FabSwingers.com forum: First club visit (MF)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Myself and a partner want to visit a club and have discussed boundaries. So far we want to watch/be watched.

Our question is, does this normally happen ? What is the protocol for the play rooms etc?

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

We see this a lot in clubs we go to. You can use a playroom and just leave the door open or use the open play spaces. You will probably get asked if people can join in so be prepared to have to say no if that's not what you want.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

There are clubs that have a private room with a viewing window so you can play and people can watch but they can't come in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any good club has a couples only room with a massive bed where couples play by themselves and sometimes a dark room with window where people can watch but you cant see them, it's a very safe place to play and sounds like what you are looking for.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How could a dark room have a window ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We see this a lot in clubs we go to. You can use a playroom and just leave the door open or use the open play spaces. You will probably get asked if people can join in so be prepared to have to say no if that's not what you want. "

I think we would be ok saying no. However we would maybe like guys to cum on her so Im hoping it wouldnt be too awkward saying that to whoever is around..

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"We would maybe like guys to cum on her so Im hoping it wouldnt be too awkward saying that to whoever is around.."

This would be far easier to achieve on a night where single men are allowed, not a couples night.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"However we would maybe like guys to cum on her so Im hoping it wouldnt be too awkward saying that to whoever is around.."

That does happen in clubs occasionally. It's only awkward if none of the guys want to do it (they get shy sometimes). If you're playing in an open room, you're likely to have an audience, and there should be at least some men happy to help you out.

If you're nervous about what might happen, you can always plan to do nothing but observe on your first visit. Then you can get a feel for the atmosphere of the club you've chosen, and you'll be a lot more comfortable going further the next time.

And if you find the nerves evaporate that first night, there's no rule saying you can't change that plan (but still don't step beyond your boundaries without a sober discussion about it at home).

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Learn how to say no thanks in a polite way

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"Myself and a partner want to visit a club and have discussed boundaries. So far we want to watch/be watched.

Our question is, does this normally happen ? What is the protocol for the play rooms etc?

Some clubs - like The Attic - have rooms with stable doors, so you can have the top half open for people to watch. We do this a lot (and often invite in those we like the look of)

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"How could a dark room have a window ?"

Even if you found one that does, how would you see in? Are night vision goggles provided by the club?

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