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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london

How do you build up ‘genuine’ verifications if you can’t secure any meets

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside


"How do you build up ‘genuine’ verifications if you can’t secure any meets "

Get to a meet n greet?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You can't. You need to meet to get verified.

Or, you could go in the cam rooms and ask x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Go to clubs and socials. Simple

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

Go to a club and the owners will verify you. A club veri is a great start. Even if you don't talk to anyone there it's a surreal experience!

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside


"Go to clubs and socials. Simple "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a meet. It’s really not that difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't. You need to meet to get verified.

Or, you could go in the cam rooms and ask x"
caam verification don't work no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are verified though

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You can't. You need to meet to get verified.

Or, you could go in the cam rooms and ask xcaam verification don't work no more "

How do you mean they don't work? There's still an option when verifying to choose cam x

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Get a meet. It’s really not that difficult "

Depends where you are. I've had meets through Fab but none local to where I live, it's only ever worked out for me when I've been travelling about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't. You need to meet to get verified.

Or, you could go in the cam rooms and ask xcaam verification don't work no more

How do you mean they don't work? There's still an option when verifying to choose cam x"
not for me there is not

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Get a meet. It’s really not that difficult "

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Go to a club and/or an organised fab social event. It isn't difficult.

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By *heshire DilfMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Be careful about who you ask. I did that, got a veri off a lady, who was thoroughly pleasant and a good laugh. We never had sex or anything like that, she just verified me after us chatting. Anyway, turns out she has plenty of erm... well... Experience. This I've been told by a few people is off putting. So be mindful who you get.

Also I would say that in my experience, unless you look like the cover of a men's health mag, your best bet is a club. People give you the time of day, and those other qualities that can't shine through on email such as confidence and humour can come into their own and make it a far more pleasant experience.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"How do you build up ‘genuine’ verifications if you can’t secure any meets "
you’re verified!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Be careful about who you ask. I did that, got a veri off a lady, who was thoroughly pleasant and a good laugh. We never had sex or anything like that, she just verified me after us chatting. Anyway, turns out she has plenty of erm... well... Experience. This I've been told by a few people is off putting. So be mindful who you get."

Bit judgemental. She might just be a social butterfly

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"You can't. You need to meet to get verified.

Or, you could go in the cam rooms and ask xcaam verification don't work no more "

Yes, it does.

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By *iavoloCouple
over a year ago

Bexley/Buxton


"How do you build up ‘genuine’ verifications if you can’t secure any meets "

You can't! you need to actually meet people to get genuine ones surly thats common sense.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"How do you build up ‘genuine’ verifications if you can’t secure any meets "

You got lots of verifications. Are you wording your question wrong? Confused

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Be careful about who you ask. I did that, got a veri off a lady, who was thoroughly pleasant and a good laugh. We never had sex or anything like that, she just verified me after us chatting. Anyway, turns out she has plenty of erm... well... Experience. This I've been told by a few people is off putting. So be mindful who you get.

Bit judgemental. She might just be a social butterfly "

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land


"How do you build up ‘genuine’ verifications if you can’t secure any meets "

Presumably the same way you got your ‘genuine’ verification

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Question. Why do men care about getting verified per se? No one will think anything other than a single male is a single male. I can see that having an enthusiastic testimonial following a meet would be helpful, but what's the point of a cam veri saying "yes, he's a genuine single man"?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"How do you build up ‘genuine’ verifications if you can’t secure any meets "

Do whatever you did to get the meet verification you have.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Question. Why do men care about getting verified per se? No one will think anything other than a single male is a single male. I can see that having an enthusiastic testimonial following a meet would be helpful, but what's the point of a cam veri saying "yes, he's a genuine single man"? "

I'd like a quid for every profile I've seen that won't meet unverified men.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Question. Why do men care about getting verified per se? No one will think anything other than a single male is a single male. I can see that having an enthusiastic testimonial following a meet would be helpful, but what's the point of a cam veri saying "yes, he's a genuine single man"?

I'd like a quid for every profile I've seen that won't meet unverified men."

But if a veri just said "I've seen him on cam and he's definitely a bloke..."?

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By *heshire DilfMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Be careful about who you ask. I did that, got a veri off a lady, who was thoroughly pleasant and a good laugh. We never had sex or anything like that, she just verified me after us chatting. Anyway, turns out she has plenty of erm... well... Experience. This I've been told by a few people is off putting. So be mindful who you get.

Bit judgemental. She might just be a social butterfly "

I know it is. But it's just a reality of what I have experienced. I'm not saying she wasn't a good person or anything like, but there have been on a more than one occasion, people that when I have started chatting to them, they have raised this as a red flag.

The op has asked opinions and I'm just chipping in with some of what I've experienced. This is fab, for some it's an issue, others it's not. Just like people's preferences. You can't win 'em all but if armed with the right sort of info you can at least know the ins and outs of your decisions.

Would i be bothered if some had lots of veris, no. But some people are. So make your decisions accordingly

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Clubs are a great way to meet people and get verifications x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it a bit of a struggle but i wasn’t worried about it. A few years later I’ve got a few now

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Question. Why do men care about getting verified per se? No one will think anything other than a single male is a single male. I can see that having an enthusiastic testimonial following a meet would be helpful, but what's the point of a cam veri saying "yes, he's a genuine single man"? "

I actually find verifications helpful.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Your visible veri is from 2012 and you’ve got more recent ones hidden. Why?

Guarantee you women will think the same thing, add in her ‘trier’ comment and most will pass by.

Go to clubs & socials, ask for them there. Maybe avoid PAWG in your headline, people who aren’t won’t look at you so less chance to be veri’ed.

Hope that helps.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness


"Get a meet. It’s really not that difficult "
obviously easy for you it would appear, almost impossible for the rest of us.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You can't. You need to meet to get verified.

Or, you could go in the cam rooms and ask xcaam verification don't work no more "

Yes they do. I verified someone the other day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I presume, by the fact that you've put the word genuine in inverted commas that you might be fishing for someone to take pity on you and give you a verification without actually meeting you, or perhaps I'm just being overly cynical and what you're actually asking for here is for someone to meet you so that you can get that first verification that you so desperately crave.

Don't get too hung up on the whole verification thing.

I've met people from fab who just don't give them anyway.

Some aren't quite as bothered about them as you might think.

You also need to focus less on verifications as you can put people off in that they'll get the impression that you only want to meet them in order to get verified.

You really do have to think about the message you're giving out.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Question. Why do men care about getting verified per se? No one will think anything other than a single male is a single male. I can see that having an enthusiastic testimonial following a meet would be helpful, but what's the point of a cam veri saying "yes, he's a genuine single man"? "

We care because many people state on their profiles that they're not interested in meeting unverified men or people who have been on the site longer than six months or a year without being meet verified. Which seems silly to me, but what can I say, it is a case of supply and demand. Women and couples have the upper hand in this and if they state they're not interested in meeting without verification then as single guys we need to get verified.

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