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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We’ve recently met a few single guys lately and when it comes down to it. They literally can’t last more than 2 mins.

Anyone got any advice how to avoid these?

Eve. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone got any advice how to avoid these?

Eve. Xx"

Maybe you guys are just that exciting?

Suggestions then,

Delay condoms work well

Tell them to have a wank beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start and stop lol thts how to control your cum

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Go for seconds, lasts longer

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

"We’ve recently met a few single guys lately and when it comes down to it. They literally can’t last more than 2 mins.

Anyone got any advice how to avoid these?

Eve. Xx"

Not being big-headed or anything but if I’m using a condom (which is most of the time) I can last a long time. Have you tried a cock ring?

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Stop turning them on so much? Try showing them pictures of your grandparents regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start stop just before cum stop calm down. Go again leads to bigger cum shot to.

You are a hot lady which mean they will be turned on and nervous

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Give 'em a cookie and tell 'em to reload.

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's called cum and go haha, back to there wife's mostly lol x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

When it's been discussed before, a desentising cream containing something like lidocaine that dentists use, has been suggested. You must make sure that it doesn't transfer from him to you though, else you lose some pleasure. Probably someone will come along and state the name of the stuff you can buy in Boots. I think it may be used for haemorroid relief.

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Stop turning them on so much? Try showing them pictures of your grandparents regularly

Oi, nothing wrong with grannys lol, lol x

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Go to clubs. "

Even in clubs you get guys who are quick cummers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So frustrating when you've had a pleasurable time building up to sex and a couple of thousand it's over, then off they go back to their wife, full of guilt, I've even had guys cum as they prepare to enter me. I never see them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve recently met a few single guys lately and when it comes down to it. They literally can’t last more than 2 mins.

Anyone got any advice how to avoid these?

Eve. Xx"

Go for guys that seem to have meets several times a week. The regular exercise will mean they can go for longer, plus their subconscious won't be telling them "Rare woman! Must blow my beans!"

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Single guys may not have had a woman in a while... that’s most likely the main cause. Guys in a couple, whilst even fucking someone new, should have a lot more self control if they’re used to sex on a very regular basis.

Then of course, you’ll get the ones who just don’t have it in them to go on for any length of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a few more meets with them and will probably last longer each time. Take it as a compliment, must be very excited you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum about 20mph. Within legal limits.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *igandhard2019Man
over a year ago

Tankerton

Yeah, play with me...I can last long enough for the lady.

Very good control....and it stays hard all the time !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most guys..its just pure excitement...they dont take their time or not be able to control...if they're good..go for seconds..last longer too or just tell them to wank off before you have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or here's another one; once said guy has had his moment, scold him playfully for being unable to control himself (whilst taking it as a compliment to your own prowess of course) and make him give prolonged oral as a penance. Then when he's hard again a few minutes later he'll last longer with it being the second time? Win-win!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Years ago I was having premature ejaculation problems and it was tough to admit as a man but I eventually went to the doctor.

The doctor said Sam "When you feel like you are getting ready to ejaculate, try startling yourself."

That very same day i went to the sports store and bought myself a starter pistol and ran home to my then wife.

That night we were having foreplay and after less than 2 minutes we found ourselves in the 69 position and I have to admit that a close up view of a smooth pussy was getting to much for me !

Starting to feel the urge to ejaculate I reached under the pillow and fired the starter pistol twice

To be fair it worked with stopping me cumming but when I fired the pistol, my wife pooed on my face, bit three inches off my penis, and my neighbor came out of the closet with his hands in the air.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it can take 5 minutes to "climatise" so I just start out slow and then I'm ok. The advice for guys is often to distract themselves from the pleasure when what they need to do is develop more self-awareness about what is going on in their body. In my experience the attitude of the person I'm with can make a big difference, if you get pissed off, or worse pretend you're not when you are, then you're probably causing the problem, at least partly. What do you do to help a guy relax when he's nervous?

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Pick someone older who can last a bit longer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose part of it is down to what he's after. Some guys just want to empty their sacks, others genuinely want to please. Some times I get overly excited, that's where my cage comes into play, I just wear that to ensure their enjoyment first, it also keeps me a lot calmer downstairs and horny a lot longer. For those who can't wait to play with the new guys cock just mix it up a bit, if he's getting to close get him to switch to oral, at least that way you'll both get more enjoyment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer that as i dont like men who take ages to cum.as i do outdoor meets.the quicker they cum the better for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to clubs.

Even in clubs you get guys who are quick cummers. "

Yes but there are others to replace them without the two weeks of messaging first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go for seconds, lasts longer

Yep. And thirds better still. And fourths ...

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Go to clubs.

Even in clubs you get guys who are quick cummers.

Yes but there are others to replace them without the two weeks of messaging first

that is exactly why I love the clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are off to a club tonight so we will see what happens

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

If you were local I would give you a list of "30+ mins"

I find well verified guys much better. And I'm not talking about "treat with respect, not one to be missed"

I always read a lot of veris and check who they are from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you know share the wisdome i wany to go for the world record

Whats it currently 30 seconds ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do my 9 times table in my head to stop me cumming quick.

I got to 27 once.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It's not our fault, it dates back to pulling a cave girl and having to get it over with quickly because we had to not be distracted to long or TRex could eat us

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I enjoy a lot of foreplay and lead up to sex, which means when it comes to the act itself for the first time in a session, I'm often on a bit of a "hair trigger". I usually warn partners that the first time will be over quite quickly (but if they gain any sort of enjoyment from cum, that is the time to take advantage as it's when there will be most of the stuff!) Thankfully, I can reload quite quickly and the second, third and fourth times are generally much more fulfilling for all concerned! I find that most women are perfectly happy with that as long as they know that the first 2-minute episode isn't going to be the end of the story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could. Can go hours. Sometimes I don’t cum. And it’s no fun for me or the lady at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve recently met a few single guys lately and when it comes down to it. They literally can’t last more than 2 mins.

Anyone got any advice how to avoid these?

Eve. Xx"
just ask in your first reply do you cum within2 minutes and if they say no say will you be willing to sign an internet based disclaimer which involves a financial penalty

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I do my 9 times table in my head to stop me cumming quick.

I got to 27 once.

Was that with one girl or 3?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once you know share the wisdome i wany to go for the world record

Whats it currently 30 seconds ?

No problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do my 9 times table in my head to stop me cumming quick.

I got to 27 once.

Was that with one girl or 3?!"

On my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give them a kamagra! They will be there for hours.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Give them some viagra.

It keeps me hard for hours but I have to really concentrate to cum.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I usually meet younger men, so I give them a BJ first and while they recover I'm getting some good foreplay from them

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Most of it is in the brain learning how to control your pace.

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Id take that as a compliment even tho it can be frustrating as you obviously turn them on

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By *ueforyouCouple
over a year ago

Shaftesbury

It could be your getting them to exited , but on the brightside they should last alot longer once you've got them hard again.

Or a club from experience you're guaranteed quite a few cocks x

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Forward them on to me...I like quick cummers..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the opposite. Takes me ages to come, especially after a drink. I've had some girls question it in the past and when I tell them that it means I can perform for longer whilst fully enjoying myself, they agree and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm the opposite. Takes me ages to come, especially after a drink. I've had some girls question it in the past and when I tell them that it means I can perform for longer whilst fully enjoying myself, they agree and enjoy it. "

It’s the opposite I’ve found. They question themselves sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older guys often last longer....

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By *rontmanMan
over a year ago

Derby and often London

I often cum quickly, fortunately I can also repeat several times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe clubs? If one guy taps out to quickly somebody else can step in.

Alternatively look to meet guys who state they are repeat cummers, those who can multiple orgasm without breaks / stay hard or the guys who state they like long play sessions with multiple positions.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I could. Can go hours. Sometimes I don’t cum. And it’s no fun for me or the lady at times. "
why then have you blocked women for on fab? Is it for the reason that sometimes you dont cum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worse culprits are the ones that brag they can go round after round all night yet cum in 5 minutes and then fall asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I could. Can go hours. Sometimes I don’t cum. And it’s no fun for me or the lady at times. why then have you blocked women for on fab? Is it for the reason that sometimes you dont cum ?"

Because I do my own searching.

No messages stops trolls from the forums messaging me aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish, take me bloody hours it's a curse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick someone older who can last a bit longer!"

Exactly this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick someone older who can last a bit longer!

Exactly this!!"

Yes I’m too old for op but probably look younger then most there age ranges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve recently met a few single guys lately and when it comes down to it. They literally can’t last more than 2 mins.

Anyone got any advice how to avoid these?

Eve. Xx"

Is there a one ejaculation limit?

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Any good guy will keep paying after he's came.. my partner can sometimes get a bit over excited but he will always make sure that I'm more than satisfied before he rolls over

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Ask them if there a repeater before meeting.

if not suggest to them they have a play by themselves before meeting with you.

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By *irGxxxxMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Eve,

Not all single guys are like that. I practise control and sometime I can struggle to cum because I've got it down to a tee. You need to find a more experienced guy whos not on her for a splash and dash.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Any good guy will keep paying after he's came.. my partner can sometimes get a bit over excited but he will always make sure that I'm more than satisfied before he rolls over "

This ^ anyone worth their salt will make sure you're satisfied before leaving.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

No problem with that here lol I out last most true story

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Go to clubs. "
they cum quickly there too..

My advice ( and I've not read the rest of the thread)

Is to not worry. If it happens quick and your wanting to make a few hours of it... make the 2nd round enticing. Just because a guy has cum it doesnt have to be the end of play. ( unless he genuinely can't manage more than once) to be fair though I find those guys are normally adept at making sure the lady has had a good time before the full sex starts x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Similar issue with me. Fastest is under 1 min hand job. Or they don't cum at all because they think lasting for hours is great fun which is only with guys you have amazing sexual chemistry. I just say to them lets just stick to simple kissing and caressing etc

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Similar issue with me. Fastest is under 1 min hand job. Or they don't cum at all because they think lasting for hours is great fun which is only with guys you have amazing sexual chemistry. I just say to them lets just stick to simple kissing and caressing etc"
1 min no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past at certain times I have cum very quickly and couldn't work it out, but quite often it can be the excitement and anticipation that may have been building up in their head. Definitely somebody who has the ability to bring a guy to the edge and know exactly the right time to stop will be able to make even the quickest cummers last for ages!!

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By *eading28Man
over a year ago

Reading

"In the past at certain times I have cum very quickly and couldn't work it out, but quite often it can be the excitement and anticipation that may have been building up in their head. Definitely somebody who has the ability to bring a guy to the edge and know exactly the right time to stop will be able to make even the quickest cummers last for ages!!"

I think you have hit the nail on the head there. I think it's a lot to do with being excited/nervous. It doesn't happen to me in the vanilla world, but have been nervous on swinging meets. The good news is I recover pretty quick, then last fine the second time. As others have said I enjoy giving pleasure, so there is always something to do while recovering.

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By *r Average69Man
over a year ago

Thanet

"Or here's another one; once said guy has had his moment, scold him playfully for being unable to control himself (whilst taking it as a compliment to your own prowess of course) and make him give prolonged oral as a penance. Then when he's hard again a few minutes later he'll last longer with it being the second time? Win-win!

I assumed that's what everyone would do, lol? I'm no stamina pro, and can reach the point of cumming quite quick if I get really turned on! Going down when the urge to cum starts is standard delay tactics, and going down "as penance" for losing my load too fast is a a tasty price to pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of being made to give prolonged oral would make me even more turned on! Just be careful not to let your cock go to close to the ladies feet as if you are that close one rub could be fatal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve recently met a few single guys lately and when it comes down to it. They literally can’t last more than 2 mins.

Anyone got any advice how to avoid these?

Eve. Xx"

Yer meet me I will go longer lol

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I don't suffer from premature ejaculation,if my wife can't keep up with me it's not my fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys may not have had a woman in a while... that’s most likely the main cause. Guys in a couple, whilst even fucking someone new, should have a lot more self control if they’re used to sex on a very regular basis.

Then of course, you’ll get the ones who just don’t have it in them to go on for any length of time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to have a tactical wank prior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's called cum and go haha, back to there wife's mostly lol x"

Ah that's what it is!!!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Bondage

tie them to the bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it is thay probably not had sex for a while so when it comes down to it thay cum way to fast it has happened to me in the past it's not a nice thing to happen to you it's embarrassing lasting like 10 minutes its not good but having seconds is really good I can last like an hour an a half at least when I cum and go back for more and can last a lot longer hope this helps you you

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By *ewby12345321Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Willing give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop turning them on so much? Try showing them pictures of your grandparents regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank them off first then they'll last longer 2nd time Xx

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

"Wank them off first then they'll last longer 2nd time Xx"

Haha

this

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

Take it with a compliment, let him go down on you after and then repeat. Or are they not repeaters.

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