like "ew". I know that makes no sense given the site but inwas enjoying the build up and anticipation and it felt like the other person had burst the bubble a bit. | |||
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"I tend to try and read the veris the guys have left for the women. And if they are totally disrespectful(sucks like a Dyson, lots of detail type veris), I'm totally turned off I cancelled a meet in the summer because in the few days between arranging to meet and meeting they met and were verid by someone else and i just felt a bit like "ew". I know that makes no sense given the site but inwas enjoying the build up and anticipation and it felt like the other person had burst the bubble a bit. " It's called pride chief. I've had that. But you realise that's the nature of some of the women on here. Some are really nymphomaniacs or are making up for lost time because of one reason or another. It's not really a bad thing that they do, I wish I could have as many partners as some do on here, but theres also nothing wrong with being a bit hurt when you see they have been with someone else within 24 hours of meeting you. It does take away the adrenaline, lust, excitement a bit and it can make you less enthusiastic about them too. Unless you understand that just because they have many partners, doesnt mean they ain't all friends as well. I've been messaged by someone who kept saying let's meet but I'm busy and then spent weeks telling me about all the meets she had been having, but would get to me eventually. I felt like I was waiting at argos. | |||
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"I tend to try and read the veris the guys have left for the women. And if they are totally disrespectful(sucks like a Dyson, lots of detail type veris), I'm totally turned off I cancelled a meet in the summer because in the few days between arranging to meet and meeting they met and were verid by someone else and i just felt a bit like "ew". I know that makes no sense given the site but inwas enjoying the build up and anticipation and it felt like the other person had burst the bubble a bit. It's called pride chief. I've had that. But you realise that's the nature of some of the women on here. Some are really nymphomaniacs or are making up for lost time because of one reason or another. It's not really a bad thing that they do, I wish I could have as many partners as some do on here, but theres also nothing wrong with being a bit hurt when you see they have been with someone else within 24 hours of meeting you. It does take away the adrenaline, lust, excitement a bit and it can make you less enthusiastic about them too. Unless you understand that just because they have many partners, doesnt mean they ain't all friends as well. I've been messaged by someone who kept saying let's meet but I'm busy and then spent weeks telling me about all the meets she had been having, but would get to me eventually. I felt like I was waiting at argos. " Cheers dude. Def was a pride thing and ye due to lack of general interest knocked my ego thinking id been picked as worth a meet. There is hypocrisy involved on my part as it is probably a lack of options in general that mean i felt that way. It is interesting what you can still learn about yourself at 36. | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " That's not logical. You have issues plainly. Perhaps you need to work through them. | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " very judgemental In my opinion . Im sure the people you are refering to have standards too but just becuse they aint your standards dont mean they dont have any  | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? very judgemental In my opinion . Im sure the people you are refering to have standards too but just becuse they aint your standards dont mean they dont have any "Im tending to agree. | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? That's not logical. You have issues plainly. Perhaps you need to work through them. " Issues, yes I'm sure we all do. | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? very judgemental In my opinion . Im sure the people you are refering to have standards too but just becuse they aint your standards dont mean they dont have any "So I should just reply to their message to me and give them a chance? I'm not talking about looking at random profiles and judging them, I'm talking about people who message me with a view to play and turning them down because yes I'm noisy and look at their past veris and make a decision based on that. | |||
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"I been turned off by photos and verifications... I need to feel comfortable and confident who I wana have fun with. And if any information in any form is off putting, it's my sixth sense telling me he's not suitable. " ^^^^This is so true, always trust your inner instinct also | |||
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" I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " You’re not being judgemental at all; you’re in here for your own needs, and desires, and should only ever meet people who feel ‘right’ for you | |||
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"You should only meet the people you are interested in. And if something puts you off them regardless of why then that’s not judgemental. However out of curiosity do you show all your veris ? You don’t have the verification summary showing on your profile either. So have you met people people you regret or do you have veris you think would put others off you ? " Hello
For some reason people I don't know have verified me and have asked for one back. So that's why I don't show all because it's just not a reflection of who I have met x | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " I feel it is judgemental personally. I know it's a bit different but if you were to meet a person in a club (vanilla or lifestyle) you wouldn't start grilling them about past partners before making your decision. You would take that person at face value. Having said that, it's your choice who you meet with so if it works for you then that's all that matters. | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? I feel it is judgemental personally. I know it's a bit different but if you were to meet a person in a club (vanilla or lifestyle) you wouldn't start grilling them about past partners before making your decision. You would take that person at face value. Having said that, it's your choice who you meet with so if it works for you then that's all that matters." True in a swinging club you wouldn't be able to go so in-depth as you would on the site but the facility to do so is here so use it right? For a social meet you could get an idea of the person and make a judgement off that. In a vanilla setting (I don't go clubbing, so i wouldn't know) but let's say a tinder date, again like a social meet, you could get an idea of the type of person they are. Let's not fool ourselves, we all make judgements of people who we potentially could have sex with and the decision making is influenced by the information that is available to us. Fab just makes it easier to follow that trail. I admit that there are some people I have dated or those I have played with where I look back and think " what was I thinking?". Well I was making a choice based on what I knew at the time. Granted I won't know everything as not everyone shows the entire truth on here but you make a decision based on what is there. | |||
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"Only if it appears they have done bareback or the woman looks like she has something. Other than that, who am I to judge what someone else deemed attractive?" This is my main gripe, where the person the man has met is not practicing safer sex and they have played with all sorts of questionable people... I guess it's more about protecting my health. If a man I meet has met an older/younger woman, a larger lady, a slimmer lady, etc. It doesn't bother me much. | |||
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" True in a swinging club you wouldn't be able to go so in-depth as you would on the site but the facility to do so is here so use it right? For a social meet you could get an idea of the person and make a judgement off that. In a vanilla setting (I don't go clubbing, so i wouldn't know) but let's say a tinder date, again like a social meet, you could get an idea of the type of person they are. Let's not fool ourselves, we all make judgements of people who we potentially could have sex with and the decision making is influenced by the information that is available to us. Fab just makes it easier to follow that trail. I admit that there are some people I have dated or those I have played with where I look back and think " what was I thinking?". Well I was making a choice based on what I knew at the time. Granted I won't know everything as not everyone shows the entire truth on here but you make a decision based on what is there." The facility to follow the veri trail is there and even though we feel differently it's entirely up to you how you use it. You've kinda said it yourself re. Social settings. They allow you to make a judgement on that person due to personality, how they interact etc. I just believe by following a veri trail your not actually allowing said person the opportunity but rather judging them by others. Maybe I'm in the minority but I'll stick to not making any prior judgemnts on people | |||
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"Only if it appears they have done bareback or the woman looks like she has something. Other than that, who am I to judge what someone else deemed attractive? This is my main gripe, where the person the man has met is not practicing safer sex and they have played with all sorts of questionable people... I guess it's more about protecting my health. If a man I meet has met an older/younger woman, a larger lady, a slimmer lady, etc. It doesn't bother me much." This right here is my gripe. 'If the woman looks like she has something's That's just ridiculous, may she has or hasn't, it still doesnt mean he has or hasn't. And plenty of perfectly decent looking people have contracted infections | |||
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"Guilty of doing this, funny isn’t it, although everyone has different tastes I just don’t like to think they are any port in a storm. Make sure they are not just social club veris before you decide not to meet them though "I have lots of club veris a lot of them are just social. Like you say I hope people read my veris before they make a decision  | |||
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"I was judged for having too many on my old account, if people actually took the time to read them they'd see most were club veries and were social ones not fuck meet ones. I had multiple veries from people and people who verified after deleting their accounts. But not everyone verified either so no one has a true count of social veries or play ones. Also judging someone for having too many on a swingers site .... See the irony? Nothing quite like slut shaming on a sexually liberated website that people indulge in sex with strangers. " | |||
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"I was judged for having too many on my old account, if people actually took the time to read them they'd see most were club veries and were social ones not fuck meet ones. I had multiple veries from people and people who verified after deleting their accounts. But not everyone verified either so no one has a true count of social veries or play ones. Also judging someone for having too many on a swingers site .... See the irony? Nothing quite like slut shaming on a sexually liberated website that people indulge in sex with strangers. " I've never judged based on the amount of veris. | |||
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"If someone or couple have too many veris then this turns me off and also I don’t tell all in my veris. " How do you know a lot are not hidden? We know people that have been on Fab for years like us but only show the last 12 months so looks like 10 but there’s 110 lol | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " your name is not literally _angbangfantasy? is it?  | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? your name is not literally _angbangfantasy? is it? "seeing the priest holding you over the font i christen thee  | |||
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"We have that problem. We have some turn offs definitely but we also look at the way the person is verifying others. If it's crude or crass it's a no." Never had a crude or crass one, suspect they are not the type of people we attract. | |||
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"You should only meet the people you are interested in. And if something puts you off them regardless of why then that’s not judgemental. However out of curiosity do you show all your veris ? You don’t have the verification summary showing on your profile either. So have you met people people you regret or do you have veris you think would put others off you ? Hello
For some reason people I don't know have verified me and have asked for one back. So that's why I don't show all because it's just not a reflection of who I have met x"but surely if the verification is false you have the choice to take that verification down. | |||
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"I rem_mber ages ago I looked at a woman's profile, and it said the usual "I'm not looking to sleep with half the site". I looked at her veris, and it was like scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll.... verified by 278 people. That put me off a little. " Did you even bother to ready any?? Did you ask how long she was on the site for? Making assumptions is the worse thing with verifications. People need to understand verifications aren't a true image of a person. It's a glimpse. I know for a fact some who say they rarely meet and lack of verifications would agree but they are had sex with many people. Then the cheek of it some of them have the nerve to slut shame others! People picking up hookups from dating sites, hooking up in nightclubs but on fab they display themselves as saints! No one knows how many people someone has had sex with and I don't see why it matters on a swingers site. It's a site to engage in mutual pleasures. Not a purity site. | |||
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"I really didnt think there would be sex snobs on a sex site looking down on others based on veris. I thought the idea was to be sexually liberated and personal choice if u slept with 1 or 101 it's your own personal choice. There is no right or wrong way to write a veri if the person receiving it is happy with it they will display if not they can hide it. X" 200% agree, always makes me laugh the “quality over quantity” bull crap! You can have both and what your saying is our meets were not quality, I guess all our play friends could be offended by that!  | |||
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"I really didnt think there would be sex snobs on a sex site looking down on others based on veris. I thought the idea was to be sexually liberated and personal choice if u slept with 1 or 101 it's your own personal choice. There is no right or wrong way to write a veri if the person receiving it is happy with it they will display if not they can hide it. X 200% agree, always makes me laugh the “quality over quantity” bull crap! You can have both and what your saying is our meets were not quality, I guess all our play friends could be offended by that! "Just dont understand judging people on a swingers site x | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " I hate to tell you this... but im sure everyone on this site has had sex | |||
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"Did you even bother to ready any?? " Settle down... Yes I did, and she sounded like a one woman STI epidemic. | |||
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"I rem_mber ages ago I looked at a woman's profile, and it said the usual "I'm not looking to sleep with half the site". I looked at her veris, and it was like scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll scroll.... verified by 278 people. That put me off a little. Did you even bother to ready any?? Did you ask how long she was on the site for? Making assumptions is the worse thing with verifications. People need to understand verifications aren't a true image of a person. It's a glimpse. I know for a fact some who say they rarely meet and lack of verifications would agree but they are had sex with many people. Then the cheek of it some of them have the nerve to slut shame others! People picking up hookups from dating sites, hooking up in nightclubs but on fab they display themselves as saints! No one knows how many people someone has had sex with and I don't see why it matters on a swingers site. It's a site to engage in mutual pleasures. Not a purity site." | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. Totally agree with you. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " I am exactly the same, sent a number of people on their way due to who they have been with on here, after looking at their veris. Are we judgemental? Maybe, but nothing wrong with having some standards and being picky | |||
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"Not here to just the quantity, it's the quality. That's my personal opinion. " I agree with you, it’s the content and crudeness of some of the veri’s that puts me off. Yes, you can be engaging in your mutual pleasures in whatever way you enjoy, each to their own. However, if I read a crass veri which makes me think ‘oh no, not for us’ I’ll pass the person by. I’m not about to send them a message or ‘slut shame‘ them or any such nastiness, but, we all have standards that we adhere to. We are all different in our needs and desires. I always read every single veri if I look at someone’s profile, I ascertain how long they have been on the site, how many are social veri’s, how many are veri’s in which they have played with others, I never make assumptions and am not judgemental in the slightest. If it isn’t written & displayed, how does anyone know what you have been up to... however, if you choose to display your endless, seedy veri’s, then you need to be prepared that some people will be put off by that. | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? I hate to tell you this... but im sure everyone on this site has had sex "Wrong  | |||
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"When I get messages from men I look at their profiles and check out their veris too, I'm curious. Sometimes I'll see a veri of theirs and get massively turned off by that person that makes it clear in my mind that I don't want to meet the guy. I know I'm no angel (my profile name is literally "Gangbangfantasy ") but I'd like to think I have certain standards. I just can't shake the thought of being intimate with that guy if he's had sex with someone that massively turns me off. Am I too judgemental here or is my thinking somewhat logical? " For me , the main use of veris is that the person/couple is real - and not fake. If someone doesnt have veris, I know they are very, very likely to be fake. It jus saves a lot of time | |||
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