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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone suggest anything that will help me get some meets? All my messages either get deleted or left on read? Any suggestions would be appreciated

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Try a club or organised social

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Can anyone suggest anything that will help me get some meets? All my messages either get deleted or left on read? Any suggestions would be appreciated "

Try reading the profile and match the message to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the lovely TV/TS's won't contact you, if you've got straight on your profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do match messages as best I can, but even those get ignored unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately single males are a small fish in a huge fab ocean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s disappointing

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Can anyone suggest anything that will help me get some meets? All my messages either get deleted or left on read? Any suggestions would be appreciated "

You have to understand that women aren't the same as men. They won't "just fuck" like a man will. There has to be something else to go with it.

Cutting the story short, don't be sexual with women, treat them like sisters until they start hinting... Then pounce.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Oh, also, profile and pics have to be spot on. You're one of many, so the profile needs to be good.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Can anyone suggest anything that will help me get some meets? All my messages either get deleted or left on read? Any suggestions would be appreciated

You have to understand that women aren't the same as men. They won't "just fuck" like a man will. There has to be something else to go with it.

Cutting the story short, don't be sexual with women, treat them like sisters until they start hinting... Then pounce."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try using the same approach as you would in the big bad world

Doubt many men walk up to a women lob Their Dick out and say something like will you help me empty my sack !!! Or even the more respectful who read the profile and send a well thought out message but when the lady reads the profile they have crued text and dick pics a plenty

If they do they’ll have a police record

Be normal yes we are all looking for similar things doesn’t make us desperate monsters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See I tend to say hello how are you at first as I would in the normal world! I just seem to have poor luck! However profile pics I probably could do with altering!

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Try using the same approach as you would in the big bad world

Doubt many men walk up to a women lob Their Dick out and say something like will you help me empty my sack !!! Or even the more respectful who read the profile and send a well thought out message but when the lady reads the profile they have crued text and dick pics a plenty

If they do they’ll have a police record

Be normal yes we are all looking for similar things doesn’t make us desperate monsters "

Bahahahahahahhahaha! I've never done that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone suggest anything that will help me get some meets? All my messages either get deleted or left on read? Any suggestions would be appreciated "

Take it on the chin and resign yourself to a life devoid of all physical and emotional intimacy, like the rest of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like your way of thinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone suggest anything that will help me get some meets? All my messages either get deleted or left on read? Any suggestions would be appreciated

You have to understand that women aren't the same as men. They won't "just fuck" like a man will. There has to be something else to go with it.

Cutting the story short, don't be sexual with women, treat them like sisters until they start hinting... Then pounce."

^^ This

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

You need a better 1st message

For example..

Hi I'm ***, how are you (both?)

I was looking at your profile and I noticed *** (point something out). Would really like to get to know you/s better.

A little more about me.... (fill that in)

Id love to hear back from you, if I'm not for you, enjoy your day

ATTACH FACE PIC!

You can make a template for it and copy it onto your personal notes on your profile to help. Messages like that always get a reply from us. Even if it's a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone suggest anything that will help me get some meets? All my messages either get deleted or left on read? Any suggestions would be appreciated "

Offer to suck cock, you'll get meets quicker than you can handle

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"You need a better 1st message

For example..

Hi I'm ***, how are you (both?)

I was looking at your profile and I noticed *** (point something out). Would really like to get to know you/s better.

A little more about me.... (fill that in)

Id love to hear back from you, if I'm not for you, enjoy your day

ATTACH FACE PIC!

You can make a template for it and copy it onto your personal notes on your profile to help. Messages like that always get a reply from us. Even if it's a no.

"

Every Tom dick and harry will be copying and pasting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to persevere i’m afraid. I’m in the same boat. Taylor messages to profile content, attach face photo etc but us guys far outnumber the ladies so its a case of sticking with it, and eventually someone will notice you

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

You live in Portsmouth OP so go to the Liberation club meets held there and talk to other swingers.There is one on Saturday 1 February

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"You live in Portsmouth OP so go to the Liberation club meets held there and talk to other swingers.There is one on Saturday 1 February "

yes, get yourself out there, clubs , socials and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do match messages as best I can, but even those get ignored unfortunately "

Most will check out your profile before even thinking about reading your message, and, as many view in stealth mode, you won't even know that they've checked you out.

If they don't find you or your profile appealing, they won't be inclined to read your message.

Your profile is your shop window and you only get one chance to make a first impression

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By *indMasterUKMan
over a year ago

All over England

The way to a mans heart is through his stomach. The way into a womans knickers is through her funny bone (unless you are the spitting image of Brad Pitt, pack at least 8 inches, and have a six pack) lol. It is hard to get your personality across in a message which is why I got to clubs and socials... get more meets from these activities than messaging on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone suggest anything that will help me get some meets? All my messages either get deleted or left on read? Any suggestions would be appreciated

Offer to suck cock, you'll get meets quicker than you can handle "

Fact

Lol

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