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By *heDon12 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halesowen

I get chatting to a few people, flirts flying around, i ask for their Kik for faster messaging and they agree then all of a sudden the conversation airs out and disappears?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just how it is on here. Dont give up you'll find someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get chatting to a few people, flirts flying around, i ask for their Kik for faster messaging and they agree then all of a sudden the conversation airs out and disappears?"

Gotta take everything with a pinch of salt on here mate...

I've come to the conclusion that a lot of people get off on the 'chat' or the idea of a meet rather than the actual reality.

Either that or they're hitting you up for more risque photos not on site & then bounce.

Keep going that's what I'd say. You'll find someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get chatting to a few people, flirts flying around, i ask for their Kik for faster messaging and they agree then all of a sudden the conversation airs out and disappears?"
because they are still on here messaging, you thought you'd get more of their time didn't you well unfortunately that rarely happens, they devote the same time to whatever they do, women are very tunnel vision on most things rules, airtime, work etc., remember their are many men and they're not just talking to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find some people suddenly go quiet when they are invited to platforms where you can verify yourself as real. I am not saying all profiles are fake who don’t want to verify on cam or with personalised snap shots, but you can bet a fair few of the profiles are fake though that go quiet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you compare fab to real life and say take a cross section of 100 people you would only click on a personal level with say ten.

Get on with say 50.

And the rest would be fakes time wasters dreamers and picture hunters so don’t sweat it and if you’re not enjoying it then stop.

Best of luck.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on for 3 years or more nothing has ever happened!!

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I get chatting to a few people, flirts flying around, i ask for their Kik for faster messaging and they agree then all of a sudden the conversation airs out and disappears?"

Fab is a social network to allow you to network in thw swinging scene on a bigger scale in events and clubs and perhaps the odd individual meet.

Do not think for one moment that it is a hook up site!!!

Because you will just become jaded like the thousands of other men on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you compare fab to real life and say take a cross section of 100 people you would only click on a personal level with say ten.

Get on with say 50.

And the rest would be fakes time wasters dreamers and picture hunters so don’t sweat it and if you’re not enjoying it then stop.

Best of luck.

T"
what is this if it isn't real life do you change into another person when you come to this website omg this is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I get turned off by guys asking for kik, WhatsApp and Skype after just one or two messages, but that is just me. That probably is not your situation though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I get turned off by guys asking for kik, WhatsApp and Skype after just one or two messages, but that is just me. That probably is not your situation though.

"
me to........... I'm just saying this because i want to get into your 20m x 20m storage unit full of your toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I get turned off by guys asking for kik, WhatsApp and Skype after just one or two messages, but that is just me. That probably is not your situation though.

me to........... I'm just saying this because i want to get into your 20m x 20m storage unit full of your toys "

LOL. I have a second unit now too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I get turned off by guys asking for kik, WhatsApp and Skype after just one or two messages, but that is just me. That probably is not your situation though.

me to........... I'm just saying this because i want to get into your 20m x 20m storage unit full of your toys

LOL. I have a second unit now too "
omg you harlot

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Abingdon

We also tend to avoid people that want to move to kik straight away as we find this is where the pic collectors, fakes and dreamers seem to lurk. We now only chat on this site so should someone not turn up etc we can report them. We sometimes add someone to kik but only after we have met them and know we want to meet them again.

Lily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on for 3 years and nothing happened so don't get too disheartened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on for 3 years and nothing happened so don't worry about it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"To be honest I get turned off by guys asking for kik, WhatsApp and Skype after just one or two messages, but that is just me. That probably is not your situation though.

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Me too, I lose interest as I find a lot of those who want to quickly move to other platforms just want pictures rather than physical interaction.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York


"We also tend to avoid people that want to move to kik straight away as we find this is where the pic collectors, fakes and dreamers seem to lurk. We now only chat on this site so should someone not turn up etc we can report them. We sometimes add someone to kik but only after we have met them and know we want to meet them again.

Lily "

This is exactly our thoughts on this too. Also being bombarded with messages isn't fun either and if a meet is a long way off the chat usually dies before anything can happen. Oh and then there's the single guys who start messaging us one in one! Save other platforms for friends, people we've met and imminent meets Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on fab 3 times.

1st time had about 4/5 meets.

2nd, didnt have any

This time I've had about 6 meets so far.

Sometimes it's just patience, sometimes theres just no one interested.

Chin up, dont expect anything and eventually something happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with messaging on here? I used to chat on kik quite a bit, but eventually realised what others have noticed, that it's mainly picture collectors that want to move conversation away from Fab.

And yes, ok, Kik is an instant messaging service, where you can see when the message has been delivered and read, but it doesn't mean people are going to drop whatever they are doing just to chat. I had a guy message me some time ago who would throw his toys out of the pram and send me tons of messages if I did not reply to his first one within seconds of receiving it. So no, thanks, Kik only with people I have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are just rubbish on Kik. I definitely am!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Site is getting boring now. All I get for is no messages because they get flooded all the time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like this site and it works well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this site. It’s a minge feast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read that this site used to be so much better. So, using research, an old bicycle and pocket watch, I invented a time machine to return to the heady days of muff. They're right, it was amazing. I was fucking pussy and ass literally everyday. I had to return to this present day to save my cock falling off from over use and being dehydrated of jizz.

However, I'm going back to 2008 tomorrow. So if anyone wants anything brought back let me know.

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