FabSwingers.com forum: Profile feedback

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do far better on traditional dating apps (Tinder, Bumble etc.) than here but for privacy reasons cannot show my face on my display picture which should be a great way to attract women to take a look at my profile in the first instance.

Would anyone (ladies particularly but not exclusively by any means as I welcome feedback from men who are getting meets) care to look at my profile and maybe suggest some ways I might optimise it?

Thanks in advance for any constructive criticism

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I've seen far worse profiles.

A lot of women aren't fans of dick pics or photos with previous partners in them though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've seen far worse profiles.

A lot of women aren't fans of dick pics or photos with previous partners in them though"

I’m taking that as a compliment!

I’ll remove the aforementioned pictures: I can see why that may be off putting.

Thanks!

The rest of you: don’t just lurk - chime in.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I've seen far worse profiles.

A lot of women aren't fans of dick pics or photos with previous partners in them though"

This about sums up my thoughts too

I'd add the line about your looks might be seen by some as a touch arrogant as looks are subjective really

You've also had a meet in the last few months so are obviously doing something right so continue in the same vein.

The last piece of generic advice I'd give would be consider your approach to the site and if there are other ways you could do so - it doesn't have to just be about blind messaging people - the forums and chat rooms are good ways of getting to know people and them you, likewise clubs and group socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey Gemini Man, thanks for chipping in! Re comments about my looks... yeah on reflection I could see how it might potentially be taken for arrogance so I’ll adjust that.

Regarding my recent meet it was the first successful meet I’ve had though I’ve got close with 2 other women but circumstances (clashing timetables etc.) meant those never materialised. The crux of my asking for feedback on my profile, however, is lethargy as I’ve been here some 18 months at least if memory serves correct without more than the solitary meet.

Work and competing interests for my time mean I can’t participate in the forums as much as I might but I certainly should go to clubs more. Nothing ventured, nothing gained after all.

Thanks again! Keep it coming, folks

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The other thing would be better pictures - th point made above about removing cock shots and those where a partner is more prominent than you is a valid one - however you still need to show you off.

It's very easy with a little practice and using your phone camera on timer, along with some basic editing, to get a decent set of imaginative and creative pics that entice and allure - if you're short of ideas take a look at other verified guys profiles for ideas of what might work for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fully agree - I lack confidence about my body (I’m on the thinner side which I feel is slightly emasculating) and think my face is my best feature but I’ll experiment and find the best of the bunch to upload in lieu of those I’ve taken down.

I’m doing some competitive analysis as it were looking at the profiles of the men who’ve verified the women on my hotlist and I’ll optimise my own picture gallery based on common themes

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