FabSwingers.com forum: Art of Flirting

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

*gets notebook out *

Advice I’ve given myself is *checks notes* ‘don’t be yourself’. Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Print off your pics and hand them out to whatever men you meet that you take a fancy too. Follow that up with a card noting "Cocks less than 6.5 inches in length by 5 inches girth (circumference) (i love being stretched and mouth full of hard cock)".

That will set aside any notions of flirting that you may be poor at. Straight to the point and lets those small cocks know you're a no go area!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Print off your pics and hand them out to whatever men you meet that you take a fancy too. Follow that up with a card noting "Cocks less than 6.5 inches in length by 5 inches girth (circumference) (i love being stretched and mouth full of hard cock)".

That will set aside any notions of flirting that you may be poor at. Straight to the point and lets those small cocks know you're a no go area!"

Sarcasm not your strength I see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm giving you gold plated advice here. Don't use at your own peril.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I would google the acronym HOTAPE.

You should find some good YouTube videos around that idea. It's simple, but effective.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I would google the acronym HOTAPE.

You should find some good YouTube videos around that idea. It's simple, but effective."

Yes excellent advice.. Might help others here too. Duno if it improves people's sense of humour though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laugh at our jokes, massage our...ego. Show a little titty etc We’re visually stimulated so words just won’t cut it sweety & with a bum like that, well...you know

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Laugh at our jokes, massage our...ego. Show a little titty etc We’re visually stimulated so words just won’t cut it sweety & with a bum like that, well...you know

So a man not worth flirting with if he hasn't got a sense of humour? I rarely meet a guy with a great sense of humour. If i did, i definitely laugh

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I get told I’m a very flirtatious person, I’ve no idea how that happens but I guess it’s just reading the situation and playfully trying your luck with gently pressing boundaries and buttons.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Flirting is more subtlety, not mentioning sex or girth for a start!

You are rare but not the first person to be confident enough to state what you want in sex but be lost with small talk - where the slow flirty build up is a challenge. It takes practice to have it both ways - the firm dom and the coquettish ingenue. Hotape (mentioned earlier) is a good pointer.

You will get a different kind of guy if you vary your approach to a degree, and that will most likely carry through to the bed (is that what you are after?) To some extent the flirt IS the objective, we all do it and only sometimes is the bed the intended or actual outcome. Talking about anything other than sex, being interested and attentive in his/her opinion, the list is big. Perhaps that is why it is tougher to do

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I have issues trying to flirt especially in text so hope you don't mind me bookmarking this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That will set aside any notions of flirting that you may be poor at. Straight to the point and lets those small cocks know you're a no go area!

Sarcasm not your strength I see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very flirtatious in person.

Cant do do it to save my life in text. Unless it's in response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not flirt on here. It is wayyyy to hard to gauge what people are actually saying. Plus, response time is way too slow.

I would talk about mutual interests, pick a topic and discuss eg music or food or travel ect. Personality shines through a little more naturally, move onto irl where you can actually flirt.

At least, this is the way I would prefer it. Mostly just get asked about my cock and face. Not the best way to start a convo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

Probably best if you try out on me and I can let you know if it's working or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An example of how not to flirt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need to flirt with someone and find they are not giving you the come on then there is only a few answers either you have not noticed the white stick that they have beside them or they are not interested in females because you look stunning from your pics

On a serious note when I flirt I like to use humour good eye contact and compliments

Good luck and try a few things see what works for you most of all come across as confident x

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"If you need to flirt with someone and find they are not giving you the come on then there is only a few answers either you have not noticed the white stick that they have beside them or they are not interested in females because you look stunning from your pics

On a serious note when I flirt I like to use humour good eye contact and compliments

Good luck and try a few things see what works for you most of all come across as confident x"

Most men i meet in person put me in either in friends zone, think I'm not interested or probably is gay lol... Seriously i think i give don't give a dam vibe making me unapproachable. On text I'm very matter of fact type. Blunt and cheeky too.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I'm pretty useless if I try to flirt. Generally I just be myself goofy self and people either like me or they don't.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I can't flirt by text. Face to face, I'm very attracted to a woman who,

Makes eye contact

Listens to me

Smiles

We seem to have lots in common

Touches me, hand, arm, etc

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Girls flirty is very different to how guys flirt, it’s more submissive and in response to the guys actions and words , otherwise it could be seen as dominant and a bit of a turn off, which is unfortunate

Girls flirt by using lots of eye contact, nodding, as you talk and smiling and laughing at your jokes, then getting really close and a bit touchy. They will make excuses to touch you when talking like playfully grabbing your arm or punching you

Tell a really bad joke, if she’s laughing she’s flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

It's pretty easy for any woman to make the first move. All you really need to do is say hi with a winking face and they'll soon send you a cheeky message back....the flirting will just flow from there for you both.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was flirting with you ( if, if!) then it would be about the most subtle elements of your profile pics like your anklets, your frilly er.. things and enjoying your view. It's more difficult as it's the first move x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gawd. F2f I’m really good at flirting so could help you out OP. On here though, I’m a bloody disaster

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

1.-Show him just a little bit of your hidden treasures, of your passion, of your sensuality...

2.-Let him to imagine the rest

3.-Give him the hope that she can have you... if he deserves you.

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I'm always, quite blunt. Unfortunately I've been round the block so many times I have a fair bit of experience and tend to tell girls very straight what I'm interested in! Generally it seems to work on the girls I'm really interested in! And the important thing is not to come across as desperate?(Girls don't seem to be interested in desperate guys?) And as I'm not blessed with looks for a girl as stunning as OP it should be a pushover as she's certainly got'eye appeal '!

Get in girl and best of luck!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

I try that next time to see if he replies. Usually when i wink which is rare... The guy just says "thanks for the wink"..... N that's it. So I'm guessing he's just being polite and nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to flirt on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Laugh at our jokes, massage our...ego. Show a little titty etc We’re visually stimulated so words just won’t cut it sweety & with a bum like that, well...you know

So a man not worth flirting with if he hasn't got a sense of humour? I rarely meet a guy with a great sense of humour. If i did, i definitely laugh "

I’m just being sarky

depends what does it for you.

You just have to show some interest in a guy for him to take the hint, we usually see the sign & roll with it

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Engage in the moment not the head.

And as 65% of communication comes through body language, use it.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Engage in the moment not the head.

And as 65% of communication comes through body language, use it."

How's that possible on text if you meeting each other online?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Engage in the moment not the head.

And as 65% of communication comes through body language, use it.

How's that possible on text if you meeting each other online? "

Send videos of you saying things

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

You don’t need to go to all this trouble to flirt with me, a message will tell me all I need to know

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I'm a total flirt. I do it even when I'm trying not to.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I'm a total flirt. I do it even when I'm trying not to.

I've been told the same and been totally misunderstood too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you know the person is looking at you pretend you dont realise and let them see you checking them out.Then look up and smile. Or if they walk off check out their bum and hope they turn around and catch you. While talking to someone try to find a way to touch their arm or leg. I think flirting is better done with the body rather than cheesy lines.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"When you know the person is looking at you pretend you dont realise and let them see you checking them out.Then look up and smile. Or if they walk off check out their bum and hope they turn around and catch you. While talking to someone try to find a way to touch their arm or leg. I think flirting is better done with the body rather than cheesy lines. "

Blimey you brought my old post from the past.

My original question was how to flirt with people on fab/online as I'm useless at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the purple hair. Purple its my favourite colour. love how you choose to dress you look elegant. You dont need to worry about flirting

looking as good as you do I'm sure people flirt with you all the time.

If you want to start a conversation with some one just jokingly message them and say they many need to check their mail sending is working as you dont seem to have an email from them. Ask them to message you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

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in person a smile is totally disarming but in cyberspace then " i really love your thighs can i administer suntan lotion please" that would work for me and yes you can

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

in person a smile is totally disarming but in cyberspace then " i really love your thighs can i administer suntan lotion please" that would work for me and yes you can

Might be able to go Studland again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am pretty hopeless at it... Actually completely useless. Please offer me tips how to seduce a man on text and in person. Strangers, dates etc. Thanks

in person a smile is totally disarming but in cyberspace then " i really love your thighs can i administer suntan lotion please" that would work for me and yes you can

Might be able to go Studland again

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lol hey maybe we've met already

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