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"Its not something you "try"...is something that comes naturally and elements of it should have already been present between you both. If its forced or put on by one or both of you,then it wont work. " I have some Yoda cuff links that quote that. “Do or do not, there is no try”. | |||
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"Its not something you "try"...is something that comes naturally and elements of it should have already been present between you both. If its forced or put on by one or both of you,then it wont work. I have some Yoda cuff links that quote that. “Do or do not, there is no try”." Yoda is wise. And poster above Yoda too. Mine and my partner's was born slowly and grew from vanilla, changing colours with time and times of play. Gift was natural and a big one at that. Not a lifestyle like some here , just a part of us. Licked the surface of few shadows ,kinks , fetishes, not only D/s or d/s or d/S This thread started on a much more positive note than a few of this kind , so bookmarking. Shibari rope players/riggers willing to share experience , I like to meet you . | |||
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"Its not something you "try"...is something that comes naturally and elements of it should have already been present between you both. If its forced or put on by one or both of you,then it wont work. I have some Yoda cuff links that quote that. “Do or do not, there is no try”. Yoda is wise. And poster above Yoda too. Mine and my partner's was born slowly and grew from vanilla, changing colours with time and times of play. Gift was natural and a big one at that. Not a lifestyle like some here , just a part of us. Licked the surface of few shadows ,kinks , fetishes, not only D/s or d/s or d/S This thread started on a much more positive note than a few of this kind , so bookmarking. Shibari rope players/riggers willing to share experience , I like to meet you . " Love rope play, a fair amount of research has made me rather cautious, pressure points and blood vessels don’t often react well. Still love it though. | |||
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"Its not something you "try"...is something that comes naturally and elements of it should have already been present between you both. If its forced or put on by one or both of you,then it wont work. " Agree it's something within you. Massive difference to a D/s relationship to playing Dom/sub role for the evening | |||
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"C and I developed this way from vanilla. We spoke about what we wanted try and did some research, discussed it over and over before going anywhere. We initially though we were both switch but I cant domme him at all. I did try but it just didnt work. We discussed everything and its been a gradual work in progress over about 4 years! We have elements in our day to day life and I have sone rules. Not loads. I see your location is cornwall please be careful, there are some fake doms in this area " There are fake and dim doms in every area - it goes with the territory unfortunately.... Mr Icebreaker | |||
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"Its not something you "try"...is something that comes naturally and elements of it should have already been present between you both. If its forced or put on by one or both of you,then it wont work. Agree it's something within you. Massive difference to a D/s relationship to playing Dom/sub role for the evening " Completely agree with this too, it’s took the best part of 25 years together to understand our natural personalities Mrs is very submissive, Mr is naturally a dominant personality, and we’re still learning new aspects about ourselves and our dynamic it grows and changes so much but the core stays the same. Never rush at anything talk the ass out of it, then talk a whole lot more!!! Mr & Mrs RMB | |||
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"I'm in to mild pain and he's not but he's happy to inflict it. I've never been tied or restricted but feel comfortable to try this with him x" ALways temtping to say good luck, but truth is you need to do the work to take luck out of the occasion. First time I tied someone up I made such a ballsup of it I ended up trying to cut through two of my ties (as in the ones I wore to work) with a pair of nail scissors. No excuse for that now. Buy proper rope or ties, and buy a pair of rescue shears or the like. Want to do safe BDSM? Google first aid kit or go to amazon where they have lots of practical stuff yo can use to prove you're serious about doing this right. One other piece of advice. Ten to one. SPend ten minutes talking about what you want to do for every minute you'll spend doing it. You know how carpenters say meaure twice, cut once? BDSM is like that. Get it wrong, and you may never want to try it again. Get it right, and well, you may end up as a fully paid up, never goona stop perve like us... Mr Icebreaker | |||
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"Love rope play, a fair amount of research has made me rather cautious, pressure points and blood vessels don’t often react well. Still love it though." Nerve damage is another factor to be wary of, I love the aesthetics of rope. | |||
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"I'd love to find a Dom man who isn't an aggressive bully , it's all I seem to find " Honest advice With your user name what do you expect? Ms Icebreaker | |||
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"I'd love to find a Dom man who isn't an aggressive bully , it's all I seem to find Honest advice With your user name what do you expect? Ms Icebreaker " This haha | |||
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"I'd love to find a Dom man who isn't an aggressive bully , it's all I seem to find Honest advice With your user name what do you expect? Ms Icebreaker " so sissy means bully me ? Be aggressive towards me ? I never knew but thanks for the advice | |||
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"I'd love to find a Dom man who isn't an aggressive bully , it's all I seem to find " Seek a gentleman Dom. Seek someone authoritative. | |||
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"Hey guys My fwb and I are looking into trying the dom and sub roles. Any suggestions or advice please? TIA X" You could role play initially. Think of characters you'd like to play out and scenarios. | |||
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