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By *heshire Dilf OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've seen threads from men of every age saying their particular age is excluded by most profiles.

I think the problem would be solved by searching only profiles that are looking for the age you currently are.

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By *rindAndSlamWoman
over a year ago

Bury

I've set my preferences to 35-55. So you're just fine by me!

The older I get, the younger everyone else looks

You've got a good physique, by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land

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By *heshire Dilf OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

There's a thought. I'll do a search now to see how many on this site specifically want a 37yo.

I suppose given the wide array of fetishes out there someone must be age specific right?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please"

We're mid 30s so we've set 25-40 because we don't want lads almost our son's age (17) or people getting towards our parents ages (55+). There's nothing in that apart from the "weird" factor. Now, there is an age range in the forties that, despite the profile, we will consider for the right guy/couple...

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By *heshire Dilf OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

It's a litteral no man's land "

That is literally where I feel I fall from a male point of view. Though I would say, as a female I'm sure you still get your fair share of admirers?

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please"
37 doesn't get dodgier than that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

37 is good for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"37 is good for us! "
really...... but its dodgy

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"37 is good for us! really...... but its dodgy "

Sadly, we are geographically distant from one another. The number that matters is not age but how far away!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land "

Ahem! Not all the men thankyou although this particular one is miles and miles away from you and wears make up.

Jesus, finding a good match on here is a minefield.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've seen threads from men of every age saying their particular age is excluded by most profiles.

I think the problem would be solved by searching only profiles that are looking for the age you currently are. "

Yes I’ve done this and I’ve gleefully announced that I’m in their age bracket, meet their height needs, and everything for them to reply ‘sorry we don’t meet people from Brighton’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land

Ahem! Not all the men thankyou although this particular one is miles and miles away from you and wears make up.

Jesus, finding a good match on here is a minefield."

And looks better in it than I do!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

We all have preferences - and rightly so. No one has to compromise, nor sell themselves short in trying to fit what others want. It's always worth waiting for the 'right' person, not about just taking anything that comes your way. Age is a problem as well as geography for some, which can compromise any of us. When I'd sooner travel for what I consider to be quality over quantity, some of those that interest me see the distance as a deal breaker, or may consider someone so far away to be wasting their time, which proves we all come at this from different perspectives, We all have the right to do this, so be patient for those that work for you, as well as you them.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land

Ahem! Not all the men thankyou although this particular one is miles and miles away from you and wears make up.

Jesus, finding a good match on here is a minefield.

And looks better in it than I do! "

Not a chance! Your pic 5th June 2019 is incredible and no way could I match that in a million years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land

Ahem! Not all the men thankyou although this particular one is miles and miles away from you and wears make up.

Jesus, finding a good match on here is a minefield.

And looks better in it than I do! "
your 6th feb pic looks lovely

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

In this site some people complain about being too fat too thin too tall too short too old too young not enough swingers where they live ,have we missed anything out ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please"

Reading profiles?

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I aim towards 10 years + / - but no one is excluded if they pique my interest.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please"

30’s and early 40’s is pretty much my sweet spot as I prefer guys roughly my own age (I’m 35). I guess it depends how you look at things! You’ll never be everyone’s cup of tea so concentrate on those who you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37 is fine, if I like the face

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land "

Couldn’t agree with this more ha! It’s when a guy messages saying he likes older women and he’s like 3 years younger than me... erm wait a minute!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Seriously!

Lots of older couples like a younger bloke and lots of younger couples are looking for older. Late 30s early 40s is the sweetspot where you can fit in with either.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

The perfect age for the guys I am attracted to is 34-38...

I think you have bigger concerns than your age tbh. Your profile text is rather off-putting- as funny and banterish as you might have wanted it to come across..

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By *oopaandchampersCouple
over a year ago

St Johns

Our age is the worst 59 and 54 we are both fit and ok on the eye... but those honest numbers..age.. means we will have to bale out from the club soon ..sucks getting old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like going to clubs because it’s down to how you look and interact. We don’t ask how old, if there’s a chemistry then we are good to go! I’m sure one couple we had fun with were in their twenties, but we wouldn’t set out to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day age can be just a number xx being too old or too young for others isnt your loss its there's xx there are an awful lot of very good people out there xx have fun and enjoy life dont take things too serious or to heart xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our age is the worst 59 and 54 we are both fit and ok on the eye... but those honest numbers..age.. means we will have to bale out from the club soon ..sucks getting old."

We have just had a good look at your profile xx wow you are both gorgeous xx you put both of us to shame xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Age should never be allowed to spoil your fun. Just be yourself and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our age is the worst 59 and 54 we are both fit and ok on the eye... but those honest numbers..age.. means we will have to bale out from the club soon ..sucks getting old.

We have just had a good look at your profile xx wow you are both gorgeous xx you put both of us to shame xx "

Don’t be so hard on yourselves!

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Age I've alway said is just a number, if I'm attracted to someone I'll message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it life, it's just what you make it! Thinking negative thoughts about it doesn't help ...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please"

Reading your profile, I think you have 6 bigger things to worry about than just the age bracket you’ve fallen in to

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please"

Is there a spreadsheet to back up your research? I’ve a thing for spreadsheets and geeks lol....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The Fab ‘Holy Trinity’ is;

Under 45;

Over 6ft;

Can accommodate.

You’re 2 out of 3, which ain’t bad

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We'd love to meet you if you move closer and admit you're not straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being 74, in my mind I,m still a youngster but not in body I,d love to be 37 again

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By *heshire Dilf OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please

Is there a spreadsheet to back up your research? I’ve a thing for spreadsheets and geeks lol...."

Spreadsheet + power bi dashboard for a full interrogation of the numbers collected.

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By *pril86Woman
over a year ago

chester

age is just a number in my eyes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please

Is there a spreadsheet to back up your research? I’ve a thing for spreadsheets and geeks lol....

Spreadsheet + power bi dashboard for a full interrogation of the numbers collected. "

Ooh, I love that kind if dirty talk....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please

Is there a spreadsheet to back up your research? I’ve a thing for spreadsheets and geeks lol....

Spreadsheet + power bi dashboard for a full interrogation of the numbers collected.

Ooh, I love that kind if dirty talk.... "

I saw a job advert for a “BI Developer” recently. I was trying to work out what the difference was!!!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land "

This but very nearly 40.

(Also yeah my preferences are also super specific)

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"The Fab ‘Holy Trinity’ is;

Under 45;

Over 6ft;

Can accommodate.

You’re 2 out of 3, which ain’t bad "

You forgot Gym Fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not getting meets I wouldn't say it's because o your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found being single various ages like me, from 24 to 54. Usually older though if I'm honest. Around 45 year mark

But age is a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Fab ‘Holy Trinity’ is;

Under 45;

Over 6ft;

Can accommodate.

You’re 2 out of 3, which ain’t bad

You forgot Gym Fit "

That's me bollocksed then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm at a significantly dodgey age....

It's nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 37 and have set my age preference from 32-43 (I think) but in all honesty I feel 32 is to young for me.

I’ve always liked a guy my own age or a few years older

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By *heshire Dilf OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please

Is there a spreadsheet to back up your research? I’ve a thing for spreadsheets and geeks lol....

Spreadsheet + power bi dashboard for a full interrogation of the numbers collected.

Ooh, I love that kind if dirty talk....

I saw a job advert for a “BI Developer” recently. I was trying to work out what the difference was!!!"

It's nothing to do with business intelligence it's just trying to get folks to be more sexually liberated. Be more prepared to do half chips half rice, if you know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got the big 50 later this year. I'd moan about it more. But given the other alternative is to die young. I'll take it on the chin. In fab years I'll be 80 though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So here's the thing. I've clicked into the late thirties bracket.

I know that's not old, and for some people theyd give their right arm to be at this age again. But I'm finding that I'm in a bit of transitional area age wise.

I'm my experience (and I know we all have different ones) i find that women on here have roughly two main age brackets (I say roughly, taken from the average experience I have, not including any outliers), but these seem to be under and over 40. So in essence, for those after a younger male I'm at the top end, and for those after an older guy, I'm too green.

Does anyone else feel they experience this when they are reading profiles?

Thoughts please

Is there a spreadsheet to back up your research? I’ve a thing for spreadsheets and geeks lol....

Spreadsheet + power bi dashboard for a full interrogation of the numbers collected.

Ooh, I love that kind if dirty talk....

I saw a job advert for a “BI Developer” recently. I was trying to work out what the difference was!!!

It's nothing to do with business intelligence it's just trying to get folks to be more sexually liberated. Be more prepared to do half chips half rice, if you know what I mean. "

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"It's nothing to do with business intelligence it's just trying to get folks to be more sexually liberated. Be more prepared to do half chips half rice, if you know what I mean. "

*Love*

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We like going to clubs because it’s down to how you look and interact. We don’t ask how old, if there’s a chemistry then we are good to go! I’m sure one couple we had fun with were in their twenties, but we wouldn’t set out to do that. "

This is true! I get largely ignored on here, but have had really great times at clubs at various times. I don't have thoughts of a particular type of person/couple, but if we interact positively then it often opens up opportunities.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"In this site some people complain about being too fat too thin too tall too short too old too young not enough swingers where they live ,have we missed anything out ?? "

Yep, then complain when they don't get what they're after, but ignore messages from people who MAY fit what they're after if they took the trouble to look. It seems to happen on here a lot.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"In this site some people complain about being too fat too thin too tall too short too old too young not enough swingers where they live ,have we missed anything out ??

Yep, then complain when they don't get what they're after, but ignore messages from people who MAY fit what they're after if they took the trouble to look. It seems to happen on here a lot. "

Oh hell yes to that. Even guys.. Ermmm... Hello... We we're talking to you... We agreed to meet yet you suddenly went quiet and your status is a bullshit whine about fakes...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like going to clubs because it’s down to how you look and interact. We don’t ask how old, if there’s a chemistry then we are good to go! I’m sure one couple we had fun with were in their twenties, but we wouldn’t set out to do that.

This is true! I get largely ignored on here, but have had really great times at clubs at various times. I don't have thoughts of a particular type of person/couple, but if we interact positively then it often opens up opportunities. "

Yep, occasionally a single guy has come in useful at the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - Possibly put a face picture on.

I'll be 46 next year, but I've found people will message you if you're in decent nic - & sometimes break their own rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP - Possibly put a face picture on.

I'll be 46 next year, but I've found people will message you if you're in decent nic - & sometimes break their own rules."

And looking good on it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP - Possibly put a face picture on.

I'll be 46 next year, but I've found people will message you if you're in decent nic - & sometimes break their own rules.

And looking good on it too! "

very kind x

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We like going to clubs because it’s down to how you look and interact. We don’t ask how old, if there’s a chemistry then we are good to go! I’m sure one couple we had fun with were in their twenties, but we wouldn’t set out to do that.

This is true! I get largely ignored on here, but have had really great times at clubs at various times. I don't have thoughts of a particular type of person/couple, but if we interact positively then it often opens up opportunities.

Yep, occasionally a single guy has come in useful at the club "

We do have our uses! Fab can sometimes throw up unexplainable dynamics. I've been rejected/blanked on here on more than one occasion, but then had interest from the very same people when in a club. I can't figure that out, but just got to roll with it.

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By *lirtykentCouple
over a year ago

Kent

I have a preferred age range but it’s just that ‘preferred’ and serves to filter out the extremes. However I’ve found that chatting to a guy and finding a connection is far more important than the number -especially if they have a nice body . I would focus on finding and making that connection and not be put off by the exact numbers.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"In this site some people complain about being too fat too thin too tall too short too old too young not enough swingers where they live ,have we missed anything out ??

Yep, then complain when they don't get what they're after, but ignore messages from people who MAY fit what they're after if they took the trouble to look. It seems to happen on here a lot.

Oh hell yes to that. Even guys.. Ermmm... Hello... We we're talking to you... We agreed to meet yet you suddenly went quiet and your status is a bullshit whine about fakes...? "

Sorry folks, excuse me if I've just read that wrong, but was that a general reply about the site, or was it directed at me specifically, as we've never had any interaction at any point, nor have I ever gone quiet on anyone, or let anyone down after agreeing to meet. (Just checking in case you're confusing me with someone else)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In this site some people complain about being too fat too thin too tall too short too old too young not enough swingers where they live ,have we missed anything out ??

Yep, then complain when they don't get what they're after, but ignore messages from people who MAY fit what they're after if they took the trouble to look. It seems to happen on here a lot.

Oh hell yes to that. Even guys.. Ermmm... Hello... We we're talking to you... We agreed to meet yet you suddenly went quiet and your status is a bullshit whine about fakes...?

Sorry folks, excuse me if I've just read that wrong, but was that a general reply about the site, or was it directed at me specifically, as we've never had any interaction at any point, nor have I ever gone quiet on anyone, or let anyone down after agreeing to meet. (Just checking in case you're confusing me with someone else) "

Don’t worry, it didn’t read as personal to you!

Sometimes people are strange - we chatted for a while with a couple, arranged to meet at a club, then an hour before just went silent! It happens.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

36 so dodgy

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By *heshire Dilf OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land

This "

Give over gg. Like you have any trouble finding a willing partner(s) ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're old ancient and antique, well past the dodgy age, now in our doddering age, but still going strong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've left my filters to 19 (which is probably too young i think, in all honesty)

Although a fwb in their early 20s that had a mature head on them, i could connect with...(Then what's "mature"..i dunno perhaps someone that read chomsky & listened to jazz. lol )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

I have too say that being a 54 year old man, I'm finding it difficult too. I actually prefer a lady around my own age or within 5 years either side.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land "

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I will be 55 very soon but should be ok on here as most males are willing to shag 99yr olds.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"In this site some people complain about being too fat too thin too tall too short too old too young not enough swingers where they live ,have we missed anything out ??

Yep, then complain when they don't get what they're after, but ignore messages from people who MAY fit what they're after if they took the trouble to look. It seems to happen on here a lot.

Oh hell yes to that. Even guys.. Ermmm... Hello... We we're talking to you... We agreed to meet yet you suddenly went quiet and your status is a bullshit whine about fakes...?

Sorry folks, excuse me if I've just read that wrong, but was that a general reply about the site, or was it directed at me specifically, as we've never had any interaction at any point, nor have I ever gone quiet on anyone, or let anyone down after agreeing to meet. (Just checking in case you're confusing me with someone else)

Don’t worry, it didn’t read as personal to you!

Sometimes people are strange - we chatted for a while with a couple, arranged to meet at a club, then an hour before just went silent! It happens. "

Thank you for that.

You're right though - while there are some amazing people in the Fab world there are those you can never figure out. Some time ago I had a really unpleasant response from a single female who I'd messaged saying I had a nerve messaging as I wasn't in her league and that it was laughable that I'd had the balls to even waste my time doing so. I then ended up at a club with friends and noticed she was there. She got into chatting with the group, including myself and randomly joined in when we ended up in a playroom, but got really shirty when I showed her no attention (I'd naturally assumed what she'd said before to still stand), so reminded her of the response to my message online. It was clear at this point she either hadn't recognised it as being me, or having seen me in person saw something different, but either way I politely informed her that in my eyes if I wasn't good enough in the first instance then surely I wasn't then either, especially as she'd been so rude and up herself online without cause. Her true colours then came out with me being informed in no uncertain terms that I was "..... lucky to get a second chance with her and that I should show a bit of gratitude!". Awful but entertaining in hindsight!

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

At 43 I feel a bit the same. I think you just have to realise that there's never really a sweet spot, you'll always be a little too old for some and too young for others. It's always a shame when someone you like the look of has set their age filters to your exact age, or plus/minus a year or two, but there's not much that can be done about it really, just suck it up and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In this site some people complain about being too fat too thin too tall too short too old too young not enough swingers where they live ,have we missed anything out ??

Yep, then complain when they don't get what they're after, but ignore messages from people who MAY fit what they're after if they took the trouble to look. It seems to happen on here a lot.

Oh hell yes to that. Even guys.. Ermmm... Hello... We we're talking to you... We agreed to meet yet you suddenly went quiet and your status is a bullshit whine about fakes...?

Sorry folks, excuse me if I've just read that wrong, but was that a general reply about the site, or was it directed at me specifically, as we've never had any interaction at any point, nor have I ever gone quiet on anyone, or let anyone down after agreeing to meet. (Just checking in case you're confusing me with someone else)

Don’t worry, it didn’t read as personal to you!

Sometimes people are strange - we chatted for a while with a couple, arranged to meet at a club, then an hour before just went silent! It happens.

Thank you for that.

You're right though - while there are some amazing people in the Fab world there are those you can never figure out. Some time ago I had a really unpleasant response from a single female who I'd messaged saying I had a nerve messaging as I wasn't in her league and that it was laughable that I'd had the balls to even waste my time doing so. I then ended up at a club with friends and noticed she was there. She got into chatting with the group, including myself and randomly joined in when we ended up in a playroom, but got really shirty when I showed her no attention (I'd naturally assumed what she'd said before to still stand), so reminded her of the response to my message online. It was clear at this point she either hadn't recognised it as being me, or having seen me in person saw something different, but either way I politely informed her that in my eyes if I wasn't good enough in the first instance then surely I wasn't then either, especially as she'd been so rude and up herself online without cause. Her true colours then came out with me being informed in no uncertain terms that I was "..... lucky to get a second chance with her and that I should show a bit of gratitude!". Awful but entertaining in hindsight! "

Nowt so queer as folk!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No idea really as I havent read it all, but what I do know is we are reaching the age where we have a dodgy knee, a dodgy back, a dodgy shoulder.....

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"In this site some people complain about being too fat too thin too tall too short too old too young not enough swingers where they live ,have we missed anything out ??

Yep, then complain when they don't get what they're after, but ignore messages from people who MAY fit what they're after if they took the trouble to look. It seems to happen on here a lot.

Oh hell yes to that. Even guys.. Ermmm... Hello... We we're talking to you... We agreed to meet yet you suddenly went quiet and your status is a bullshit whine about fakes...?

Sorry folks, excuse me if I've just read that wrong, but was that a general reply about the site, or was it directed at me specifically, as we've never had any interaction at any point, nor have I ever gone quiet on anyone, or let anyone down after agreeing to meet. (Just checking in case you're confusing me with someone else)

Don’t worry, it didn’t read as personal to you!

Sometimes people are strange - we chatted for a while with a couple, arranged to meet at a club, then an hour before just went silent! It happens.

Thank you for that.

You're right though - while there are some amazing people in the Fab world there are those you can never figure out. Some time ago I had a really unpleasant response from a single female who I'd messaged saying I had a nerve messaging as I wasn't in her league and that it was laughable that I'd had the balls to even waste my time doing so. I then ended up at a club with friends and noticed she was there. She got into chatting with the group, including myself and randomly joined in when we ended up in a playroom, but got really shirty when I showed her no attention (I'd naturally assumed what she'd said before to still stand), so reminded her of the response to my message online. It was clear at this point she either hadn't recognised it as being me, or having seen me in person saw something different, but either way I politely informed her that in my eyes if I wasn't good enough in the first instance then surely I wasn't then either, especially as she'd been so rude and up herself online without cause. Her true colours then came out with me being informed in no uncertain terms that I was "..... lucky to get a second chance with her and that I should show a bit of gratitude!". Awful but entertaining in hindsight!

Nowt so queer as folk! "

Ain't that the truth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine says 40 and under because I just haven't grown up yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just hit 40, so am now outside a lot of people's age range

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By *linkyMalinkyWoman
over a year ago

South Somerset

I’m nearly 39 and having always gone for older guys, now that I’m getting older myself I’ve decided actually my own age or slightly older/younger is perfect

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Single men here face a tough struggle . Often with themselves.

Do yourself all the favours that you can. Focus on what you can do and influence, unless you prefer to waste your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should try being 52 xx people think your past it geriatric and cant keep it up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should try being 52 xx people think your past it geriatric and cant keep it up xx "

Bollocks! Otherwise there’s no hope for me!!!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You should try being 52 xx people think your past it geriatric and cant keep it up xx

Bollocks! Otherwise there’s no hope for me!!! "

That is bollocks! I'm 53 and by no means Brad Pitt, but I do just fine!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Single men here face a tough struggle . Often with themselves.

Do yourself all the favours that you can. Focus on what you can do and influence, unless you prefer to waste your time "

Bravo!! What a good shout. Go out to socials and clubs. Be patient, friendly and respectful and get yourself known and things will improve. It's not an overnight thing, but you'll get out what you put in if you do it with a bit of class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land "

36 myself and I Can't imagine you having any problem getting anyone at all. You are absolutely stunning

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Try being a 36 year old woman.

All the men your own age want cougars

All the men younger feel a bit too young.

All the men older either want younger than me or are too old for me.

It's a litteral no man's land

36 myself and I Can't imagine you having any problem getting anyone at all. You are absolutely stunning "

I know I come as part of a couple, but I'm 34 and have no end of messages from men across the age ranges. Recently from 19-65. Plenty of men in their 50s message us though we aren't really looking in that group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should try being 52 xx people think your past it geriatric and cant keep it up xx

Bollocks! Otherwise there’s no hope for me!!!

That is bollocks! I'm 53 and by no means Brad Pitt, but I do just fine! "

Exactly xx experience speaks for its self xx

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