FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Advice

By *elleshells OP Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Hi - I’m after some advice about our profile. We have had a lot of interest from time wasters, who arrange to meet & then promptly disappear!!! What are we doing wrong??? How can our profile be more appealing?! Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you’ve got a really nice profile if can’t see anything wrong unfortunately it happens people arranging to meet and then disappearing x

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By *elleshells OP Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

"I think you’ve got a really nice profile if can’t see anything wrong unfortunately it happens people arranging to meet and then disappearing x"

Thank you - your profile is VERY nice xx

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Maybe its just people as I get the same problem. Took me 6 months to get an actual meet.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Hi - I’m after some advice about our profile. We have had a lot of interest from time wasters, who arrange to meet & then promptly disappear!!! What are we doing wrong??? How can our profile be more appealing?! Thanks xx"
. You have been very honest with regards to B’s health which is something I personally respect.I am just wondering if perhaps some of the people you were getting messages from and arranging meets suddenly got cold feet and didn’t have the decency to tell you that perhaps B’s health / condition put them off.

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By *elleshells OP Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

"Hi - I’m after some advice about our profile. We have had a lot of interest from time wasters, who arrange to meet & then promptly disappear!!! What are we doing wrong??? How can our profile be more appealing?! Thanks xx. You have been very honest with regards to B’s health which is something I personally respect.I am just wondering if perhaps some of the people you were getting messages from and arranging meets suddenly got cold feet and didn’t have the decency to tell you that perhaps B’s health / condition put them off."

Maybe you’re right Costas - thanks for the honesty x

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

People seem to live in a perpetual porn fantasy, which reality can't match, in their mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really like the profile. Maybe ditch the health info till you get to know someone x

Loved the photos. Stunning x

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I read your profile and I really respect what you're saying on there and the profile draws me in a little because you seem really nice.

Couples aren't in demand as much as women are. Men are more interested in single women, so that's the first issue.

I'm also thinking that as the guy above said, maybe they're a little scared of how to handle the health situation.

"What do I say? What don't I say? I don't want to upset anyone." sort of thing.

I could be wrong with that, but maybe you could write something to put people at ease with it.

Another option is clubs... If you visit your local club, guys will be very very welcoming I'm sure. After meeting a few, you can then keep their contact details for personal use!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Hi - I’m after some advice about our profile. We have had a lot of interest from time wasters, who arrange to meet & then promptly disappear!!! What are we doing wrong??? How can our profile be more appealing?! Thanks xx. You have been very honest with regards to B’s health which is something I personally respect.I am just wondering if perhaps some of the people you were getting messages from and arranging meets suddenly got cold feet and didn’t have the decency to tell you that perhaps B’s health / condition put them off.

Maybe you’re right Costas - thanks for the honesty x"
. No problem OP.As I said honesty is something I respect and it seems you do as well.As someone has already suggested perhaps look at clubs and maybe look at the forums for your area if there are any socials in your area.Socials are great to make new friends as well as a good day / night out.

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