FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all,

We struggle to arrange meets and wondering if anyone has any tips, we are looking for females to join us but we find it hard after a 3 year break from the site

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Are you asking for profile feedback?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeh if you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi females are the most in demand on this site so you really need to stand out.

Do you think your profile would appeal to women? Most have stated that action shots are a bit of a turn off and also they're looking to connect more than physically, does your text reflect your personality?

A lot of people are wary of those without recent verifications too.

Have you considered going to a social or club? It seems to be the best way to get to know people and show you're genuine.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yeh if you can"

No probs. Had to ask as its frowned upon unless requested.

Plenty of pics but if you're looking just for female company possibly cut down on the explicit content as many aren't so keen.

You need to elaborate in your text what you want. You say you're also looking for couples but didn't mention that I your post. Not everyone is here for the same thing so that's a pointless statement. Theres no mention as to if it will be just FF play or MFM. That matters to single women.

You're also chasing the smallest demographic on the site - single females looking for couples - so you really need to attract them otherwise they may just see it as you wanting someone for you to play with with no consideration for what they want.

Be proactive. Don't sit and wait for messages and interest. Contact those that you like the look of but don't expect an instant reply.

Other than that? Put yourself in their shoes and think what would make you interested in a couples profile.

Happy hunting.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I suspect your profile is not doing you any favours.

It's negative, demanding and full of genitalia.

Maybe try a friendly positive approach and block men from messaging you.

I would maybe go for some less pornographic photos as well. Don't forget to include photos of Mr and ideally a good one of you together.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Being totally honest OP (and I'm trying to be constructive not critical here) I think your profile will put a lot of the type people (women) that you're trying to attract off.

The text is quite demanding in a "meet now or we're not interested" way - which may work if you were looking for men - but women are going to want something a bit more subtle and appealing. It also doesn't really give a lot of information about you or what you think you can offer.

As VM says I can see your pics would be a turn off for many too, being mainly cock focused action shots - which, trying to see it from a woman's perspective, could lead to the suggestion this is all for the male half's benefit and they will be expected to be part of a performance for him rather than a shared and mutual experience.

So I'd lose the action shots - perhaps go for more subtle and sensual pics more leaning towards the lady of the couple, although not doing away with pics of him completely and write some text that is more enticing.

Or there is the club option to consider too - may be a happier hunting ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would also say that getting active on the forums gets you noticed. Since I have started contributing my views have gone up tenfold and messages have similarly increased x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for both replies,

We cant attend local clubs(pandoras/quest) due to Becky's job, we will strip back our photos and rework our wording on our profile.

Thank you both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would also say that getting active on the forums gets you noticed. Since I have started contributing my views have gone up tenfold and messages have similarly increased x"

Thanks

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Thanks for both replies,

We cant attend local clubs(pandoras/quest) due to Becky's job, we will strip back our photos and rework our wording on our profile.

Thank you both

Xx"

Not sure why your job prevents you attending a club.

Hubby and I both have jobs where this hobby would be frowned upon, to say the least. We love clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you asking for profile feedback?

A"
changed our profile... what do you think

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Are you asking for profile feedback?

A changed our profile... what do you think

Definitely more female friendly than before.

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Clubs are best places!

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