FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

How to send messages

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it appears that winks are generally ignored. When I write a long nice message, it gets deleted typically before being read.

So advice: what should I put in a message that is quick and to the point, but not over the top?

Like a message wink i guess.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *agnbonermanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not gonna lie ...there is no perfect message unfortunately.

Best advice I can give. Write something then delete the sent message. If its meant to be then you'll get your reply

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 23/02/20 07:43:09]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Read the persons profile before messaging and say something that relates to it, that way they will think your interested in them but of course you need to be what they are looking for, good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what you put in your messages but I would hope you send a face pic, minus the shades! Your profile is pretty good compared to most (which is usually read before messages are opened). Alot of the time it can all be down to timing, if you fit what someone is looking for and always down to attraction

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not gonna lie ...there is no perfect message unfortunately.

Best advice I can give. Write something then delete the sent message. If its meant to be then you'll get your reply "
this is actually very good advice if you can't see it as a negative then it isn't

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not gonna lie ...there is no perfect message unfortunately.

Best advice I can give. Write something then delete the sent message. If its meant to be then you'll get your reply "

Loool truee

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Perthshire

A short message that shows you've taken time to read a profile & make sure you fit what they're looking for. Don't try to create a generic copy & paste message because they are easy to spot & usually result in an instant delete & no reply. Also try to put something more imaginative than hi/hey in the subject section so that you stand out amongst the other unopened messages in the inbox

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top