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Been back on fab a month and not a bite!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So been back on fab for a month, had lots of fun before! But now not getting any meets! Anyone else getting the same ? Is it the weather lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

It’s the weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been back on fab for a month, had lots of fun before! But now not getting any meets! Anyone else getting the same ? Is it the weather lol? "

Maybe add some nicer pictures? I’m local to you but no offence to you but over my age limit xx

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

It does take longer on here than normal life and lots more sausage on offer so lots of competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does take longer on here than normal life and lots more sausage on offer so lots of competition "

Sausage ?

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Sorry... it’s more of a sausage fest these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it’s down to the upgrade they did on the wedsite while you where gone

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Maybe it’s down to the upgrade they did on the wedsite while you where gone "

Yeah ...... I'm still paying weekly for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could change your profile photo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a nibble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a nibble "

I give you a nibble!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It does take longer on here than normal life and lots more sausage on offer so lots of competition "

Ok cool I’ll try that x would u still consider me in any case if your local lol

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

The women have changed. Usually an offer of cake worked. Now they want tea too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The women have changed. Usually an offer of cake worked. Now they want tea too "

Bloody love cake and biscuits! That can be arranged lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I see a profile cock pic I play 'whack a mole' in my head. Thwack !

I know people are into random sex, I know people are into rough sex. I'd personally never put those things together so yeah I'd find that off-putting.

The whole 'ive been here before, know how it works ' - do you ? Are we all the same ? It sound arrogant and manipulative like it's done kind of game. Not how we'd like to be treated.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai / Nottingham

Great cock pics ,with those and posts like this let women know you’re available for sex, you should be fighting them off by lunch time

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

For us dick pics in profile pic or messages to us are instant avoid or delete, everyone is different but that’s our view

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's not the weather OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to social events in your area and u get a network of potential meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be your looks or personality. No in all seriousness. It takes time. The problem a lot of the time that guys aren’t very confident chatting up women in the real world. So they come to a swinging website thinking that it’s just sex with random strangers and no holds barred fun. And the truth is it’s not like that at all. You still have to be able to conduct yourself correctely and if anything it’s harder to pull because the social side of it is so important and a lot of people lack those skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be your looks or personality. No in all seriousness. It takes time. The problem a lot of the time that guys aren’t very confident chatting up women in the real world. So they come to a swinging website thinking that it’s just sex with random strangers and no holds barred fun. And the truth is it’s not like that at all. You still have to be able to conduct yourself correctely and if anything it’s harder to pull because the social side of it is so important and a lot of people lack those skills"

Oh so very much this, 90% of messages and profiles are an instant decline/ignore. We don't want anyones big load/we don't meet now/We know C has a big bust / we aren't an experience providor/ we aren't here to help you because the wife has gone off sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So been back on fab for a month, had lots of fun before! But now not getting any meets! Anyone else getting the same ? Is it the weather lol? "

You’ve probably, in error, been messaging frigid bitches. Try pinging off a few messages to some cum hungry slags and you’ll soon see the difference

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

Not surprised your profile photo has absolutely no imagination

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for comments guys. Some helpful some not.... I like the cake one

I try to mix it up to be fair, the profile pic! It’s not up to everyone’s taste so you can fuck off if you don’t like it. Lol

Got a meet next week

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

rough sex, i'd run for the hils

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"rough sex, i'd run for the hils"

Lol. Some people like it some don’t

Nice tits though x;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos are not great sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Photos are not great sorry"

Whatever

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By *reelanderMan
over a year ago

rotherham

Like buses mate nowt for a week then boom lol,hang in their,we all feel unwanted at times but this site does work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like buses mate nowt for a week then boom lol,hang in their,we all feel unwanted at times but this site does work "

Cheers mate

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By *aughtiecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Do u like it rough is a total switch off for us. Just be nice and chatty. And be willing to put the leg work in. Supply and demand. Loads of big hard cocks chasing a fewer number of genuine couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do u like it rough is a total switch off for us. Just be nice and chatty. And be willing to put the leg work in. Supply and demand. Loads of big hard cocks chasing a fewer number of genuine couples. "

Agreed, it says to us ‘you won’t be treated with respect’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people like to get to know people first building up trust etc getting to know a person etc it's not just wham bam thank you mam

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Duly noted

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Duly noted "

Why the eye rolling? People are trying to help you here. Clearly you think you don't need it then. I'm guessing this is a look at me thread.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

See you changed your profile photo Lol

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Thanks for comments guys. Some helpful some not.... I like the cake one

I try to mix it up to be fair, the profile pic! It’s not up to everyone’s taste so you can fuck off if you don’t like it. Lol

Got a meet next week

"

Wow yes you ask for advice then that's the attitude they get... I'm saying nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making it sound like a "Gimme" is not helping your quest!

It might be a swinging site, but it ISN'T a MEAT Market!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Literally don’t give a shit. Have a nice day!

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Is it due to that there is actually a fatal virus going around ? Maybe

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"So been back on fab for a month, had lots of fun before! But now not getting any meets! Anyone else getting the same ? Is it the weather lol? "

Try 7 months! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, see what we have here folks is a classic case of the male returning to a place of previous succes with expectations of similar results whilst not being aware of the change in landscape since his last visit.

Or it could just be the personality thing these lot mentioned up there

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Ah, see what we have here folks is a classic case of the male returning to a place of previous succes with expectations of similar results whilst not being aware of the change in landscape since his last visit.

Or it could just be the personality thing these lot mentioned up there "

Yup. Definately not helping with his attitude on this thread either. Entitled is the word that springs to mind. I would most definitely avoid after reading this. What the OP needs to remember is that word does spread within the swinging community, both good an bad, same as everywhere else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah, see what we have here folks is a classic case of the male returning to a place of previous succes with expectations of similar results whilst not being aware of the change in landscape since his last visit.

Or it could just be the personality thing these lot mentioned up there

Yup. Definately not helping with his attitude on this thread either. Entitled is the word that springs to mind. I would most definitely avoid after reading this. What the OP needs to remember is that word does spread within the swinging community, both good an bad, same as everywhere else. "

Yawn

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

All good our end

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

I love these threads, they're so useful when it comes to increasing the 'block' list!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Literally don’t give a shit. Have a nice day! "

With the grace, maturity and seductive charm you demonstrate - both in this thread and on your profile - I'm sure you'll get plenty of attention!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don’t worry I live in Dorset, nothing down here anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder due to trust issues if more people just tend to meet at clubs and events these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder due to trust issues if more people just tend to meet at clubs and events these days "

I reckon only people who frequent clubs peddle this nonsense, quite easily have trust issues in any walk of life if someone gives you a reason to.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Ah, see what we have here folks is a classic case of the male returning to a place of previous succes with expectations of similar results whilst not being aware of the change in landscape since his last visit.

Or it could just be the personality thing these lot mentioned up there

Yup. Definately not helping with his attitude on this thread either. Entitled is the word that springs to mind. I would most definitely avoid after reading this. What the OP needs to remember is that word does spread within the swinging community, both good an bad, same as everywhere else.

Yawn "

Awww, tired? Maybe have some warm milk and cookies lol. A nice little nap will help.

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some better pics and a smile would help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you getting arsey with people?

You're coming across as arrogant and really quite disrespectful.

You can't expect to ask a question and get all the replies as stuff you want to hear.

By being arrogant it gives this impression.... "I don't give a fuck what you think or want"

Imagine that translated into the bedroom.

She says no

He doesn't care.

Your interactions may not be the way you would behave in person, but they do give an impression.

P

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

By the way, happy birthday OP. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What a bunch of wankers literally x

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By *r_FaustusMan
over a year ago

Northampton

And now he’s gone UNLOS....

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"What a bunch of wankers literally x "
Yes, we do like a wank! See you next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a bunch of wankers literally x "

Aww, sealed with a kiss, I bet he was lovely when you really got to know him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one bites the dust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well never mind

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Another one bites the dust "

He will have made a new account just hope he comes back with a better attitude x

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