FabSwingers.com forum: Compatibility

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Does personality matter when just looking for sex? I was told by afew why does it matter. For me, sex is about trust and compatibility in personality for me to really enjoy the sex regardless if it's just one night stand or fwb. What's people's opinion? Does it vary depending if you're a male or female?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I have to click with anyone I get involved with for sex otherwise I might as well use a machine of some sort as it will always go longer and harder than a person can.

If you dont have that personal connection then neither of you is going to want to please the other either and what is the point of sex if it's not about pleasing each other as well as yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does personality matter when just looking for sex? I was told by afew why does it matter. For me, sex is about trust and compatibility in personality for me to really enjoy the sex regardless if it's just one night stand or fwb. What's people's opinion? Does it vary depending if you're a male or female? "

I agree with you! There has to be some level of trust and I can't trust people whose personality I don't like. Besides, one sentence can kill any attraction, to someone, in a millisecond, so personality ends up the most important thing, when looking for a playmate, even if, initially, it was physical attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but if you are a prick you dont get the dick, simples.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I have to click with someone.

They can tick all the boxes on paper but when I meet them if that little surge of hormones doesn't happen then it's not happening.

It's a combination of looks, intelligence, personality, body language and I don't think you can categorise it really.

I would hope they'd do the same.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

For us yes massively !

Even though it's just Lou who plays we both have to feel comfortable with them and the physical attraction bit comes second

Ray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to click with anyone I get involved with for sex otherwise I might as well use a machine of some sort as it will always go longer and harder than a person can.

If you dont have that personal connection then neither of you is going to want to please the other either and what is the point of sex if it's not about pleasing each other as well as yourself? "
exactly that

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Definitely....I have to fancy the person that's what makes the sex good.....like a previous fabber stated otherwise it would be too robotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

?? need a connection, sex for just gratification is pointless, can achieve that myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

persoanltiy definitely matters whether yer male or female, to have that trust comes down to the personality of the other person ...also ye's click better if the personalities are compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely like to have a connection with someone if play was going to happen.

I couldn’t just meet anyone for the sake of some sex.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It deffo does matter

If i have nothing in common with someone then we won't hit it off ,without that no fun would happen.

I like to have friendships here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it wasn’t for my personality I’d have no meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

I know this aint your average dating site but guess i still aint give up on somthin more than just sex

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

"I have to click with anyone I get involved with for sex otherwise I might as well use a machine of some sort as it will always go longer and harder than a person can.

If you dont have that personal connection then neither of you is going to want to please the other either and what is the point of sex if it's not about pleasing each other as well as yourself? "

Yep, for me I need to trust a partner, especially if they want to tie me up, but also I am attracted to those with a kinky mind xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have to click and really like the person. I can’t have sex with anyone.

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By *jr41Couple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I have to click with someone.

They can tick all the boxes on paper but when I meet them if that little surge of hormones doesn't happen then it's not happening.

It's a combination of looks, intelligence, personality, body language and I don't think you can categorise it really.

I would hope they'd do the same."

I totally agree with that

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