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By *ysterious-Midnight OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Hi guys..

Mrs of the couple here. We have been discussing the hotwife scenario for a while and it's something that appeals to us both.

My concern is actually going to meet a stranger without my husband, it makes me really nervous. I just wanted some advice of how to best play this in terms of location, what happens if your stood up and the general expectations. Also a bit worried incase I'm pied off!

Thanks

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I would suggest don't meet strangers if that's a concern. Build up friendships with guys you can meet again and again. You can get to know if they are people you want to be with and find out if they are actually reliable. If they won't turn up for a social then you can't expect them to turn up for anything else. It would also give your OH an opportunity to see if he likes them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's good advice above, I'd also suggest you could go to a club, then your partner could drop you off and pick you up so he knows your safe, or even go with you but keep a distance and let you do your thing.

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By *ysterious-Midnight OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Thank you both for your replies. I'd always build up to meeting through messages and meet somewhere publicly 1st..and let hubby know all the details too.

Yeah the club would be a good option, it's a shame lots of single guys dont go to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you both for your replies. I'd always build up to meeting through messages and meet somewhere publicly 1st..and let hubby know all the details too.

Yeah the club would be a good option, it's a shame lots of single guys dont go to them. "

Lots of clubs do 'greedy girls' nights/afternoons which are built around having a higher ratio of men to women, it might be worth looking at those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs here, we are by no means experts on this but have enjoyed a few hot wife scenarios. I will only met single guys that are verified. Its by no means fail safe but a good starting point.

Also agree making sure OH has exchanged messages etc as well so you have both got the jist if someone.

One thing i have also learnt is to make sure the single guy includes your other half in messages etc. Some guys brag that they know all about the hot wife scenario but we have actually found in reality they soon forget about hubs role in the situation ie in our case not taking enough videos/pics or keeping Hub updated as requested.

Enjoy tho OP but the looks of your profile you will be inundated and hopefully not with time wasters!

Xx

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

You could always take your OH along, either for a social first so you are both comfortable, or for him to watch.

It’s very exciting!

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By *ueforyouCouple
over a year ago

Shaftesbury

You never ever meet on your own first of all. Always meet with hubby at either a pub or hotel bar and go from there. Once you get to know the guy then meeting and being used on your own whilst hubby is at home is great xx Safe playing xx

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I always meet at a good hotel bar four star mimum, after a drink or two you'll know if he's keen or creepy

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"I always meet at a good hotel bar four star mimum, after a drink or two you'll know if he's keen or creepy "

That’s always a nice way to meet for the

First time

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By *ysterious-Midnight OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"I always meet at a good hotel bar four star mimum, after a drink or two you'll know if he's keen or creepy "

Haha that sounds like a good idea

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"You never ever meet on your own first of all. Always meet with hubby at either a pub or hotel bar and go from there. Once you get to know the guy then meeting and being used on your own whilst hubby is at home is great xx Safe playing xx"

This

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel


"I always meet at a good hotel bar four star mimum, after a drink or two you'll know if he's keen or creepy

Haha that sounds like a good idea"

I travel on business quite a bit so it works for me

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