FabSwingers.com forum: My profile and approaching a club

By *erkshiredogger OP Man
over a year ago

reading

Hey every one fairly new here. I was wondering what people thought of my profile. Is it ok? Should I add anything or take anything out? Also I’m pretty serious about getting into this lifestyle and fancy going to a club but nervous about going on my own. If a single guys arrives at a club is he seen as creepy ?? thanks

By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's fine. I'd make it at least *sound* like you have experience rather than very clearly stating you don't have any. Don't lie, but say what you are looking for, not what you desperately hope to one day try.

By *erkshiredogger OP Man
over a year ago

reading

Thanks for the advice.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are fine on your own, just don't isolate yourself and be chatty, also don't be one of the guys who follow women/couples around, and seriously don't lob your dick out while watching sex, makes me cringe when I see that.

By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Creepy guy is the guy who goes around the club flirting and touching every woman. The wanking dead are just hilarious they think they will manage an invite to play while they are one of the mindless shuffling wankers.

How not to be creepy; be yourself, engage in conversation, be friendly, don't stare too hard (blink and avert your eyes occasionally), if youre watching think about their personal space don't encroach it can be intimidating and off putting, dont touch unless invited to. Go to a club without expectations and enjoy the atmosphere if you end up having sex that's a bonus. Go regularly to a club make a few connections and you'll find when people are comfortable you'll be invited to join in.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs are fine on your own, just don't isolate yourself and be chatty, also don't be one of the guys who follow women/couples around, and seriously don't lob your dick out while watching sex, makes me cringe when I see that. "

^ what he said

By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago

some where near shropshire