FabSwingers.com forum: Can't attract any women....critique my profile?

By *ewbie_ts77 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

But if you like it come and talk!

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By *e ReviensWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I would like to see more public photos to get more idea of what you look like. Clothed is good, jeans and shirt or a suit maybe? You don't have to show your face just give us a few more clues.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Lack of pics, not much information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say excite you.....

I’m afraid you need to do the exciting here.

Must try harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is more public pics and face pics is a good start.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

More pics, more info

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

What everyone else has said..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No photos, no info. No idea what you’re like as a person. It’s a profile that sadly, we’d simply skip past.

Add some photos, not of your cock no one wants to see that. Add more about yourself. I know you’re looking for NSA, but us personally we don’t sleep with strangers. Regardless of how many strings are attached or detached.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

That profile photo is not attractive, sorry.

You need to elaborate more on your profile text.

If you messaged me, it’d be an instant delete...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, to add to what others have, change the age range for your target audience, would you really meet someone in thier 90s??

Your profile comes across as lazy and can't be arsed, if you can't pay proper attention to setting up a half decent profile, it won't inspire those you hope to meet.

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

" Your profile comes across as lazy and can't be arsed.... "
and I would add entitled also...

11 months on FAB! No excuse not to develop your profile, build a photo gallery. Build a social network through visiting local events, clubs and socials...

Poor show...

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

I find what you're attract to be worded in a really cringy way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More public pictures and better blog would be a good start.

Best of luck.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

You're an "average" middle aged bloke which puts you right at the bottom of the fabs food chain I am afraid . Add to that one not very good pic and no information about you in your profile means that every woman you message is likely to delete your message and move on to the next one.

As others have said you need to add some more tasteful pics showing your physique and say something about yourself that makes you seem interesting and not a sex pest (not saying you are but that's out lots of guys come across on here).

I'd also drop the status update. Asking for a woman to come to your hotel room will turn off 99%. It sounds like you want a free prostitute.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Here’s some guff...

“No man is an island entire of itself;

every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main;

if a clod be washed away by the sea,

Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as any manner of thy friends or of thine

own were; any man's death diminishes me,

because I am involved in mankind.

And therefore never send to know for whom

the bell tolls; it tolls for thee....”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, my pc is downloading a game update ...soooo slowly... Fab forum it is.

You asked for advice 3 days ago but I don't think you've taken any on board. I noted something nobody else has mentioned that might be putting those not inclined ( a large amount of people ) OFF. That _ ts. It can often stand for trans sexual . Yes, I know, there's no indication in pics or your profile that you are but you really do have SECONDS to make an impression. People skim read, they may see the TS and skip by.

As for your profile, the only attractive skimpy thing on fab is underwear...you need to make loads more effort but you know that really don't you. Feather your nest !!

Good luck

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It's a totally uninspiring profile to be honest. 1 unimaginative pic, text that tells the reader very little about you, age range 18-99...

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

But if you like it come and talk!"

Profile no different from the masses of male profiles on the site.

You are a male sardine in a tin crammed full of other male sardines.

You need to be a halibut on the fish counter. Not a sardine.

(Hey, got bored, with the usual lines, so mixed the metaphors up a little, sue me!!

)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be aware of the green arrow is my advice your many meet now forum posts and current update will be off putting to most it can come across desperate and disrespectful

Also highlights your assumptions this is an easy sex site when the reality indicates the opposite

Don’t play the numbers game use the site to find socials and put the effort in to actually speak face to face with people the sex will follow unless you’re a complete creep

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

First thing anyone sees is the user name, the ‘ts’ could lead people to make assumptions.

The photo is uninspiring, it only takes a little effort to take some good selfies (avoid a catalogue of dick pics)

The age range is unrealistic.

The bio is unremarkable.

If you are too lazy to make the effort to present yourself in an enticing manner, how much effort would you be arsed to put into a meet?

Something about the whole profile and forum history leads me to think you’re married or attached. Can’t quite put my finger on what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

But if you like it come and talk!"
not an awful lot there to see only one pic and no info about you, your profile is your advert and it needs to be the best it can be

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

Just a pair of blue pants and not really a lot going on on your bio.

For us as you are verified, why not at least show your summary?

Is it by meeting or by webcam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All guys have this issue including myself and even with a decent profile it’s still hard work and a numbers game really .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here pick points with mine if you will been on here 3 years or more on and off mostly on divorced single fit healthy considered handsome but to no avail

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"All guys have this issue including myself and even with a decent profile it’s still hard work and a numbers game really . "

THIS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just try a new approach...there are 1000's of horny sex starved men on here all looking for sexual gratification. Start of slow with say ...mutal masturbation and see how it goes. Then maybe a blow job or 2 ... just remember it's only gay if you kiss or make eye contact. Good luck

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I'm in a couple, but have met a few women from here one on one.

I'd say the secret is to engage women in a non sexual way. So, chat in the forum and send pms to women you appear to getting on with. Be alert to signals that indicate where she might want to take things and don't be pushy.

I'd say that whilst women want a basic level of physical attractiveness, what generally attracts them is men who can maintain a good conversation and who seem interested in them rather than just seeing them as a generic vagina holder.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"I'm in a couple, but have met a few women from here one on one.

Lmfao @ vagina holder

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Let's try turning this round on you. If a woman wants to meet an interesting guy she likes spending time with you, what on your profile do you think would attract her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

But if you like it come and talk!"

Wtf are those pants? I'm straight but that's not a good look

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I wish majority of fab profiles could read these advices... My life and others be in such a better place. So many blocks, deletes, no thanks I have to do because of under developed profiles, gets so discouraging.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"All guys have this issue including myself and even with a decent profile it’s still hard work and a numbers game really . "

Your saying this after reading the thread and you cant see what's wrong ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any constructive critique on my profile?

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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago

DERBY/Notts border

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

But if you like it come and talk!"
Mate its easier on POF and the end products the same if not better you could have the best profile in the world and it dont mean jack.Even women you wouldnt look at twice in town on a saturday night get 1000s of messages a week on here if you want fun POF is the way and most on here are on there.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

But if you like it come and talk!Mate its easier on POF and the end products the same if not better you could have the best profile in the world and it dont mean jack.Even women you wouldnt look at twice in town on a saturday night get 1000s of messages a week on here if you want fun POF is the way and most on here are on there."

must be so frustrating for straight men on here , well I'm told that so often anyway

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

But if you like it come and talk!"
. It can be hard for a single middle aged guy on this site but not impossible if you make some changes.You need to add more pictures and perhaps be a bit brave and have face picture.In your profile you need add some of your interests perhaps a bit more of what you are looking for and what you have to offer.You should consider attending socials and clubs and give out verification and in return you should get some back that should help people see you are a friendly , social guy.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Hi

So, my pc is downloading a game update ...soooo slowly... Fab forum it is.

As for your profile, the only attractive skimpy thing on fab is underwear...you need to make loads more effort but you know that really don't you. Feather your nest !!

Good luck"

I saw the TS and was wondering.

It may be his initials but it's ambiguous unless he explains.

But the rest is middle of the road, non offensive, but nothing that stands out.

It's more colourful than some profiles but it's still beige.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

I used to be on pof and no way i would sleep with anyone on there unless I was 100% sure they wanted a relationship not just sex that sites supposed to be for ppl looking for love you men make it so hard with your lies

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By *ichard stenningMan
over a year ago

Bletchley, Milton Keynes

New to this Any information on how to get more involved

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

They get as much interest on pof. Its a terrible site for men as too many fake profiles on there. So I wouldn't really promote it. Maybe dating sites like tinder where you both have to be matched with to chat to each other

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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago

DERBY/Notts border

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I’ve not been able to attract a woman on here, to be honest. But the ladies have the absolute pick of the place (there are fewer of them, after all) and, I say, all power to them!

Thankfully, being bisexual means I still get to have fun (even if i, ultimately, swing more towards women), but if 5’ 11”, athletic build, full head of hair and a nice-looking dick (if I do say do myself) doesn’t cut it, thems the breaks.

And, frankly, having seen some of the double-hung Adonises on here - with veris that would make Casanova green with envy - it’s no bad thing to realise one’s standing. I mean, they score better than me for a very good reason, hahaha. Just have to accept this is how things stand, or work double hard to woo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those pants are hideous!!!

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

But if you like it come and talk!"

You asked the same thing 37 weeks ago. Green arrow

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"I’ve not been able to attract a woman on here, to be honest. But the ladies have the absolute pick of the place (there are fewer of them, after all) and, I say, all power to them!

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By *e ReviensWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Those pants are hideous!!! "

What she said. I wanted to say this on my first post but was being polite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet women up to age 99 really.. Shows us ladies your not fussy

No really attention to detail

1 photo.

To me.. Lacks interest or effort.

Remember it's fab not instant sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try this on your profile instead

Since I came to be alive the world's first test tube baby was born, scientists discovered a hole in the ozone layer, DNA was used to convict criminals, the Berlin Wall was torn down, South Africa overturned apartheid laws, a sheep was cloned, the World Wide Web developed and the human genome sequence was deciphered.

All I want is for someone to touch my cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You basically f****d with a profile like that, it goes downhill after excite me as your opening line

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Try this on your profile instead

All I want is for someone to touch my cock."
and it's a leap year so make the women do the work of chasing and stop giving off desperate undertones , it's not attractive

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"You basically f****d with a profile like that, it goes downhill after excite me as your opening line"
really ???

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Your profile is short with only 1 photo. To us it lacks any effort spells laziness, which then leads us onto thinking they would also be lazy in bed. A little effort goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We struggle to find genuine people .. or are we expecting too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is short with only 1 photo. To us it lacks any effort spells laziness, which then leads us onto thinking they would also be lazy in bed. A little effort goes a long way."
i dont get that comparison lazy writing a profile lazy in bed but so many say it, it has no foundation some people don't have the imagination or inclination to write words about themselves, some see it as arrogant and self absorbing but i certainly don't get the comparison lazy in bed lol

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

"Lack of pics, not much information. "

That is not always the answer as my profile has pictures in nice locations. I have also been to four socials and I have not had any luck also. Just giving my profile as example. I have also written plenty about myself and what I am looking for as well. I don’t know what makes a profile that attracts women or couples.

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

"We struggle to find genuine people .. or are we expecting too much "

What struggle to find single men?. I would jump at the chance to hopefully go on a few dates with a couple and would be reliable. I would also not expect sex just a kiss if the lady didn’t mind?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As with all things in life.....

Zero effort = Zero rewards

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Lack of pics, not much information.

There also has to be attraction and we read profile to see if you are what we are looking for and if we cant find it in your profile we move on no way am I going to ask as most men put on their profile to get dragged into a convo to find im not intersted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need a cock pic with lynx can.. That will do it for sure

Or sky remote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to be a halibut on the fish counter. Not a sardine.

(Hey, got bored, with the usual lines, so mixed the metaphors up a little, sue me!!

What a fantastic metaphor

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By *inky pixieWoman
over a year ago

sourh midlands worcestershire

"Hi

Im struggling to attract any women for nsa fun so I wondered if you could critique my profile and offer any suggestions for improvements?

But if you like it come and talk!"

Shame you have taken the advice of others! (Swipe left)

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