FabSwingers.com forum: Getting frustrated

By * and C 123 OP Couple
over a year ago

Delamere

Hi everyone, hoping someone can give us some advice.

We are finding that so many on here just send messages that end up leading to nothing. We really want to play with people.

What are we doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inbox messages dont tend to be a very helpful way of starting conversations. In my experience getting to know people at social events, on the forums or in the chat rooms is much more helpful.

I know that I ignore 99.9% of inbox messages and that's not unusual for lots of people, single females and some couples experience real inbox fatigue.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I think the "want to get stuck in" header might put some people off and your comment that 90% of people on fab are times wasters comes across as moaning and a little angry

You've not been on long so I think it's probably just a case of being patient but more importantly relaxing a bit and going with the flow more

Or use the clubs that your veri comes from

Good luck though I'm sure you'll do well in the long run

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I think the "want to get stuck in" header might put some people off and your comment that 90% of people on fab are times wasters comes across as moaning and a little angry

You've not been on long so I think it's probably just a case of being patient but more importantly relaxing a bit and going with the flow more

Or use the clubs that your veri comes from

Good luck though I'm sure you'll do well in the long run "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see that your doing anything wrong your profile states what your looking for a think everyone on here has probably come across time wasters Inot the past keep using the forums you will get to know people who want the same as you and will be able to have an idea when someone is being genuine or not good luck

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By *uriousMe2018Couple
over a year ago

Aldershot

We have been on here for a couple of years now and choose our meets carefully. Time wasters are plentyand would account for about 80% of the messages and conversations we have on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, hoping someone can give us some advice.

We are finding that so many on here just send messages that end up leading to nothing. We really want to play with people.

What are we doing wrong? "
not sure really, your profile is short and it contains a very negative end which probably puts people off oh and both bi perhaps that puts a few more off, its all about how and who you message i suppose and we're not aparty to that

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I joined a local Facebook group recently it now has over 180 members. The leader regularly puts up meet ideas and days out, but only a few turn up for these socials, 10 at the last one and about 20 contribute to the chat groups.

The ones who turn up at the socials are the ones you can rely on, who are actively wanting to get involved with the group's intent.

Same on here, you're more likely to get meets with people who go to socials or clubs, than the higher percentage that are just here as voyeur's.

Check verifications, look at going to your nearest social or club, then you'll find the real swingers

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Honestly go to a club. We did our first one recently and even though it was just a social it gets you out there and you get to know who is real and vica versa.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Honestly go to a club. We did our first one recently and even though it was just a social it gets you out there and you get to know who is real and vica versa.

Agree with this. We've met some lovely people in clubs

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