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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just getting to grips with this site (no pun intended you dirty minded so an so’s) sent quite a few messages out but not really getting much back! Anyone got any tip or hints to get me up and running on here? Mucho love

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

You have four words on your profile.

'Looking for new ventures'

What does that actually mean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have four words on your profile.

'Looking for new ventures'

What does that actually mean ? "

A new member of Dragons Den?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP and welcome to the forums

Best advice we can give you is to look at other men's profiles and read what they have written. You can also search the forum for similar threads which will have lots of useful advice.

Enjoy your time on Fab

C and P

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Within forum rules we are allowed to offer some advice on your profile as it directly relates to the question and I'd advise that this is where you need to put in some more effort. There is hardly any detail on it and your current status will just put a lot of people off. Of course people meet.

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph


"You have four words on your profile.

'Looking for new ventures'

What does that actually mean ?

A new member of Dragons Den? "

Yeah, could be, but why would a woman looking for a sexual encounter mail or reply to those four words ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have four words on your profile.

'Looking for new ventures'

What does that actually mean ? "
I have no idea? Haha, I need to look into my profile more and get some stuff about me down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually have to fight to the death to get a woman on here.

Usually in a sainsbury's car park on a thursday evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have four words on your profile.

'Looking for new ventures'

What does that actually mean ? I have no idea? Haha, I need to look into my profile more and get some stuff about me down."

Sounds like a good plan OP

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"We usually have to fight to the death to get a woman on here.

Usually in a sainsbury's car park on a thursday evening. "

What happens in Sainsburys car park stays in Sainsburys car park!

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph


"You have four words on your profile.

'Looking for new ventures'

What does that actually mean ? I have no idea? Haha, I need to look into my profile more and get some stuff about me down."

And keep reading and posting in here. Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have four words on your profile.

'Looking for new ventures'

What does that actually mean ?

A new member of Dragons Den? "

"I'm out...now I'm in, back out, in again, you like that? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, just updated profile! Probably still awful haha. But anyway it’s a start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search profile advice and plenty of threads will come up with advice op.

Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We usually have to fight to the death to get a woman on here.

Usually in a sainsbury's car park on a thursday evening.

What happens in Sainsburys car park stays in Sainsburys car park! "

First rule of fabclub

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

A lot of women rarely respond to messages as if you have your filters open to single men you can get hundreds per day. It is possible to get noticed with a good message if you catch them at the right time though.

Personally I search for men myself and while having decent face pictures is definitely an advantage for you, it might help you to add some tasteful body images and more in your bio. It is usually what someone writes on their profile that sparks an interest in me. It also might be worth briefly mentioning why you can't accommodate as some assume you are living with a partner and cheating otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of women rarely respond to messages as if you have your filters open to single men you can get hundreds per day. It is possible to get noticed with a good message if you catch them at the right time though.

Personally I search for men myself and while having decent face pictures is definitely an advantage for you, it might help you to add some tasteful body images and more in your bio. It is usually what someone writes on their profile that sparks an interest in me. It also might be worth briefly mentioning why you can't accommodate as some assume you are living with a partner and cheating otherwise."
that’s some good advice there! Much appreciated, I actually share a flat with my cousin so can’t accommodate sadly.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"A lot of women rarely respond to messages as if you have your filters open to single men you can get hundreds per day. It is possible to get noticed with a good message if you catch them at the right time though.

Personally I search for men myself and while having decent face pictures is definitely an advantage for you, it might help you to add some tasteful body images and more in your bio. It is usually what someone writes on their profile that sparks an interest in me. It also might be worth briefly mentioning why you can't accommodate as some assume you are living with a partner and cheating otherwise. that’s some good advice there! Much appreciated, I actually share a flat with my cousin so can’t accommodate sadly."

Yeah I totally get there's a lot of reasons someone may not be able to, that's just the conclusion some jump to.

Also it might help to look at profiles of other men who are meeting the type of people you're interested in. If they've met in clubs this might not be useful but you might manage to pick up some things that make an attractive single male profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys, just updated profile! Probably still awful haha. But anyway it’s a start! "

You look good and I like what I read! Maybe messaging the wrong people!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Don't finish with a greeting that means hello?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Don't finish with a greeting that means hello? "

Maybe it's a Del boy joke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't finish with a greeting that means hello? "
that’s just me being silly tbh lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't finish with a greeting that means hello?

Maybe it's a Del boy joke "
10/10 for lacy red. haha

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Don't finish with a greeting that means hello?

Maybe it's a Del boy joke 10/10 for lacy red. haha"

Well ain't I a fool?! Good moaning to you all

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"A lot of women rarely respond to messages as if you have your filters open to single men you can get hundreds per day. It is possible to get noticed with a good message if you catch them at the right time though.

Personally I search for men myself and while having decent face pictures is definitely an advantage for you, it might help you to add some tasteful body images and more in your bio. It is usually what someone writes on their profile that sparks an interest in me. It also might be worth briefly mentioning why you can't accommodate as some assume you are living with a partner and cheating otherwise. that’s some good advice there! Much appreciated, I actually share a flat with my cousin so can’t accommodate sadly."

So you never have anybody back ?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Good evening and welcome to the forums OP.

Jo&D.Xx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Don't finish with a greeting that means hello?

Maybe it's a Del boy joke 10/10 for lacy red. haha

Well ain't I a fool?! Good moaning to you all "

Mangetout mangetout!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forum. I’ve been here for 10 years and still struggle so I can’t give any useful advice. The forum really helped me to be a little less unsuccessful here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of women rarely respond to messages as if you have your filters open to single men you can get hundreds per day. It is possible to get noticed with a good message if you catch them at the right time though.

Personally I search for men myself and while having decent face pictures is definitely an advantage for you, it might help you to add some tasteful body images and more in your bio. It is usually what someone writes on their profile that sparks an interest in me. It also might be worth briefly mentioning why you can't accommodate as some assume you are living with a partner and cheating otherwise. that’s some good advice there! Much appreciated, I actually share a flat with my cousin so can’t accommodate sadly.

So you never have anybody back ? "
well if he’s out on the rare occasion something can be sorted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't finish with a greeting that means hello?

Maybe it's a Del boy joke 10/10 for lacy red. haha

Well ain't I a fool?! Good moaning to you all

Mangetout mangetout!"
lovely jubbly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good evening and welcome to the forums OP.

Jo&D.Xx "
thank you kindly

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Don't finish with a greeting that means hello?

Maybe it's a Del boy joke 10/10 for lacy red. haha

Well ain't I a fool?! Good moaning to you all

Mangetout mangetout!lovely jubbly "

I'm still looking for the Fallen Madonna with the Big Boobies. A little birdie told me it was for sale somewhere dodgy

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