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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a fantasy with the wife for a while and she has actually finally agreed to it,

Its we are in a sauna , in swim suits, and she has agreed to let a stranger start to touch her tits and she will wank him off while I watch... Baby steps , but where can this happen lol ????? Help

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

A club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a fantasy with the wife for a while and she has actually finally agreed to it,

Its we are in a sauna , in swim suits, and she has agreed to let a stranger start to touch her tits and she will wank him off while I watch... Baby steps , but where can this happen lol ????? Help"

local sports centre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they have a no petting rule then I guess the bathroom section of wicks?

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

What happened to the last fantasy you posted about? (Green arrow).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"Unless they have a no petting rule then I guess the bathroom section of wicks?"

I just spat my brew all over my iPad at this

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

Get yourself a hot tub

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Had a fantasy with the wife for a while and she has actually finally agreed to it,

Its we are in a sauna , in swim suits, and she has agreed to let a stranger start to touch her tits and she will wank him off while I watch... Baby steps , but where can this happen lol ????? Help"

Most clothed saunas are in leisure centres so this kind of thing wouldn't be allowed. Most saunas in clubs are naked. I'm not sure where you'd find a location to be truthful. Would she agree to go to a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened to the last fantasy you posted about? (Green arrow). "

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless they have a no petting rule then I guess the bathroom section of wicks?"

Pmsl

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

What’s her perspective on your meets as a single guy?

Surely she’s pretty open minded to let you have your own profile on here so not sure about the baby steps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of clubs have a no play in the pool/hot tubs rule

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport


"Had a fantasy with the wife for a while and she has actually finally agreed to it,

Its we are in a sauna , in swim suits, and she has agreed to let a stranger start to touch her tits and she will wank him off while I watch... Baby steps , but where can this happen lol ????? Help"

Done this for real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless they have a no petting rule then I guess the bathroom section of wicks?"

Nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a fantasy with the wife for a while and she has actually finally agreed to it,

Its we are in a sauna , in swim suits, and she has agreed to let a stranger start to touch her tits and she will wank him off while I watch... Baby steps , but where can this happen lol ????? Help"

I like that you're in a swimsuit too. How fetching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless they have a no petting rule then I guess the bathroom section of wicks?"

What an absolute pearler...

Pissed myself laughing

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

My ex wanted to be fucked as she bent over the freezer. It was great fun and well worth the lifetime ban from Tesco

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By *ry_sexualfunMan
over a year ago

ambergate

Look up leisure centres who have a clothing optional nights usually have a hot tub where she can relax in a swimsuit bikini topless or naked

I’m sure if she’s comfortable plenty of people will notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During my teens I tuck my girlfriend swimming. It was a large “Fun Pool” that had wave machines and various different slides / water channels / hot tubs like affairs. As we floated around the pool my girlfriend kissed me so I sneakily slid my hand between her legs, some lifeguard actually noticed me and kicked us both out of the pool and banned us from the swimming pool, I mean really we were only kids ourselves, about 17 years old maybe.

The point been... Be careful. You have public decency laws to uphold, and any public “Pool” will not take kindly to some random dude shooting his load in one of their pools. Potentially if they see this then they will have to close the entire pool / empty it / deep clean it / then send you the bill.

Also be careful that the place you choose does not have CCTV. Sure its illegal to have CCTV in a changing room / toilet / shower area. But its not illegal to have CCTV covering the main pools. I have began to notice this a lot more now. Pools now like CCTV so when children are running around and acting like idiots and get hurt the pool can side step the blame.

My honest advice here is just don't do it in a pool. There are like 1000 bars that you can go to, after which you can find somewhere more private for your wife to play with this stranger. You can also just look into buying / renting your own hot tub. Sounds silly but for maybe £2,000 / $3,000 you can have a bloody BIG BATH with all the water jets a bubbles fitted.

I noticed one the other week that fitted about 10 people in. Well I'd say 10 people or would very easily fir 4 or 5 people with plenty of breathing space. My friend in the UK bought a bath and it changes to almost 200 different shades of colour using LED's / is also has water jets / bubbles / and you can even bluetooth your phone to the bath so it will play whatever music you want.

The other option here is to use places that have unisex changing rooms / shared changing areas / or a family changing area. Take my gym for an example. They have a male changing room / female changing room / then a family changing room. In many cases people use the family changing room even without children because for 80% of the day the place is empty.

In other words go into the family changing room, find a free family sized changing room, usually big rooms with showers, toilet, changing facilities and play in there for a short time. You know a quick hand job / blow job with a stranger should take long or make much noise. Just pick a day / time where all the kids would be a school / asleep and sure such family changing room are empty. My gym alone has like 3 entire family changing room and 80% of the time they are nor used.

In fact gets to about 19:00 in the evening and you hardly see a child in the entire building unless they are walking out the door. Many gyms now are 24 hours! Join a 24 hour gym with a sauna / pool / showers / changing rooms (basically a big box gym, brand gym) and then meet people there, you can even arrange to meet them quickly at like 1am if you wanted.

Just remember however 70% of the place will be covered by CCTV. Many of the main pool areas / many of the corridors / gym floors / reception will all be covered by CCTV. I would suggest having a good excuse ready in case your busted. If some uptight staff member comes along asking why 3 adults have locked themselves in a changing room together then simply say your wife bumped her head getting out of the car and you wanted her to sit down for 10 minutes and to check her head to make sure it wasn't bleeding anywhere, which it isn't and looks okay.

To be honest however if your wife is just going to give a stranger a hand job then there are like a 1000 bars where your wife could do this very easily indeed, with young guys, older guys, whatever takes your fancy. You know asking a random stranger if they want a hand job in a public pool is one thing, asking a stranger if they want a hand job in a bar with a few drinks and slightly lowered inhibitions might work better.

I'd also point out the type of bar / pub you go to will help dictate the type of people you meet. You want to meet a young man, then go to a young trendy bar or nightclub. You want to meet a more older respectable type go to a wine bar. You want to meet an older person try the big fancy pubs that are geared up for the older generations. You want to meet some hunky black guy then go a hip hop, reggae, or rap type event. You want to meet a rocker, go to a rock and metal event.

Not sure I'd like the idea of just meeting a stranger in a pool. I know a few guys with good jobs, one is actually a teacher working with children and honestly to look at the guy looks fairly normal. Behind the scenes the guy is a full on freak, addicted to rough sex and pain, addicted to gimp suits, leather, bondage, group sex, drugs, cocaine, all sorts basically.

If you met him in a pool you would see a normal guy, a teacher, you go to his house even just as a friend and the place is like a sex house / dungeon / porn magazines everywhere, sex toys all over the place, women's clothing that he wears. You know each to their own but imagine playing with a stranger in a pool and when he gets dressed he walks out wearing a drug addicts clothes, or walks out with a big Nazi symbol on his shirt.

I'd say a GYM would be a great place to start, A good, big gym with pools, sauna, hot tubs. Because generally I know form experience the people who can afford good gyms, the people attending these gyms are generally clean decent people. Basically your average drop out can not afford the monthly cost of joining a big gym, and in many cases you will find the same people go all the time, that you can quickly notice people you like and chances are they will be back tomorrow, and the day after that, ECT.

However this is tricky because I'd not use a gym than you plan to use yourself in your everyday life, and I'd also NOT pay for an entire years membership up front. I usually just pay for an entire year because I want to use the gym. If I was just planning to use the place to hit on people / use their changing rooms to fuck strangers then sure I'd pay on a monthly basis in case I got busted or reported.

I have also found the gym you pick again has a heavy influence on who you meet. There is a box gym near me that is basically in the suburbs and its full of families and old people. Drive a mile in the other direction and there is a gym just outside the city centre and its packed with young men and women / students / younger matches. If you desired, if your social standing fitted you could even join a country club, golf club, country gym, posh hotel gym and spa where you would meet older more established people.

Personally I'd say your fantasy is “To Specific” that it would be better saying to your wife... Would you play with a guy in a pool? In the woods? In bushes in some quiet park? Behind some old building near a bar? In your car? In a tent? Gym? Car Park? Make more places an option and then your overall chances will go up.

You could attend a pool a 1000 times and find no one is interested. Then once you could attend a nice food or music event and bang your wife is playing with some guy. For the record if you do go for the “Pool / Hot Tub” like situation then I'd NOT make this in any pool or gym or wife would be using as part of her normal life.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich


"Unless they have a no petting rule then I guess the bathroom section of wicks?"

Made me giggle x

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