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By *irmLad0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton coldfield

Hey whats the best approach on here? Do women in here prefer you to just start talking dirty or to start chatting like this was any other singles app?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

If that's how someone initiates conver they're going straight in the ban bin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey whats the best approach on here? Do women in here prefer you to just start talking dirty or to start chatting like this was any other singles app?"

I don’t appreciate an explicit message but some will. Read profiles and see if you can get a feel of what kind of first message would be appreciated. You have to tailor your approach to a person.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey whats the best approach on here? Do women in here prefer you to just start talking dirty or to start chatting like this was any other singles app?"
yes they love filth and a cock pic or two give it to em hot and strong

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You should always refer to them as your ‘Baby Gurl’’ include lots of cock pics and sign your messages as ‘The Boss’ , you’ll be blown away by the responses.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Hey whats the best approach on here? Do women in here prefer you to just start talking dirty or to start chatting like this was any other singles app?"

Start off telling them exactly what you plan to do sexually, how hard, how long, how much they're going to beg for more.

Mention how wet you'll make them and how you can muff them out for hours.

Add a couple of cock pics too, they love it.

Basically, behave exactly how you would when to talking to an attractive stranger in a bar.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey whats the best approach on here? Do women in here prefer you to just start talking dirty or to start chatting like this was any other singles app?

I don’t appreciate an explicit message but some will. Read profiles and see if you can get a feel of what kind of first message would be appreciated. You have to tailor your approach to a person.

Good luck "
you don't have to you can cut and paste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself OP,some will answer some won’t.but always be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself OP,some will answer some won’t.but always be yourself "
I'm a great believer in trying to be somebody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself OP,some will answer some won’t.but always be yourself I'm a great believer in trying to be somebody else "

So you’re not really as charming and funny as you are on forums!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself OP,some will answer some won’t.but always be yourself I'm a great believer in trying to be somebody else

So you’re not really as charming and funny as you are on forums!? "
omg thankyou for noticing please tell everyone i haven't paid you to say that yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself OP,some will answer some won’t.but always be yourself I'm a great believer in trying to be somebody else

So you’re not really as charming and funny as you are on forums!? omg thankyou for noticing please tell everyone i haven't paid you to say that yet "

I don’t lie sorry,but I will make sure I spend the £50 wisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself OP,some will answer some won’t.but always be yourself I'm a great believer in trying to be somebody else

So you’re not really as charming and funny as you are on forums!? omg thankyou for noticing please tell everyone i haven't paid you to say that yet

I don’t lie sorry,but I will make sure I spend the £50 wisely "
bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself OP,some will answer some won’t.but always be yourself I'm a great believer in trying to be somebody else

So you’re not really as charming and funny as you are on forums!? omg thankyou for noticing please tell everyone i haven't paid you to say that yet

I don’t lie sorry,but I will make sure I spend the £50 wisely bitch "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine how you would approach women in the street, OP.

Would you choose a dirty talk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine how you would approach women in the street, OP.

Would you choose a dirty talk?"
he likes a slap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone think and overly sexual first message is the way to go?

You wouldn’t do it at work talking to the new girl in the office. So why would it be okay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would anyone think and overly sexual first message is the way to go?

You wouldn’t do it at work talking to the new girl in the office. So why would it be okay?"
he's asking for advice on how you'd like him to approach you though so can't you give him some great one liners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What speaks French and loves blow jobs??

Moi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What speaks French and loves blow jobs??

Moi. "

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By *irmLad0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton coldfield

Lol

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By *heshire DilfMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Craft your words carefully. Your effectively looking to give them a literary equivalent of a slap on the arse. Women love that sort of attention.

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By *irmLad0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton coldfield

Not really, I would just be myself and see how it goes, just feels like you get ignored if you take that approach.

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By *irmLad0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton coldfield

[Removed by poster at 08/02/20 09:29:45]

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By *irmLad0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton coldfield


"What speaks French and loves blow jobs??

Moi. "

I need to learn French

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What speaks French and loves blow jobs??

Moi.

I need to learn French "
ferme la fenetre

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No dirty chat with first message for me. A little bit of humour and compliments along with compliments is always appreciated. Hello or how are you messages bore me.

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Just ask them if they "fancy a fuck" and sit back and wait for the messages to roll in, you'll have queues of women outside your front door! lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta have sky remote cock pic on profile too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta have sky remote cock pic on profile too "

And a can of lynx! (I use a travel size one!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t forget to tell them you can breathe out of your ears. We love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t forget to tell them you can breathe out of your ears. We love that "
you don't....... do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to just chat normally, find out a bit about them, what they are looking for.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

The minute a guy starts talking dirty, especially in a first message, is often the moment I lose all interest with an audible eye roll. Unfortunately a fair few on here thinking talking dirty, & even sometimes absolutely trashy, is how to get a conversation going.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

...asking “up to much today?” has incredible aphrodisiac effects...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...asking “up to much today?” has incredible aphrodisiac effects... "

Just as much as “hey, I’m close by”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should always refer to them as your ‘Baby Gurl’’ include lots of cock pics and sign your messages as ‘The Boss’ , you’ll be blown away by the responses. "

You guys...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

A coherent first message that makes me laugh works for me.

Not into talking filth with a random, but horses for courses.

Good luck

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Critical thing for me is to start a conversation. Ask a question (not FAF) or say something that invites a response.

It's incredibly difficult sometimes to maintain any sort of conversation when all that's coming back is "fine ta, you?" or "I'm really horny".

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

The best one ever is to ask them if they have any hot friends who would be down to fuxk...works a charm every time with me

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"What speaks French and loves blow jobs??

Moi.

I need to learn French ferme la fenetre "

Ferme la bouche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What speaks French and loves blow jobs??

Moi.

I need to learn French ferme la fenetre

Ferme la bouche "
oui oui mademoiselle

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"What speaks French and loves blow jobs??

Moi.

I need to learn French ferme la fenetre

Ferme la bouche oui oui mademoiselle "

Tres bien

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What speaks French and loves blow jobs??

Moi.

I need to learn French ferme la fenetre

Ferme la bouche oui oui mademoiselle

Tres bien "
merci boucoup mon ami

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"The best one ever is to ask them if they have any hot friends who would be down to fuxk...works a charm every time with me "

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

Facepalm

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By *irmLad0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton coldfield


"Gotta have sky remote cock pic on profile too "

Haha so size matters, who would of guessed on here lol

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By *irmLad0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton coldfield


"Don’t forget to tell them you can breathe out of your ears. We love that "

Haha breathing is over rated

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By *irmLad0069 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton coldfield


"Critical thing for me is to start a conversation. Ask a question (not FAF) or say something that invites a response.

It's incredibly difficult sometimes to maintain any sort of conversation when all that's coming back is "fine ta, you?" or "I'm really horny"."

Thanks that's really handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t forget. NEVER EVER send a face pic. Women hate those

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Hey whats the best approach on here? Do women in here prefer you to just start talking dirty or to start chatting like this was any other singles app?"

I can tell you what not to say....dont say...hey I know you, where you from and so you have a face pic....or the reply will be...good for you,if you know me then you'll know where I'm from what you want a face pic for as you already know what I look like, drives me mad....xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey whats the best approach on here? Do women in here prefer you to just start talking dirty or to start chatting like this was any other singles app?

I can tell you what not to say....dont say...hey I know you, where you from and so you have a face pic....or the reply will be...good for you,if you know me then you'll know where I'm from what you want a face pic for as you already know what I look like, drives me mad....xxx"

The urge to be a sarcastic asshole and send you a message just like that. Or even worse, copy and paste it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’m clearly rubbish at my first messages so I think I need to keep a close eye on this thread .

Hopefully learn a thing or two to get the conversations going .

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Hey whats the best approach on here? Do women in here prefer you to just start talking dirty or to start chatting like this was any other singles app?

I can tell you what not to say....dont say...hey I know you, where you from and so you have a face pic....or the reply will be...good for you,if you know me then you'll know where I'm from what you want a face pic for as you already know what I look like, drives me mad....xxx

The urge to be a sarcastic asshole and send you a message just like that. Or even worse, copy and paste it "

Sarcasm is one of my best traits, go for...lmao.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey whats the best approach on here? Do women in here prefer you to just start talking dirty or to start chatting like this was any other singles app?

I can tell you what not to say....dont say...hey I know you, where you from and so you have a face pic....or the reply will be...good for you,if you know me then you'll know where I'm from what you want a face pic for as you already know what I look like, drives me mad....xxx

The urge to be a sarcastic asshole and send you a message just like that. Or even worse, copy and paste it

Sarcasm is one of my best traits, go for...lmao.xxx "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Talking dirty in a first message would be a delete from me...

I prefer someone to chat to me like i'm another human being rather than telling me what they'd do or how horny they are etc.

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