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Meets are as hard as winning the lottery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are meets so hard to come by..

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Never even won a tenner on that either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea same here does my head in on here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Effort in means rewards out OP. Try clubs and socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been to clubs and had fun there been to secrets and one in western. But like to have meets on here if yoh no what i mean x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Been to clubs and had fun there been to secrets and one in western. But like to have meets on here if yoh no what i mean x"

Yes I know what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get out what you put in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am putting in the effort just getting no where

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

The lottery is completely down to luck of the draw. Meets are down to putting in some effort & a lot of patience.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea just getting nowhere does my head in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Any tips "

Yes, on my profile. Also lots of other threads offering profile advice etc too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks gunna put you on my hotlist so i can refer to your profile thanks x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Thanks gunna put you on my hotlist so i can refer to your profile thanks x"

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yea just getting nowhere does my head in"

What exactly are you expecting in regards to frequency of meets etc?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for regular meets

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Because, unlike the lottery, it’s not simply a case of buying a ticket and hoping for the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea i guess that just using it as a saying

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Looking for regular meets "

How regular? Unfortunately for the menfolk, women won't just open their legs to anyone that asks.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"The lottery is completely down to luck of the draw. Meets are down to putting in some effort & a lot of patience.

K "

Our thoughts exactly

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Also, are you single or a couple? You're talking like a single male but you have a couples account.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea been on here over a year i think and havent had one.. proberly going the wrong way about it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Yea been on here over a year i think and havent had one.. proberly going the wrong way about it. "

Very probably.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry im the male on here but we are a couple mrs is at work tonight

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Sorry im the male on here but we are a couple mrs is at work tonight "

Ah ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have cammed and got verified by someone we just dont get anywhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are meets so hard to come by.. "

They aren't

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Go ugly early.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol we do have standards so thats why we dont get a meets we like a good looking women or couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have cammed and got verified by someone we just dont get anywhere else. "

Why did you not get verified by the clubs you visited? Also people in the clubs you met would most probably have fab so even if they didn't play with you many will still give a social verification.

Good luck OP

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didnt think of asking not something we were thinkin of at the time

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Lol we do have standards so thats why we dont get a meets we like a good looking women or couple"

I wonder why all the good looking women are not interested??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol we do have standards so thats why we dont get a meets we like a good looking women or couple"

Ask for some profile help and people will explain how you can help yourself on fab.

And you’re a “ taller then me but height is a major thing on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im 5ft8 pretty slim aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol we do have standards so thats why we dont get a meets we like a good looking women or couple

I wonder why all the good looking women are not interested??"

And what does that mean

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Are they? If that's the case i'm a bonafide billionaire now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol

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By *innerforthreeMan
over a year ago

London/herts


"Lol "

Personally speaking, and I've only ever had two meets so maybe not the best to talk....

First I'd take your face pic down, to me it suggests you really don't care about discretion and to some that might freak them out. At least make it private.

Also I was always told selfies are far more flattering from above not below. Even better get the mrs to take one of you from the mid distance.

Dick pics...we've all got them and chances are the ladies on fab just possibly may have seen a dick or two...so unless you think its particularly impressive maybe only one?

And the rest is just trying your luck....you are a couple you should have a far easier time than us chaps!!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice one for the advice mate thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That pic better

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

These posts are so frequent and so boring. So many people give excellent advice on how to improve profiles/get meets/obtain veries.

Just saying ....

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

I know what you mean I had more meets on match. Com than here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is all about you and what you want and what you expect and what you won’t put up with

Maybe no one feels worthy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe need to move up north they seem more fun

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford


"Your profile is all about you and what you want and what you expect and what you won’t put up with

Maybe no one feels worthy? "

Ok I’ll sort that problem out thanks x

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Better luck at clubs!

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