FabSwingers.com forum: How many women too many??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, so I’m arranging a birthday surprise for L. I’ve made arrangements for the larger room to be closed off for him at our desired location. All is well and good. Except.....I went and got a little too excited and ahead of myself

. I’ve been told by 11 ladies that they’d like to join and confirmed

. From a male perspective is this too many women all at once?? Be honest please and not boastful. I can’t ask L’s opinion as like I said it’s a surprise and I’ve never been the one arranging this large a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only question is how on earth are you going to top that next year?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider 11 too many if he wanted to spend good time with them all.

Also as the organiser do you expect all 11 yo turn up or is some level of drop out expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s going to die!

Well I would be happy, and maybe a few of the women would be too!

(Him)

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By *nicecoupleXCouple
over a year ago

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"Ok, so I’m arranging a birthday surprise for L. I’ve made arrangements for the larger room to be closed off for him at our desired location. All is well and good. Except.....I went and got a little too excited and ahead of myself

. I’ve been told by 11 ladies that they’d like to join and confirmed

Book in 6 and then 3 will show. In my opinion 3 is plenty unless it's a little dip in for a few strokes then to the next hole.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would consider 11 too many if he wanted to spend good time with them all.

Also as the organiser do you expect all 11 yo turn up or is some level of drop out expected "

You’re totally right! I didn’t even consider this tbh I just assumed after confirmation it was set (you can tell I’m not a born organiser lol)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

. I’ve been told by 11 ladies that they’d like to join and confirmed

Book in 6 and then 3 will show. In my opinion 3 is plenty unless it's a little dip in for a few strokes then to the next hole.

Definitely going to take this on board. Allot of the ladies are bisexual so hopefully that’ll take off the “pressure”

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My only question is how on earth are you going to top that next year?!

He’s getting vouchers

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By *adyinthestreet...Woman
over a year ago

Essex (not midlands!)

Although I can’t comment on women... when we arranged a GB for me I was very disappointed as I think 8 confirmed but only 2 turned up!! Really knocked my confidence and put us off arranging any others, now it’ll just be club group play etc instead.

People will confirm and message right up to the last min saying they are coming, but then never turn up. So I wouldn’t worry if there is 11 on the list.... prob be about 4 turn up!

Hope you have a great time!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou. So sorry yours didn’t live up to how you would have hoped. Definitely got me concerned now though as you are absolutely stunning so no idea why you’d ever have no shows x

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By *adyinthestreet...Woman
over a year ago

Essex (not midlands!)

"Thankyou. So sorry yours didn’t live up to how you would have hoped. Definitely got me concerned now though as you are absolutely stunning so no idea why you’d ever have no shows x"

Ahh thank you! That’s lovely of you to say!

Honestly I did the typical girl thing of worrying it was because of me. But I was reassured when I spoke to other women and they all said the same. I think some people just bottle it and don’t have the manners to explain xx

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Do you want him to see his next birthday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want him to see his next birthday?"

Fair point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11? We struggle with 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. I’ve been told by 11 ladies that they’d like to join and confirmed

A) I doubt I could cope with 12 women. I would be a costume of a man by the time they were finished with me.

B) I need a woman like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My main question is: how on earth did you manage to get 11 women to be interested??? I have to admit, I did not look on your profile, so maybe your partner is a stud and god's gift to women, but my question remains! I want in on the secret, pretty please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At best,L will have the time of his life

At worst,one or two ladies may be left disappointed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My main question is: how on earth did you manage to get 11 women to be interested??? I have to admit, I did not look on your profile, so maybe your partner is a stud and god's gift to women, but my question remains! I want in on the secret, pretty please

No real secret. I’ve made allot of lovely friends along the way and am quite the social butterfly at clubs and socials. We tend to make the effort to get to know everyone in our surroundings and always enjoy ourselves. That said I don’t think I’ll be attempting to arrange a gathering of this size any time soon haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Although I should be very clear here I have not managed to capture a heard of unicorns as I know that is what many couples are looking for. Allot of the ladies in question are people we have already played with/met/part of a couple xx

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

So you know all of these 11 wemon? And have met them ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id want 18 women, then i could play a round of golf, few strokes on each hole then the last hole ... hole in one! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you know all of these 11 wemon? And have met them ?? "

Not all of them but allot of them.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

So you know all of these 11 wemon? And have met them ??

Not all of them but allot of them."

Just stick with the ones you know there are a lot of fakes on here pretending to be wemon ... have a back up plan in place xx

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

Would it be fun for everyone if the focus is only on one person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you know all of these 11 wemon? And have met them ??

Not all of them but allot of them.

Just stick with the ones you know there are a lot of fakes on here pretending to be wemon ... have a back up plan in place xx"

Solid advice. Thankyou. I’ve already had two ladies be polite and drop out today (probs saw this tbh) I’m getting less worried about the numbers now as it’s a month off I’m sure the numbers are to drop xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would it be fun for everyone if the focus is only on one person?"

Allot of the ladies are bisexual and my partner wouldn’t want to be the “main attraction” as it were tbh. He’s more a giver x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

What if he sees this? Goodbye surprise!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Would it be fun for everyone if the focus is only on one person?

Allot of the ladies are bisexual and my partner wouldn’t want to be the “main attraction” as it were tbh. He’s more a giver x"

Wait, he doesn't want to be the main attraction but you're closing off part of a venue to get 11 women to make him the centre of attention?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would it be fun for everyone if the focus is only on one person?

Allot of the ladies are bisexual and my partner wouldn’t want to be the “main attraction” as it were tbh. He’s more a giver x

Wait, he doesn't want to be the main attraction but you're closing off part of a venue to get 11 women to make him the centre of attention?

Ok. I can understand your confusion. My partner is not the the type of person to lie down And expect to be “serviced” and be worshipped like a Greek God. The reason for having what is normally a public space made private for him is because it’s the only area large enough to cater for the numbers and he doesn’t enjoy public playing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if he sees this? Goodbye surprise!"

I operate this account for us both. It says so on my profile.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Would it be fun for everyone if the focus is only on one person?

Allot of the ladies are bisexual and my partner wouldn’t want to be the “main attraction” as it were tbh. He’s more a giver x

Wait, he doesn't want to be the main attraction but you're closing off part of a venue to get 11 women to make him the centre of attention?

Ah ok. Hope it goes well!

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

Mart ended up as the only male "guest" in a 5 lady pile, when its mentioned he gets the biggest grin on his face lol!

I wasnt even one of the ladies, I was elsewhere in the club having fun. Two bi-lady friends dragged him off for a birthday treat, and the rest sort of just joined in lol.

He did say he felt like a bit of a spare part sometimes, but as the ladies were all bi, they entertained themselves when he needed a few minutes to recharge his batteries.

So, I think if you get 3 or 4 to turn up, your partner will be suitably spoilt!

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By * and A777Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Poor C had to amuse five ladies all by himself once... he came back to me looking a little bedraggled, confused and exhausted... a little like an extra from Apocalypse Now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 I would have a Hart attack.

At my old age anymore than 11 in a year never mind 11 at one night. He better get a little blue pill or a whole package of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"11 I would have a Hart attack.

At my old age anymore than 11 in a year never mind 11 at one night. He better get a little blue pill or a whole package of them

Don’t worry I’ll be smuggling a few in my bag with a Costco sized pack of condoms for all the switching over haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Poor C had to amuse five ladies all by himself once... he came back to me looking a little bedraggled, confused and exhausted... a little like an extra from Apocalypse Now. "

I swear if L doesn’t leave that room looking like he’s In desperate need of a chiropractor and holy water to wash with then I shall be one disappointed lady lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’ve made arrangements for the larger room to be closed off for him at our desired location. "

I hope the other guests at your "desired location" will be OK with having the larger room closed off to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve made arrangements for the larger room to be closed off for him at our desired location.

I hope the other guests at your "desired location" will be OK with having the larger room closed off to them. "

It’s for a limited amount of time and wouldn’t be used while other guests are already using it so I should imagine that other guests won’t be effected greatly in a negative manner.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s for a limited amount of time "

How long does it take to have sex with eleven women ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s for a limited amount of time

How long does it take to have sex with eleven women ?"

Probably a little longer than it takes to find an issue in what someone else is doing which has no bearing on ones own self.

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