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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need some advice I just seem to not be getting any messages. Is it my profile maybe? Can anybody help me out. Moody messages I send tend to just get deleted or left on read even though I tailor them to people’s profiles.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I dont think its the messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then what is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the norm on fab. Single guys outnumber women on here so they are very choosy. You send 100 and might get 1 response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s the norm on fab. Single guys outnumber women on here so they are very choosy. You send 100 and might get 1 response. "
oh is there any other websites maybe?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"It’s the norm on fab. Single guys outnumber women on here so they are very choosy. You send 100 and might get 1 response. oh is there any other websites maybe?"

Canr give out other sites. But this is the best one

But it's your age, you cant accomodate, 1 photo and barely 3 lines of text.

Most on here have kids older than you. Remember this is a swingers site not dial a fuck. Oh and you've been here barely a week.

People out in months and months of effort, some are here 6 months then get a meet, others over a year. But I'd suggest sticking to apps like tinder and pof. You might get further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the norm on fab. Single guys outnumber women on here so they are very choosy. You send 100 and might get 1 response. oh is there any other websites maybe?

Canr give out other sites. But this is the best one

But it's your age, you cant accomodate, 1 photo and barely 3 lines of text.

Most on here have kids older than you. Remember this is a swingers site not dial a fuck. Oh and you've been here barely a week.

People out in months and months of effort, some are here 6 months then get a meet, others over a year. But I'd suggest sticking to apps like tinder and pof. You might get further. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think its the messages. "

no need!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"It’s the norm on fab. Single guys outnumber women on here so they are very choosy. You send 100 and might get 1 response. oh is there any other websites maybe?"

Don't mean this in a nasty way but it comes across as if you want easy quick sex without putting any effort in.

I'm not saying you did but is it possible you mistook what a swingers site is ?

Did you think you'd Pop on fab, put in little effort and the women would be all cock loving sluts who didn't care who they fucked as long as they got laid ?

My advice would be to lower your expectations and persevere on fab BUT to get out on the town with mates and talk to women in pubs, clubs and see where it leads, if nothing happens you've still had a bloody good night out.

Only website where you're guaranteed a meet would be a escort site where you pay for it

You just need to chill out as you come across as being desperate.

Good luck though

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"It’s the norm on fab. Single guys outnumber women on here so they are very choosy. You send 100 and might get 1 response. oh is there any other websites maybe?

Canr give out other sites. But this is the best one

But it's your age, you cant accomodate, 1 photo and barely 3 lines of text.

Most on here have kids older than you. Remember this is a swingers site not dial a fuck. Oh and you've been here barely a week.

People out in months and months of effort, some are here 6 months then get a meet, others over a year. But I'd suggest sticking to apps like tinder and pof. You might get further. "

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Give us an example of the sort of message you send out to make contact. Writing the wrong thing will get you ignored (at best) so get advice on your messages. Post an example here and I'm sure we'll give you some constructive feedback.

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