FabSwingers.com forum: 45 views

By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

Reading other peoples people's profiles and there vers. Surely my profile is not that bad. Yes my photos are not good (will change that soon). Yet there are profiles on here with no pics and still get meets ect.

Help please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

Help please"

You need a pic with a teddy bear taking you from behind. It’s working for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

Help please"

Just an opinion but lots on here just look and don’t message. You cannot accom so that is usually a red flag for most, as in what are you hiding.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

Help please"

People need to look to establish interest.

If they look and there's no interest they won't message or wink.

It's not rocket science.

Would you expect a message that said "Hi. We looked but we're not in the least interested but thought we better message to let you know that because we don't browse in stealth mode and didn't want you to think we might be just because we looked."

Because that's never going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would change username for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here on a single profile I just looked at women and never wanted to meet so didn’t send messages.

It’s a long game so stay frosty and good luck .

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Some guys get 45 views a year, so I really wouldn't be too concerned.

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By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

Help please

You need a pic with a teddy bear taking you from behind. It’s working for me

Yea it looks fun.

And nice profile, great pics

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By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

Help please

Just an opinion but lots on here just look and don’t message. You cannot accom so that is usually a red flag for most, as in what are you hiding.

Ok but there are lots on here who cant accom and still gets meets ect. I'm not hiding anything

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By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

"I would change username for a start."

Not sure how to do this. I'm not a site supporter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys get 45 views a year, so I really wouldn't be too concerned."

True that

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By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

"Some guys get 45 views a year, so I really wouldn't be too concerned.

True that

Yes it is true. As I said in first message having reading other profiles I don't think my profile is that bad so where I'm I going wrong. Even socials would be fun at moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys get 45 views a year, so I really wouldn't be too concerned.

True that

Yes it is true. As I said in first message having reading other profiles I don't think my profile is that bad so where I'm I going wrong. Even socials would be fun at moment "

Don't read too much into it....fab is just fab.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

Help please"

You're status states your looking for ladies but your meets have been all men and your profile appears to focus more on your bi side: neither fish nor fowl.

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By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

"Some guys get 45 views a year, so I really wouldn't be too concerned.

True that

Yes it is true. As I said in first message having reading other profiles I don't think my profile is that bad so where I'm I going wrong. Even socials would be fun at moment

Don't read too much into it....fab is just fab."

Yes but I'm just not getting anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys get 45 views a year, so I really wouldn't be too concerned.

True that

Yes it is true. As I said in first message having reading other profiles I don't think my profile is that bad so where I'm I going wrong. Even socials would be fun at moment

Don't read too much into it....fab is just fab.

Yes but I'm just not getting anywhere "

Check your compass!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately you’re a bi guy, can’t accom and can’t drive. That’s three big things that aren’t ideal for meeting people. Many people will shy away from them. Pics are not flattering so try some new ones. A nice tailored shirt is a good start.

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By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

"Unfortunately you’re a bi guy, can’t accom and can’t drive. That’s three big things that aren’t ideal for meeting people. Many people will shy away from them. Pics are not flattering so try some new ones. A nice tailored shirt is a good start. "

Thanks for.that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've had way more than 45 views with not one wink or message. It's not something to worry about, we're not everyone's cup of tea and they need to look to find that out.

Don't check number of views, we don't.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

Help please"

45 views in 4hrs is very very good going for a man. Don't expect more than that. I'm on the forum regularly, I do pretty well for a guy and I don't get anywhere near that amount of views.

I can easily get meets fairly easily though. The way to get meets is to not be sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got more views in 4 hours then we get in a day

Be greatful haha x

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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

Probably Muslim and the men don't usually let them out. It's a man's world in that religion. No chance x

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By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

Help please

You're status states your looking for ladies but your meets have been all men and your profile appears to focus more on your bi side: neither fish nor fowl.

Yes that's true. But my status is for night away with work and there is no way I can take a guy. I am bi yes but not out

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Probably Muslim and the men don't usually let them out. It's a man's world in that religion. No chance x"

Eh??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

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You need a pic with a teddy bear taking you from behind. It’s working for me

Cough cough, I’ll keep an eye out on your profile for just that, cough cough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days are better than others.

I had 80+ views today, and for the first time since I joined I got a message from a lady instead of a bloke; made my day lol

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

you're bi, smoke and cant accommodate...all things noone can see until they view your profile

...all things that are a no for many, so they look and move on...

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Probably Muslim and the men don't usually let them out. It's a man's world in that religion. No chance x"

What on earth has religion got to do with this thread?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Still think fab should register the amount of ninja views you get, wouldn’t that be fantastically frustrating.

Wonder how many form threads that would create.

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By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

"Probably Muslim and the men don't usually let them out. It's a man's world in that religion. No chance x

What on earth has religion got to do with this thread? "

No idea ,someone thinks there funny haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got about 90 views today (because I was active on forums) and not one message. It doesn't bother me, but I guess that's because I'm a woman. You can't be everyone's cup of tea, and the fact that you can't accommodate and don't drive are not going to help you find meets. As there is plenty of people who don't meet anyone local enough to them to get there by public transport.

Stop putting all your efforts just to your online presence and try some organised socials or clubs? Though I guess that could be difficult when not driving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still think fab should register the amount of ninja views you get, wouldn’t that be fantastically frustrating.

Wonder how many form threads that would create."

Hilarious

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By *ames2602 OP Man
over a year ago

whittle

"I've got about 90 views today (because I was active on forums) and not one message. It doesn't bother me, but I guess that's because I'm a woman. You can't be everyone's cup of tea, and the fact that you can't accommodate and don't drive are not going to help you find meets. As there is plenty of people who don't meet anyone local enough to them to get there by public transport.

Stop putting all your efforts just to your online presence and try some organised socials or clubs? Though I guess that could be difficult when not driving. "

I'm also active on forums so I agree to that point. I'm only looking for people in my area ie n/w . So that's not a problem with me to get there. As of organised socials each 1 I've looked at at the moment cant go due to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We looked in Argos once but didn't buy anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

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You need a pic with a teddy bear taking you from behind. It’s working for me

Big Ted or Little Ted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

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You need a pic with a teddy bear taking you from behind. It’s working for me

I think it's the behind that's getting the attention - a thing of beauty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We looked in Argos once but didn't buy anything

Pahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've had 45 views in 4 hours and not 1 hello or wink.

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You need a pic with a teddy bear taking you from behind. It’s working for me

This just made me spit my coffee out thanks Rachel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got myself a view today. Success!

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