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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

Hey folk, ok so probably not the most PC of subjects but advice needed!

We’re booked to go to our first ever party tonight (whoop) and I’m due on!

Well tell a lie I’m 9 days late (thanks to pcos my body does what it likes whenever the fuck it likes!) so I should have been done and dusted and free to play by now.

So while I’m not technically on I’m very close to being (symptomatic)

It doesn’t limit soft play I guess but should I risk it?

My biggest concern is I get a sense of “it’s not gonna happen tonight” play away and then bamn it happens while I’m there

Ah the embarrassment.......

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon


"Hey folk, ok so probably not the most PC of subjects but advice needed!

We’re booked to go to our first ever party tonight (whoop) and I’m due on!

Well tell a lie I’m 9 days late (thanks to pcos my body does what it likes whenever the fuck it likes!) so I should have been done and dusted and free to play by now.

So while I’m not technically on I’m very close to being (symptomatic)

It doesn’t limit soft play I guess but should I risk it?

My biggest concern is I get a sense of “it’s not gonna happen tonight” play away and then bamn it happens while I’m there

Ah the embarrassment.......

"

Go.. Enjoy the social and perhaps some soft play... And just.. Take a preventative precaution and use a tampon or cup etc... Just make sure you mention that you are on soft swap only for moment. You could have alot of fun still and possibly meet some lovely people ans enjoy the social too.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

The above sounds like sensible advice. Don't miss out on the opportunity to meet even if you are limited to social and some "soft play"...!!

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

Ah thanks both. I don’t want to miss it we’ve had it planned for ages!

I have my precautions, even red knickers I mean come on! Haha

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have PCOS, and it makes arranging future dates an absolute shitshow.

Someone on here recommended Beppy sponge tampons and they have been a godsend for me. They're a nightmare to use initially, getting them placed right and trying to remove them, but I got the hang of them really quickly.

It's not much help right now because I've not seen them in the shops (I got mine on ebay), but worth considering for future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently taking ibuprofen can help delay things. I haven't tried it but I'm sure a quick search on here or Google will tell you what dose to use.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go have fun and if It happens when your there just stop.drop and roll put of there xxx

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Don't forget the brain is the greatest sex organ and it, of course, will not be affected...!! I realize it stops the obvious sex act between a man and a woman but there is so much else to do....good snog ?!!!

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Apparently taking ibuprofen can help delay things. I haven't tried it but I'm sure a quick search on here or Google will tell you what dose to use.

Mrs x"

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/934809

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"I have PCOS, and it makes arranging future dates an absolute shitshow.

Someone on here recommended Beppy sponge tampons and they have been a godsend for me. They're a nightmare to use initially, getting them placed right and trying to remove them, but I got the hang of them really quickly.

It's not much help right now because I've not seen them in the shops (I got mine on ebay), but worth considering for future."

Ah thank you. I’ll give them a google.

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Apparently taking ibuprofen can help delay things. I haven't tried it but I'm sure a quick search on here or Google will tell you what dose to use.

Mrs x"

I’ll try that anyway because even if it doesn’t delay things it’ll help make the cramps feck off! x

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Go have fun and if It happens when your there just stop.drop and roll put of there xxx"

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Don't forget the brain is the greatest sex organ and it, of course, will not be affected...!! I realize it stops the obvious sex act between a man and a woman but there is so much else to do....good snog ?!!!"

Yeah I love a good smooch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve used the beppy sponges. From amazon.

Get the wet ones..

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"I’ve used the beppy sponges. From amazon.

Get the wet ones..

"

Ty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey folk, ok so probably not the most PC of subjects but advice needed!

We’re booked to go to our first ever party tonight (whoop) and I’m due on!

Well tell a lie I’m 9 days late (thanks to pcos my body does what it likes whenever the fuck it likes!) so I should have been done and dusted and free to play by now.

So while I’m not technically on I’m very close to being (symptomatic)

It doesn’t limit soft play I guess but should I risk it?

My biggest concern is I get a sense of “it’s not gonna happen tonight” play away and then bamn it happens while I’m there

Ah the embarrassment.......

"

don't go imagine if some guy goes down and comes up redfaced you'll be right embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go, fuck it...wear white jeans

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Hey folk, ok so probably not the most PC of subjects but advice needed!

We’re booked to go to our first ever party tonight (whoop) and I’m due on!

Well tell a lie I’m 9 days late (thanks to pcos my body does what it likes whenever the fuck it likes!) so I should have been done and dusted and free to play by now.

So while I’m not technically on I’m very close to being (symptomatic)

It doesn’t limit soft play I guess but should I risk it?

My biggest concern is I get a sense of “it’s not gonna happen tonight” play away and then bamn it happens while I’m there

Ah the embarrassment.......

don't go imagine if some guy goes down and comes up redfaced you'll be right embarrassed "

Haha yes that would not be good at all!

I just think I’ll put a label on my dress saying soft play only

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By *rMrsRich OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouh


"Go, fuck it...wear white jeans "

You are an adrenaline junky I can tell!!

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