FabSwingers.com forum: Being blocked after a meet

By *aughtyboy651 OP Man
over a year ago

bideford

Not sure if I want to know the reason lol. Met a lady spent a wild night together then blocked. Probably no big deal but just wondering what people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you still call her a lady lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You’ll never know so don’t worry about it.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

It happens.

Forget it.

She used you for sex.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

It happens, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea. She has her reasons though so it's a case of accept it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had a great night.

Leave it at that and on to the next

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Get to clap Clinic quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooo that would really upset me!

Unless you did something awful to get blocked!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Sadly it does happen but it's a cowards way out and is bad manners imo.

Forget and move on OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be a nice feeling.

There could be lots of reasons why she would do this and none of them a reflection on you.

You need thick skin to play here. Don't take it to heart.

Enjoy what fab has to offer and leave the rest.

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

It happens! Forget it! Just move on!

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Not sure if I want to know the reason lol. Met a lady spent a wild night together then blocked. Probably no big deal but just wondering what people think "

Guessing she didnt have a "wild" night. Spend time considering what you might have done, boundaries pushed or consent violations- it will be better than mindless cheer leading from ppl who cant imagine why a woman might block a man after fucking him.

Self reflection is never wasted and you might just learn something

Ms Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is everyone’s cup of tea as much as we make a night enjoyable xxx

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

the earth didn't move?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve met people , got on had wicked time, but maybe sexually didn’t click , no biggie xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you fuck?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you fuck?..."

Yes, we did , but was just empty fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if I want to know the reason lol. Met a lady spent a wild night together then blocked. Probably no big deal but just wondering what people think "

I think that was your verification

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Happens to all of us- you think the meet went well- then *blocked*.

Call it a lucky escape, I guess.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I defo call it a lucky escape tbh shows bad manners for whatever reason they did it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if I want to know the reason lol. Met a lady spent a wild night together then blocked. Probably no big deal but just wondering what people think "
awwww hey the bonus is you had a wild night, its the pitfall of this life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a number of reasons.

I've met guys and blocked them as soon as I've got in the car.

It is harsh but it's an easier alternative to having to explain why you dont want to see/speak to them again and trying to explain what they did or didnt do that you didnt like/enjoy.

As someone mentioned earlier a lot of men dont understand consent or boundaries, this is the reason I've blocked guys and I know a few other women who block guys for that reason as well.

Some men see 'no' as convince me, and generally some women end up doing things they dont like/dont want to because the guy is pestering them to do it, which of course the guy doesn't see it that way even if its pointed out to them.

You're not likely to find out the reason so either use it as an opportunity to self reflect or move along.

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

leeds

Me gf skyped for the1st time with a couple and one single male. Gf nervous but once comfortable loved it and got very horny if u interested mail

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I've done it once,as guy was a dick.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I've done it about 3 times. I just didn't want the drama of explaining. I had a real job getting 1 of them to leave as, he wanted to stay the night. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had it because we didn’t want to meet up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if I want to know the reason lol. Met a lady spent a wild night together then blocked. Probably no big deal but just wondering what people think "

I think,she wants no further contact from you.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve only had to block one man I’ve met. It was genuinely the worst sexual experience of my life, and he wouldn’t understand that I didn’t want to see him again when I tried the “let him down gently” approach. He’d leave me alone for a while then start messaging again, and in the end blocking was just less stressful. In future, after a bad meet like that, I might be more inclined to block immediately just to avoid that situation arising again. Maybe she’s had similar experiences, didn’t enjoy the meet as much as you think she did, and preferred to avoid any confrontation.

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By *juk72Man
over a year ago

Reading

Maybe you did everything right, and she felt it better not to engage any futher so that it stays that way, and does not get messy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked guys after a meet because I didn't want to see them again.

Usually it was because they were too pushy, too clingy, or violated boundaries in some way.

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By *rit-gentMan
over a year ago

cannock

She was probably cheering and felt guilty...

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Not sure if I want to know the reason lol. Met a lady spent a wild night together then blocked. Probably no big deal but just wondering what people think "

She'd just graduated from Sydney University

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibilities:

- You did something wrong

- She just didn't want to meet you again

- She fell deeply in love with you but you're a plumber and her father hates plumbers

- Some other reason

If she blocked you then you'll never find out, so put it out of your mind (easier said than done).

As others have said you (and all men) should more generally consider your approach towards consent but most men that need to consider this aren't going to because they've been told to on a forum, and most that would don't really need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure if I want to know the reason lol. Met a lady spent a wild night together then blocked. Probably no big deal but just wondering what people think "
you thought it was wild she thought it was remote, just keep it in your memories and move onto next

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

Cause she had a shit time, maybe? And didn't want repeat so thought easier to block then having to explain herself.

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Just a shit Shah maybe ?

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

She probably wants nothing to do with you ever again

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Maybe she's done you now, looking for fresh meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few meets where men thought they/we were having a great time but I didn't want to meet them again.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I’ve only had to block one man I’ve met. It was genuinely the worst sexual experience of my life, and he wouldn’t understand that I didn’t want to see him again when I tried the “let him down gently” approach. He’d leave me alone for a while then start messaging again, and in the end blocking was just less stressful. In future, after a bad meet like that, I might be more inclined to block immediately just to avoid that situation arising again. Maybe she’s had similar experiences, didn’t enjoy the meet as much as you think she did, and preferred to avoid any confrontation."

U just can't tell if you guys are going to be sexually compactible. My only meet was horrendous. I blocked him as i don't think he deserved the verification i wrote before we had sexual fun.i can't say sex as it never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she's done you now, looking for fresh meat

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yes a bit like pastries you fancy a croissant but next you want a Belgian bun

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