FabSwingers.com forum: The chosen few

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

My membership is soon to expire and I haven't had much luck in finding good sexual FAB partners. For the members who get plenty of interest... How do you decide if the person messaging you is worth replying to? I do get plenty of messages and pretty strict on who I actually reply to as I don't really have that much time to serial chat and meet. So I need advice from experienced women on here how they decide who to meet? As I hate the anti climax/disappointment of most men I choose to meet (ghosting) or missing out on amazing sex session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell you know that any man that ghosts you is a fool and should be banned off of fab because you are smoking hot like damn girl

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

OP just because you have a long profile and strict requirements, doesn't mean you're not going to find what you're looking for on fab.

Your unlikely to find your perfect match without looking for them. All the random men messaging almost certainly won't cut it.

Your best option is to go incognito and browse male profiles and the forums.

Some men if they bother to read your profile will be scared of your expectations or if sub be looking for you to express how you will dom them more.

Have you tried chatting up marathon runners because it reads as though you need a very fit man with loads of stamina.

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

OP parts of your profile are contradictory you list a threesome as a fantasy to be filled but say men who list group sex are a massive turn off. This needs clarity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My membership is soon to expire and I haven't had much luck in finding good sexual FAB partners. "

Not suprised with that massive list of demands

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"My membership is soon to expire and I haven't had much luck in finding good sexual FAB partners. For the members who get plenty of interest... How do you decide if the person messaging you is worth replying to? I do get plenty of messages and pretty strict on who I actually reply to as I don't really have that much time to serial chat and meet. So I need advice from experienced women on here how they decide who to meet? As I hate the anti climax/disappointment of most men I choose to meet (ghosting) or missing out on amazing sex session. "

Frankly your requirements will exclude 99% of men on here. Starting off with a minimum cock size of seven inches will exclude 95% of men (average cock size is 5.4 inches) and given all your other requirements, you probably have a pool of 23 or so men to choose from of whom most will live nowhere near you or won't fancy you.

So if you want to meet anyone you're going to have to be more flexible.

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By *oxiSyxx83Couple
over a year ago

hertfordshire

Ghosted twice on "other" apps. It really does deflate you as a couple and makes you question things about yourself that really do not need to be questioned. So we are very blasé about single chaps promising us the world on here, however the verifications are a welcome difference to the other sites.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m fine on length , borderline on girth and ok with the odd threesome which I thought was group sex but you got me thinking.....should I apply ? I’m really confused

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I thought that my profile was long.... wow - that’s one of the biggest wish lists I’ve ever seen on Fab!

Agree with what others have said - rarer I would say than a genuine Unicorn.

Good luck with your hunt - that’s going to be a tough one!

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By *oxiSyxx83Couple
over a year ago

hertfordshire

Hey its your body, you be as picky as you want I say.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Hey its your body, you be as picky as you want I say. "

Agreed - an enormous amount of patience is required with this site, so just become a free user

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"OP just because you have a long profile and strict requirements, doesn't mean you're not going to find what you're looking for on fab.

Your unlikely to find your perfect match without looking for them. All the random men messaging almost certainly won't cut it.

Your best option is to go incognito and browse male profiles and the forums.

Some men if they bother to read your profile will be scared of your expectations or if sub be looking for you to express how you will dom them more.

Have you tried chatting up marathon runners because it reads as though you need a very fit man with loads of stamina."

Kinky regards to marathon runners but don't even think they're my type. Lol... Sounds like a good plan for me to go hunting myself. Just thought men naturally enjoy their "kill" if they hunt.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Hey its your body, you be as picky as you want I say. "

Thank you... I'm not given up my cherry to just anyone. Years of experience taught me that.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I always insist on messaging a while before meeting. Insisting on a few up to date face pics. Not a single blurry one that looks like it was taken in the 90's. You soon know if you click from messaging x

Mrs N

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"OP parts of your profile are contradictory you list a threesome as a fantasy to be filled but say men who list group sex are a massive turn off. This needs clarity."

Group sex as in orgies... I reword if that bit confusing.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I always insist on messaging a while before meeting. Insisting on a few up to date face pics. Not a single blurry one that looks like it was taken in the 90's. You soon know if you click from messaging x

Mrs N"

So I guess it's just that instant attraction to a profile that helps to short list?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

OP, you're only interested in the most attractive men on fabs who, by definition, will have loads of offers. With all due respect you come across as demanding and high maintenance such that the men you are after will most likely give you a swerve and contact someone else.

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I can tell you know that any man that ghosts you is a fool and should be banned off of fab because you are smoking hot like damn girl "

There is no point white knighting when you don't qualify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP parts of your profile are contradictory you list a threesome as a fantasy to be filled but say men who list group sex are a massive turn off. This needs clarity.

Group sex as in orgies... I reword if that bit confusing. "

You don't know what you're missing

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"OP, you're only interested in the most attractive men on fabs who, by definition, will have loads of offers. With all due respect you come across as demanding and high maintenance such that the men you are after will most likely give you a swerve and contact someone else.

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for. "

Tbh I get over 50 messages a day with all these demands. But at least I'm upfront about what I don't want. Tbh I don't want to give them demands up. But one member gave me good advice and look for men who tickle my fancy

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for.

Indeed, but I suspect the vast majority of those messages will be from blokes who don't meet your criteria

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

I'm going to buck the trend. I think that your profile is well written, to the point, explains what you do and don't want, filters activated and great pictures too.

Maybe one way to try and keep the fantasists and ghosters at bay is to try and speak via the phone sooner rather than later. That would out a lot of the dreamers. Good luck!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I edited my intro... I just had a newbie member say hi and he seems my type...plus I had my proper first FAB meet that went really well... So thanks to everyone who commented. All advice much appreciated. Happy fabbing guys.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Why shouldn't she go after what she wants? I have male friends that fit all of those requirements so they do exist.

Stick to your guns OP and go after what you want. I'm also pretty fussy but I find men at clubs rather than on fab.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"Why shouldn't she go after what she wants? I have male friends that fit all of those requirements so they do exist.

Stick to your guns OP and go after what you want. I'm also pretty fussy but I find men at clubs rather than on fab. "

He depends what you want really. If you will absolutely only have sex with people who have qualities ABCDEF etc, then fine, but the vast majority of people won't have all those qualities, so you'll find it difficult to have sex.

On the other hand if people with only qualities ABCD but not E and F are fuckable, you're going to put them off by insisting you only want people with ABCDEF.

Hence my advice would be to give broad brush descriptions of guys you will consider, not a detailed list of demands that exclude most.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Its not the issue of getting men messaging me. Its narrowing down who to choose to reply back. Broadening my options will just make me even more confused than I am already... Not sure if I'm explaining myself well as everyone keeps talking my "my demands" I'm not here to just sleep with anyone willing. I come to ask advice and experience from women who get alot of messages. How do they decide who to go with.. Is it photos, what they write, verifications make them more attracted to a profile?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Why shouldn't she go after what she wants? I have male friends that fit all of those requirements so they do exist.

Stick to your guns OP and go after what you want. I'm also pretty fussy but I find men at clubs rather than on fab.

On the other hand if people with only qualities ABCD but not E and F are fuckable, you're going to put them off by insisting you only want people with ABCDEF.

Hence my advice would be to give broad brush descriptions of guys you will consider, not a detailed list of demands that exclude most. "

She has given a description of men she would consider, you might think it's too detailed but I think it's just honest.

Imagine how many more messages she would get if she'd been less specific.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

How do you filter the good from the bad is what I am asking advice about

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Why shouldn't she go after what she wants? I have male friends that fit all of those requirements so they do exist.

Stick to your guns OP and go after what you want. I'm also pretty fussy but I find men at clubs rather than on fab.

On the other hand if people with only qualities ABCD but not E and F are fuckable, you're going to put them off by insisting you only want people with ABCDEF.

Hence my advice would be to give broad brush descriptions of guys you will consider, not a detailed list of demands that exclude most.

She has given a description of men she would consider, you might think it's too detailed but I think it's just honest.

Imagine how many more messages she would get if she'd been less specific."

I have to give up my job and do this full time if i replied back to all my messages. I get on average 50 a day even with all my demands. But I had edited it down abit. Doesn't make any difference tbh. Just more men asking why they aren't what I am looking for.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"How do you filter the good from the bad is what I am asking advice about "

You can't completely filter out the bad, you just have to look for warning signs such as asking for your number of kik straight away, not having pics, not being able to accommodate etc

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Know what you want and don't compromise because you haven't met anyone for a while.

Frustrating but better than wasting time and ending up feeling disappointed!

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By *ollee78Man
over a year ago

HARROGATE

I was intrigued to read the bio( Curiosity is one of my downfalls)

I think it’s great that you have standards and have your own set of rules and guidelines. It means you won’t tolerate anyone mediocre accept sub standards.

Bravo

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Demand whatever you want but you have to be realistic. Not in your standard, keep those, but in the time it takes to find that person.

We are very picky and it gets annoying turning so many away but we realise that it will take time to find people we like and in the end it really is worth it. Nobody wants a bangover.

(The group sex thing comes off as snobby though. We're swinger's, we're guna fuck)

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Btw you may want to remove your link. Your insta links to your facebook.you are extremely easy to find which is very dangerous on this site.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Did try to message personally but filters block us

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

I'd turn it round, block all men, go hunting yourself and then message the ones who sound like they measure up.

Can't see the point of trawling through 50 messages daily

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

For me it has to be a number of criteria:

1) An articulate, well thought message. An interest to chat before any meeting takes place. Anyone who mentions meeting in the first message is a turnoff for me.

2) A great FACE and BODY photo. I am attracted to a very specific kind of man, and if you put the guys I’ve had amazing meets with side by side you’d think they are all related as they are all similar physically! This is non-negotiable for me. I ask for different photos and thankfully in 95% of cases people have looked like their photos.

3) That they are patient. It takes me a week or two to decide whether I want to meet them in person and it will almost always be a social.

Keep in mind that there will always be “dry spells” (like now, for me, lol!)

where it seems that no one interesting is around. Be patient.

I have met incredibly interesting people here but yes, it has taken time. I tend not to approach people as I have no time and I am shy

but I have been very lucky in being contacted by and have had amazing experiences with great people!

If you feel you’ve not had any luck, instead of leaving the site, try stepping back a bit..? that is what I plan to do... I have a lot outside to keep me occupied.. my marathon training, for starters!

Best of luck! Ax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somthing I really appreciate is a personal interest that you have. This can be a hobby, work related or so you truly enjoy like a favourite food. It makes it far easier to have a conversation that is not just about sex and thus you can gauge each other far easier.

But I agree with others on this thread, block guys and search yourself or go on more meets in a social setting.

Good Luck!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"For me it has to be a number of criteria:

1) An articulate, well thought message. An interest to chat before any meeting takes place. Anyone who mentions meeting in the first message is a turnoff for me.

3) That they are patient. It takes me a week or two to decide whether I want to meet them in person and it will almost always be a social.

Keep in mind that there will always be “dry spells” (like now, for me, lol!)

where it seems that no one interesting is around. Be patient.

I have met incredibly interesting people here but yes, it has taken time. I tend not to approach people as I have no time and I am shy

but I have been very lucky in being contacted by and have had amazing experiences with great people!

Best of luck! Ax

Girl after my own heart. Thanks and good luck with the marathon... I'm training to do the inca trail in Peru

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jasmine being honest I've not read all your bio so not really sure if I fit the bill. But i can assure you I'm a stand up guy...I won't be late, I will never stand you up, I always pay for the parking and petrol if I'm going dogging. I'll even bring the wetwipes.

I may not be the best looking guy or even 2nd or 3rd but I always bring my A game to a meet .. ironed jeans, brushed teath, a good splash of Packo Reeban and ribbed johny's for maximum pleasure. I have lots of veris on here confirming I've turned up but just ignore the other stuff they've written.

So how about it fancy some fun?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve now read your profile in detail and it is great- you’re very specific on what you like and want! My previous profile was quite similar...I have actually thought of going back to it!

and I also saw your great update... fantastic!

The Inca trail- how fabulous! I am hoping to go to Peru sometime.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I’ve now read your profile in detail and it is great- you’re very specific on what you like and want! My previous profile was quite similar...I have actually thought of going back to it!

and I also saw your great update... fantastic!

The Inca trail- how fabulous! I am hoping to go to Peru sometime. "

But don't you agree its nothing really much about what I write on my profile that will help as I get lots of messages... It's knowing how to decide who to chat to that's the problem. I don't want the rule no public photo, newbies or no verification as a definite no go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve now read your profile in detail and it is great- you’re very specific on what you like and want! My previous profile was quite similar...I have actually thought of going back to it!

and I also saw your great update... fantastic!

The Inca trail- how fabulous! I am hoping to go to Peru sometime.

Me...me...me... give me a chance.... I could make you happy...

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Just a small suggestion, like a few other profiles you’re only giving a very vague and big location (South East UK) which may well dissuade some suitable candidates from bothering to find out more. The county would be helpful at least?

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

I find that the standard using the verifications is very helpful for me, plus chatting on Kik. I also ask them specific questions, related to my interests....

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Just a small suggestion, like a few other profiles you’re only giving a very vague and big location (South East UK) which may well dissuade some suitable candidates from bothering to find out more. The county would be helpful at least? "

I like to keep my location private... But it's not the problem getting messages as I get upto 50 daily. The issue is knowing who to choose to chat to.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I'm afraid to say that me, being a single guy, at the bottom of the food chain - I wouldn't meet you.

Your pics, ok, nice, but your profile is very off-putting. I wouldn't message you, let alone meet.

You come across as being very demanding. Almost princess-like. I'm sorry if you're not, but that's how you come across.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for. "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The fact that you don't have much time to meet can work in your favour here. It means you can spend more time chatting to people and getting to know them before an opportunity comes up, by which time you can be pretty certain if they'll turn up or not. It's what I do, it's never failed me.

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

If you dnt have time.why you here

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for. "

This

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent

I have been doing this for a very long time, and sometimes it’s extremely hard to out the genuine people.

I have always preferred to go to clubs, at least if your date doesn’t show, you can still have a good time socialising, or more, if you’re lucky.

Or you could ask them to take you to dinner, or bring you wine and flowers, well, we are worth it, if they don’t want to put out, then they are just wasting your time.

Good luck. X

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"If you dnt have time.why you here

She said she doesn't have much time, not that she doesn't have any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you dnt have time.why you here

She said she doesn't have much time, not that she doesn't have any. "
time is of the essence, I'm late I'm late for a very important date

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By *igfoot77Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Hi OP. I don't see anything uncommon or wrong with your profile. It doesn't seem all that different to me from the other profiles for single women... I tend not to contact people with the intention to meet and chat even less if I'm honest. I'm usually just here to have a nosey and to keep abreast of the events coming up and deciding which ones I want to go to.

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Just seems like you're specific about what you want and not everyone is going to fall into the criteria as it's full of specifics. Naturally not everyone is going to adhere to those tastes so I guess it's just a case of being patient and realisation

It's not a bad thing to know what you want but when they're are so many specifics then it's narrower down to a select few isn't it

My profile is awful (I need to update and rewrite it) but I just wing it tbh and I meet people from other places so

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I have been doing this for a very long time, and sometimes it’s extremely hard to out the genuine people.

I have always preferred to go to clubs, at least if your date doesn’t show, you can still have a good time socialising, or more, if you’re lucky.

Or you could ask them to take you to dinner, or bring you wine and flowers, well, we are worth it, if they don’t want to put out, then they are just wasting your time.

Good luck. X"

Thanks. Just need to find the time to go to clubs. I had one meet and plenty of cam fun... Just hoping the right guys come along so I can have naughty fun. I get more out of dating sites than FAB which is a shame as at least the men here more willing to show me what they got to offer without being prudish or playing hard to get

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"If you dnt have time.why you here

She said she doesn't have much time, not that she doesn't have any. "

Thank you. I do have at most one evening off a week to go on a meet. Just don't have massive of time trawling through loads of unwanted messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you dnt have time.why you here

She said she doesn't have much time, not that she doesn't have any.

Thank you. I do have at most one evening off a week to go on a meet. Just don't have massive of time trawling through loads of unwanted messages. "
its a problem that only you can address, their are no short cuts, depends what you actually want, sex with no strings thats a club no talking just sex or a more meaningful liason that means sifting through messages and chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been doing this for a very long time, and sometimes it’s extremely hard to out the genuine people.

I have always preferred to go to clubs, at least if your date doesn’t show, you can still have a good time socialising, or more, if you’re lucky.

Or you could ask them to take you to dinner, or bring you wine and flowers, well, we are worth it, if they don’t want to put out, then they are just wasting your time.

Good luck. X"

Good advice for alternative options from a popular couple!

You may be able to experience that after lockdown Jasmine because chances of success may be higher for you. No harm in trying if your usual methods still not been working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why shouldn't she go after what she wants? I have male friends that fit all of those requirements so they do exist.

Stick to your guns OP and go after what you want. I'm also pretty fussy but I find men at clubs rather than on fab.

On the other hand if people with only qualities ABCD but not E and F are fuckable, you're going to put them off by insisting you only want people with ABCDEF.

Hence my advice would be to give broad brush descriptions of guys you will consider, not a detailed list of demands that exclude most.

She has given a description of men she would consider, you might think it's too detailed but I think it's just honest.

Imagine how many more messages she would get if she'd been less specific.

That is because no matter what you write in your bio there are a huge percentage of guys who never bother to read a single word of it.

They just look at your pictures, get horny and take a punt at getting your attention by sending a message.

That is what I have found to be the case in all my time here.

I have had long profiles, medium length profiles and a 1 paragraph profile in that time. And the messages I get are same in volume and content.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for. "

I did that.. tbh the number of messages or the type of men messaging me hasn't changed. Maybe indicates people rarely read my profile before messaging. I went hunting myself and only really liked the gay guys... doomed... I just wait for the clubs to open and use fab for making forum friends

Thank you to everyone who commented on here, whether it was encouraging or negative comments

Stay safe

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I can’t believe men from here let you down or ghost you

And clubs are NOT the only way to meet “ fab men”. I’m sure things will improve for you when the lockdown is over

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for.

Thank you to everyone who commented on here, whether it was encouraging or negative comments

Stay safe

Lmao! Wasn’t it Robbie Williams who sang; “all the best men are married, all the handsome men are gay”.......?

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for.

Thank you to everyone who commented on here, whether it was encouraging or negative comments

Stay safe

Lmao! Wasn’t it Robbie Williams who sang; “all the best men are married, all the handsome men are gay”.......?

I'm not a robbie fan... but dam who wrote that lyrics is so correct

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over a year ago

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for.

Thank you to everyone who commented on here, whether it was encouraging or negative comments

Stay safe

You can find men everywhere Jas, but not on here!

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I can’t believe men from here let you down or ghost you

And clubs are NOT the only way to meet “ fab men”. I’m sure things will improve for you when the lockdown is over

yup always getting ghosted and decieved

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for.

Thank you to everyone who commented on here, whether it was encouraging or negative comments

Stay safe

You can find men everywhere Jas, but not on here!

show me where oh wize one

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

shame gay guys can't be Bi... thats my ideal lover a bi guy. they seem so sweet and lovely... best of all they love sucking cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos give me the impression you like to give pain to a man, or could be an aggressively sexual Dominant, if you are, great. Just think? Of how many men will actually meet with you of the thousands on here, and yet In your locality, you look absolutely stunning, but not my type on the pain front. Hope you get the Sub you are aiming for

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

"OP, .....with all due respect you come across as demanding and high maintenance.... "

Looking at the various threads started by the op I think you can add "attention seeking" to that list of adjectives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Jas' threads...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shame gay guys can't be Bi... thats my ideal lover a bi guy. they seem so sweet and lovely... best of all they love sucking cock

Say no more haha!

Kisses

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By *otcouple65Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You are stunning- great body! You can afford to be choosy. I prefer the clubs as saves time with the filtering as you can instantly see what someone is like. Then move on quickly from the others. I would try the clubs when lockdown ends. Abbie Xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

My advice would be to come across a bit gentler, drop the list of demands and just describe in a couple of sentences the kind of guy you are looking for.

Thank you to everyone who commented on here, whether it was encouraging or negative comments

Stay safe

You can find men everywhere Jas, but not on here!

“Water, water, all around, but not a drop to drink!”

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over a year ago

"You are stunning- great body! You can afford to be choosy. I prefer the clubs as saves time with the filtering as you can instantly see what someone is like. Then move on quickly from the others. I would try the clubs when lockdown ends. Abbie Xx"

Just about sums it up for me to Abbie x

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