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By *un_Paul500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Can't meet because not verified.

Go to socials for getting verified BUT invite for social only to verified ppl.

It's chicken n egg thing,

I agree it's another boring verification mail for most of you. But it's frustrating to be a fence sitter.

Any suggestions or fellow fabbers to extend support and help me with cam verification

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

If you go in the chatrooms on can someone will usually verify you

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Go to a club, meet people there, get them to verify you.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

You can meet if you’re not verified, otherwise none of us would. I had 3 socials booked before my first verification. You just need to show that you’re responsible and respectful.

Sometimes a lack of veris might slow things down, or be a dealbreaker if someone is teetering on the edge, but you just needed be patient and show that you’re happy for them to call the shots so that you can prove yourself as trustworthy.

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By *eralPete1Man
over a year ago

marsworth

My opinion is that this site is shite for meeting people . You have more chance just going out and meeting the old fashioned way . It's real and loads more fun . I'm on here as a secondary way of connecting to like minded people . If I get a meet, happy days , if not then so be it .

Before anyone says , " what do you expect, you've only been on here a couple of months." . Well this isn't the first time I've been on this site . I first joined around 2009 ish .

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"My opinion is that this site is shite for meeting people . You have more chance just going out and meeting the old fashioned way . It's real and loads more fun . I'm on here as a secondary way of connecting to like minded people . If I get a meet, happy days , if not then so be it .

Before anyone says , " what do you expect, you've only been on here a couple of months." . Well this isn't the first time I've been on this site . I first joined around 2009 ish .

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it's useful for keeping in touch with people met face to face.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

You can be verified by cam in the chat rooms.

Most clubs will verify you if you attend.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"My opinion is that this site is shite for meeting people . You have more chance just going out and meeting the old fashioned way . It's real and loads more fun . I'm on here as a secondary way of connecting to like minded people . If I get a meet, happy days , if not then so be it .

Before anyone says , " what do you expect, you've only been on here a couple of months." . Well this isn't the first time I've been on this site . I first joined around 2009 ish . "

My experience is very different. I’ve had 18 socials (with a high success rate) since joining 20 months ago and have met dozens more at organised socials and clubs. Because of work and family commitments I couldn’t meet like minded people any other way. It is different things to different people, and you get out what you put in, or what you need.

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By *un_Paul500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Thanks guys !

Dublin is not much into clubs. It's hush- hush. Tried cam couple of times but no luck.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Does Dublin not have a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion is that this site is shite for meeting people . You have more chance just going out and meeting the old fashioned way . It's real and loads more fun . I'm on here as a secondary way of connecting to like minded people . If I get a meet, happy days , if not then so be it .

Before anyone says , " what do you expect, you've only been on here a couple of months." . Well this isn't the first time I've been on this site . I first joined around 2009 ish .

"

And how did it go then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The, no veri thing, is also, occasionally, a get out, without having to say, they don't find you attractive

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By *un_Paul500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

That's not fair

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By *eralPete1Man
over a year ago

marsworth


"My opinion is that this site is shite for meeting people . You have more chance just going out and meeting the old fashioned way . It's real and loads more fun . I'm on here as a secondary way of connecting to like minded people . If I get a meet, happy days , if not then so be it .

Before anyone says , " what do you expect, you've only been on here a couple of months." . Well this isn't the first time I've been on this site . I first joined around 2009 ish .

And how did it go then? "
it works for me

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By *eralPete1Man
over a year ago

marsworth


"My opinion is that this site is shite for meeting people . You have more chance just going out and meeting the old fashioned way . It's real and loads more fun . I'm on here as a secondary way of connecting to like minded people . If I get a meet, happy days , if not then so be it .

Before anyone says , " what do you expect, you've only been on here a couple of months." . Well this isn't the first time I've been on this site . I first joined around 2009 ish .

My experience is very different. I’ve had 18 socials (with a high success rate) since joining 20 months ago and have met dozens more at organised socials and clubs. Because of work and family commitments I couldn’t meet like minded people any other way. It is different things to different people, and you get out what you put in, or what you need. "
mmm . It works for you too. That's good

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Can't meet because not verified.

Go to socials for getting verified BUT invite for social only to verified ppl.

It's chicken n egg thing,

I agree it's another boring verification mail for most of you. But it's frustrating to be a fence sitter.

Any suggestions or fellow fabbers to extend support and help me with cam verification

"

Simply chat for longer. That's all there is to it. When you've been chatting for a while, women will meet up with you.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness


"Can't meet because not verified.

Go to socials for getting verified BUT invite for social only to verified ppl.

It's chicken n egg thing,

I agree it's another boring verification mail for most of you. But it's frustrating to be a fence sitter.

Any suggestions or fellow fabbers to extend support and help me with cam verification

Simply chat for longer. That's all there is to it. When you've been chatting for a while, women will meet up with you."
doesnt work for me.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Verifications will never guarantee you a sex meet...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Can't meet because not verified.

Go to socials for getting verified BUT invite for social only to verified ppl.

It's chicken n egg thing,

I agree it's another boring verification mail for most of you. But it's frustrating to be a fence sitter.

Any suggestions or fellow fabbers to extend support and help me with cam verification

Simply chat for longer. That's all there is to it. When you've been chatting for a while, women will meet up with you.doesnt work for me. "

Maybe put a little more effort in....women do respond to decent chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few non verified guys, one even became my regular fabber. It's not always about having the green tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a few non verified guys, one even became my regular fabber. It's not always about having the green tick."

Same here tbf... My fwb, who I now cohabit with, had only been on a month and hadn't even been photo verified. It's rarely about the tick and always about attraction and often about timing and visibility... Unless your visibility is posting numerous cock or play pics and putting up whiney statuses... That usually just gets you blocked... I still think the best way to get noticed is at socials... Not all of them require being verified

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