FabSwingers.com forum: Site supporter

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had relative success on this site as part of a couple with my friend with benefits. Now she’s gone to live in New Zealand and my profile was changed 2 months ago to a single profile and since then I get no messages and no replies whatsoever. Would the chat room function be a more effective use of time for me going forward? As in the last 2 months I’ve probably sent 40 messages, and tailored them to who I’m speaking to and as it doesn’t come naturally it can take me upto and including an hour or 2 to price together the few paragraphs to send.

On the odd occasion I do get a reply they’re really brutal. I’ve been insulted over my long hair my beard my circumcision my body and even told my dicks not big enough. My confidence is shot but I want to throw the dice one more time with being a site supporter. Is it worth it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped paying months ago simple reason only people who looked was men and TVs. And if anyone near looks if they don't mail then there's no point seeing who's looking.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

The " whose looking " feature only shows those who are not in ninja mode so not that useful and in any case " looking at your profile" means nothing at all if not followed up by a message from the other party. You might consider the ability to see videos worth the cost I suppose. From my point of view being a site supporter is more about credibility and embracing the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fiver for fifty days

Stop being so frugal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have got 7 certifications in the last 2 months......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy being a site supporter. I cant imagine what it's like for single males on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The private note facility is worth the fiver itself.

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I had relative success on this site as part of a couple with my friend with benefits. Now she’s gone to live in New Zealand and my profile was changed 2 months ago to a single profile and since then I get no messages and no replies whatsoever. Would the chat room function be a more effective use of time for me going forward? As in the last 2 months I’ve probably sent 40 messages, and tailored them to who I’m speaking to and as it doesn’t come naturally it can take me upto and including an hour or 2 to price together the few paragraphs to send.

Thanks"

worth it as regards to what? bang for buck? if you're looking for guarantees of some action, its not up to the site to provide that for you, whatever you pay. Its entirely down to you.

we like it because it cuts out the ads and gives a little more functionality. We dont upload pictures or use the chat rooms so can't comment on what it gives when they are concerned.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We wouldn't go back to basic, free membership, as we find the site so much better as supporters.

We're also more likely to meet single guys who are site supporters than free members.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thanks"

We tend to check if they are site supporters as well as verified when viewing profiles (always in ninja mode)

I don't understand why people have to be so rude in replying, a simple no thanks would be enough. Unless you are the type who asks 'why' but even then there's still no need to be rude or harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely worth it its a fiver

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I like it because you can see prev message threads and keep track of conversations easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never not been a site supporter. It's £5.00 for 50 days as a silver site supporter that's 10p per day. Get your hand in your pocket and don't be tight.lol It's worth every penny. Most people on here have non site supporters blocked. I do . If they can't pay 10p per day do I really want to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, we've been here 18 months so far but won't be renewing any longer.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I get too confused if I don’t have it. I even wrote a status today as my new phone contract won’t let me do text upgrades that I thought everyone had unfriended me and were deleting verifications as the history doesn’t show at the top. Also, I don’t know how folk go on not seeing the message thread. I’d forget who’s who

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Site supporter - worth it?