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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone here help me out bin here a couple of months now and just having no luck don't know if it's me or the chats I use help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same mate still struggling if your new and not a girl you’ve not really got a chance all the woman want you to be verified it’s shite mate good luck trying tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah tell me about it see all these lovely women getting let down and complaining about it but just won't give me or any new guy a chance it's shite this site mate good luck trying to you too pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to club

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

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Try a club or organised social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause too many guys mistake fab for a fuck site and most couples and genuine swingers do not see it like that, for us this is more than a fancy a fuck now site and the fun of actual swinging has been lost

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

If people aren't meet verified it's generally because they can't be bothered.

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By *inkswithpanCouple
over a year ago

lough


"Cause too many guys mistake fab for a fuck site and most couples and genuine swingers do not see it like that, for us this is more than a fancy a fuck now site and the fun of actual swinging has been lost"

This xx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yeah tell me about it see all these lovely women getting let down and complaining about it but just won't give me or any new guy a chance it's shite this site mate good luck trying to you too pal "

Why should they have to give you a chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try a club or organised social"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause too many guys mistake fab for a fuck site and most couples and genuine swingers do not see it like that, for us this is more than a fancy a fuck now site and the fun of actual swinging has been lost"

bang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop whinging and do something positive.

The ladies on the site,the gents on the site,the site itself owe you no favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say read their profiles carefully, even their veris to see if you can decide if they are compatible with you, there's no point wasting effort on women who are probably not going to meet you.

I always write a bit about myself and what I'm hoping for and see if they fancy meeting for a coffee or a drink with no pressure or expectations. I never mention sex in any way until they do, and even then only in a flirty fun way.

It's hard but persevere and be honest and hopefully you'll get there.

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS


"Cause too many guys mistake fab for a fuck site and most couples and genuine swingers do not see it like that, for us this is more than a fancy a fuck now site and the fun of actual swinging has been lost"

Totally agree.

Been both Single and couple over the years..

Oh lots changed..

Now Single Lady

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By *umkisscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I'm gonna make a point here that I rarely see discussed or mentioned when it comes to feedback on single guys

What are you bringing to the table???

On single guys profiles I see loads of "looking for such and such" or "would love to meet so and so" but I never see "I can offer this". Couples have a staggering choice of who to message back and potentially meet with. Your profile is your shop window and people want to see what you are offering (a big cock, a heavy cummer, an adaptable flexible play partner, comfortable with mmf etc etc etc).

Most of these profiles are like a shop that says "we just want your money, our products are average at best" and then wonder why no one is buying

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Go to a club, the club we go to will verify you. Fuck, I’d verify you if I chatted and you weren’t a prat! Meet veris don’t mean you’ve fucked!

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Another “I can’t get a meet until I’ve been veried” post. I can assure you that although some women and couples won’t entertain unverified men, it’s by no means the be all and end all of this site, otherwise no new man will ever get to meet. You really need to put some effort in and prove that you’re worth taking a risk for. That means having a well-written profile and a positive, thoughtful and respectful approach to the messages you send. Many women will look at your profile before they read your message. If you don’t stick out you won’t get a second look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I see these posts I paste the same thing. Here it is.

Is the problem a lot of the time that guys aren’t very confident chatting up women in the real world. So they come to a swinging website thinking that it’s just sex with random strangers and no holds barred fun. And the truth is it’s not like that at all. You still have to be able to conduct yourself correctely and if anything it’s harder to pull because the social side of it is so important and a lot of people lack those skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

It's supply and demand on here, years ago when sites like these were in their infancy it was pretty even and most girls/couples/men were genuinely looking to meet. Now it's saturated by desperate men, mostly attached/married looking for shagfest.com. It's hardly surprising girls and couples have become more discerning.

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You only get out what you put in, patience is a virtue you may send out 1000 messages and only get 1 reply but that's just the way it is and if the sites not working for you then try 1 of the many clubs or social events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna make a point here that I rarely see discussed or mentioned when it comes to feedback on single guys

What are you bringing to the table???

On single guys profiles I see loads of "looking for such and such" or "would love to meet so and so" but I never see "I can offer this". Couples have a staggering choice of who to message back and potentially meet with. Your profile is your shop window and people want to see what you are offering (a big cock, a heavy cummer, an adaptable flexible play partner, comfortable with mmf etc etc etc).

Most of these profiles are like a shop that says "we just want your money, our products are average at best" and then wonder why no one is buying"

Good post.

T

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