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So bi men,, one or both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If men are bottom, do they prefer just being bottom or can you multitask, you see all these sandwiches in porn but then I saw a post saying they go soft if being bottom so.. is it just a porn thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr has only had strap on so far but he stays completely hard throughout so a sandwich would be great for him x

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Does taking a Strapon qualify as bi?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"you see all these sandwiches in porn

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Prawn sandwiches ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Does taking a Strapon qualify as bi? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most bottom men are just bottoms and only take anal, quite a few don’t get hard at all, Top guys tend to only give and not take as where a versatile man will give and take

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

there lot bottoms on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does taking a Strapon qualify as bi? "

It doesn’t but it’s the same idea for this post I guess, it’s just wether guys can really perform when they are being performed on themselves, I have a real fantasy of this and amazed at all my club visits still haven’t seen it. Scarlett x

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By *ames2602Man
over a year ago

whittle

As for me getting fucked up the ass really makes my cock a lot harder so yes to the question I guess

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Does taking a Strapon qualify as bi?

It doesn’t but it’s the same idea for this post I guess, it’s just wether guys can really perform when they are being performed on themselves, I have a real fantasy of this and amazed at all my club visits still haven’t seen it. Scarlett x"

I've done it

Happy to discuss.

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By *ason500Man
over a year ago

worcestershire

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By *ason500Man
over a year ago

worcestershire

I have had both...and love it all...no problems here x

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

The sandwiches are probably more common in porn than in real life.

Strangely I see myself as being top when Im seeing a guy one on one, but bottom when I'm playing with a bi couple.

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By *ames2602Man
over a year ago

whittle

As I said I do stay hard when getting fucked but have never had the chance to fuck at same time

Will to try though if any offers lol

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By *ames2602Man
over a year ago

whittle

Willing to try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most bottom men are just bottoms and only take anal, quite a few don’t get hard at all, Top guys tend to only give and not take as where a versatile man will give and take "

Thank you, we have a lot to learn

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

your be ok you 2

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By *ames2602Man
over a year ago

whittle

Awesome pics on profile bud

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York


"If men are bottom, do they prefer just being bottom or can you multitask, you see all these sandwiches in porn but then I saw a post saying they go soft if being bottom so.. is it just a porn thing?

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I can multi task and it's my favourite thing to do! See you at the weekend xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m versatile, I can be bottom, I can be top. What do I prefer?? Bottom please!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am versatile and stay hard when being fucked in a sandwich

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I get even harder when bottomed, especially if they manage to hit my prostate.

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

i want 2 try bottom only ever done top so far whish i good fund fully bi cpl up 4 it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bottom guy ( I know my profile says straight) I don’t go soft. Like to multi task especially if a woman is involved. If I’m with just a guy a nice bit of cock play and blow jobs are good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about stimulation and if your comfortable taking the dick then often can get hard also.

Often though it’s the guy with the biggest dick whom does the Fucking lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Like most things it will vary from person to person - I tend to lose my erection when being touched anally (although even that can vary dependent on position, what is being done etc), but that doesn't mean I am not enjoying the sensations and experience in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay incredibly hard with my arse being penetrated, I also orgasm more intensely with immense mess made .

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By *tableMasterMan
over a year ago

UK

In our experience, and we have a lot, there are more bottoms than tops.

Lots of bi guys prefer to bottom as that’s what they don’t get when with a woman. It’s being the taker rather than the giver.

Versatile guys are the best for sandwich fillings!

Top guys tend to be able to pick from a wide choice of bottoms.

Much the same as the women on Fab have a wide choice of men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mr is just dipping his toes in but he said he is feeling more top than bottom, I think he’s more into the visual and forplay atm but he suggested the sandwich and the thought has consumed me, just patience now. we will see, I’m excited though

Thanks for all the advice guys, glad it happens

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York


"I’m a bottom guy ( I know my profile says straight) I don’t go soft. Like to multi task especially if a woman is involved. If I’m with just a guy a nice bit of cock play and blow jobs are good enough for me. "

Ah yes but people such as myself will realise that those are not the pants of a straight man hehe x

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

love a sandwich, always looking for more.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

I'm a bottom guy, and stay hard whilst being fucked (it also makes me cum like a fountain too) but have no interested in topping a guy or t-girl, i would however love to fuck a woman whilst being fucked

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

I'm most definitely bottom.

I usually stay hard when having sex with a single guy, but if it's a group scene or prolonged & hard sex I do go soft.

TBH I enjoy being used by several guys enough that I go soft, it's a massive mental turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy both but tend to be sub when playing with a bi guy

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

Predominantly bottom, but then again I’m often in chastity!

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

i'm bottom... i also find that if i am focused on the pleasure i am getting in my ass, then i don't really get hard in anyway. i have seen bottoms that do get hard, but i suspect being hard or not has a lot to do where your focus is... physical bum, soft... mental visulisation, hard... just a guess.

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