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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don’t seem to be having much success in fab.

I’m doing something obviously wrong or simply not a worthy person

I guess knowing fab there will be some sarcastic comments but they always get ignored

Any genuine advice or is it worth leaving fab

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's worth leaving. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t seem to be having much success in fab.

I’m doing something obviously wrong or simply not a worthy person

I guess knowing fab there will be some sarcastic comments but they always get ignored

Any genuine advice or is it worth leaving fab "

Don’t leave, come visit me!!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Don’t seem to be having much success in fab.

I’m doing something obviously wrong or simply not a worthy person

I guess knowing fab there will be some sarcastic comments but they always get ignored

Any genuine advice or is it worth leaving fab

Don’t leave, come visit me!!! "

I love a happy ending

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By *oaming doggerMan
over a year ago

manchester

A meet in the first 4 months is good going, the best way is keep going mate, lower your expectations of meets. Chat to people as you would if you are talking to them in a bar.

You're by far not the worst looking guy on here. Give it time mate!

Of course if you were local to me i would say go and give me more chance

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I see that you are a returning user, from your profile. I'm assuming that you have seen now and earlier the comments similar to yours with advice from people here, on how to maximise potential success?

It largely here is how you promote yourself and communicate, plus socialise, such as at socials and clubs. If someone has invested tons of effort for many months, used best advice tips and practice and been active in clubs etc, then it may be that you may benefit from a different, more unique approach. Keep experimenting and improving, keeping your positivity on show, for all to be allured by.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Don’t seem to be having much success in fab.

I’m doing something obviously wrong or simply not a worthy person

I guess knowing fab there will be some sarcastic comments but they always get ignored

Any genuine advice or is it worth leaving fab

Don’t leave, come visit me!!!

I love a happy ending "

Sometimes posts just lend themselves to a smutty reply ..

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Don’t seem to be having much success in fab.

I’m doing something obviously wrong or simply not a worthy person

I guess knowing fab there will be some sarcastic comments but they always get ignored

Any genuine advice or is it worth leaving fab

Don’t leave, come visit me!!!

I love a happy ending

Sometimes posts just lend themselves to a smutty reply .. "

I know, I thought that as soon as I posted it

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

I started writing a PM but maturity got the better of me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know people can’t Help being sarcastic in these chats. I’m one if them. But this is a genuine question I have asked

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante


"I know people can’t Help being sarcastic in these chats. I’m one if them. But this is a genuine question I have asked "

You and 100s of other guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I gather that. Comments like that will be ignored

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any genuine advice here

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"Any genuine advice here "

Not sure what the question is tbh

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Don’t seem to be having much success in fab.

I’m doing something obviously wrong or simply not a worthy person

I guess knowing fab there will be some sarcastic comments but they always get ignored

Any genuine advice or is it worth leaving fab "

Maybe you could pay someone to sort your profile out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Wouldn't worry mate,it's only a website more important things in life worry about it have a wank & carry on lol

in all honesty mate don't let it get you down.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

You could smile in pics. You look rather serious in yours.

Bear in mind that women get a lot of messages. Sometimes over 100 a day. If I got a message from a guy who hasn’t made an effort with his profile, i ignore the message. I don’t have the time to ask questions. A lot of women also do that. If you want to know what profiles work take a look at men with lots of veris.

Hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t seem to be having much success in fab.

I’m doing something obviously wrong or simply not a worthy person

I guess knowing fab there will be some sarcastic comments but they always get ignored

Any genuine advice or is it worth leaving fab "

Maybe a bit more on your profile about yourself and what you are looking for.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Don’t seem to be having much success in fab.

I’m doing something obviously wrong or simply not a worthy person

I guess knowing fab there will be some sarcastic comments but they always get ignored

Any genuine advice or is it worth leaving fab "

Aim to send 200 messages a day and you may just get 1 reply......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The bit about not receiving messages from men makes you sound intolerant and lacking in confidence about your masculinity and sexuality. Isn’t just blocking all men easier? It achieves your aim better with no negativity.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP, you are one of hundreds of men looking to meet women on here.

You ideally need to stand out from the crowd.

Think of your profile as your shop window. What can you do to entice ladies to respond to your message?

I can't give profile advice, as you haven't asked for any.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"I know people can’t Help being sarcastic in these chats. I’m one if them. But this is a genuine question I have asked "

Didn’t you get an offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I gather that. Comments like that will be ignored "

No wonder you've no luck with an attitude like that

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By *samCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"The bit about not receiving messages from men makes you sound intolerant and lacking in confidence about your masculinity and sexuality. Isn’t just blocking all men easier? It achieves your aim better with no negativity. "

Agreed. This would be a huge red flag for me.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'm confused. I'm not sure exactly what advice you want people to give, you've not specifically asked for profile advice so we can't help there. Generally though you need to think of your profile as being a bit like a shop window or and advertisement, it needs to tell people what type of person you are, what you have to offer etc etc. A lot of people view profiles before they even read a message, if the profile does not intrigue or interest them then often they wont even look at the message before deleting.

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