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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So today I had to knock on my next door neighbour to see if they had collected a parcel of mine.

I see the lady and her husband all the time and knew their son lived there too but I'd never seen him.

Anyway I was stunned when I saw him and his voice

is it too weird that I've found him on Facebook already... Should I send a friend request?

Soooo torn and don't want to be super creepy haha

Any advice would be appreciated

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Did you chat?

How old is he?

Was he friendly?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very briefly he was very nice and polite and just so gorgeous I can't stop being curious about wanting to chat to him properly haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very briefly he was very nice and polite and just so gorgeous I can't stop being curious about wanting to chat to him properly haha"

Order more parcels

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Think of an excuse to pop round again?

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By *immybathMan
over a year ago

melksham

As a guy this would be something that many do fantasies about. Me included. Getting a hello from a sexy stunning lady like yourself. Find an excuse to pop round when you know he’s in.

Flirt with him n send friend req on FB. see where it goes. Enjoy yourself n stay safe. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the friend request was sent last night.

Not accepted yet, tempted to just message saying hey I'm your neighbour, how are you but wondering if I will seem desperate when I'm not.

Just need something that will get a direct response from him ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How would you feel if the only social interaction with was handing him a parcel contacted you like this?

If you'd feel ok about it send the !message, if you'd find it a bit creepy, don't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My first sentence makes no sense .

How would you feel if a guy with who the only social interaction you'd had was handing over a parcel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask if he has a bowl of sugar spare lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking for trouble long term, you could end up with neighbours from hell if it turned sour

That said, I lost my virginity to my next door neighbour, just the once and we stayed friends, just a very nice memory

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd be super careful given hes a neighbor but the attraction is telling me to atleast get a feel for the kind of guy he is before thinking if I should back off.

I'd love it if someone randomely messaged me after handing me a parcel, even just as a little boost.

His expression was similar to mine when he opened the door... Though could have been shock at my neon pink hair lmao.

Whereas I was gawping at thos gorgeous, tattooed god of a man

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By *immybathMan
over a year ago

melksham

How much is it to move to the other side of you and start ordering parcels to be “left with a neighbour”. Lol.

It’s an erotic scenario. I’m sure you’re sensible enough to gauge the situation.

But if the house next door to you comes up for sake just let me know. Just saying.

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By *obert2Man
over a year ago

durham

id want u to stalk me lol ya lush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was the guy next door I mean wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well he still hasn't read my message so may not use fb much but done a bit more digging and he has a gf so I'll abandon my hope lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well he still hasn't read my message so may not use fb much but done a bit more digging and he has a gf so I'll abandon my hope lmao"

Just been wondering - is a fb friend request to a virtual stranger an ok way to proceed? Sincerely curious to know - there have been a couple of local ladies I found on fb that I'd have liked to express an interest in, but didn't in case it was a creepy thing to do...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well he still hasn't read my message so may not use fb much but done a bit more digging and he has a gf so I'll abandon my hope lmao

Just been wondering - is a fb friend request to a virtual stranger an ok way to proceed? Sincerely curious to know - there have been a couple of local ladies I found on fb that I'd have liked to express an interest in, but didn't in case it was a creepy thing to do..."

I'm really past the point in considering things like this.

If it frightens someone off then I don't imagine they would handle how honest I am in general haha

Its the same as tinder I've decided, if he accepts then he's opened a line of communication if not then I'll leave it be and adore him on my way back from the shops lmao

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ive had neighbour potential but always refused. If it was perhaps for LTR, I might change my mind but would be very wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very creepy to send a random Facebook request in my opinion.

You’ve never seen the guy before never mind know him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well he still hasn't read my message so may not use fb much but done a bit more digging and he has a gf so I'll abandon my hope lmao

Just been wondering - is a fb friend request to a virtual stranger an ok way to proceed? Sincerely curious to know - there have been a couple of local ladies I found on fb that I'd have liked to express an interest in, but didn't in case it was a creepy thing to do...

I'm really past the point in considering things like this.

If it frightens someone off then I don't imagine they would handle how honest I am in general haha

Its the same as tinder I've decided, if he accepts then he's opened a line of communication if not then I'll leave it be and adore him on my way back from the shops lmao "

If he has a gf us it not best to leave it now? x

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Too late as the FB request has gone.

Just see how it goes.

You can laugh it off if it seems awkward when next face to face

Or

It goes smashing. Some don't respond for ages.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The FB request is a bit much considering you live next door, i’d be wondering how you found me on FB then suspect what other detective work you’d done on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well he still hasn't read my message so may not use fb much but done a bit more digging and he has a gf so I'll abandon my hope lmao

Just been wondering - is a fb friend request to a virtual stranger an ok way to proceed? Sincerely curious to know - there have been a couple of local ladies I found on fb that I'd have liked to express an interest in, but didn't in case it was a creepy thing to do...

I'm really past the point in considering things like this.

If it frightens someone off then I don't imagine they would handle how honest I am in general haha

Its the same as tinder I've decided, if he accepts then he's opened a line of communication if not then I'll leave it be and adore him on my way back from the shops lmao "

I like that. Makes plenty of sense. Ta x

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