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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need some advice on being verified. I want to legitimize myself on here. Just a meet up for a coffee or cuppa and a chat. But nobody seems to be interested. Any message I've sent has been polite and I explained clearly. But to no avail. Does anyone have some advice to help me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go along to a social group event or to a club night. Simples.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

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"Go along to a social group event or to a club night. Simples."

what he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go along to a social group event or to a club night. Simples.

what he said"

Exactly this

How's your waxing today ? Ouch xx .. Lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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At least one great club in your area and I imagine a few social events, get yourself known for all the right reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need some advice on being verified. I want to legitimize myself on here. Just a meet up for a coffee or cuppa and a chat. But nobody seems to be interested. Any message I've sent has been polite and I explained clearly. But to no avail. Does anyone have some advice to help me?"
dont worry about veris they really don't mean much in the grand scheme of things meet those that dont need them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go along to a social group event or to a club night. Simples.

what he said"

I've not been able to find any local to me. I don't drive so I can't travel too far. But I shall continue my search.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

On verifications - they're not the be all and end all, and certainly aren't the key to the magic kingdom of sex, they are a good indication you are genuine, turn up etc but even then don't hold a lot of bearing - yes some people won't meet non-verified, but there are plenty that will.

You only joined a week ago, which is absolutely no time at all to have been here - some guys can go months or even years without getting a meet - so you may want to reset your expectations.

Generically those that find they're not getting what they expect from the site have failed on one or more of the following things:

Expectations - Don't expect to be knee deep in sex just for signing up - set your expectations to the lowest possible setting then turn them down a notch.

Attitude - keep it positive and be respectful and considerate to others at all times - just as in the real world accept that you won't be attractive to 99% of people, or that you'll find 99% of people attractive so when your message goes unread or unreplied to take it on the chin.

Approach - Find the approach to the site and to contacting others that works for you, it doesn't have to be about cold messaging people - there are several other ways including the forums and chat rooms, or getting along to socials and clubs thag are great ways to get to know people and them you.

Profile - have a well written and thought out profile that makes you stand out, tells people a little about you and what you are looking for. Pique people's interest to find out more.

Pics - take a decent set of pics that entice and complement your profile - and show off your body (but not necessarily your cock)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't join this site with great expectations! I understand the reality of things. But I thought it would be worth a shot.

I try my best to be polite and respectful. I guess time will tell.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Go along to a social group event or to a club night. Simples.

what he said

Exactly this

How's your waxing today ? Ouch xx .. Lol "

Not ouch, I didn't even flinch lol its all good today you should have seen simon tho he was hilarious xx

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

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"Go along to a social group event or to a club night. Simples.

what he said

I've not been able to find any local to me. I don't drive so I can't travel too far. But I shall continue my search."

Not being able to travel is a bit of a bummer, I am in the same boat. Hopefully something comes up local to you soon. Good luck OP

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